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writes:its been just a week and i have been seein a younger guy (14 years) he is so sweet and attentive when i see him and says he wants to see how things go, but when we r not together he is very quite maybe a couple of texts a day, if a guy is into (like he says he is) then would u not want to text, chat and see each other when ever u got the chance ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): well no neccesarily...
he just might not be the texting type.
us girls over analyze everything.
but if the boy is so into you in person and not as much in txt i dont think its a problem.
ive been in that situation.
boys are just oblivious:]
dont worry:]
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys........but we have not made any plans to meet up again yet as he has a very busy week, i however would see him as much as possible lol, how many times a week should we meet to move forward ??
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (11 May 2009):
 Women are definitely more into the idea of instant communication than guys are. Think of the classic scenario where a woman is always asking how a guy feels, or what he's thinking, and his responses are usually short and not very in depth. Just because we have a new technology, it doesn't mean guys are magically going to take advantage and communicate more now than ever before.
I know many guys who hate texting conversations, and just don't see the need for an electronic leash. Perhaps that is how he feels. It's nothing against you, he just doesn't see the need to text when he could call, or when he knows he'll see you later anyways.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (11 May 2009):
 You may want to read this: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-dont-boys-reply-to-my-texts.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): If a guy likes you, he'll want to be around you a lot and make plans with you. Texting doesn't really count for much.
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reader, Ms.Helper +, writes (11 May 2009):
 My boyfriend hates his phone, and so he hates texting!I used to get paranoid about it and think maybe he just doesn't want to text me, but I asked him why and he said it's because he hates his phone, which is understandable after I tried texting off of it! Haha.Maybe you should meet up more instead of texting, remember if he's younger he may not want to be as committed as you and go out with his friends, most younger men get paranoid about their friends thinking they're 'under the thumb' too, so maybe he's texting you less because of his friends too.Good luck :)x
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reader, sugar_sugar +, writes (11 May 2009):
 It's been just a week? A couple of texts a day is more than most guys would do after that short period of time.A guy may be very into you and still have other hobbies, obligations and priorities, especially given it's only been a week!If I were you I would relax, enjoy the situation for what it IS, not what you want it to be.
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