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What can I do to keep my mistress's interest in sex alive?

Q.   I am in my 40s and have been married for 26 years. During this time i have had a number of affairs but now i have found a woman i have been in a relationship with for over 3 years. My wife has poor health and I have work related ties. I have ...

A.   8 January 2006: Well... I don't want to say anything I shouldn't, but I couldn't simply say nothing, so here goes.... First off, you're an adult in your 40's, you're cheating on your wife of 26 years? thats horrid! you should know better. Cheating is wrong at... (read in full...)

My daughter got caught taking pics of girls in the school changeroom! What is the best to deal with this?

Q.   Recently I got a phone call off my 14-year-old-daughter's school complaining that my daughter had been taking photos of girls getting dressed in the changing rooms. The teacher told me her camera phone has been confiscated. What are the best thin...

A.   6 January 2006: Well... This behavior is a total violation of the other girls privacy. But you need to handle this topic delicately so that you don't cause permenant damage to your daughter, Purhaps she is attracted to girls and is aroused by these photo's,... (read in full...)

Is it normal for a tampon to move?

Q.   I have a problem which may sound a bit disgusting and I'm not sure whether it will be put on the site but here goes . . . I'll be as subtle as possible!! When I'm on my period I wear tampons. Lately, though, the tampon has been moving down to t...

A.   6 January 2006: Maybe you're not placing the tampon far enough inside? I know exactly what you mean tho...mine does the same if.. 1) I'm using too large a tampon for my flow 2) the tampon is full 3) it happens more now since I'm sexually active, it stretches th... (read in full...)

Ok so he IS a goth AND shorter than me BUT we both like each other. That IS all that counts... Right!?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend are different in a lot of ways. For instance I'm a girle-girl while hes a goth, I'm a year older than him, I'm a little taller than him...... then again does it really matter? We both like each other thats all that ...

A.   10 December 2005: Excuse me, Harshbutfair, but each couple is of two individuals, whom are each unique!!! who are you to say they'll never get along..Goth is just something he enjoys, and he sounds a bit young, so he may be struggling to find who he really is as a ... (read in full...)

I love my cybersex guy..should I leave my partner of 10 years for him?

Q.   hi this is part two to my chatroom love affair,i love the guy for many reasons but the most is sex,our cyber is the best ever,well i do feel good after the sex.anyway this is an interracial affair,the thing is i got a guy, but this cyber lover has ...

A.   7 December 2005: Cyber sex is just masterbation, so of course the sex is great if you're only trying to please yourself!! the real challenge is learning to please your partner as well as yourself during real sex. Chat rooms can be both wonderful and awful, it's ver... (read in full...)

His family threatened to disown him if he gets back with me!

Q.   I'm sorry for such a long letter but I really need help on this one and I have to tell you the full background! My bf of 3 years and I have got back together after a three month on-off period. We do love each other to pieces and get on great. The ...

A.   18 November 2005: Hello Dear, You are in the EXACT same situation as I am! First off, I can tell you from experience that his parents making him choose between you with threats ans intimidation will only cause him to resent her for putting him in that position. S... (read in full...)

Afraid to tell him how I really feel, in case I end up getting hurt again...

Q.   Me and my best friend started dating. Me and him have been friends all of our lives. But the problem is I just got out of a five year relationship and I am afraid to tell him how much he means to me and how much I care about him, because I am ...

A.   29 October 2005: Well.. WHile it is common to compare him to the last big realtionship you had...and totally understandable..it's unfair to him..and to you... You need to learn to slowly put aside your past...although it may be best for you to express ... (read in full...)

Mom would freak out if she knew my online guy is 11 years older!

Q.   I met this guy online about 8 months ago, and we've dated over the internet and over phone conversations for about 6 months. We started out really slow and now I love him more than anyone I've ever dated. Well, I'm only 15 and he's 26 and we live in ...

A.   29 October 2005: Oksy... Now, I understand about loving someone sight unseen, but you have to be honest with yourself, what would a 26 year old man want with a 15 year girl? that pretty much means he just wants one thing...and while I cannot speak for him...it seem... (read in full...)

Was my friend hinting around that he's interested in me?

Q.   I went out to lunch with a guy that I'm just friends with(but have suspected that he has deeper feelings for me). He started to ask me all sorts of questions, mainly about where I was going to find the guy of my dreams, and that prince charming ...

A.   27 October 2005: That may well be.... Sounds to me like he was trying to find the right approuch so that he doesn't get rejected.. The question is...tho...how do you feel about HIM? the feelings must be 50/50 in order to work...so if you're into him, it's safe to ... (read in full...)

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