Can someone advise me on how to do it right please?
Q. I got this beautiful girls phone number friday night at a club. I called her saturday evening but she didnt answer, I would have left a message but her voice mail isn't set up. When should I call her again? and should I text or call? ...
A. 20 September 2010: I don't know it is possibly she hasn't received the text. She told me she's only been in this country six months and I have no idea what sort of phone she has so she may have not gotten it at all. Especially considering the fact that her voice mail ... (read in full...)
Can someone advise me on how to do it right please?
Q. I got this beautiful girls phone number friday night at a club. I called her saturday evening but she didnt answer, I would have left a message but her voice mail isn't set up. When should I call her again? and should I text or call? ...
A. 20 September 2010: I texted her and she didnt hit me back all day? Thinking about giving her a call tomorrow. ... (read in full...)
Can someone advise me on how to do it right please?
Q. I got this beautiful girls phone number friday night at a club. I called her saturday evening but she didnt answer, I would have left a message but her voice mail isn't set up. When should I call her again? and should I text or call? ...
A. 20 September 2010: yeah thats what I thought too. I just texted her. Thanks. ... (read in full...)
Do Gorgeous Women only date Equally Gorgeous men?
Q. Question... Whats the secret to getting a really beautiful woman? You know the type you run into every now and again that make your heart stop and fill your veins with ice water? Is there a secret method for attracting these higher echelon b...
A. 26 August 2010: Hey everybody,
This was all very good advice. I think the problem that I other men in my position have is that we see these women as goddess' rather than human, therefore approaching them becomes something akin to talking to the Great and Powe... (read in full...)
How do I get her phone number without being creepy?
Q. Hey I need some advice. there's this cute chick in my building named Ana that I see from time to time. I think she's hot and need some advice on getting her phone number without it being creepy or anything. first time I saw her I was leaving the ...
A. 6 August 2010: I think the next time I see her I may say something along the lines of "hey Ana, how's it going? I'm thinking about hitting up that Thai place sometime soon. You wanna go?" and from there, depending on how she responds, segue into getting her phone ... (read in full...)
Should I break up because her daughter drives me nuts?
Q. Every time I go out with my girlfriend and her now 6 year old daughter the girl misbehaves. she's always climbing on things and I mean EVERYTHING, and touching things that don't belong to her. Then when you tell her to stop she does it anyway in ...
A. 20 July 2010: Yeah, I've decided to break up with her. I've been going over what I'm going to say to her for the past three days.
Hopefully we can still be friends because I still really care about her. In many ways she's the best girl I've ever been with. It w... (read in full...)
How do you deal with a rude spoiled child?
Q. I'm 25 and I've been dating this girl who is 22 for about 2 months now and everything has been fine. However, recently she brought her five year old daughter to live with her which changes the dynamic of our relationship considerably. I stayed ...
A. 10 January 2010: My girlfriend came over last night and I brought up her daughter I was extremely careful with my words careful not to offend a mother's child. I know how protective they can be.
Anyway, I asked her if her daughter liked me and she said Yes. So ... (read in full...)
How long after hooking up should I wait to contact her?
Q. Last Night I went out with this girl and after some drinks we came back to my place and had amazing sex. In the morning I drove her home and she gave me her number. Now I'm wondering when I should contact her again. Two female friends of mine say...
A. 9 November 2009: I've never been the hit it and quit it type. In fact I've never slept with a girl on the first night before. So the fact that she was feeling me that much still astonishes me.
Honestly, right now I don't know if I want a full on relationship or w... (read in full...)
Is it supposed to be this hard to hang out with her?
Q. I met this girl a while back on a movie set we were both production assistants. Well we chatted during the downtime for about 2 hours. she was really cute and cool. Well, after hitting it off with her i felt bad cuz she was leaving for Tanzania for ...
A. 23 October 2009: Hmmm, well when i asked her to a movie, she said she doesn't really like going to the movies that much and that she was already invited to a friends party. And I will give her benefit of the doubt on this fefe dobson concert cuz she didn't know who ... (read in full...)
How much rejection must I go through before striking gold?
Q. I'm beginning to think I suck when it comes to dealing with women. Lately, i feel like every time I show any interest in a woman it never works out. Which is odd to me considering how everyone always tells me I'm funny and good looking. So inspired ...
A. 8 October 2009: By put myself out there I mean the usual. You meet a good looking cool girl who you're into or who you're at the very least interested in. But because of various reasons it just never works out. Either she's not digging you as much as you dig her or ... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 27 July 2009: Wow, this topic has ventured into very hilarious places. New developments have unfolded my older woman thinks I'm great but that I'm "Just a Kid" and now apparently she arranged for me to meet some "Sexy" half chocolate, half vanilla chica tonight. ... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 26 July 2009: I'm not cold enough? Haha alright Danielepew what do you suggest I do. Give me the play by play.... (read in full...)
