Why did she contact me all of a sudden?
Q. My girlfriend who last month turned 25 broke up with me over 4 months ago. It was not a bad break up, she felt as if she wasent putting the effort i was in the relationship. I was sad , heartbroken but went on. We dated for 1 year, well I kept busy ...
A. 18 May 2009: i'm sure she called just to hear ur voice..i dont think u should give her a chance at all but of course its only ur choice if u feel like shes not trying then i think u should stop trying too and just move on..if shes drunk and dailed ur number it ... (read in full...)
Best friend troubles after I lied to her, and crush troubles after I told him the truth.
Q. pleasee helpp me out i'm in tearss.few months ago i told my friend this guy liked her while she had a bf and i was joking around.then yesterday i tell her that i was joking and that i like him.and she just treats me diffrently now.shes acting mean ...
A. 16 May 2009: she seemed like she moved on though..and him well i completly changed my mind about him and i was going to tell him yesterday before the class ended but his friend yelled at me to stop looking at him and i knew the jerkk told his friend and the guy ... (read in full...)
Why is he flirting with me if he doesn't like me?
Q. theres this guy i liked since ever we would always flirt but he would always be mean to me saying i should shave my face and i'm effin ugly and i know his joking cuz he always smiles and continues flirting well today i decided that i wantted to text ...
A. 14 May 2009: i didnt talk to him at all..the only time i said a word was before the class ended i said hey and he was like supp and it felt soo weirdd.its almost at the end of the year and i wanna change classes or seats noww..i feel that wat i said was a hugee ... (read in full...)
Why is he flirting with me if he doesn't like me?
Q. theres this guy i liked since ever we would always flirt but he would always be mean to me saying i should shave my face and i'm effin ugly and i know his joking cuz he always smiles and continues flirting well today i decided that i wantted to text ...
A. 13 May 2009: i definitly did the silent treatment but the thing that confused me is that he pretened like nothing happened yesterday.he talked to me a little and i just nodded a few times and talked to a guy next to me.and i had my friends yearbook so at the end ... (read in full...)
I always miss my chance to find love. Is there something wrong with me?
Q. I'm fifteen years old, and I am always looking for a serious relationship. I have only been in two relationships cause I was thirteen. One of them lasted 8 months, and the other one lasted 4. My ex boyfriend and I broke up in January, we had ...
A. 8 May 2009: omg ur the same age as me and u had two relationships and i had none i'm jealous lol.i dont want to sound like everyone else but ur still young ur 15 for god sakes u shouldnt worry about this now..this is the time u enjoy life and happiness wit ... (read in full...)
My ex cheated on me, emotionally abused me, and basically disrepected me, yet I still think about him, will I get over this jerk?
Q. This is a slightly odd and very long story, so please try to bear with me and try to stay unconfused. I also need to tell you everything that has happened within the last two and a half years because my question might seem slightly odd if I don't ...
A. 8 May 2009: i actually took the time to read it and i understood every word..one word i gotta say is his a jerkk.he has a little spell on u that no matter how hard he messes up u always have the heart to forgive him,in ur own life and ur own self thats not good ... (read in full...)
How do I make out? I don't wanna screw it up
Q. ok so I wanna know how to make out. i been with one girl before who said i was good at making out but I don't know if she was being serious or not and that was a year ago. now i have another girl who wants to but i dont want to screw it up. i need ...
A. 8 May 2009: i remember when i got my first kiss it was at a party and i was drunk i didnt know how to kiss it just happened i had no idea wat i was doing and the next day he said i was a good kisser :)..but til this day i'm soo worrried cuz his the first guy i ... (read in full...)
I'm so addicted to him...
Q. Dear Cupid posters, I will break this down so it's not all long and drawn out. In the past all my ex's I have not cared for as much as my new boy friend. I could go a few days without seeing them and hardly even talking to them. But my new boyfriend ...
A. 8 May 2009: try calming urself down a bit..i get ur addicted but if he knew he would probably get a little scared..i get u lovee spending time wit him but remember u guys are not an old married couple u have to have some time wit ur girls u cant be wit him 24/7 ... (read in full...)
