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We still make love after the break up but he won't get back with me officially!
Q. My ex and I broke up a month ago we still say we love each other and make love and he says he doesn't want to get back together and that because he wants to see what else is out there and i am so lonely without him do u know what i should do??...
A. 16 November 2007: You poor thing. He sound like a pig! If he loved you sweetheart he wouldn't want to know "what else" is out there. You need to stop sleeping with him. At the moment he is having his cake and eating it. He doesn't need to be with you so is free t... (read in full...)
I want to be a musician but my parents want me to go to college. What should I do?
Q. i am 16 year old girl an play a band , after my gcse i want to go ahead with playing music but my parents want me to go to college, what should i do?...
A. 16 November 2007: I think your parents are probably just worried that you will throw away your education with the dream of being a famous musician and even really good bands can spend years tryiong to make it to the big time and not get anywhere. You could al... (read in full...)
How can I get her to give up the smokes?
Q. Well, where to start. I've been with my Fiance since march 2006. When we got together, she was smoking heavily, almost 2 packs a day. I informed her I abhor smoking and would like her to quit in the future, she said if I don't like it I can leave, ...
A. 16 November 2007: As a smoker myself I know how annoying it is to be told all the time to give up. I have only ever given up during my pregnancies, and then started again not long after they were born.
You can't make your girlfriend give up smoking. If she really w... (read in full...)
I like another woman! Please, please help me!
Q. PLEASE take time to read this...and help me if you can... Basically, I'm a 20 year old girl and for about 3 years now I've been completly besotted by another woman... She's 32 and single, but I don't know what her sexual orientation is. ...
A. 12 November 2007: Poor you. I agree with mistify that you must ask her. If it's eating away at you this much you have to get some answers or it will drive you crazy. I hope you get the answer you want!! Good luck... (read in full...)
Am I being a jerk?
Q. It's been eight months since i broke up with my high school sweetheart of four years. She's pregnant and getting married but i still think about her. I've dated alot and got over most of the junk with a relationship that lasted three months. I'm ...
A. 9 November 2007: I don't understand why you keep going out with girls that you aren't attracted to?? My ex went out with me for a while and then told me that my figure was a turn off and asked me to put on wieght. We broke up not long after because I wasn't prepared... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend is cheating
Q. I think my boyfriend is cheating. well all the sign are there,he doesnt call everyday as he used to,he send people he doent know sweet sms/mms.he is rude on the phone when i talk to him,we rarely see eah other and he has changed his style of ...
A. 8 November 2007: It doesn't sound like this relationship is any fun for you.
I would suggest that you sit down and tell him that you don't like the way things are going at the moment and that you feel he isn't talking to you enough and is being rude to you. He ... (read in full...)
He says he didnt take my virginity but I was in pain...am I still a virgin?
Q. hey i'm a 19 years of age my b.f and i were trying to have sex bt didn't acually go through with it because i was scared,and he saud he didn't break my virginity is this true because when he was about to put his thing i felt pain and asked him to ...
A. 8 November 2007: If his penis didn't actually enter your vagina then yes you are still a virgin.
Hope it goes better for you next time!!... (read in full...)
The insides of my vagina feels painful during sex.
Q. Me and my boyfriend used to regularly have sex. Over the past several weeks, the inside of my vagina feels extremely sore and it seems as if there are cuts there. I tried not having sex for a week, however the pain didn't go away. The pain is ...
A. 23 October 2007: I would definately go to your GP for a check up. There's no point having sex if it's going to hurt that much so you want to get it sorted ASAP.... (read in full...)
How to build muscle mass.
Q. I am 40 (M), married. I am 5'6" and 60 Kgs. I smoke 30 cigrettes a day. I feel I am underweight and not well built. I mean no good mass over my bones and muscle stuff. so I feel I am underweight. I want to put on the required weight so that I can ...
A. 22 October 2007: My husband used to be a bodybuilder, then stopped and got really thin again. He has just started to put weight back on through diet, it's not for the faint hearted and I couldn't stick to it, but here it is:
Breakfast 06.00
6 egg whites and 1 eg... (read in full...)
I promised myself that I won't see him again. How can I keep to it?
Q. I decided not to call him again after he said to me that he didn't want to marry me or see me often. However, i don't know if i can keep this decision for ever. I think that i will change my mind as i am feeling that i miss him. However i don't want ...
A. 12 October 2007: Hi there
You could always try socialising more so that your life is full without him. Join some new clubs and get some hobbies to keep your mind off of him.
Everytime you feel yourself wanting to ring this man could you ring one of your girl... (read in full...)
I got drunk, was told of my behavior, now worried I may ruin trust.
Q. Hai aunty i have a little problem that i need you to help me with.last weekend my friends tolk me for a drink,we hard a nice time there,but as we were comiming back i just herd some rumers that my brother in-laws young cousin was with my frien...
A. 12 October 2007: The best thing I can suggest is to talk to both of them.
Apologise (a lot) for your behaviour and ask them to forgive you and keep it quiet. I expect your cousin will be more than happy to keep things quiet as I don't think she will want your uncl... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want to make love in boyfriends truck
Q. is it wrong of me to want to make love in my bfs truck ? he promised we would but havent yet !...
A. 12 October 2007: There's nothing wrong with wanting to try new things and experiment. I expect it's the thrill of being outside and perhaps getting caught.