How can I make sex enjoyable for an older woman?
Q. I have come to really like an older woman. She is 12 years older than me. despite our age difference is it ok for us to have sex? How can I make sex enjoyable for an older woman? Ladies who have any experience with younger men please give advice. ...
A. 25 July 2009: I had to double check this post to make sure its not mine. I'm currently trying to pursue a woman 12 years older than myself. I'm 24 she's 36. If I find out I'll let you know. ... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 25 July 2009: Oh and she took me out to this famous little spot for ice tea and told me I was handsome in her car. I think its the little things like that that stoke my flame for her and simultaneously confuse me. I mean, you know I think you're sexy, you find me ... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 25 July 2009: Today she smoothly tricked me into making her breakfast and to make it up to me she just made homemade pesto and pasta for us. Then we drank some wine and watched some movies. She wanted to go out for drinks but didnt have any money on hand or feel ... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 24 July 2009: Hmmm okay need some more input guys.
So I was out today running errands and had some time to kill. Passed by a shop and a guy offered me some lovely carnations so I bought some for this older woman since i knew she'd been spending the night ov... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 23 July 2009: Thanks for all of the good advice. I think I will casually follow this rabbit down the hole to see where it leads.
PS
I helped her carry some stuff from her apt tonight and she asked me to put the clean sheets on her bed cuz her arm hurts, w... (read in full...)
My ex just annoyed me with a AIM message a little while ago.
Q. My ex just annoyed me with a AIM message a little while ago. Here's the direct quote "I did whatever I had to do to make it more enjoyable......because I don't know if you know this.... but you're not working with much... I'm not trying to be funny ...
A. 15 April 2009: Yes, it was pretty pointless and mean regardless of her assurances otherwise. I just humored her and laughed it off. After I did so under the guise of "friendly advice" she proceeded to tell me how I could "make it work". As if she was some sort of ... (read in full...)
Should I write her a message telling her she's beautiful?
Q. Back in August this gorgeous girl came into my job and I was too nervous to talk to her, but another guy who works there got her number. For months I've been wallowing in regret thinking of all the things I should have said but didn't have the nerve ...
A. 10 January 2009: I know...initiating small talk is the worst. Especially via impersonal means such as social networking sites. You're totally right about not concentrating on her being gorgeous because that just throws me off more.
I just don't know. What I d... (read in full...)
Should I write her a message telling her she's beautiful?
Q. Back in August this gorgeous girl came into my job and I was too nervous to talk to her, but another guy who works there got her number. For months I've been wallowing in regret thinking of all the things I should have said but didn't have the nerve ...
A. 9 January 2009: Hmmmmm, so you guys think I should go ahead and send her a message. What exactly should I say to her to evoke further correspondence and not come off stalkery or weird. She has her number listed on her page but won't call her until I have spoken to ... (read in full...)
Should I write her a message telling her she's beautiful?
Q. Back in August this gorgeous girl came into my job and I was too nervous to talk to her, but another guy who works there got her number. For months I've been wallowing in regret thinking of all the things I should have said but didn't have the nerve ...
A. 9 January 2009: Yeah, the girl who gave me the wrong number is the same one who accepted my friend request on facebook.
I sent the request back in August after learning her name then when I saw her again at the end of November I asked her for her number. ... (read in full...)
Does anyone out there have any pointers on courting a girl whom you really like?
Q. Back in August this insanely hot girl who kept smiling at me came into the store where I work and I didn't ask for her number, but another guy who also works there asked and she gave it to him. For months I've been wallowing in regret thinking of ...
A. 1 December 2008: I personally think she just played me to the left. The other dude who got her number back in august got a "happy thanksgiving" text message from her the next day so, I'm assuming that her cell phone does work. Oh well, I guess I just have to get... (read in full...)
Did the girl of my dreams write down the wrong number?
Q. Back in August this gorgeous girl came into job and I was too nervous to talk to her, but another guy who works there got her number. For months I've been wallowing in regret thinking of all the things I should have said but didn't have the nerve ...
A. 28 November 2008: To Ask oldersister
I feel proud of myself for taking a chance like that. That was really the first time I've ever walked up to a girl I didn't know and try to get her number. It was a good learning experience. I talked to the dude who got her numb... (read in full...)
Does anyone out there have any pointers on courting a girl whom you really like?
