My daughter is dating a man I disapprove of and it driving a wedge between us! Help?
Q. Hi, please help. My daughter is 18 almost 19 years old and dating a really old guy, he's 27 and I disapprove very much. My daughter lives on her own and pays her own bills so she assumes this means that i have no control over her. she's been seein...
A. 31 December 2006: I'm sorry to say...but with your control issues your daughter will soon want nothing to do with you. My fiancee's mother is exactly the same. She hates me so much...but I've never ever given her a reason to do so. She seems to think I'm not "good ... (read in full...)
I haven't had a bf in ages and my friends are hurtful towards me - I'm so upset. Please help!
Q. Dear all those willing to listen to me... atm i feel very depressed i havent had a bf in ages and all the guys in my area and surrounding towns hate me and everywhere i go im known as the midge or the lezbo im sick of this reputation i mean im only ...
A. 16 December 2006: Concentrate on YOU for awhile...
I've been exactly where you are..I had one true friend all through school, and I wanted a boyfriend sooo much!
But, to be honest, it doesn't matter what people say about you now, in a few years time it will be a who... (read in full...)
How can I get over her cheating on me? I can't stop crying.
Q. How can I stop the tears from falling? How can I get her out of my head? How could she cheat on me when all I did was love her? She was my world and now she has gone....
A. 8 December 2006: You say she wants you back...then what is the issue here?
She accepted a date with anothher guy..that was wrong of her..but you were just as mean tearign up her letter...you pushed HER away and now you're boo-hooing over it?
Come on now!
If you... (read in full...)
My boyfriend slept with my sister the morning our son was born! How do I deal w/ this?
Q. My boyfriend slept with my sister the morning our son was born. He hasnt talked to her since I found out about the two of them and he hasnt been with anyone else. But how do I deal with this?...
A. 8 December 2006: Thats horrible...you've been betrayed twice over by him and your sister...If I were you I would cut ties with this guy, someone who could be so cruel and callous to you isn't worth your time and energy hon.
The birth of your child is supposed to b... (read in full...)
I have the ability to read people and it's affected my relationships!
Q. I've had a problem since i was a kid. I have the ability to read people, know when someone close is in trouble, what is in their hearts. This affected my relationship with my mum and boyfriends. As a kid i had a bestfriend. Anytime she is about to ...
A. 8 December 2006: Hi..
I have the same "special talent" as another aunt has put it, and I totally understand how you feel. I had a best friend in elementary school who was the sweetest thing..and I knew she was going to die in a car accident the day before it happ... (read in full...)
His baby is just born and he has already changed his mind
Q. Am i being petty and selfish? my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months we have lived together for about 5 months. He recently had a child with his ex g/f. Before the baby we discussed how we should handle things as far as his ex and the ...
A. 3 December 2006: if you're that concerned about this, which I totally understand...then you need to get the court to put everything nice and legal for you..child support, visitation, ect.
It may seem mean to him, or that he doesn't trust her...but in actuality, this... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hates it when I'm "on"... Should I let him sleep with other girls? Is there a "third way"?
Q. I'm having some problems with my boyfriend. He's a great guy but, lately, he's been annoying me a bit. I'm 20 and he's 27. We have a good sex life but he moans when I'm on my period. I am usually on for about a week and he moans that we can't have ...
A. 30 November 2006: Ok...
This is just sad..as the others have said, he must me only after one thing..high sex drive or not, it's just one lousy week!
That said..I hope you never have kids with him..be prepared if you do..being hugely pregnant makes it hard to have ... (read in full...)
Confused about the depth of a vagina...
Q. Forgive me if I'm being a bit graphic here, but I'm seriously confused about something. Ok, so if I have sex with my bf I'm sticking somthing up to 9 inches up inside of myself, but if I use a tampon I'm meant to stick it up until it hits the vagina ...
A. 16 November 2006: Bev is right...
I would think that putting it that far would really really hurt....ouch!... (read in full...)
My guinea pig is like a family member; the vet says he will pass away soon. How do I cope?
