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anonymous
writes:I met a man at a party four weeks ago and we slept together on our first date. He is a lovely lovely man and wants to take me on holiday in September so is a bit full on bit too soon but I dont mind because I have been looking for someone to look after me for a long time, having met losers along the way. He is very kind and attentive and we have extremely good sex which is quite kinky sometimes i.e. dressing up/stockings etc and naughty talk. I want to know if there is a difference between "making love" and "having sex". We are both extremely fond of each other even after four weeks.Also how do you know if you are "in love"?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): I agree with you that he is a little quick to ask you to go on holiday in September......easy tiger!!
Can I ask how old you and he are please if you don't mind me asking?
To answer your quesrion, I think the difference between making love and having sex is:
Making love - Doing it with someone you care about.
Having sex - A no strings attached quickie with not a stuff about the partner.
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reader, Smellyellie +, writes (11 June 2009):
 There is no way of telling if you are in love or not! Only you can feel this. If you listen to what your heart tells you then you will find the answer you are looking for.
Making love basically means having sex with the person that you love and when it happens it heppens in a very gentle and passionate way.
Whereas when you have sex this seems to intend that you do it commonly and not because you are in a relationship. It dosent really matter which one you use but making love always sounds more seductive!
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