How do I handle inappropriate questions from guys?
Q. Im 14 and at this age guys are complete pervs..They are always asking you to go down on them or to let them fingure you.,,and it feels so weird because sometimes you like the guy thats asking you but u dont know how to say yes with out sounding all ...
A. 28 October 2009: oh my goodness.
you dont answer them at all honey.
your a lady and trust me if you go telling those boys about your body and letting them have a fiddle when your not in a reationship with them they will not have respect for you now or in the futu... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said that if I loved him I would have sex with him! Why cant he respect my wishes and wait?
Q. My bf said if I loved him, if I cared about him and if I wanted to make him happy, then I would have sex with him. Why would he say this? It really hurts for him to say this to me because I DO care, and I do love him and I so badly want to ma...
A. 11 September 2009: And if he really loved you he would wait and respect your choice to wait. dont let that boy force you into enything that you dont want to do honey.
once its gone its gone. x
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I have no experience with men! How do I know what he wants?
Q. Ok I need some tips/help, I am a shy 26 year old who has no experience with guy, I always feel awkward around them but a guy I used to work with has asked me out and I really want to go but I am so shy, we had a kiss at the christmas night out and ...
A. 25 August 2009: go with the flow,let him ask the questions x... (read in full...)
How can I improve my self-confidence?
Q. I believe that most of my problems are rooted in a low self-esteem...I just came out of a 2 day seminar about giving presentations where the teacher gave me a pretty deep feedback in saying I was overall an ok presenter but reminded him of a little...
A. 25 August 2009: you cannot make yourself a strong woman because you are obviously not honey,you are who you are wich im assuming is a shy lady and whats the harm in that? i myself suffer with low self esteem and low confidence but its just something you have to ... (read in full...)
Will I ever feel love for anyone the way I love my teacher?
Q. i used to Love my school teacher, he was everything to me.I thought we were meant to be and i loved being with him he made me feel important and loved, i hated being away from him. Sometimes it would feel like he loved me to i knew it and sometimes ...
A. 12 August 2009: ok.
i remember when i was at shcool at your age.
and i fancied my english teacher he used to make me melt inside but it wasnt "LOVE".
i realized that it was never ever going to happen he had a wife and kids and that he was way older than me.
an... (read in full...)
She's 13 and she wants me to have sex with her!!!
Q. Hi I'm 16 and my girlfriend has just turned 13 but she wants sex! What should I do? Is it ok to have sex with someone that age cos she has kept asking me almost every night for about 3 weeks....
A. 12 August 2009: oh my godness.
she is 13!! and you are 16. MAJOR PROBLEM.
do you know that having sex with somebody under16 is highley illegal.
finish the realtionship find sombody your OWN AGE.
be carfull.
x... (read in full...)
Is a month too soon to tell someone you love them?
Q. Me and this girl i met a month ago have been talking a lot almost every day. well 2 days ago she out of the blue tells me she loves me. I'm like huh? she said i love you. i love everything about u. i like her but can't say love. Is a month too soon ...
A. 12 August 2009: ok if this is her first serious realtionship with someone she is bound to act like this.
and i mean this in the nice possible way but she proberly doesnt love you as much as she thinks she does.
this is proberly sombody learning to understa... (read in full...)
Why didn't I orgasm?
Q. Hello, So this is kind of embaressing really. Im 37 years of age and i have only just lost my virginity to a long term boyfriend because of lots of issues. But, during intercourse i did not orgasm at all? and i didnt feel like it was at all good?...
A. 9 August 2009: yeah thats because only 75% of women do orgasm while having intercourse. x... (read in full...)
Why all the tension???
Q. I dont quite get this. Ok theres a guy in my class and when we're alone we talk fine, we're along some morning if we;re there before the others. However when other people come in the room he goes quiet n doesnt talk to me like he used to. He will ...
A. 28 July 2009: Oh my god!! wake up!! THIS IS A CRUSH.
its so ovious and i can even tell you that and i dont now you.
have a chat with each other about how you feel ect.
good luck x... (read in full...)
Help!!! How can I prove to people I'm not immature?
Q. Hello :) Okay so long story short virtually everyone I know thinks I am immature. I admit, I can be a little silly at times. I laugh at things others don't find funny, for example parts of kung fu panda which I was practically weeing myself over whi...
A. 28 July 2009: im exactly the same honey dont even brake sweat over it.
its just the way you are,YOUR sense of humour!!
if you find little things funny you go ahead and laugh at them,honestly dont prove yourself to nobody,its you and you will be respecte... (read in full...)
