My Ex wants me to call her, should I?
Q. I stopped talking to my ex girlfriend/first love because of her drinking, drug abuse, and promiscuity was upsetting. I didn't speak to her four about a month then monday she Instant Messaged me and was all "I know we "Aren't talking, but I just ...
A. 30 July 2008: I'm pretty sure she's still doing the same things she's always done. (drinking, smoking weed, etc) I mean she regularly hangs out/dates a dude who does cocaine. She tells me he annoys her or whatever. I guess she just misses talking to me or ... (read in full...)
I find it hard to ask girls out-any tips?
Q. Hey can sum1 help me. i talk to girls all the time ive never had a prob talking to them however i cant seem to ask ne of them out. honestly i no im not good looking im a lil overweight and cause of that i cant ask them help plz...
A. 19 July 2008: I recently asked a similar question!
I lost like 105 pounds. I worked out 30 mins in the morning before breakfast (speeds up metabolism all day and burns more fat). After I lost the weight I had my first girlfriend. We dated on and off for a ye... (read in full...)
Please help me lose weight!
Q. Right now I am having a very hard time to lose weight. I keep on wanting to lose weight but it doesn't seem to work out. The main problem is I keep on craving for food. If I don't get those cravings out, I go crazy and it makes me want it more. So I ...
A. 19 July 2008: I used to weigh 311 lbs and now I weigh 205. I lost over a hundred pounds doing several things...
#1 Cardio Workout first thing in the morning on an empty stomach. (I rode a stationary bike 30 mins) Amps up your metabolism and burns like 3x more ... (read in full...)
WHy did I sleep with the ex bf?
Q. I did a stupid thing last weekend. I was visiting my old city for a fest and stayed with my ex boyfriend and slept with him. I feel so stupid now. I am disappointed that to him it really was only a one night stand. He cheated on me many many times ...
A. 17 July 2008: Wow, for a second there I thought this was my Ex talking about us. She came to visit me June 9th. As soon as she sat on my bed 20 mins later we were having sex. Just like old times. Nevertheless, a few weeks after that she alludes that she's having ... (read in full...)
Should I delete my troubled Ex/first love as a facebook friend to help get over her?
Q. It's been 14 days since I stopped talking with my Ex/first love. We were together 9 months broke up twice and then were friends. We had sex back in June, then after I found out she had sex with someone else decided to cut her out of my life. I loved ...
A. 15 July 2008: I did it. I deleted her. ... (read in full...)
I'm disillusioned and heartbroken, why can't I stop thinking about my troubled Ex?
Q. It's been 7 days since I sent my ex girlfriend a letter saying we need to stop talking because her stories about how high and drunk she was or who she had sex with were upsetting me when we talked on the phone everyday. Since I couldn't help her I ...
A. 9 July 2008: Thanks very much, anonymous female. Your words are entirely correct and heartfelt. "Like you I don't know why I feel like this as I know he is a bad person but for some reason our minds seem to remind us only of the good times which we had wit... (read in full...)
My chilhood sweetheart wants to be with me but it's complicated, he has a girlfriend he has stuck by because she is pregnant...
Q. I dated a guy from the time I was 16 to the time I was 21. As per most "highschool sweethearts" relationships, it ended due us wanting a bit of a change, some experience elsewhere etc. We both agreed that we wouldn't try to be friends right aw...
A. 9 July 2008: You're welcome. Hope I helped. ... (read in full...)
I can't stop contacting my ex and thinking he is having fun and not missing me - how can I stop the pain?
Q. my boyfriend of over 2 years and i recently broke up. i know why we broke up and everything but i cant f---ing pull myself together. for the first few weeks i was fine, but now 2 months later, it's kicking in and i feel freaking miserable. i...
A. 9 July 2008: Man, I totally feel your pain. I just recently suspended all contact with my Ex girlfriend. She was my first love, my first EVERYTHING. We were together a year, and friends with benefits another year. We broke up due to alcohol and substance abuse ... (read in full...)
My chilhood sweetheart wants to be with me but it's complicated, he has a girlfriend he has stuck by because she is pregnant...
Q. I dated a guy from the time I was 16 to the time I was 21. As per most "highschool sweethearts" relationships, it ended due us wanting a bit of a change, some experience elsewhere etc. We both agreed that we wouldn't try to be friends right aw...
A. 9 July 2008: My best friend was in a similar situation with having a baby on the way with a woman he no longer cared about romantically. He thought about giving it another go with her if only for the baby's sake. He came from a broken family and didn't want to ... (read in full...)
I'm disillusioned and heartbroken, why can't I stop thinking about my troubled Ex?
Q. It's been 7 days since I sent my ex girlfriend a letter saying we need to stop talking because her stories about how high and drunk she was or who she had sex with were upsetting me when we talked on the phone everyday. Since I couldn't help her I ...
A. 8 July 2008: Thanks, mike! And yes I agree with you "Staying in contact and still seeing your ex straight after a breakup can be very destructive. It can drive you insane!" We broke up and didn't speak for 2 wks then she called and we were talking on the phone ... (read in full...)
I'm disillusioned and heartbroken, why can't I stop thinking about my troubled Ex?
Q. It's been 7 days since I sent my ex girlfriend a letter saying we need to stop talking because her stories about how high and drunk she was or who she had sex with were upsetting me when we talked on the phone everyday. Since I couldn't help her I ...
A. 7 July 2008: Thanks for your advice, man. Everything you said made a lot of sense. I'm moving to LA in a few months to go to school. Until then I'm kind of in a funless vacuum. All of my friends have already moved away and all I do is work. So basically that ... (read in full...)
Had sex with my ex! Is it FWB or more?
Q. I dated my first love for almost a year. From the moment I met her we just had this instantaneous connection. Everything just fell into place. However, there were aspects of her personality that drove us apart. IE her selfishness and self centered ...
A. 1 July 2008: I feel stupid. I was doing a pretty good job of ignoring her. Then she just called and asked why I sent her a text message that said "Goodbye". I feel like a person who was one day sober and then relapsed.
I sent her a another text saying b... (read in full...)
Had sex with my ex! Is it FWB or more?
Q. I dated my first love for almost a year. From the moment I met her we just had this instantaneous connection. Everything just fell into place. However, there were aspects of her personality that drove us apart. IE her selfishness and self centered ...
A. 29 June 2008: I just read her away message on AIM: "What have I done????????(I aint mad though);-)" and another that went "what the FUck did i do last nite???" I've come to the difficult decision to cut all ties with her effective immediately. I'm not e... (read in full...)
Had sex with my ex! Is it FWB or more?
Q. I dated my first love for almost a year. From the moment I met her we just had this instantaneous connection. Everything just fell into place. However, there were aspects of her personality that drove us apart. IE her selfishness and self centered ...
A. 29 June 2008: Wow, you all gave really good answers that will genuinely help me get my head in the right place. Especially rhythmandblues2, I felt what you had to say the most.
"If you want her, you have to start setting boundaries and tell her what you will... (read in full...)
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