Q. I know this sounds really stupid but basically I have this 6 year old guinea pig and it sounds really daft but I am really close to him and the vet said he won't make it throuh the winter. I'm so upset and I know a lot of people will probably scoff ...
A. 16 November 2006: Hi..
I can totally understand how you feel! I have 3 Guinea pigs, a rabbit, a cat, lots of fish, a turtle, a hermit crab. What can I say, I'm an animal lover..haha
Anyway, I can tell you, it won't be easy to lose him, but six years is very old for ... (read in full...)
Is it illegal for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 15 year old female in Ireland?
Q. Is it illegal for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 15 year old female in Ireland? I read that it is at least I think so. A girl I know did this and lost her virginity this way and he basically just used her and treated her awfully. Can she do ...
A. 10 November 2006: Alright.
Seems to me you just came here looking for someone to back this up..someone who agree's with you..
what is going through court proceedings going to do to help? She'll be put on display, she'll end up having to defend herself and prove wh... (read in full...)
Is it illegal for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 15 year old female in Ireland?
Q. Is it illegal for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 15 year old female in Ireland? I read that it is at least I think so. A girl I know did this and lost her virginity this way and he basically just used her and treated her awfully. Can she do ...
A. 10 November 2006: She's 18 now?
Ok, why is she pressing this now? It's been awhile since this happened to her. I'm not sure what the statute of limitations is, but it seems weird that she would go after him after so long, could it be that she's angry or hurt abo... (read in full...)
Is it illegal for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 15 year old female in Ireland?
Q. Is it illegal for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 15 year old female in Ireland? I read that it is at least I think so. A girl I know did this and lost her virginity this way and he basically just used her and treated her awfully. Can she do ...
A. 10 November 2006: This is exactly why cops don't take women seriously when they accuse men of this...but if thats what she's going to do, fine..I can tell you tho, getting revenge on this guy might make her feel better at first, but that feeling won't last, and word ... (read in full...)
Is it illegal for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 15 year old female in Ireland?
Q. Is it illegal for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 15 year old female in Ireland? I read that it is at least I think so. A girl I know did this and lost her virginity this way and he basically just used her and treated her awfully. Can she do ...
A. 10 November 2006: The facts don't change...
I'm not going to go around and around about this when you're not even listening to what it being said.
Who's more angry? you or her?
... (read in full...)
Is it illegal for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 15 year old female in Ireland?
Q. Is it illegal for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 15 year old female in Ireland? I read that it is at least I think so. A girl I know did this and lost her virginity this way and he basically just used her and treated her awfully. Can she do ...
A. 10 November 2006: Alright,
Not a single person is saying underage sex is ok...all we're saying is that the age gap probably isn't big enough for them to really persue it unless she was forced.
Secondly, she concented to it at the time, so just because the ... (read in full...)
Bf told me I need to be tighter! I heard somethin about vineger.. but how?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been having sex and he has told me that im not tight at all.. Is there anyway to make it tighter for my boyfriend? I heard somethin about vineger.. but how? please help mee!!!...
A. 10 November 2006: Vinegar?
sorry hon, but I don't think so...:)
I'm not sure if you can do anything to make yourself tighter, I've heard of kegal exercises, try typing that into google...... (read in full...)
Is it illegal for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 15 year old female in Ireland?
Q. Is it illegal for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 15 year old female in Ireland? I read that it is at least I think so. A girl I know did this and lost her virginity this way and he basically just used her and treated her awfully. Can she do ...
A. 9 November 2006: Ok, Laws like the age of concent are not meant for lovers who've been mistreated! Unless she didn't concent anf was raped, or the age gap was bigger, she can't do anything..and really, she shouldn't. Sex isn't a weapon, just bacause he hurt her ... (read in full...)
I was a virgin when I married... And I'm still a virgin two years later!
Q. Dear Cupid, I am 30yrs old and have been married for two yrs. I was a virgin when I married and remain one now. I had not had sex before marriage because I considered it a sin and have been brought up in a loving religious family.I had man...
