I love her yet I hate her...
Q. well now. here I am again. I have been on here a couple of times. it started wit a girl I fell in love with and we became a lot more than just friends. I've bent over backwards for this girl and then some. I want nothing more than to make her happy. ...
A. 13 June 2009: Cut off all communications with her she is using you and no one deserves to go through the pain of why she is putting you through. It sounds as if you are her sort of male booty call if you get what I mean? I would stop all contacts with her and ... (read in full...)
Is my wife having an affair with her boss?
Q. My wife and I have been married for fifteen years now. In the 12th year of the marriage, she told me after an heated exchange in the view of her sister and brother, that I had no respect for her so we should get separated. After a few m...
A. 13 June 2009: Believe this women. If you don't then maybe you shouldn't be with her as you obviously can't trust her. The relationship between her and her boss may just be very personal. Just because they send emails that contain sexual content dosent necceral... (read in full...)
I see the girl my ex cheated with everywhere
Q. Okay so the girl my husband cheated on me with is every where i go.. i am no longer with him she is and she acts so childish. she makes her self obviouse to me like to rub it in or something. she had a baby from him so everytime she sees me she ...
A. 13 June 2009: You shouldn't feel stupid about seeing her you are doing the right thing by not stooping to her level.
She is trying to make you feel jealous of what her and your husband have and in the truth of it I don't see why she would if heis in jail this... (read in full...)
On the pill & used condom..pregnant?
Q. okay. I had sex for the first time today and I'm worried. He used a condom, I've been taking the pill regularly for a couple months (haven't missed one yet) and he didnt cum inside of me. Is there a chance I'm pregnant or am I just overreacting ...
A. 12 June 2009: you are really overacting there is no way you will he pregnant. You shouldn't worry about these things as long as you are safe then there is no need to worry..
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Isn't it normal for women to like cuddling and kissing?
Q. I'm a very tactile person and I love to show affection with touch, hugging and cuddling, etc. My fiancee doesn't like hugs or cuddles... except as a precursor to making love and only when she initiates it. This leaves me feeling like just a piec...
A. 12 June 2009: It depends on the girl entirely . Take my family for example we r not affectionate towards each other at all unless we want something and in your partners case thiS is sex! Maybe do not over indulge your partner with too much affection and keep It... (read in full...)
Was it rape or sex?
Q. okay so i was a virgin...i started talking to this guy he was gorgeous..whe had known eachther for a while and decided to go out and we ended up in his room. at first just teasin the making out but then he started pulling my jeans and i dit want to ...
A. 12 June 2009: To be honest it dosent sound that you have been raped but it does sound like this boy has taken advantage of you big time!! It can only be classed as rape if you did not give your consent for him to do the things to you and by what you have wrote I ... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned about this discharge?
Q. Well basically... I am a 15 year old girl. More or less daily i get some type of discharge flowing from my vagina. It is white and creamy. I have been getting it for quite sometime now, although i have not started my period. and the other da...
A. 12 June 2009: Yes this discharge is very normal and every girl gets it. What you are describing it as sounds what it should be too but if that ever changes then you should see a doctor especially if it has a really strong smell to it or it goes a sort if yellow ... (read in full...)
LDR...should I stay with him or look for someone else?
Q. Ive been dating this guy for a while and things are going fine and we havnt had a fight....but he lives in a difrent state then me...i really really like him...but i cant go see him...so should i stay with him or should i look for someone else???...
A. 12 June 2009: My opinion on long distance relationships is that they don't ever seem to turn out the way the couple want them too. It is all very well the people knowing each other through text, email or phone but it is not the same as living with this person and ... (read in full...)
Can I change my friend's feelings towards me?
Q. So there is this friend that i like. I told my friend i liked them and well the feelings werent the same. time passed by and we got closer. however we've kissed and stuff but my friend just says they do all this because want it and that it doesnt ...
A. 12 June 2009: Well first of all she shouldn't be doing this stuff with you if she is in a relationship with someone else as that is classed as being unfaithful. Also you maybe shouldn't be encouraging this I know you like this person but it sounds like they are ... (read in full...)
How does one move on when there is no other course?
Q. what next? I moved countries 10 years ago to be with my then partner, now husband...from the time i moved in with him our relationship was never the same. It was as if he didn't have to "try" anymore. At the end of our first year together, I was ...