One of my daughters lies constantly
Q. I have two daughters who work together. one is a compulsive liar. lies about herself, family and is constantly telling everyone what the other one is up to. the problem is the lies and everyone knows she exagerates and is lying and they make fun of ...
A. 9 July 2009: maybe she has to lie about her life lying can be very addictive its like once she knew that she could get away with doing something she shouldnt be doing maybe she thort:
Ohh lets see if i can fool eny other fools out there?
i suppose its like ste... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and I really want a baby!
Q. Ok guys I know this may seem a little extreme or even stupid, but I am 17 and I want a baby. I have always been obessed with children and in my household sex before marriage is frowned upon. I had sex between 7-10 times and I've been trying to get ...
A. 5 July 2009: well i love children myself i wouldnt say i was obsessed though that sounds a little wrong,why dont you do some kind of child care course like myself..i get to work in a primary shcool 3 days a week with 5 year olds and i cannot wait to do it ... (read in full...)
I do all the work, my partner is lazy!
Q. when having intercouse i feel my partner is lazy wether i am on top /below /front /back i seem to be the one doing all the work we weigh the same and him being a man feel he should be stronger at times i jus dread sex cause i know what the routine ...
A. 29 May 2009: simple answer love.
next time just lay there.
and just think if he wants it..he can come and get it!!
and ur gonna sit back and enjoy the ride.
x good luck x... (read in full...)
Worried about getting braces!
Q. Sorry if this is really long and bores you but I really need some advice. I've had a lisp since I've first learned how to talk, well it isn't a lisp it's with my t's and d's and I use the roof of my mouth to say them and not the back of my teeth but ...
A. 29 May 2009: And dont listen to all this crap about people pickin on you and that they hurt because they really dont.
belive me if you can belive a stranger hahh.
honest theyre a piece of cake.... (read in full...)
Worried about getting braces!
Q. Sorry if this is really long and bores you but I really need some advice. I've had a lisp since I've first learned how to talk, well it isn't a lisp it's with my t's and d's and I use the roof of my mouth to say them and not the back of my teeth but ...
A. 29 May 2009: hi.
just to let you now im 17 and i still have brace my teeth were over crowded but my next app will be to have them removed and i tell you what i can put simon cowells teeth to shame now :) mine are PERFECTION at last.
Of course u can kiss wit... (read in full...)
How important is it that a girl is pretty?
Q. i`m wondering how important it is that a girl is pretty? i`m a 17 year old girl, and i have never been in a relationship. i`m really ugly (people have called me man-face and so on) and fat, and have no selfesteam what so ever. i feel really alone, ...
A. 29 May 2009: Oh my god!
do not let enybody judge you and call you those things.
you do not have to be hot to have a boyfreind ATALL.
and because these people call you nasty things and that it doesnt mean you actually are ugly,your not going to please every... (read in full...)
My son is breaking my heart!
Q. My son just turned 21, and simply has no time for me. Or should I say it is a real effort for him to go anywhere with me. This saddens me so deeply. I did the stupid thing and gave him everything not only money but so much love. His friends ...
A. 23 April 2009: This wont help much But Heres a little quote i picked up before:
"your daughters are your daughters for life,but your son is only your son untill he finds a wife".
If you cant make eny sense out of that??
... (read in full...)
The way I look is holding me back in life!
Q. Hi I'm 19 and I've never had a boyfriend. I've wanted one since I was 11, but its never happened for me. I've read through the other 'never had a boyfriend' questions and read the advice... I have plenty of male friends (probably more than...
A. 23 April 2009: Youu dont have to be preety to have a boyfreind!!
there are men out there who like personality best.
and you arnt helping the situation very much in thinking your ugly.
your waking up every morning with negative thoughts,wich proberly means that y... (read in full...)
How can I feel sexy?
Q. i am not fat bt i do hav a bit of a belly if u know what i mean and i have small boobs. my bf sed i am his ture love and he loves my body and wouldnt change it, however i dont feel sexy. he says i am bt dont feel it, am willing to let him see me ...
A. 21 April 2009: Give yourself some good old ME TIME. Take a Hot bath. Shave your legs ect. fake tan/Body lotion, (be careful with the fake tan). Paint your toenails and finger nails red. (red's sexy). Blowdry your hair and straighten it. Apply make up. (smoky ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to snog...
Q. I am 14 and the guy I like is 16 and I really want to meet up with him and I don't know what to do. It's going to be my first time to kiss someone and I don't know how to snog. Please can anyone help! plzsss... help me! I'll be looking for your ...
