It ended with me looking like the bad guy! I feel so down..help!
Q. I was in a relationship for one year and then we broke up and we were dating for 2 years, but we were not in a relationship. for the past two years he stopped calling me less, he said he did not feel 100 percent sure about our relationship but we ...
A. 11 August 2009: you keep falling into the same ol drama why do you feel the need to keep apologizing to him. You are the only one trippen so you need to move on and do like you said you were. You need to concentrate on the future and not on the pass.... (read in full...)
It ended with me looking like the bad guy! I feel so down..help!
Q. I was in a relationship for one year and then we broke up and we were dating for 2 years, but we were not in a relationship. for the past two years he stopped calling me less, he said he did not feel 100 percent sure about our relationship but we ...
A. 8 August 2009: Why do you give a rats ass what he thinks of you after he has treated you badly in the first place. Girl get a grip and move on he is a piece of crap and will continue to be he did you a favor. You are spending all your time thinking about him and ... (read in full...)
His 30 year old daughter has big problems, she dislikes me and now we are forced to sneak around to meet up!
Q. Should i stay or should i go? Ive been with my bloke for about 10 yrs. We are really good together when we're together (and alone) problem for me is his daughter (around 30) still lives at home and uses him for entertainment and sustenna...
A. 8 August 2009: Your man needs to get a backbone and tell her as long as she is in his house she will respect him. It sounds like he just lets her run the house, I wouldn't give a flying fig if she cut her own arm off. He is not doing her any favors and why would ... (read in full...)
We want a 3rd person to videotape our sex sessions? Good idea or not?
Q. I and my husband are seriously discussing to have our love making session video taped by another person. We are not exhibitionists or swingers, and have never done anything like this before. We don't want that person to join us for any sex play. ...
A. 8 August 2009: Yeah buy the tripod it is the only way to go on this one.... (read in full...)
Long distance relationship and now, he doesn't text me back! What can I do?
Q. I met a guy and we dated for about 3 weeks. We both felt a great connection and really liked each other. We do not live near each other, so we talked over text message when I had to return home. At first the texts were very nice and sweet and said ...
A. 8 August 2009: Honey if he up and stopped calling and texting you out of the blue it is because he has another women and isn't thinking about you. I know you can't be this blind if he isn't bothering to call then why are you calling. Honey move on and find a man ... (read in full...)
Why will she no longer let me cum in her mouth?
Q. hello there, i find myself getting a little frustrated/resentful these days and have gone to counselling and been very open about the matter with my fiance. now i understand this topic may sound offensive or degrading to some women/men on h...
A. 8 August 2009: I have read your reply's to our comments and I find it a little confusing. I think you are making a big deal out of a little issue because in the grand scheme of things this is all very petty. You want her to stay the same and keep doing the same ... (read in full...)
Dating 7 months and he won't tell his Mother about us!
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend for 7 months. There is a 10 year age gap. We are very happy. He says he loves me, but he hasn't told his mom about me. He is 30 I am 39 an i have 2 kids from a previous relationship. Am i wasting my time?...
A. 8 August 2009: It's hard to say if you are wasting your time or not because he may have his reason for why he hasn't told his mom. Maybe he knows that she will not approve and may cause friction in the relationship and he isn't ready to deal with the drama. I ... (read in full...)
My gorgeous gf gets hit on by other guys and she hates it. How can we deal with this?
Q. Hi Aunts, My Problem isn't really a big one but its driving me mad!My Girlfriend is super attractive Shes 5 11' skinny long brown hair she could pass as a model.Thats not the problem though the problem is every where we go shes constant...
A. 8 August 2009: You could by her a ring and maybe guys will see the ring and assume that she is married and they won't give her a second thought. I have never heard of someone complaining of being it on but it can be annoying if it is at the wrong time. Try the ... (read in full...)
Is he not sexually attracted to me? What can I do?
Q. i have a man who tells me he's not into sexual things for instance, like trying new things with food, me dancing for him, or doing all the freaky things I would love, to please him. Is it because he's not sexually attracted to me? help, what am i ...
