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writes:okay. I had sex for the first time today and I'm worried. He used a condom, I've been taking the pill regularly for a couple months (haven't missed one yet) and he didnt cum inside of me. Is there a chance I'm pregnant or am I just overreacting because today was my first time...please any advice would be much appreciated. Thank you all:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): Overreacting.
Condoms are 85% reliable when used during ejaculation inside the female.
The pill is 99% effective no matter what.
So, there is no significant probability that you conceived. Some people do it with no protection and do not conceive but that is very, very risky. Anyway, include that uncertainty into the calculation and there is just no way.
You were very smart to be so conservative but withdrawing prior to ejaculation is relly not necessary with the pill and the condom. Unless you just want to watch the fireworks (ejaculation). Most girls are kind of fascinated when they first witness this phenomenon.
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reader, just_a_girl_28 +, writes (12 June 2009):
 With me being young and being in the stage were a lot of my friends are choosing to loose their virginity I see how they all act afterwards and yes they all OVER REACT. I'm sure you have probably googled or looked into the symptoms of pregnancy and that is only going to make things worse. You knowing the symptoms will get them in your head and you will start actually having those symptoms, even throwing up.
You are not pregnant, don't worry... RELAX girl!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): Relax. You're fine. There's a better chance of me being eaten by shark today (I'm staying in my house, VERY far inland) than you being pregnant. Take a deep breath, you're fine. You've been as careful as you possibly can to prevent sex short of abstinence. If you're on the pill and nothing else it's still safe for the guy to cum inside you. If you use a condom and nothing else it's also safe for the guy to cum inside you. With both and him pulling out, there's pretty much no chance. If you're really concerned on how to prevent pregnancy (since it's pretty hard to enjoy having sex if you're that worried) then you should talk to someone over at planned parenthood or call your doctor. They can give you tips to help you ease your mind!
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reader, Smellyellie  +, writes (12 June 2009):
 you are really overacting there is no way you will he pregnant. You shouldn't worry about these things as long as you are safe then there is no need to worry..
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (12 June 2009):
 You are over reacting! There is probably a 0.0000001% chance that you are pregnant but to be fair, if you are a guy with wings called Gabrielle will be coming to see you very soon!
Don't panic, but the only way to 100% guarantee not to get pregnant is not to have sex, but you seem to be taking it seriously, and doing all you can.
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