A. 20 April 2009: Omg thats brought an awfull lot of memories back.
i was exactly like you at 14.
its easy. thers no rite or rong way.
follow his lead and youll be fine..Honestly.
just follow the pattern kinda thing.
good luck xx... (read in full...)
Is she a total slut? Or just desperate for attention?
Q. So I've been seeing this girl recently who I really like and who really like me back. We are in a semi-serious relationship in which we are pretty devoted to eachother but not entirely yet. I'm finding out increasingly that we may not be the best ...
A. 20 April 2009: her actions towards other guys in the club are not entirly apropriate,especially as shes in a realtionship.
and no affence she proberly did go further with those guys.
i have many mates like that. in a serious realtionship and when we go out we g... (read in full...)
Is he just flirting with me or does he really like me?
Q. Hello, Lately I been going crazy about this boy named JK his same age as me but turning 17 this year and I’m 16. Today I saw him when I was walking to school he kept looking behind to see me and at the end he crossed the road and then looked...
A. 17 April 2009: Mhh.
Well you shouldnt really be getting involved with somebody who is taking skunk. Not a very good combination..ive experienced it,and its not nice.
but if you really do like him that much and you think that hes the best you can do then have a c... (read in full...)
I don't like messing about in class. Am I strange?
Q. I am 15 years old and i guess girls find me weird becasue i am so shy, I heard that is one of the biggest turn offs for women. ok I'm in class right and their are these boys and these girls who piss me off so much. One of the girls happens to be the ...
A. 15 April 2009: Well Im 17.
and i was exactly the same as those "animals" two years back and do you now what?
I regret ever messing around in class.
because if i didnt i would now much more than i do know and i would have maybe gotten myself better grades.
and... (read in full...)
He didn't see the funny side and now is barely talking to me!
Q. I think I've messed things up with my boyfriend and need some advice. We've been dating for 6 months, haven't been intimate yet - just kissing, etc. He's a fairly shy guy but only at first. Last week I came to visit him in his dorm. When I got ther...
A. 15 April 2009: I dont really see the funny side either to be honest.
i wouldnt be to pleased if somebody caught me masturbating.. would you?
Especially if he's still a virgin,he's obviously very shy and embarresed.
id apoligize straight away.
Good Luck
x... (read in full...)
In my 30's and never had sex yet...
Q. OK this is kinda hard to explain... I'm in my 30's and STILL a virgin. This is very embarrassing! and I have to make sure anyone I know never finds out ever! I have had boyfriends but it never goes further than kissing before I then freeze or make ...
A. 9 April 2009: hey now thats a thought becoming a nun??
Nahh just kidding.
so what your 30 and a virgin!! who cares.
not evrybodys expected to enjoy that kinda stuff.
i would suggest having a chat with a real close freind.
or maybe your boyfreind. he seems ... (read in full...)
She's staying in my house, sleeping in my bed but nothing!!!
Q. OK new problem, still a virgin :( but I got this girl staying in my house, I have been friends with her for couple years now, she doesn't want to sleep on the couch so she sleeps in my bed with me, 3 nights now. I tried to make a move but no luck, ...
A. 9 April 2009: Hey Calm down.
You shouldnt even be thinking that way about your freind.
if she trusts you enough to sleep in your bed..respect that she trusts you!! youve made your move and im sure she knows now that if she wants to,your intrested..when shes rea... (read in full...)
I'm afraid getting hurt again
Q. I think i love my boyfriend but I'm afraid getting hurt again. Plus I'm still a virgin and he seems like a horn dog. but i want us to be happy with each other. I really do think i love him but i dnt want to lose my virginity if he going to hurt me....
A. 9 April 2009: do you know what ive learnt not all men/boys are out to hurt you..some do actually like/love youu.
i suppose its like lollipops some are sweet and some are sour..but you dont now wich is wich untill you try them out. Have a good think wheather he i... (read in full...)
Having feelings for someone...
Q. I always thought when someone said they had feelings for someone it meant they liked them as more than a friend? So what's the difference between having feelings for someone (like people say when they like someone) and just having feelings for some...
A. 30 March 2009: ok ill try my best here.
when you have feelings for someone you like you feel like hugging them,touching them and you think about what it could be like if you were boyfriend and girlfriend.
but if its freindly feelings its nothing compared... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks hes a three year old!
Q. Hey all, Well here's the basics im seventeen been with my boyfriend a year, everything has been great until around the end of november. When "the baby voice" came into my relationship. Out of no where my boyfriend started speaking like a baby, it ...