Q. Back in August this insanely hot girl who kept smiling at me came into the store where I work and I didn't ask for her number, but another guy who also works there asked and she gave it to him. For months I've been wallowing in regret thinking of ...
A. 27 November 2008: Well...I just dialed the number she gave me...and the answer I got was "The number you have dialed is not a working number" I've tried it every way possible with no results. This really breaks my heart. Do you think maybe she made a mistake or was ... (read in full...)
Does anyone out there have any pointers on courting a girl whom you really like?
Q. Back in August this insanely hot girl who kept smiling at me came into the store where I work and I didn't ask for her number, but another guy who also works there asked and she gave it to him. For months I've been wallowing in regret thinking of ...
A. 27 November 2008: Thanks a lot Flynn 24, that was very good advice! ... (read in full...)
Does anyone out there have any pointers on courting a girl whom you really like?
Q. Back in August this insanely hot girl who kept smiling at me came into the store where I work and I didn't ask for her number, but another guy who also works there asked and she gave it to him. For months I've been wallowing in regret thinking of ...
A. 26 November 2008: Hmmm, well where we live there are a lot of places to go other than the movies. No parks or places for ice skating type stuff. ... (read in full...)
She did upset me for a bit, but it made me question myself and my penis...Any thoughts?
Q. I just had a random conversation with my ex and the topic of sex with her new guy haphazardly came up, and she said that he annoys her all the time and if it wasn't for how big his penis was, he would've been gone a long time ago. She also said that ...
A. 23 September 2008: Wow, yeah you may be right. I used to be really in love with her, but after I came to terms with the sort of person she is all my love just sort of evaporated over time. (She treated me really badly and we broke up) I told her I didn't want to talk ... (read in full...)
Does anyone have any tips on asking girls for their numbers?
Q. I'm trying to get better at dating in general and talking to beautiful women. People say that I'm really good looking now, but being as I was overweight in high school I just don't feel comfortable chatting up strange women I meet and asking them ...
A. 6 September 2008: Wow, lots of good advice here ladies! You both make really sound points. As always the female perspective is extremely welcomed and helpful. ... (read in full...)
Is she his girlfriend by now? Should I even bother trying my luck with her?
Q. A few weeks ago I saw this amazingly gorgeous girl come into where I worked and I didn't get her number, but another dude who works there did. He told me that he intends to make her his girlfriend, therefore I'm not allowed to talk to her if I see ...
A. 21 August 2008: hey, Ask oldersister, thanks for the uplifting response. Who said I don't consider her a person? She seemed really sweet and down to earth and I just wanted to get to know her better.
I'm was just wondering if I should talk to her or not if I see... (read in full...)
How soon should I call her?
Q. I met this girl at a meeting for a reality tv show for models. One of the models came over to me and sat next to me and we really hit it off. she kept grabbing my hand and laughing at all my jokes. After she posed for some pictures I asked her if ...
A. 11 August 2008: if you want her to know you're into her call her the the afternoon of the next day, not a week. ... (read in full...)
I had a threesome with my current g/f and my ex, I feel strongly for both, and I don't know what to do!
Q. Hey guys and girls of DC. I am a guy and my problem involves a girlfriend of 7 months and an ex. We have been through a lot of tough times, but also a lot of good. My girl is very adventurous in the bedroom and has had numerous sexual encounters ...
A. 11 August 2008: wow, this is a crazy situation. I totally wish I had the answer for you, but only you can reconcile which girl is ultimately the best one for you. If you love both girls equally...then I guess you have to ask yourself which girl is best for you. I ... (read in full...)
I had a threesome with my current g/f and my ex, I feel strongly for both, and I don't know what to do!
Q. Hey guys and girls of DC. I am a guy and my problem involves a girlfriend of 7 months and an ex. We have been through a lot of tough times, but also a lot of good. My girl is very adventurous in the bedroom and has had numerous sexual encounters ...
A. 11 August 2008: Okay, first...you're my hero! Second, you can't have them both, at least not in the long run. Eventually you're going to have to make a decision. The current girl or the ex. Try to picture your life ten years down the line. Which girl do you see ... (read in full...)
Did I lose out for all time on the prettiest girl I've ever seen in my life?
Q. Awwwwww, I totally missed out today! At my job this insanely hot girl who kept smiling at me came into the store and I didn't ask for her number, but another guy who also works there asked and she gave it to him! Now I'm here wallowing in regret! Af...
A. 10 August 2008: haha, yeah...I totally feel what you're saying. And I wasn't going say you're gorgeous exactly. I just meant that just for instance...lol Lemme try and paraphrase a general outline of what I'm thinking of saying IF she does respond and that really ... (read in full...)
Did I lose out for all time on the prettiest girl I've ever seen in my life?
