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writes:Dear all those willing to listen to me... atm i feel very depressed i havent had a bf in ages and all the guys in my area and surrounding towns hate me and everywhere i go im known as the midge or the lezbo im sick of this reputation i mean im only 16!!!!!!i really want a bf coz i feel so lonely and all my "friends" (if they can be called friends) bitch about me behind my back which is very hurtfulplease someone help me or at least give me some idea or the point in the right direction.... and please dnt think im just doin this for attention because im not im seriously down and i need some help....fast!
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reader, dummyduckling +, writes (16 December 2006):
dummyduckling is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you all for retuning to me so quickly and actually giving em helpful advice insted of ignoring me, i have started in the army cadets and im a volunteer at the local nursing home and next week im singing christmas carols for all the eldery at a fesival. i have to admit im a lot happier then i was and now im out of the slump i can see that a bf ain't the most important thing in the world but getting on with your life and spending time with loved ones is. thanks for all the help, you really are all angels. ^_____^
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reader, Seratuki  +, writes (16 December 2006):
 Concentrate on YOU for awhile...
I've been exactly where you are..I had one true friend all through school, and I wanted a boyfriend sooo much!
But, to be honest, it doesn't matter what people say about you now, in a few years time it will be a whole other story. Once I graduated I met my first real BF, and was with him for 5 years!
School sometimes breeds contempt and mean people..but the truth is, once school is over and the little groups those girls worked so hard to belong to no longer matter, they'll be totally different...I now talk to girls who HATED me in school...we're not the best of friends, but they've matured, and you will too!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2006): Ok - dump your friends and find new ones (join clubs change your lifesyle slightly). second - you don't need a bf that's a stupid thing to say i understand you feel lonely but having a boyfriend won't solve it. I've been where you are and you need to get yourself sorted out before bringing someone in believe me.
Do somethings for yourself and friends and boyfriends and the life you want will come
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reader, Nikita +, writes (15 December 2006):
 Hello, Im really sorry that you're feeling so down. Your friends cant be true friends if they're so mean to you. I know where you're coming from cos when i was sixteen i was very much like you. I had no bf and hardly any real friends. I got called lezzie too,(must be ateenage thing eh) but I found other interests and friends and this is what you need to do. Forget about boys for the minute. That'll come soon enough. I joined a judo club and learnt self defence and i also joined a photograpy class. I made new friends and was much happier. Maybe this something you can try. it wont be easy at first but you will get through this phase in your life. Dont worry too much about what people say. hold you head up high and rise above it. Good luck . Let me know how it goes for youx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): Hi I can only give you advice that worked for me, is there any local clubs you can join? If you have an interest that you have always wanted to persue but the time was never right, then now it is. Look up volunteering in your area, you know, helping out with local kids that sort of thing. Good luck, you are not alone, all the time you have your computer you can access loads of friends.
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reader, ::Angel:: +, writes (15 December 2006):
 hey, think of it this way.... you dont need friends, and you dont need a boyfriend at your age. all you need to think about right now is your future, boyfriends wont get you to a brilliant career and neither will friends. all you need is yourself, you need to love yourself and believe you are an individual. your not alone, no one is....trust me :)
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