But remeber it illegal to do this outside and it won't be quite so exciting if you do get caught. Emba... (read in full...)
Should I confess to my husband that I once had an affair during our marriage?
Q. Hi. Is it good to confess to my husband that I once had an affair with another man during our married life? Or should I just forget it? I stopped it, anyway....
A. 11 October 2007: By telling him you will end your marriage as you know it. It may even be the end of your marriage period.
Everything will change between you. He will probably not trust you again for a long time - if ever.
What was your reason for the affair? ... (read in full...)
Anyone had A.D.D. as a kid?
Q. My sister insist that my child has A.D.D. Whenever I tell her he doesn't seem to be based on the signs which I've Googled. She says I just don't want him to be. I don't want to get him tested,because there are no real test. I think a huge part of ...
A. 11 October 2007: My six year old has ADHD and I knew from a very early age that there was something different about him.
He didn't sleep very well, was always running and was never tired no matter what physical activity we did. He also didn't like to sit down to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a threesome. I want to do this for him, but how do you organize something like this?
Q. Hi My bf and I have been together 18months and are happy he is older then me (he is 31 and im 24) and for this reason and others he seems to be the more outspoken one and I am the one who is lead I kinda prefere to just blend in whereas he likes...
A. 8 October 2007: There are sites on the internet where you can talk to people who are interested in being 'the third person' that way you all know the score. Doing it with a friend will have complications - even if you only ask them it can cause friction if they ... (read in full...)
How can I nicely ask my girlfriend to shave her pubic hair?
Q. How can I ask my girlfriend nicely to shave or trim her pubic hair? How do I bring it up? How do I say it so that she doesn't get mad?...
A. 8 October 2007: You could try suggesting that you do it for her. My husband always shaves me - but I insist that he is shaven nicely too. Remeber that no-one really likes hair down there so if you want her to do it you've got to be willing yourself.
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Please could someone out there give me some advice whether to finish with my current boyfriend and get back with my ex or stay with him...
Q. Help. I'm currently in a relationship with my boyfriend and we have been together for 9 months now. Latey we are arguing quite a lot. Since we've got together his family have treated me outstanding as if I'm one of them and me and his sister have ...
A. 20 September 2007: Hi honey I would say that neither of these guys sound's right for you. Waiting around until a boy dumps his girlfriend to be with you is not a good thing to do. If he's cheated on her with you - he may cheat on you with someone else. And if he ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him that for 10 yrs I never stopped thinking about him and I want to try again?
Q. i have a first love come back into my life after 10 yrs. i'm separated from my daughter's father we remain close and even were intimate after the separation a few months ago. my first love and i have been communicating for a month now and he's com...
A. 20 September 2007: What have you got to loose by telling him? I say go for it. He obviously has some feelings for you else he wouldn't want to meet up with you after all this time. I say go for it!! Good luck... (read in full...)
My friend got back w/ her abusive ex and said we can no longer talk! I'm tired of her getting hurt! What can I do now?
Q. I need some advice on dealing with a friend and her boyfriend. First some background info: I met her at a church we were attending when I was 14 and she was 7 in 1994, I'm now 27 and she's 20. When we met we hit it off instantly and we were like ...
A. 14 September 2007: I'm sorry you're going through this. I don't think there is much you can do though.
You can't make her leave him and she obviously can't help but love him and hope that he will change.
She is probably scared of this man and knows that if he catch... (read in full...)
Is it ok to mess with other girls when she's in college?
Q. It's very hard to see my girlfriend in college while I'm still in high school and I'm feeling extremely lonely. If you love someone, is it ok to mess with other girls when she's in college?...
A. 14 September 2007: Think about how you would feel if she was to mess around with other guys behind your back. That's how she would feel if she found out. If you can't stay faithful then the relationship is not going to work. That's why long distance relationships ... (read in full...)
He claims his ex is the only person he has loved, we're in the honeymoon stage now, but the ex is being disrespectful to my relationship with him!
Q. Ive been seening my guy for a few months now. Its the honeymoon stage. Although technically we are an unofficial couple, we have a great connection, tend to be inseperable and generally drive each other crazy in a good way. Also note that he is ...
A. 10 September 2007: Hi There
It sounds like his ex is really jealous about your relationship. I think she liked the idea of him pining for her after they split up and now that she knows that he is really interested in you is doing everything in her power to make him... (read in full...)
Whenever I masturbate I can never orgasm or cum....
Q. Whenever I masturbate I can never orgasm or cum.... why not...? I tried looking at porn and imagining things but it just won't work... I always lay down and that helps a little from anything else but whenever I feel just a little away from an ...
A. 7 September 2007: Are you worried about being caught? This can be a problem if you still live with your parents or with other people. Just try to relax, get a lock on your door if you can or make sure that no-one is expected home. Hope this helps.... (read in full...)
When we were doing it I made a horrible 'windy' noise from my privates...
Q. Last night was so embarrassing!!! I stayed over my boyfriends (I've been with him a month) and when we were doing it I made a horrible 'windy' noise from my privates - I was so embarrassed and he stopped and didn't really know what to say!! I'm so ...
A. 7 September 2007: Perfectly normal hun. It happens to most of us. You could try using some KY as this reduces it.
I know it's really embarrasing at the time esp with someone you have only been dating a month but you'll both get over it. I'm sure he'll still like you ... (read in full...)
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