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Should I break up because of a sparkless kiss?
Q. I haven't kissed my boyfriend because I'm nervous. I won't feel the sparks like eveyone says, I really like him honestly I don't want to wreck it with a kiss and I don't want him to end it because I'm a bad kisser. I never kissed anyone so how do I ...
A. 1 March 2009: First, take a nice deep breath. There's no reason to stress over something that hasn't happened yet and you don't really know when it's going to happen either. A first kiss is something that you usually don't plan - it just happens at the right ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him how I feel and maybe he admits he likes me too?
Q. Ok, so heres the thing... umm im totaly crushing on a guy, uhh the thing is i think he likes me to, but he wont admit it, i want to tell him how i feel and then maybe he'll admit it too, but i just dont know what to say or do D: HELP...
A. 25 February 2009: well, think about it. what have you got to lose? you only live once!... (read in full...)
Valentines Day Opinionaire...
Q. Quick Question for Valentines Day... I have been taking a poll on peoples opinion on valentines day and I'd really appreciate any answers I can get. Is Valentines day to you a holiday to be embraced and celebrated, or is it strictly re...
A. 15 February 2009: i like it. its fun. i think it should be embraced. ... (read in full...)
What does he mean by "dress up nice"?
Q. What does it mean when a guy says to dress up nice? What should I wear? ALSO I need sights with easy but nice looking hairstyles to wear out that aren't too hard.. Preferably a sight with step by step instruction and curled hair. But whatever. ...
A. 10 February 2009: http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Cute-Everyday-Hairstyles this site has some ideas. and with the "dress up nice" i would say dont wear jeans, maybe a cute dress or nice shirt with some pretty jewellery, but not over the top. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend fingers me regularly ,but sometimes I start bleeding...Why ?
Q. my boyfriend fingers me regularly but sometimes i start bleeding. i know its not my period because its regular ands not due and the first time i didnt care cuz that was when he broke my hymen. whats going on? is something wrong with me?...
A. 22 November 2008: it could be a bacterial growth in the cervix, go to a doctor or have someone take a look inside if u have a speculum, there will be a brown ring at the entrace if its infected the inside of the vagina is also very weak so long/sharp fingerna... (read in full...)
I'm worried about travelling with her family - is this normal?
Q. Alright. Well first, I have to tell you that this is about my girlfriend and me having not really problems, but my head is twisted. Okay. I am only 13 years old, she is 14. She asked me to go back to both of where we are from. This is overseas a...
A. 21 November 2008: just be polite, dont say or do anyhting innapropriate and just be yourself. and dont try too hard lol... (read in full...)
Can I ask my boyfriend to marry me while he's getting divorced?
Q. Can I get engaged while going through divorce?...
A. 20 November 2008: well he is probably going through a tough time right now with his divorce so you may want to wait some time until you get engaged, until things become more steady and the divorce is behind him. hope this helps.... (read in full...)
Male/Female Masturbation: Double Standards
Q. This isn't really a question, but a comment that I'm interested in seeing people's thoughts on. This is about male/female masturbation. My girlfriend woke up in the middle of the night and couldn't sleep. She tried to wake me up but apparent...
A. 20 November 2008: hm, if anything, women deserve this "double standard" or whatever. if you think about it, a girl who sleeps with a bunch of guys is considered a slut, but a guy who does the same thing is considered 'lucky" or 'cool'. this is just my opinion, maybe ... (read in full...)
How can I answer them when they say horrible comments about my girlfriend?
Q. Hey all! Me again, so me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 years. Everything's been going great and whatnot but I recently started high school, the thing is, people.... are just....assholes. Since the first time I've gotten with my ...
A. 20 November 2008: thats really sweet how much you care for your girlfriend. don't let these comments affect how you feel about her. whenn people insult or tease you, you can just act totally neutral and say 'get over yourself" or "did i ask for your opinion?" stuff ... (read in full...)
Caught my daughter masterbating
Q. I caught my daughter masturbating at her room with a dildo,and she was orgasming, she then noticed me and went to the bathroom crying. What should I tell her?...
A. 16 November 2008: tell her its totally natural and that you are not surprised at all. act casual about it, and tell her how it is normal and that you will knock next time. :)... (read in full...)
I've got the Christmas blues and it's not even December...
Q. Dear cupid, I'm 14 and I have no idea what to get my boyfriend for christmas. we are currently at the 3 month mark but by christmas we'll be in to 4. I want something meaning full but not completely mushy. from, Christmas blues...
A. 13 November 2008: i am clueless about what to get guys, but you can always get him an itunes gift card or music store gift card or something from a place he really likes, and give him a really sweet card that isnt over the top. make sure you add xoxo!... (read in full...)
My stupid ape-looking boobs
Q. Well me and my boyfriend have been getting pretty far in our relationship, sexually wise. On our last make-out session, we both took off our shirts. He wanted to take off my bra. I told him no because I'm not altogether comfortable with the way my ...
A. 13 November 2008: do not look at porn! those boobs are not natural! if hes a good guy he will be lucky to get to see them and is probably really excited! but dont do anything you dont want to do, and dont rush!... (read in full...)