A. 12 June 2009: It sounds like you really don't want to be with this bloke so why are you still living in the same house as him. I know you may be in a differnt country away from family but surely you have friends you can go and stay with and there are plenty of ... (read in full...)
13 and I think I'm pregnant! Help
Q. help me please im 13 and me and boyfriend have had sex lots of times but once we had sex without a condom and he pulled out before he came but i found out that that doesnt work and im really scared im pregnat... please help me... i dont know wat to ...
A. 12 June 2009: First of all if a boy withdraws himself before he comes then this does work however if he ejaculates anywhere near your vagina then this could mean that you could become pregnant.
Has your period come yet as this is one of the tell tale signs that... (read in full...)
Does the condom fully protect her?
Q. If I cum inside my girlfriend while I'm wearing a condom, does any semen leak into her vagina? Because I'm really just cumming into the condom but I don't know if it like overflowed or something. Thanks....
A. 12 June 2009: As long as the condom is put on properly and there is no damage to it. If the condom is rolled the whole way up the penis there is no way that the semen can leak out of it as the amount a boy ejacultates is very minimal considering the amount of ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to tell his mates that we are dating!
Q. Hey I was just wonderinig you see my boyfreind is really nice and everything i still love him and that. i just find one problem he doesn't want me to tell any of his mates that we are going out! this doesn't really bother me except when i see them ...
A. 11 June 2009: You need to speak to him about this hunni it's not a good thing.
Boys your age are nervous of telling there friends about having girlfriends in case they get laughed out and for a boy to get humiliated is bit a very nice thing and then they will... (read in full...)
Break up because of no sex?
Q. If your girlfriend doesn't have sex with you is it a valid reason to break up with her after you have tried communication?...
A. 11 June 2009: Not all the time. How long have you been going out for and is there any trust issues between you?? You haven't really given me any detail but from what you have said I would say that it is you throwing your dummy out if the pram because you are not ... (read in full...)
Is this just a "man crush"?
Q. Ok im going to try and keep this as short and simple as possible. I am a 28 year old guy, i am straight but ive been having strange feelings for my male boss. I really cant work out whether its gay feelings that i am feeling for him or if its a ...
A. 11 June 2009: Only you know how you feel.. If you really like this bloke and having feelings like this then there us a good chance that you are liking him obviously. What I would do is take your mind off of him is go out and indulge yourself in girls if you find ... (read in full...)
Is he interested or is he just friendly?
Q. I've recently started talked to a guy online. He goes to my university but I've never actually met him. We just have mutual friends. Anyways.. we talked all last weekend through messages on facebook. Just sorta 'getting to know you' stuff. He then ...
A. 11 June 2009: why not drop him a subtle text like.. Hey u k?? You bin up 2 anyfink over the last couple of days?
This way it will give him a chance to reply without you coming in too strong for him. He may have just been busy with uni work so I would wait anot... (read in full...)
Has she been leading me on?
Q. Hello. Just a quick question. After months of e-mails and Instant Messaging but little face to face interaction at work (at her request - in case people should 'talk' about them - but there was a very flirtatious meeting in the library!) she finally ...
A. 11 June 2009: Has this girl got something to hide???
If this guy has tried and has to keep rearranging it sounds like she most probably is!!
maybe you should talk to her more and find out maybe even telling her how you feel and about how you fell she is ... (read in full...)
We want to meet up but can't figure out how to do it
Q. theres this boy i love to peices and he loves me back and i really want to date him but i dont think it will work out beacuase we would never see each other as he lives far away we have tried thinking of was to meet up but nothing seams to be in ...
A. 11 June 2009: Have you tried bed and breakfasts these are actually suprisingly cheaper. You sound like one of my friends that has the same problem with the boys she relly likes. He has a car and comes down to visit her for a day once a month as for the other ... (read in full...)
Talking to 2 guys on the bus..confused!
Q. In august when school started i started talking to this guy i met on the bus everything was going good. Than 4 months later i started to like this guy in my class so since ive been talking to that first guy for 4 months i didnt think that we were ...
A. 11 June 2009: This is up to you. You obviously dont really want to be with the guy from the bus so why are you with him. It sounds like the guy from your class has the maddest crush on you and i dont normally say this but you need to weigh up your options ... (read in full...)