A. 8 August 2009: I don't think it is you personally, I think he is probably shy about trying freaky stuff even with you and he would rather not do it, sometimes people back off when they don't know how they may react. Then again he may just not like having sex like ... (read in full...)
Married 18 years in a horrible marriage! I need to get out and move on, but I can’t..advice?
Q. Hello I am going out of my head and just need advice. I have been with my husband for over 18 years, no children. The last few years have been the worst of my life and I just feel completely and utterly trapped and alone. My husband and I hav...
A. 8 August 2009: I feel for your situation a little bit. You cannot keep blaming your husband for your life being miserable. You don't have children with this man so you have no excuse to stay especially no freaking 18 years. Why do you not have enough self esteem ... (read in full...)
Do you think I can get my friend back?
Q. I had a friend I'll call Alexa. We met about 18 months ago and hit it off well. We were FWB; at one time I think I had a thing for her, but we remained friends more than anything else. She is a very "sensitive" girl imo. She can take the lit...
A. 7 August 2009: You can try to contact her but I have a feeling you will keep going around in circles if you apologized and she accepted then that should have been the end of the drama. What does it matter what rank you are on the friends list that is just dumb. ... (read in full...)
Could I become pregnant so soon after stopping the pill?
Q. I Was on the Yaz pill for 2 months straight, I started to take my 3rd pack but in the first week I stopped because they were causing horrible migraines. My period came 6 days later like it normally does because my cycles are regular. Well 2 weeks ...
A. 7 August 2009: If i were you I would check with the Dr. I was having horrible headaches to the point where I couldn't even bend over without almost falling over after two weeks of these headaches I finally said I have to go to the Dr. I went to the emergency room ... (read in full...)
Am I moving to fast in this friendhship?
Q. I'm a very shy guy and don't have many friends and have only dated one girl in my life. We were together for about a year but she ended it and it tore me up but as time has gone by I've gotten over it (2 months now). Anyway a friend of mine s...
A. 7 August 2009: If you have no romantic interest in each other then I would say just ask her and if she says no then no harm done, At this point you have nothing to lose. First ask her out for coffee, or lunch. Then ask her at coffee if she would be interested in ... (read in full...)
Is it OK to be 34 and be strictly platonic friends with a 15 year old girl?
Q. I know that guys in their mid-30's shouldn't really be friends with teenagers (especially girls), but one of my friends has a 15-year-old daughter who really wants to be my friend. I think she is really awesome and I would like to be her friend ...
A. 7 August 2009: I don't think there is anything wrong with ya'll being friends. You just have to be responsible and make sure you never cross any lines and you should be find. She probably thinks your wise lol. ... (read in full...)
My fiance would rather sleep on the couch than with me..
Q. hello, I wonder how common this is: my fiance will not sleep with me in our bedroom, and has not for 7 months. she prefers the couch. i do not like this at all. we used to snuggle and fall asleep in eachothers arms everynight. i have made ...
A. 6 August 2009: who knows maybe it has nothing to do with you maybe she sleeps better on the couch and sleep is very important. Then again maybe you are getting on her nerves who really knows but she can't expect you to sleep alone, Hell if you wanted to sleep ... (read in full...)
Whenever I express my expectation to her she gets mad!
Q. Girls, what all do you do in a relationship to make things happy and strong between you and your partner. I mean EVERYTHING..from getting up in the morning to the time you go to bed. I am in a relationship for past 14 months and I love her a lot and ...
A. 6 August 2009: She is probably mad because you keep comparing her to your sister in law if you want someone to obey go adopt a dog buddy. I can't say I blame her I would go off on you too. So what she talks to her parents most people do. See the problem is you ... (read in full...)
He is jealous of me innocently helping another man. what do I do?
Q. I'm engaged to a great guy, however there seem to be some inscurities that pop up now and then. We were on trip with some friends and there waa a new friend who was going to stay with us in our hotel room. He's about 10 yrs younger and was talking ...
A. 6 August 2009: You didn't do anything wrong so what you said he was cute well hell if he is cute for a fact then what was the problem. Now I can see if you were like oh he is so fine. There is another issue with your man that he just isn't saying I am sorry if no ... (read in full...)