How can I let him know that I like him?
Q. Hey, I really really need some help. I am totally head over heels for this guy I know, he's only a couple of months younger than me, and totally gorgeous. He's got a lovely personality and a great sense of humour. He's tall, dark and handsome, with ...
A. 12 November 2008: try getting his email and talking to him on msn if he has it, and then meeting up casually to see if you hit it off. hope this helps, i have been in similar situations! xoxo ... (read in full...)
I think my doctor took my virginity! Should I press charges?
Q. i think mydoctor took my virginity!i was a virgin and i went to the doctor for a pap spear and a swab exam.when I told the doctor to be gentle because i was a virgin his whole facial expression changed.he was going to fast.he didn't care if i was ...
A. 12 November 2008: he didnt take your virginity, his penis did not go inside your vagina. i think you should tell your parents or press charges, because you were in pain and this is a form of molestation. good luck :)... (read in full...)
I am fourteen, and I masturbate every day, is this normal?
Q. Hi im 14 years old and i masturbate everyday. I was wondering if its normal. For some reason im always dreaming and thinking on watching my classmates naked. Is this normal?...
A. 5 November 2008: totally normal. just do it in private!... (read in full...)
My sister likes my ex, but I still have feelings for him.
Q. What should I do if my sister likes my ex boyfriend and he likes her but I still have feelings for him?...
A. 1 November 2008: wow. that sucks to be in your position! talk to your sister about it, but sadly, there isnt much you can do but move on. eventually you will get over him and see all of the other great guys out there for you!! xoxo... (read in full...)
My bf thinks I have an eating disorder! What should I do?
Q. So my boyfriend caught me making myself throw up and he freak out. Now he keeps asking me if I have a eating disorder. I mean can make myself throw up without having one. Plus I have a modeling contact and the agency that im with says I to be nee...
A. 27 October 2008: what kind of a modelling agency do u go to? take care of your body, your bf has every right to be worried. good luck... (read in full...)
He used to have chlamydia but he says it's gone now.
Q. This might sound like a daft question but does chlamydia come and go? I know he HAD it, but he said he doesn't now :s does it just go? or does he still have it?? He wants me to sleep with him but I'm really unsure about him although I do like him, ...
A. 23 October 2008: Chlamydial infection is a curable sexually transmitted disease (STD), which can be transmitted
during oral, vaginal, or anal sex with an infected partner or from a mother to her newborn baby during delivery.
When diagnosed, Chlamydia can be easil... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed about my height... I'm so damn short!
Q. I'm 19 and 5'6" tall. I feel so damn short. I used to be pretty tall compared to my class mates just a couple of years ago, now that I meet them on the streets it's surprising how much I haven't grown at all, as people who were shorter than me ...
A. 21 October 2008: 5.6 isnt that short! i dont think a guy would'nt go out with u just because of ur height, and if they did, you dont want to be with them anyways. besides, it proabbly makes guys feel bigger and stronger when they are taller then their girlfriends, ... (read in full...)
What should I do to make my breasts most attractive?
Q. What should I do to make my breasts most attractive???? Secondly, my mom urges me to wear a bra. I don't like it and so does my boyfriend. In this case, What type of bra would you suggest??...
A. 20 October 2008: Wearing a bra is usually a good idea, it gives you a smoother silhouette and more support. If you want your boobs to look bigger, then you may want to get a push up bra, but you should try on some normal ones first. It's good to get them ... (read in full...)
Most friends in my group have boyfriends, I feel like a loner. Any tips for me?
Q. I just dont know what to do. I feel like a loner and I havent ever had a real boyfriend, just 2 elementary school ones. All of the other friends in my group have boyfriends except for the girls who (no offence) have really bad senses of humour and ...
A. 20 October 2008: omg im in like the exact same position! i know how you feel. apparently, when you least expect it, a great guy will come along!
xxx... (read in full...)
Am I about to start my periods?
Q. I am 10 yrs old, I have got a white discharge, pubic hair, even I get sweat in my armpits. Does that mean I am going to start my period?...
A. 10 September 2008: you are just going through puberty. you dont know exactly when you will get your period, but your body is working fine! it may come in a few years or it may come sooner. theres no way of knowing exactly when you will start your period, but i think ... (read in full...)
Can anyone give me information about all contraceptive methods?
Q. Hi I used to be on the pill, because I had heavy periods and stomach cramps. A year after I began taking the pill I found out there was many associated risks, eg. Cancers. So I stopped the pill. Now I have a great boyfriend and am considering beco...
A. 8 September 2008: It is a good idea to use a condom, as they are the only form of contraceptive that protect you against sexually transmitted infections, STI's for short. Using a condom and water based lubricant every time you have sex means you have less chance ... (read in full...)
Why do I keep on getting these bumps after I shave?
Q. I am really worried so any help will be great! Im 15 and have quite a embarressing problem. I shave all my pubes off, as i dont like having hair down there. The other week after shaving a day or two later a hard lump appeared and it wouldt pop ...