A. 9 November 2006: Hi there..
It seems he is much less sexually experienced than he told you. Perhaps he's afraid he won't be able to perform to your standards. Or maybe he's afraid of sex for whatever reason. Have you asked him why he doesn't want to have full sex... (read in full...)
My pregnant girlfriend says she want's to be a single mum
Q. i'm 17 and my gf is 15. she has just found out that she is pregnant. we did have safe sex but obviously not safe enough. we have been seeing each other for almost two years now and i'll admit that i love her very much. she says that she is going to ...
A. 31 July 2006: Hi,
She's very young to be having a baby, and she's probably terrified. All you can do is be there, don't push too hard or she'll resent you, but just try to show her how you feel.
If worse comes to worse, you do have legal rights to see the chil... (read in full...)
Can you get rid of periods?
Q. Is there anyway to stop/get rid of your period? I hate my period I'm 25 and want to know is there anything I can do about it....
A. 25 July 2006: Yes, you CAN do those things...but I've heard from thousands of women that when they decided to have children it was MUCH MUCH more difficult and it took them a long time to fall PG, Please, if you want to do this stuff ALWAYS discuss it with your ... (read in full...)
Can you get rid of periods?
Q. Is there anyway to stop/get rid of your period? I hate my period I'm 25 and want to know is there anything I can do about it....
A. 25 July 2006: No offense,
But what if you decided AFTER you did something drastic like that, that you wanted to have kids?
I'm sure almost every woamn hates her period at one point, but there is a natural biological reason for it
I mean sure, it's painful, ann... (read in full...)
A guy who's 21 says he loves me and wants to spend his life with me... but I'm only 14!
Q. I am 14 and recently spoke to this guy who's 21 at an art gallery. We write each other letters and things and talk on the phone occasionally and on msn and things, although I never see him as he lives quite far away. The thing I'm worried about, w...
A. 20 July 2006: Well...
I'm not going to sit here and try to down-play how you feel...but you don't sound like YOU feel the same way...which is the most important thing...
Do you jus want someone to be with? are you just flattered and a bit confused about this?
I... (read in full...)
Can sperm really do this?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been getting close to each other alot and we've started to pleasure each other. I've been told that if sperm gets on any part of the body it can make its way down to the vagina...is this true?...
A. 2 July 2006: If sperm get, say, on the inside of the thigh, or on the outside of the vagina, yes..it's been known to happen...but if it's not even in the area close to your vagina, like...on your chest or something...no.
HTH
S-T... (read in full...)
Two questions. 1) does it feel like this for a man, 2) can you make babies from bottom sex?
Q. Two quick questions please. I have had several relationships, but only recently started using a vibrator when on my own. I'm a bit alarmed that when I put it inside, the more excited I get, the more it feels like I am trying to push it out! Is this ...
A. 2 July 2006: Okay,
Sounds to me like you just have very strong vaginal muscles that are flexing, and thats why it feels like it's being pushed out.
Also, if thats what a man feels, I don't know, I would imagine it was something similar to thar tho.
No, you c... (read in full...)
I have his baby and he won't leave his wife for us. What should I do?
Q. hi everybody im so glad i found this website cause i need advice really bad ok it started in nov of 2004 i started seeing this married man see he told me from the beginning that they were planning on getting divorced so we started seeing each other ...
A. 2 July 2006: Okay...
First off, getting involved with a married man was a bad idea in the first place, however, that ship has sailed...
Anyway, he's playing around with you, you say he doesn't have children with his wife...obviously he's got something going on... (read in full...)
We're officially broken up, but we're meeting for sex and both have other partners!
Q. Me and my boyfriend had been going out a year and a half. Things were great, then he told me that he wanted to join the Army. I knew he wanted to do this before we met but nothing was ever said until this far in the relationship. It broke my heart. ...
A. 27 June 2006: Okay...
I'd hate to hurt you more, but I have to be honest here. You were seeing someone else also, and while it may hurt that he's been with someone else, you can't fault him if you did the same thing. Thats the pot calling the kettle black.
Secon... (read in full...)