Why will she no longer let me cum in her mouth?
Q. hello there, i find myself getting a little frustrated/resentful these days and have gone to counselling and been very open about the matter with my fiance. now i understand this topic may sound offensive or degrading to some women/men on h...
A. 6 August 2009: You are saying it is not about the blow job but you are ready to leave her just because she doesn't want to do it anymore. Have you thought that maybe all the pressure you are putting on her to perform she doesn't like doing it anymore and now finds ... (read in full...)
Should I believe him, or continue with my plans?
Q. Help! Me and my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up a few months ago, and ever since then we've been on-off. I still love him with all of my heart, and he says he does too, but the way he treats me says something completely different. If we get ...
A. 6 August 2009: You need to stop, You can revolve your plans around a unstable relationship. He appears to be very childish or he wouldn't be posting pictures of himself partying after the break up. You need to go ahead and go back to school as you had already ... (read in full...)
My husband took me back after I cheated, but I don't want to be with him.
Q. I have been married for eleven years now. We have a five year old daughter who is my world. In the past two years my marriage has been on very shaky ground. I do not respect my husband because he has made selfish decisions and has not included me ...
A. 5 August 2009: What am I missing here, Why are you trying to put your husband down for saying ok you messed up and I am willing to take you back... No one is forcing you to do anything I don't think. If you don't love your husband and you are tired of his crap ... (read in full...)
At 9 pm he said "I love you" and at midnight, he said he never did!
Q. Well I was seeing a lad for 4 mouths, right then before we started going out, I told him I was moving to Scotland and he said it was fine. I fall in love with him and he fall in love with me. We was great together but then I said do u think it was ...
A. 5 August 2009: I think you both need to move on you both seem to be confused on your feelings. I can understand that you only broke up because you were moving, you could have tried to have a log distance relationship first to see how that would work out. Instead ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend broke up with me in a very mean way, my mom's not accepting that I'm gay and I don't have a job! I feel like my life is falling apart!
Q. Hello, I'm new here and I need help, I'm gay and I have a bunch of problems now, I feel really stressed and lost, first of all my boyfriend broke up with me in a very very mean way, he told me really mean things that destroyed my heart, I really ...
A. 5 August 2009: Honey first of all you need to toughen up, you cannot let others bring you down like this. I tell you what all of the energy you are putting in to missing that man and trying to get your moms attention you need to put that into finding a job. You ... (read in full...)
Is this normal? My dad's behaviour toward me?
Q. My parents are divorced, and my Dad moved out 3 years ago. When I was younger, my Dad touched me and looked at me in ways that I'm now slightly nervous about. For example, he'd walk into the bathroom when I was having a shower (we didn't have a lo...
A. 5 August 2009: No it is not normal for him to do these things to you, He needs to respect the fact that you are a women and there are certain things he cannot do. You need to tell your mom that the things that he is doing is making you uncomfortable and you would ... (read in full...)
I'm tired of him being a liar and a player and I just want him out of my house.
Q. My boyfriend has lived in my house 3.5 years. At first I paid his way, then in the last 1.5 years he paid mine. I own the house and he pays all the bills. At first I had money, now I don't and he has money. When I got tired of his daily emails...
A. 5 August 2009: I have a great Idea, being that he has been living there, I would draw up a eviction notice and have him served pack his stuff and put his sorry ass out. I don't care what he pay's he is using you and to go off and cheat is just ridiculous. I don't ... (read in full...)
I feel so bad for my daughter, Any advice on how to help her?
Q. My daughter is 22 and has not had a boyfriend since she was 17. A boy she went out with for a couple of years broke up with her. She is a pretty girl and a little bit overweight (size 14) not huge. She is starting to feel like something is wrong ...
A. 5 August 2009: It sounds like she maybe depressed after not having a bf since 14, maybe this is coming across to people that she is around. We become sarcastic and just hard when things we want aren't going our way so maybe that is turning guy's off. I will tell ... (read in full...)
Was this ment to be or am I on rebound?