Why did she show me a photo of her and her boyfriend kissing?
Q. I recently talked to my ex on facebook and she showed me a picture of her kissing her new boyfriend. Why did she do that ? It's not necessary and she knew it all along that would hurt me. I'm over her I think but I'm jealous that she has a new ...
A. 11 June 2009: She is trying to make you jealous my lad. You need to play it cool and not react to these things. The best thing to do is try not to have any or as minimal contact with her at all and she will soon come running. Believe me. Maybe if you are ... (read in full...)
What do I do if they go out?
Q. the one i love, the one i would die for is now in love with my best friend, and my best friend is in love with him. iam so upset she says to me on msn that iam selfish and a sl_t. shes the one selfish i am so in love with him and after every thing ...
A. 11 June 2009: First of all she is not your best friend as she shouldnt be saying all these nasty things to you. I mean how many other friends have you had been that nasty to you? The problem is with people your age you think you are in love when all you are... (read in full...)
When did you start dating / when were you allowed to start dating?
Q. Heyy! I was just wondering, what age did you start dating/were allowed to date?? Because I have had a crush on the same boy (we are both 15) for a few years now, but my mum said that even sixth formers (16-18yrs)only have a boy/girlfriend for a 'f...
A. 11 June 2009: You are aloud to satart dating at any age. As long as you feel that you want to go out with boy.
i started dating as soon as i started secondary school and there is nothing wrong with that.
Your mum does have a point however but then again s... (read in full...)
I'm too scared to take a pregnancy test, I don't know what to do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend broke up about 3 weeks ago i am 16 very soon and he's 17 in a few months. The last time we had sex was when we were going out and now im 22 days late. I haven't told him as he has just gone on holiday and i didn't want to ruin it ...
A. 11 June 2009: First thing is first you need to go and get a pregnancy test. This is the only way you are going to find and put your mind at rest. Second thing is you may need to talk to your mum about things. She can help you if you need it and im sure if y... (read in full...)
My mum won't let me get my hair cut!
Q. hi. i really want to cut my hair but my mum wont let me. it's waist length now and it's not really practical for when i have to do lab work. my mum is a religious fanatic and refuses to let me have a hair cut. its not like i want it really short, ...
A. 11 June 2009: talk to your mum properly about it.. Besides aren't you a little old to be doing as she says?
I don't understand how religion comes into this either and if it helps you with lab work then why not go have it done with out her knowing she can't say ... (read in full...)
Why did she pause and get nervous just telling me her name?
Q. am 20 years of age and cute too. there is this girl of abt 17 who was just sitting in front of me during our class examinations and for the 1st time am seeing her.i just opened up a chat just asking some questions about herself and where she comes ...
A. 11 June 2009: who knows to be honest there could be alot of reason why she would of done this.
Maybe she has had a traumatic life with relationships and boys. No- one will ever know unless we now the girl and her past history. Maybe she has had many trau... (read in full...)
Should I have sex at 13?
Q. i want to have sex with my boyfriend and he wants to as well but we r only 13 is it ok if we did?...
A. 11 June 2009: You need to do whatever you want to do. No-one can tell you what you want to do with yourself as it is your brain and body and your choice how you use it.
All I would say is make sure you know this is what you really want. Loosing your virg... (read in full...)
Making love vs having sex
Q. I met a man at a party four weeks ago and we slept together on our first date. He is a lovely lovely man and wants to take me on holiday in September so is a bit full on bit too soon but I dont mind because I have been looking for someone to look ...
A. 11 June 2009: There is no way of telling if you are in love or not! Only you can feel this. If you listen to what your heart tells you then you will find the answer you are looking for.
Making love basically means having sex with the person that you love and... (read in full...)
I thought he liked me, was I too naive?
Q. I met this guy at a party. We got drunk and made out. Next he asked me for a movie and since then we have been seeing each other on and off and chatting over IM. We never got intimate again though he asked me to spend a night at his place once (his ...
A. 11 June 2009: You weren't naive in thinking this at all. It seems like he has been playing you for sex. Unfortuantly men can be like this and there is no way around it.
I would get out of this relationship as soon as possible otherwise you were right on thin... (read in full...)
Do guys get intimidated by beautiful girls?