Everyone says to keep my distance after the breakup... But I want to win him back!
Q. Hello,! A month ago my boyfriend of 2 and a half years broke up with me and my heart is breaking as i love him dearly. i am 21 and he 22. we have known each other for about 5 years through work, and have spent almost every night together for tha ...
A. 27 June 2006: Well...
I can tell you from personal experience, if you really feel you love him and you've just got some trivial problems, then don't give up!
My fiancee moved out on me, brought the cops and his parents to my house to get his stuff and tell me ... (read in full...)
My neighbour watches me masturbate!
Q. My neighbour's daughter has a habit of hanging around at my place whenever i am alone at home. I have the habit of masturbating and she enjoys watching me. This has been going on for three years or more. Now I am getting attracted towards her and ...
A. 19 June 2006: Well, that depends on your age, because sex is iligal if you or she is under 15, I don't mean to imply you sound young or anything, but it's best to cover your bases....
Secondly, how does she feel about you? is this just a sexual attraction that... (read in full...)
Promised God that I wouldn't have sex again, but I can't empty my mind of thoughts about it!
Q. Recently I made a pledge with God to not have sex again because I had sex with my ex-boyfriend which was a really awful mistake because I wasn't able to deal with the emotional consequences of losing my virginity to someone who really wasn't a good ...
A. 17 June 2006: I'm Christian also,
However, I can have Jesus as my savior without following his rules like a blind moron. He knows the decisions we're going to make before we make them, right? so even if we have free will, he knows when we sin before we do it. ... (read in full...)
Fifteen with a 23-year-old boyfriend. Illegal?
Q. I'm a 15 year old female from New Jersey. I was wondering if it was legal to date (without sex!!) a 23 year old male? If so, besides having sex/oral, if it was possible for him to get in trouble? My mom tells me its illegal for us to even just dat...
A. 25 May 2006: To put it bluntly,
YES!
No offense, but why would a 23 year old want to date a 15 yr old if sex was denied? come on. Chances are, if he agrees to no sex, that won't last long.
Find a nice boy your own age, trust me.... (read in full...)
I have cerebral palsy and everyone treats me horrible. Can I change this?
Q. Dear Anyone. I'm 42, living in England, with Cerebral Palsy. This comes out mainly in my face - I look like a freshly shaved gorilla! And that, in a nutshell, is the question. How do I get people past the face and disability to the person ins...
A. 6 May 2006: Hello Chris,
I just wanted to say, I have Cerebral Palsy also, which effects the way I walk (my feet turn inward) and my eyes. (I can see fine, but they have a mind of there own muscle wise and each go in there own direction) and I too have foun... (read in full...)
Boyfriends parent disaprove of me, How can I change their thoughts??
Q. the parents to my boyfriend hate me coz they believe am not good enough for their son.help...
A. 3 May 2006: Hello,
I can say from experience, that there reslly isn't anything you can do to change there opinion of you. Are you simply doing something or acting a certain way that upsets them? Purhaps you should sit down and discuss it with them. I know just... (read in full...)
He abused me, we broke up and now I am going to give his ring back, but I want to tell him off good. Any good tips on what I should say?
Q. Hi there, I was hoping to find some advice for my problem...I was engaged before with this Muslim Egyptian guy, but he turned out to be controlling, possessive and emotionally abusive and I broke up with him. He now wants the engagment ring he gave ...
A. 28 April 2006: Ok, Sounds to me like you got snowballed into this mess...19 with first boyfriend? thats a hard one in and of it's self. I know from experience that when you're young and that involved, well..you tend to overlook a lot of the persons shortcom... (read in full...)
The stress of being in debt is getting to him, how can I get him to lighten up?
Q. My fiancee is always freaking out about money...bills..and debt. We owe about 7000$ in credit card debt and a few medical bills. He works 40 hours a week and I am on disabiity which provides us with free food and half the rent paid every month. I'm...
A. 26 April 2006: You may be right in some respects...but what I don't like is the fact that he freaks out over it...the fact is, there's no quick fix to it, so why is he always looking for one and freaking when he doesn't find it?... (read in full...)
