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I'm over him... so why does my heart still race when I talk to him? I can't understand it!

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Question - (8 May 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I'm 14 nearly 15 and for about 2 years I really liked this guy but a lot happened, we never went out and we stopped talking. I got over him and started going out with someone else. We dated for 3 months and have recently broke up.

Me and the first guy are talking again but the thing is whenever I talk to him or he aknowledges me in any way I can feel my heart race but I'm over him.

I have no idea what's going on and its confusing me.


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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009):

i think deep down u still love him

u might love ur bf but maybe u have a little

crush on this guy

try going out and meating new people u will soon forget

about him

there are loads of nice guys out there

u will eventully get over him

dont worry

good luck findin someone else xx

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A female reader, Ms.Helper United Kingdom +, writes (8 May 2009):

Ms.Helper agony auntI had the exact same problem, dating someone else and pretending you're over him doesn't help!

If anything it makes it worse because you find yourself thinking about it a lot more than you usually would if you was in a relationship.

You need time away from him, or a new hobby, something to take your mind off of him.

I wrote all the bad things about 'my boy' and all the good things. The bad things list was a lot longer than the good things, and eventually (after 4 years) I realised he's an immature lad and needs to grow up, but even now i get butterflys when i see him, silly eh? Let me kno how the list comes on if you decide to try it out :)x

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A female reader, Heartbroken-xx Canada +, writes (8 May 2009):

Obviously, your not over him. A part of you

still feels that way about him, maybe now your chance

if your interested.. don't let it pass by

good luck


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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009):

maybe u still have feelings for this guy. ur age range is 13-15 so im thinking u might have fell for this guy kinda hard. just take some more time getting over him. dont think u have to try to be with him because u feel this way. u guys broke up for a reason. u are young. have fun. meet different people. eventually, ull get over this guy

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (8 May 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntIts just because you're not over him fully! You need a little longer to distance your emotions from him! X

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