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Hello! My name is Emily, I'm 16 and I'm in a relationship.

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If a guy is into you...wouldn't he text you a lot!?

Q.   its been just a week and i have been seein a younger guy (14 years) he is so sweet and attentive when i see him and says he wants to see how things go, but when we r not together he is very quite maybe a couple of texts a day, if a guy is into (like ...

A.   11 May 2009: My boyfriend hates his phone, and so he hates texting! I used to get paranoid about it and think maybe he just doesn't want to text me, but I asked him why and he said it's because he hates his phone, which is understandable after I tried texting ... (read in full...)

Should I ask him out or wait for him to make the first move?

Q.   Okay, so basically. I like this guy who's my friend, but I kind of like him as a boyfriend, we've dated twice already and I am wondering if he likes me back because he always lets me choose the topic of conversation and he's always calling my name ...

A.   11 May 2009: I'm in a relationship with my best friend at the moment, it's the best thing in the world! But could go horribly wrong, which I understand. You should talk to him if you're serious about being in a relationship with him. If not, just stay friend... (read in full...)

I have no more tears and I'm heartbroken! How long should I wait for him to call? .

Q.   Hi after 2 weeks I have not called my ex boyfriend. I have good days and then I have bad days. I'll briefly explain what happened. I dated my guy for 3 years, there have been good times and there have been bad times. But at the end of the day, we ...

A.   11 May 2009: As the saying goes, 'once a cheat, always a cheat'. This man sounds like a prick and takes the best out of people, like he took your trust and basically threw it on the floor and trod on it. You deserve better than a monster like that. x... (read in full...)

My life story

Q.   Ok - where to start. In 1995 I feel in love with the girl I was dating. We went out for about a year before she ended it. She wanted to be friends and I respected that, but I did send her letters at first saying I love you, and regardless of where ...

A.   11 May 2009: That's a very sticky situation! You must be a bloody good guy to have had 2 women want to marry you! So, basically, your old love is back with you after ignoring you for years/or showing little interest - the could have done this to try to prove ... (read in full...)

Is she pregnant?

Q.   Hey everyone my friend and I are a bit confused and need a little help she had sexual intercourse without protection in February but had what seemed like a period took a pregnancy test and it was negative then bled again in March but in April had no ...

A.   11 May 2009: My friend has this problem, she uses condoms but when her period is late she worries she's pregnant. The more you worry, the later your period will be as it changes something to do with your period. If the pregnancy test said no, then there's the... (read in full...)

I went and spoilt it all by saying something stupid....

Q.   i've been dating this guy officially for only a little more than a week, but we've liked each other for a long time. he is very open and affectionate with me and is always telling me how much he likes me. this weekend i accidentally let is slip out ...

A.   11 May 2009: I've been in a relationship for 5 month (on friday haha) and my boyfriend told me he loved me after about a month, but the first time he said it I didn't say it back. I said what your boyfriend has said, 'i don't say it easily'. It's a brilliant ... (read in full...)

Is she a total slut? Or just desperate for attention?

Q.   So I've been seeing this girl recently who I really like and who really like me back. We are in a semi-serious relationship in which we are pretty devoted to eachother but not entirely yet. I'm finding out increasingly that we may not be the best ...

A.   10 May 2009: She sounds like a slut, but, she could just be craving and wanting the attention. Do you give her enough attention? Tell her you fancy her etc? If not, that's probably why she's going to other men, because they prove they like her in that way and ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend thinks it would be a turn on to watch me having sex with our dog!

Q.   Hi everyone, I am 26 and have been with my current bf for almost 3 years. We have a great relationship, he is perfect in many ways. We get along great and have a great sex life. We are both very open at trying new things sexually and I will admit ...

A.   10 May 2009: That's sick & abnormal - if he's being serious. Maybe try watching porn or jazzing things up in a different way; having sex with animals is neither safe or normal. Good luck! x... (read in full...)

Should I have sex ?

Q.   i'm a 15 yo virgin and i want to have sex by two reasons 1. most of my friends say that sex feels very awesome and it's wasting time if i'm a virgin 2. one day i will have a girlfriend but if i find out that she lost her virginity when she was 15....

A.   10 May 2009: I think you're being very immature if I'm honest. You're obviously not emotionally or mentally ready to have sex, so it would be stupid if you just did it for the sake of it. Would you rather wait and find the right girl for you, or waste your vi... (read in full...)

I'm over him... so why does my heart still race when I talk to him? I can't understand it!

Q.   I'm 14 nearly 15 and for about 2 years I really liked this guy but a lot happened, we never went out and we stopped talking. I got over him and started going out with someone else. We dated for 3 months and have recently broke up. Me and the fir...

A.   8 May 2009: I had the exact same problem, dating someone else and pretending you're over him doesn't help! If anything it makes it worse because you find yourself thinking about it a lot more than you usually would if you was in a relationship. You need time ... (read in full...)

I'm confused! He keeps asking me to have sex with him

Q.   i dont regret this, but i think i do :S i no this boy 'c' and he was really sweet to me. so after about 6 months of talking to him on msn, i decided to meet him. he only lived araound the corner from me so it wasent that bad. but the first time i m...

A.   8 May 2009: I wouldn't meet him again if I was you. It's disrespectful how he's basically used you for sex. If he went sour with you because you wouldn't have sex with him then that was the time you should have walked away, he's bad news for you and you deserve ... (read in full...)

We aren't together but he sure shows signs that he likes me

Q.   Ok lets say i a guy showed he liked you, used to stare at you loads and just really showed it and you coul sense there was something there. Then someone got jealous and so turned people against me which made people think i wasnt a nice ...

A.   8 May 2009: I spent 4 years wasting my time on a lad (my age, from my school) I told him i was in love with him numerous times, he said he loved me, not that he was in love with me. I loved him as a friend & I was pretty obssessed with the idea of being in love ... (read in full...)

Co-worker friend bi-sexual and making comments

Q.   so i recently began a new job at a grocery store. I have became friends with some people that i work with which is natural. I have been working here for about a month and i discovered my friend "michelle" is bi. She recently told me that "you can't ...

A.   8 May 2009: I have a lesbian friend & nearly 2 & a half years ago she confessed to liking me. I told her I like our friendship as it is & I'm not at all interested in dating or flirting. As soon as I told her she apologised for making me feel uncomfortable & ... (read in full...)

Proof of looks...

Q.   I have met a guy online and have been talking to him for two months. He lives 500 miles away. He said he is interested in me, but doesn't ask anything about me. He keeps asking for nude pics and I always say no. Once I asked him if seeing me nude ...

A.   8 May 2009: If he is truly interested in you why does it matter what you look like naked, or at all? You could always be friends, if you're not attracted to each other & actually have something in common; but by the sound of it he doesn't respect you, he does... (read in full...)

Should I just kiss him?

Q.   ok i kiss my boyfriend and im not sure how i should kiss him again! cause i just went to the carnival and well i was with my b0oyfriend and then he kissed meh and well im not sure if i just go up to him and kiss him or if i kiss him when i leave can ...

A.   8 May 2009: If he kissed you at the carnival, making the first move this time might re-assure him that you are also willing to put the effort in; so yes, I would kiss him first this time :) However, if he meant it in a friendly way, I wouldn't kiss him unle... (read in full...)

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