Q. I need help deciding if I am on the rebound.. so here is the situation. I was in a relationship for 3 years during which my partner and I were not a good match. He physically and verbally abused me, but the worst part was the fact that he tri...
A. 4 August 2009: It is nice to finally hear some good news coming from something bad. I think god feels you are in place to be with someone who really loves you and if god feels as though your ready then you must be. I say tell E how you feel and enjoy being in love ... (read in full...)
He says I can't leave him or he will do things to me. Should I believe him?
Q. i just wanted some advice, im in this relationship with this guy is been 2 yrs, and im not happy with him we dont do anything but stay home. i work and he doesnt so when i have a day off i go see him but since he is so boring we just stay home smoke ...
A. 4 August 2009: You need to leave his ass a.s.a.p. and I say this because he is going to keep you on a mental trip as long as you let him. Who in there right mind would stay with a man that just wants to smoke and play games all day and have sex. If you have to you ... (read in full...)
Hes mad with me because of a text. What to do?
Q. Ex and I broke up 3 wks ago.We've txted frequently.Broke up - claims he wasnt feeling it anymore *he gave numerous random reasons*(during our relationship he never acted unhappy/called and saw me daily - on his part, had me meet his fam/they ...
A. 4 August 2009: I would give him his space, I mean why keep trying to communicate with someone who doesn't want to talk. He wanted to break up so you gave him what he wanted. He is playing these games because he knows you will bite. Honey they call them Ex's for a ... (read in full...)
Why does he always cheat on me?
Q. Six of you kindly replied to my question dated 31st july 2009 about my cheating husband, while i write this my so called loving husband is in bed with the woman who has caused most of my problems. I thought i was just being paranoid about his ...
A. 4 August 2009: I will tell you why this keeps happening because he knows you are going anywhere and he can do whatever he feels. He called you and told you I am not coming home I am going to her house.
How much disrespect can you take before you pick your face... (read in full...)
I'm lesbian and she's straight, but could she still like me?
Q. I told my friend I was lesbian and she is straight.. she knows i'm an emotional person and everything.. and she's always like flirting with me.. and she told me" I thought about you boo"... and like two weeks ago i told her i had a boyfriend and she ...
A. 4 August 2009: It sounds to me like she likes you beyond just the friendship way. Maybe she is attracted to you, but doesn't want to live the lesbian lifestyle she maybe Bi and thinks your cute. I can see how the singles would get crossed so just take your time ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is late, please help!
Q. Alright listen everyone, me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex about 3 1/2 weeks ago. I thought she was on the pill and didn't wear a condom but it turns out it was a misunderstanding..she takes BC but its a ring thing that she puts in her ...
A. 2 August 2009: Why are you so worried if she is only 3 days late, She is probably late from stress of the situation. Take a early pregnancy test to find out there is no need in panicking yet when you really just don't know. Your saying why didn't she tell you to ... (read in full...)
Do actions speak louder than words?
Q. I'm quite confused here and I need help! I'm starting to like a guy at my workplace. He started flirting with me and I wasn't very interested. I thought he was attractive but I was still in recovery from my ex and I wasn't paying much attentio...
A. 2 August 2009: Maybe he just has a crush on you, You have to take him at his word and respect the fact that he says he isn't ready for a serious relationship. Why can't you just ask him what is on your mind he may give you a straight forward answer and you can ... (read in full...)
My wife thinks that another woman will cure my erectile dysfunction!
Q. I'm having erectile dysfunction ,and my wife thinks ,some other woman will turn me on.And than I will be horny and sexy again.. I have this 3 years ago, the doc says its a mind over body thing... I wonder, could she be right? I don't think it i...
A. 2 August 2009: She maybe right but I can't see how you sleeping with another women is going to help your relationship. Maybe she feel's she is the problem and that once you get it out of your system then you will be regular again. I would advise you get some ... (read in full...)
1 1/2 year later and my periods are back. Not sure how to feel about it?
Q. Hi everyone. I feel I actually need some advice myself for a change! Well, maybe just support and encouragement... The thing is, I have discovered today that I am having a period. Those of you who know a bit about me, or have read my articles, wil...