A. 1 February 2009: Hi,Some boys think that girls like to be spoken to like that i remember not so long ago i had a man calling me his baby girl in a babyish voice and i the end i had to tell him to stop and he did he assumed that us girls thought it was sweet..ask ... (read in full...)
Hoe do I figure out if he loves me when he flirts with other girls?
Q. I realy love my boyfriend but he likes to flirt with other girls such as a jealous gal called Ruby(COW)I wish there was a way to make him notice me again. Is there a way to get him to notice me? But what i realy want to know is does he LOVE me and ...
A. 26 October 2008: okey dokey.
first of all that ruby girl is making a fool out of herself. because she knows,he knows and you know that he's with you and not with her. maybe its your turn to start making ruby jelouse by giving him a cuddle and a snog infront of her ... (read in full...)
I am so sick of being the only single one in the group!
Q. I'm so fed up of being alone. Every single one of my mates are either in a relationship or have been in one. I feel so left out of it, yet I just can't find anyone who is interested in me. I know I'm only young, and I'm not asking for some to marry, ...
A. 23 October 2008: Oh Im The Same Only I Didnt slag around lol.
ive onli ever slept with 2 boys (in realtionships).
I dont want to have a go but boys realy dont like girls who are easy! they have no respect unless they want sex!
I agree with the above answer boys ... (read in full...)
How do I get over being afraid of a relationship?
Q. I'm 16. It's been 3 years since my last relationship.I think I'm afraid of being in a relationship. How do I get over it? =\...
A. 23 October 2008: Well My Love Im In Exactly The Same Positon As You.
my last one was three years ago and he treated me so bad that i cannot trust enyone anymore..i have had so many offers that ive refused..im am so affraid.
so id like a helping hand aswell people. ... (read in full...)
What should I do to make this right?
Q. my best friend is kind of obsessed with this guy we go to school with named ''todd'' who's a year older than us and is a sophomore. she knows practically every single thing about him: his hobbies,b-day,class schedule, middle name, everything. well, ...
A. 22 October 2008: Well..were you seeing him before she liked him?
if you were seeing before she started the obsession thats fair enough you had him first and thats the end of it.
however,you should have let her know straight away to back off. just imagine how stup... (read in full...)
We are having a baby through incest - what can I do?
Q. To everyone that doesnt understand, this will seem really wrong but i've been in love with my brother (no not step, my actual brother) for the past 2 years after he helped me get over my cheating ex. At the start i thought it was just an admiration ...
A. 21 October 2008: hey i totally understand honey!
you must be so frustrated right now.
all that matters is that you and baby are ok for the time being.
if you really do love your brother i think both of you should just get away as far as possible from any realitiv... (read in full...)
Why don't my parents like me...?
Q. I'm 13 and the youngest in my family. Sometimes I feel forgotten or like my parents don't really care about me. Throughout my childhood I've always felt different and like I don't really belong. My parents get mad at me easily. I remember when I ...
A. 21 October 2008: ok.
i remember feeling like i didnt belong a couple of years ago.welldone for quiting cheerleading and going for something much more usefull..im sure you'll go far.
welldone for being a straight A student.
you see you have so many good points ... (read in full...)
Girls... -what are your views on male virginity?
Q. A question for females only, what are your views on male virginity?...
A. 21 October 2008: oh my god finally ive come across a male virgin!
i just want to say welldone you!and damn well keep it that way untill you find the right one-trust me,who ever she/he is will respect you much more.
from another virgin.
karma x... (read in full...)
He hardly talks to me at school but is talkative and friendly at snowboarding, why could this be?
Q. I have a bad problem, im totally in love with this boy, he does kind of know it seen as all my friends told him, but this was a few months back. He is really really shy and he is a professinal snowboarder and does not want a girlfriend. Although ...
A. 21 October 2008: Ok sounds very confuzling lol
you said that at snow boarding he talks alot to you.
sound like he is rather comfartable around you,maybe YOU should try asking him whats going on?
you said that he is shy maybe he is nervous of what people will ... (read in full...)
Would it matter to a guy if my vagina area was strange?
Q. basically, there's a guy, and its possible stuff might happen but im sorta worried. like, ive never been past first base before and im worried about my vagina area not being right? like my clits always seem really odd to me, big and sorta shrive...
A. 21 October 2008: ok first of all i think my vagina's strange. But dont we all?? enyways there is NO such thing as "normall".
We are ALL beautifull individuals..& if he really loves he wouldnt care what your vagina looks like.:)
second of all i am still a teen... (read in full...)
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