Q. many people(family,friends,strangers,boys) tell me i'm beautiful but i would say i'm just pretty.guys usually stare at me,smile at me,flirt with me and some of them even approach me.i get attention from them,even from those who are way older than ...
A. 10 June 2009: Dont be silly if you dont want to be ugly! If you are beautiful then most girls in this world would kill to be like you. There is no need to get depressed about this subject.
Some men do find pretty women intimidating but this is normally only when... (read in full...)
How can I get over the paranoia from past relationships and trust him with his best friend?
Q. Hi. Needing a bit of help here. I've been with a really wonderful guy for just over 2 months now and everything is going very well. I'm crazy about him and he makes me feel so special. He phones me every evening, we meet up and go for walks ...
A. 10 June 2009: All I can say is that unless you have been diagnosed with the condition then you haven't got paranoia. You are just very insecure and there is little you can do to stop this. Your relationships from the past do seem very traumatic but this is not to ... (read in full...)
She never told me about her "friend"
Q. my gf of over a year has a "friend" that gets out of jail soon. she says they are just friends, however they have slept together. she said that was a mistake and they are just friends. she didn't know him that long before he got locked up. she has ...
A. 10 June 2009: The fact is she is still your girlfriend. I'm sure if she really liked this man then she would of left you along time ago.
Seriously some men act as if women can't have male friends. Ok they may have had sex but this is in the past and if she regr... (read in full...)
What should I say to him?
Q. I went out with this boy but it only lasted a week because everyone was pretending to go out with me. I still like him and everyone can see it, they all say he likes me too but i don't know if i can trust him again. He's too afraid to say something ...
A. 10 June 2009: this is completely up too you. How long have you known this boy for?
The thing is you are still really young and have plenty of time for boys. Girls grow up faster then boys. Please remember this! Boys can be very immature and don't like to talk... (read in full...)
I don't have (or want) many friends, but will this stunt my chances for getting a girl?
Q. hi all. i think i have an issue. i don't have a broad amount of friends. to be honest i don't want lots of friends due to bad experiences (such as gossiping and fakes etc...), but because of that, i feel that chances for having a girlfriend are ...
A. 10 June 2009: Not necciserly!! Friends or no friends love conquers all!! :)
No seriously Mr A may not be the person Ms X wants to go for and Mr B may be perfect for her.
Friends are not everything you know and yeah everyone has their fair experience of back sta... (read in full...)
I get wet dreams and I want this to stop!
Q. hey im 13 and male i keep having wet dreams and sometimes the dreams have nothing to do with sex and i still have one and today i woke up den went back 2 sleep for ten minutes and it happened. i dont like it because i wake up feeling wet and dirty ...
A. 10 June 2009: There isn't very much you can do to stop this happening. You are a boy and unfortuanlty going through puberty so it is your bodies way for preparing you for man hood. At the moment your body will be producing slot of sperm and your body is not sure ... (read in full...)
I'm confused! What happened?
Q. I have been talking to this guy for about 2 months, everything was going good and all of a sudden he wont answer my phone calls. The last conversation was a good conversation, he sent me a text message the next day that was so sweet and it has been ...
A. 10 June 2009: This sounds like a story I hear all the time. Men are really stupid when it comes to facing commitment.
There is either two sides to this. One is that he really likes you but scared of telling you incase you don't like him back and he looks a comp... (read in full...)
Should I carry on seeing my dad?
Q. my dad is in and out of rehab and he is always heavily dosed on medication. He has done some bad things in the past like hit my sister spend all our money on drugs. He has many mental illneses and when i was younger ,the doctors say he is officaly...
A. 10 June 2009: you need to do what you want to do. Nobody can make that desicion for you.
You say your dad is in and out of rehab maybe if you tried sitting down and talking to him would this help?? Talk about how much you love him and how you feel he is slip... (read in full...)
How can I break up with him when I love him so much?
Q. hey well i ve with my boyfriend for 10 months and i feel i can t easily forget him or break up but he's in a military school. he comes only on weekends where we spend the most beautiful times together but it's really hard to see him once a week ...
A. 10 June 2009: hey..
This is a really difficult sutuation. You have to really sit down and think about what you want to do. Being so far away from each other puts a strain on any relationship and him not coming home at the holidays probably makes it worse for you.... (read in full...)
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