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writes:Hey, I really really need some help. I am totally head over heels for this guy I know, he's only a couple of months younger than me, and totally gorgeous. He's got a lovely personality and a great sense of humour. He's tall, dark and handsome, with the most beautiful eyes, I could stare all day at him and not got bored. I've been besotted with him since May this year, and I can't stop thinking about him. I met him through a club I joined.However, a girl joined the club in September and she's so attention seeking, she cries over everything, and everyone makes a huge fuss over her. She told the guy I love that she thought he was making it up about the fact that he lost his parents when he was 5! I really dislike her. I'd say hate but it's a strong word.Anyway, her latest thing is that this guy has been bullying her! I admit that he sometimes can be a little... I dunno, sharp tongued doesn't sound right, and neither does bossy, but he never does or says anything without just cause. She complained to the head of the club, and he decided to suspend him until it was investigated. The guy has now decided that nobody wants him there (which with the exception of myself is probably true as they all take the girl's side) so he's left! We don't go to the same school we don't live in the same town. I want to be with him but I don't even know if he likes me in that way. He's been a great friend, but I want it to be more. I just don't know what to do. I couldn't bear it if I never saw him again and I know I'm going to miss him like hell. He was the one who made the club worthwile, now it's going to be awful and I wish he would come back. Reply to this Question
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reader, samsmommy  +, writes (12 November 2008):
 I think you should tell him what you just told us in the last paragraph, without freaking him out. sometimes people don't realize how important they might be to someone until you tell them. I screwed up a possible relationship a little over a yr ago because the guy didn't know i liked him at all when he was really all i thought about. so do yourself a favor and call him, find him on myspace, anything. Just talk to him and ask if he wants to hang out. If you guys really are friends he has no reason to say no.
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reader, molly4  +, writes (12 November 2008):
 try getting his email and talking to him on msn if he has it, and then meeting up casually to see if you hit it off. hope this helps, i have been in similar situations! xoxo
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