A. 2 August 2009: Yes you should be celebrating the fact that you are a healthy women. It is only for a week. I hate to see mine come but then I just tell myself I am better off with it coming then guessing why it isn't coming if you can understand that. I had my boy ... (read in full...)
Is it okay for him to keep letters and pictures of his ex?
Q. My husband still keeps his ex-girlfriends letters and photos..Is it ok? My husband kept his ex-girlfriends photos and letters over 20 years. At first I want to burn those letters and photos. I asked him permission, i am not going to burn the...
A. 2 August 2009: He had a life before he met you, It is wrong for you to treat his feelings like they mean nothing. It was 20 years ago are you serious. I think you are making more of this than you should be, now I could see if he was still trying to talk with these ... (read in full...)
Do I just need to 'buck up' and take it?
Q. Please help. I am 19 and have been with my boyfriend for over 2 and a half years. I've never had intercourse, but he is 23 and has since he was 18... We've done oral mostly, and I've only been fingered a couple of times, with a ton of pain. I...
A. 2 August 2009: It will hurt regardless until your body get's use to the size of him. You can try getting drunk or taking something to relax your muscles but eventually you will have to let your fear go and just do it. If you go to the Dr on a regular basis, I am ... (read in full...)
Should I let her name our son ayden even if I don't want it
Q. i just got married and me and my wife r having a baby at first i was scared but now im up for the task but now we r fighting over names if it was a girl we had a name we both liked but we just found out we r having a boy and i like the names ...
A. 1 August 2009: When me and my bf had to name our baby we just compromised and that is what ya'll will have to do that is the bottom line. It is your child and you should have a say in what he is called I personally don't think there is anything wrong with Ayden as ... (read in full...)
Shes avoiding me now I told her I had a boyfriend
Q. i am a girl and i told my friend that i had a boyfriend..but like four months ago i told her i was lesbian..i just want to be concidered normal..but i am lesbian ..i just want her and others to accept me(i havnt told her) but now she is avoiding me ...
A. 1 August 2009: Have you ever thought she was being your friend so she can get close to you and then see if you guy's could be in a relationship. The bottom line is you are lying and playing games if you are a lesbian then why say you have a man. Now if you are Bi ... (read in full...)
He threatens to leave me, should I just let go?
Q. I need some answers, recently me and my fiance of 2 yrs have been having problems a couple of months ago I found some text messages from his phone to a girl and when I confronted him about them he said that it wasnt him and that a friend from work ...
A. 1 August 2009: He sounds like someone I know, It seems like is just willing to go along with whatever you want to do. How can you be with someone you isn't going to be around every other day. I would say end it and move on and when he see's that you are serious ... (read in full...)
Do you think I'm OK?
Q. hey im 5'4" and im a size 00, is this a bad thing? also my bra size is only 34A. im pretty confident with my nody because im quite thin and habe a six pack. is this bad though?...
A. 1 August 2009: If you are happy with your body and your healthy then fine. I don't see anything wrong with being a small size. I would like to recommend that you maybe want to put on just a few pounds just so you will look healthy and fit. The weight is more for ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my long lost brother
Q. Im an 18 year old girl and im in love with my brother.. we grew up together until i was five.. we were separated for 13 years. hes 22 nn were imtimate, we dont use condoms we use withdrawl. i htink he knows that i like him,, but he doesnt say ...
A. 1 August 2009: Have you totally lost your mind what would make you think it is a good idea to have sex first of all with your brother second unprotected sex at that and third to be living in the same house. I understand that you didn't grow up together but you ... (read in full...)
I'm sick with worry that my parents will split!
Q. My parents are starting to make me very nervous. They're going through a rough patch. I'm 20, and the idea of them breaking up terrifies me. They're currently in a long distance situation at the moment. My dad works away during the week, and is only ...
A. 1 August 2009: You haven't realized yet that your parents have issues like any marriage and they probably are just tired of each other it sounds like they tolerate each other for you. You have to live your own life and let them live theres your probably worried ... (read in full...)
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