Q. Awwwwww, I totally missed out today! At my job this insanely hot girl who kept smiling at me came into the store and I didn't ask for her number, but another guy who also works there asked and she gave it to him! Now I'm here wallowing in regret! Af...
A. 10 August 2008: Hah! I just liked Solidus better. Just thought it had a certain Panache!
And as for me and my friend, we aren't super close. We just work together and talk at work. He called me round 1am and told me he plans on making her his g/f and that I'm... (read in full...)
Did I lose out for all time on the prettiest girl I've ever seen in my life?
Q. Awwwwww, I totally missed out today! At my job this insanely hot girl who kept smiling at me came into the store and I didn't ask for her number, but another guy who also works there asked and she gave it to him! Now I'm here wallowing in regret! Af...
A. 10 August 2008: I've only seen her once before in the store a few months ago she was with her family and buying underwear so I didn't talk to her because that would have been kind of awkward. Although she did smile at me a lot. Then a few days ago I saw her mother ... (read in full...)
She's with someone else, but my ex still calls me. Is it possible to remain friends?
Q. I just got off the phone with my Ex who is sleeping with someone else now. I told her I couldn't speak to her anymore and for a month she obliged me. Then started calling again so we're now "Speaking" I guess. Sometimes I look at her pictures and...
A. 6 August 2008: Thanks for the advice you two. It really helps a lot. I guess I'm kind of in a place of Apathy at this point. I went out to the movies today and she called telling me to watch something on tv or whatever and said "Awwww, I miss you" and I responded ... (read in full...)
She's with someone else, but my ex still calls me. Is it possible to remain friends?
Q. I just got off the phone with my Ex who is sleeping with someone else now. I told her I couldn't speak to her anymore and for a month she obliged me. Then started calling again so we're now "Speaking" I guess. Sometimes I look at her pictures and...
A. 6 August 2008: We broke up twice and the second time I broke up with her because I saw what sort of person she really was. I kind of pity this new dude she's with because he doesn't know she's just using him for sex, money, and whatever else he's willing to give ... (read in full...)
I'm dreaming of my Ex and heartbroken, what can I do?
Q. i keep having this dream of my ex-girlfriend with her boyfriend. its getitng more real everytime and i dont know what it is. i was going out with my first love. i had a bestfriend and than we sorta stopped hangingout but still friends. one day...
A. 5 August 2008: Dude I'm going through something like this right now! In fact I just got off the phone with my Ex who is sleeping with someone else now. I told her I couldn't speak to her anymore and for a month she obliged me. Then started calling again so we're ... (read in full...)
Could I still be in love with my ex?
Q. I've been broken up with my ex/first love for about a year, we also dated for a year. My head tells me she's not good enough for me. I mean, she's selfish, self centered, very possibly undiagnosed with a mental disorder, and indulges in alcohol and ...
A. 4 August 2008: Thanks for your replies everyone. You've really help me sort out my feelings on this. Especially you Baby duck, I will most definitely google "addictive relationships", "co-dependent traits" and "manipulative people". Everything you've said sounds ... (read in full...)
What do I make of this conversation with my troubled ex?
Q. I stopped speaking to my crazy Ex after her "relationship" with a guy who does cocaine. I told her I couldn't speak to her anymore and for a month to obliged my wishes and we didn't speak at all. Then out of the blue she sent me an IM. I hadn't ...
A. 1 August 2008: I don't know if she does coke but she gets drunk and smokes weed practically everyday. She hangs out with this coke user who she is "Dating" practically everyday. I stopped talking to her for a whole month until she IM. Her life is just very very ... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend is always trying to make me jealous, sad, hurt my feelings!
Q. OK, i have been dating my girlfriend for about 6 years now. We are high school Lovers. Are relationship has been really good. Until about a year ago. She cheated on me 2 times. And im the guy whos been faithful about this relationship in the past 6 ...
A. 30 July 2008: I just have to say that I really like the last answer by the anonymous male. I'm totally doing all those things right now. My Ex girlfriend called me the day before yesterday saying "I know we're not talking but you can still call me sometimes" she ... (read in full...)
My Ex wants me to call her, should I?
Q. I stopped talking to my ex girlfriend/first love because of her drinking, drug abuse, and promiscuity was upsetting. I didn't speak to her four about a month then monday she Instant Messaged me and was all "I know we "Aren't talking, but I just ...
A. 30 July 2008: I'm pretty sure she's still doing the same things she's always done. (drinking, smoking weed, etc) I mean she regularly hangs out/dates a dude who does cocaine. She tells me he annoys her or whatever. I guess she just misses talking to me or ... (read in full...)
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