I am in love with and doing oral stuff with my sisters bf!!!
Q. I'm really worried. My 18 year old sister has a 17 year old boyfriend who i really love. I'm more compatable with him than she is and lately we seemed to be getting on really well (i'm 14) and we're great friends. The thing is a while ago when he ...
A. 14 April 2006: Okay..you're 14, which IMHO is way to young to be messing with guys...also, you and your sister are FAMILY! boys come and go..but are you really willing to alienate your sister over a boy who will most likely be gone eventually anyway?
You real... (read in full...)
While we were having sex my period started.. gross i know but does this count?
Q. lol oh god this is so wierd and im totally confused!!! i was at a party and hooked up with this guy and we started having sex (as in definate penetration occured) but then disgustingly enuf my period started and we had to stop (obviously!) - hes now ...
A. 13 April 2006: Penetration counts as sex, yes..... (read in full...)
He's quite camp and obsessive, its creeping me out!
Q. Hey. This is quite lengthy but please read and try and help, I am in my late teens and dating a guy who is 7 years older than me. Before we got together I really fancied him and I let him know I was interested, just to find out he's been in 'love' ...
A. 13 April 2006: You need to be firm with him...crying is a manipulative tactic. I can understand you not wanting to hurt him, cause a scene, ect..but you need to let him know as gently as possible, purhaps explain why you feel the way you do...
Regar... (read in full...)
When I showed him photos of my friend's baby, he went quiet. Will he leave if I tell him I want a baby before I'm 21?
Q. My friend has just sent me pictures of her new baby boy. I showed my boyfriend them and he immediatly went quiet and looked suspiciously at me. I love him to bits, we haven't been together long but I really want to be a mum before I am 21. I have a ...
A. 28 February 2006: You seem like you know what you want, but please rmember that babies are a LOT of work, not just cute pictures and family picnics. Have you tried discussing this with him? Maybe he isn't as ready as you are, in which case you need to respect ... (read in full...)
My little sister is asking me questions and I need advice on how to help her with some proper answers.
Q. Hi,I'm 27 and my sister who is 12 is dating this guy who she ment at a dance this October that just passed.The problem is they didn't know each other at all before the dance. My sister, being the idiot she is, saw him walk by and told ...
A. 28 February 2006: Well. She's only 12, and by the sounds of it, this boy is the same age? She isn't an "Idiot" for doing what she did, at her age children, especially girls, like to pair off, and it doesn't take more than a cute face to cath there attentio... (read in full...)
She's expecting his baby and I don't know what to do!
Q. I am 17 yrs old and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years an we love each other so much.We broke up 4 a couple of weeks last year and he had a drunken 1 night stand. The girl was his mate and now shes pregnant, shes known 2 get around alot an shes ...
A. 6 February 2006: Well first off..
Drunkeness seems to always be the excuse for cheating like that..and it's not..he has to get a DNA test to prove one way or the other.
You need to ask yourself, if the child is his, are you willing to stand aside and let him have... (read in full...)
He lives with his parents and he won't give me a firm date for his moving out of their place and in with me!
Q. Believe him, or is he just trying to shut me up? I am engaged to a man who is currently living with his parents. I have my own place, and we want to live together like we had in the past. He says he really really wants to come back here, but then...
A. 25 January 2006: well...just to update you, he did move back in just before Christmas, he said he didn't want to spend Christmas without me, we have a tough road, but we'll make it, together.
Thanks for all your advice!... (read in full...)
What can I do to keep my mistress's interest in sex alive?
Q. I am in my 40s and have been married for 26 years. During this time i have had a number of affairs but now i have found a woman i have been in a relationship with for over 3 years. My wife has poor health and I have work related ties. I have ...
A. 8 January 2006: Well...
I don't want to say anything I shouldn't, but I couldn't simply say nothing, so here goes....
First off, you're an adult in your 40's, you're cheating on your wife of 26 years? thats horrid! you should know better. Cheating is wrong at... (read in full...)
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