A. 8 September 2008: get like a pack of dispoasable razors and change them weekly, and try to keep the skin clean.... (read in full...)
Do guys like curly hair, or should I straighten it?
Q. ok.. so i have pretty long hair. it goes down to my ribs. my hair is naturally very, very curly! usually i just scrunch my hair and work with my curls.. but lately like halfway through the school day, my hair gets very frizzy. it bugs me alot. i ...
A. 8 September 2008: i have really curly hair too. you can just get pretty cheap leave in conditioner, like pantene pro-v intense moisture leave in conditioner is really good. Just vary your hairstyles and straighten it every so often, but just wear it natural most of ... (read in full...)
She's amazing! So why does she want to hang out with me?
Q. I feel like I'm in the shadow of my girlfriend. She's smarter than me, she's more attractive than me---she's even stronger than me! I just don't understand why she'd want to hang out with me when she's so amazing....
A. 7 September 2008: dont wonder why shes with you, just enjoy it and be your best. enjoy having fun together without wasting your time wondering! ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that my two best friends are dating each other?
Q. Hi....My best female friend is dating my best male friend...is there anything i should worrie about? She thinks im mad and He wont talk to me. thanks...
A. 4 September 2008: you shouldn't have to worry.. just let things happen. if they break up then encourage them to be friends.... (read in full...)
I do not like my physical appearance, and I have very low self-esteem, how do I stop thinking negative thoughts, and increase my low self-esteem?
Q. 1st of all id like to ask God for forgiveness for not appriciating what he gave me. Hi im 18 years old and im very slim and 5 feet and 1 inch tall... I really dislike my physical appearance... everywhere I go people ask me if im 12 yrs old or so...
A. 25 August 2008: All girls have problems with their appearance. Sometimes you just need to look in the mirror and say "so what? i am perfect just the way i am" cause does it really matter in the long run? as long as you are happy and healthy thats all that matters. ... (read in full...)
He was smoking behind my back, should I forgive him?
Q. I love my boyfreind and he gave up smoking for me when we started dating nearly 8 months ago.I found out on the weekend that he has been smoking behind my back and didnt tell me. I forgive him because he didnt want to tell me cause he knew i would ...
A. 29 July 2008: help him quit by supporting him, but make sure he doesnt feel like you are controlling him. giving up smoking can be REALLY hard ane he needs ur support. :)... (read in full...)
How can I cope with my terminally ill father?
Q. my dad's going to die within the next year... i don't think i can cope anymore....
A. 27 July 2008: Thats horrible that you have to deal with that at your age. MAke a point to spend alot of time with him, and just appreicate every moment you have with him. maybe use a video camera and take some videos that you can look back on later in life. MAybe ... (read in full...)
I've never kissed. I'm really worried that my tongue is too big...
Q. im really insecure. ive never kissed before and im worried that my tongue is too big. is this a problem for guys. also any first time tips???...
A. 27 July 2008: I don't think its something to worry about. If its fits in your mouth, I don't think it will be a problem! Im sure alot of guys will find it really hot actually! lol... (read in full...)
He says I forced him to cheat because I'm so negative! Is that true?
Q. Little confused, I've been with my boyfriend for about 3yrs we we're livin together but I got my own place because of personal reasons..I don't trust him, cheated 2x with the same girl, we got to an argument and he blurted out that he met a girl ...
A. 27 July 2008: I think you should break it off with this guy, for the sake of you and your kids! You didn't force him to cheat, but you need to get out of this relaitonship and move on. Its not healthy for you, and a bad environment for your kids to grow up them. ... (read in full...)
Should I pursue this online relationship with this girl? We live 400 miles apart.
Q. Hey everyone, I would really like anyones help on this little situation I'm in. A little while back I met a girl online through an extremely large art website (deviantART for those of you wishing to know) so her and I started talking on there...
A. 27 July 2008: I think that you should continue to be friends with her, and get to know eachother better, but not to anything official until you know that you will be able to see eachodther, and go out together. You would hate to find out that you are great ... (read in full...)
I mucked my relationship and friendship up. What do I do for the best?
Q. A few months ago I was caught by my partner sending hot and heavy texts to his bestfriend - who was also my good friend. Nothing happened other than the text messages and my partner and seemed to have gotten over it, but out of no-where tonight he ...
A. 27 July 2008: Why did you send the texts? maybe you need to talk to your partner about why you sent them, was it seroius or jsut for fun? If you were bored with the relationship, maybe you should jst move on or you are just torturing your bf. Imagine if you ... (read in full...)
I'm being bullied again! What do I do?
Q. Hiya... I'm Being Bullied... AGAIN! The real bad thing is that they've started on my mate as well. I used to just ignore them, but today I went to sit with my friends and some not so friends and they told me, quite bluntly, to go and sit somewher...
A. 5 July 2008: I strongly disagree with cupidguy. Do not laugh with them, this is just saiyng that what they are doing is okay. I have tried this method befroe and it NEVER works. You and your friend could maybe just start hanging out just you two, at least yo... (read in full...)
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