Any time I like a guy I'm too shy to ask him out... Help!
Q. Ok, I find that every time I like a guy I can never bring myself to tell him or ask him out. I can't even let my friends do it. If the guy finds out I like him I can't look him in the face anymore. If I find out that he doesn't like me back, I can't ...
A. 8 May 2009: omg i have the same problem i'm soo shy asking that i wait for them and it takess foreverr..but i think that the best thing that will help is feeling comfortable wit urself.and also before falling for him..i think that u should try being friends wit ... (read in full...)
How can I like myself again?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year and I'm soo in love with him, but everything's getting me down lately and he's given up a lot for me and we're getting back on track and things are getting good with him again, Ii just worry I'm not ...
A. 7 May 2009: it seems to me that you dont love yorurself and your not comfortable with your body.. but you should be comfortable cuz everyones a diffrent shape and size and no one looks like those people on tv, theres a chance they actually edit them.. it seems ... (read in full...)
I'm scared the condom will break!
Q. Okay so I'm not on birth control and I want to have sex but I'm a scaredy cat and I'm scared the condom will break but I don't want to get on any kind of birth control. What should I do?...
A. 7 May 2009: well the first question is how old are u.and are u a virgin it says ur 36-40 ..but if u feel like ur scared then maybe its not ur time yet..cuz it may cause some consiquencis in the future..i cant tell u either or not the condom will break cuz in ... (read in full...)
He won't stop drinking...
Q. ok so i am 18 and i have 2 kids, and am now with the guy i had a crush on for 8 years. hes almost everything ive ever wanted sweet, smart,fun but he cheated on me when he was drunk, and i forgave him, except he still continues to drink after many ...
A. 7 May 2009: if ur tired of his drinking just talk to him tell him that u forgave him ones but u dont think u will this time,..tell him its his last chance to make it right in the relationship if u feel that he wont stop then tell him to chose its either the ... (read in full...)
Why is he doing this to me?
Q. There is this guy in one of my classes and I noticed he keeps trying to get close to me. Like he will try to reach over my desk or he brushes up against me. Most of the time there is plenty of room and he doesn’t need to do this. He needed to talk ...
A. 7 May 2009: i think he might like you.. but is shy to talk to you and doesnt know how to start a conversation so his trying to do the silent signs thing but i think you should try talking to him or flirting, theres a few ideas on how to talk to him or at least ... (read in full...)
We passed 100,000 questions published on DearCupid
Q. Today is another milestone in DearCupid history: Over 100,000 questions (100,020 as I write this) have been published! Wow. Thanks to the aunts, the moderators and everyone who shares their problem. As always any ideas on how to improve the s...
A. 7 May 2009: woow thats good u guys..keep helping the people out and anyone wit any problems dont feel scared to ask this is amazing we should go out and celebrate lol jk :DD... (read in full...)
Age..just a number?
Q. i really like this guy- but hes 24 and i'm 14. i know i have to get over it, but i just can't! i try so hard but it doesn't work. I see him all the time, and he acts like its a joke that i'm in love with him when we're around other people, but when ...
A. 3 May 2009: i agree age is just a number but 24 and 14 thats verryyy large and apart..if he isnt confident telling people he likes u then his not worth it.at the age of 14 u may think ur in love just because he's putting the sweatest words in ur ear but at the ... (read in full...)
He was flirting with another girl, what should I do next?
Q. Ok I don't understand my crush at school, i'm pretty sure he likes me, but then today while he knows that he was in my sight he was flirting with the girl that he was sitting with..they were kind of play fighting, I can only think he was trying to ...
A. 3 May 2009: his probably just trying to get ur attention and a little jealous..if u wanna get him jealous loosen up and flirt wit guys around uuu..cuz ones he see's ur at that level he feels like he needs to commpite so he'll come up to u and start talking.the ... (read in full...)
It's driving me crazy..all these worries, no that I am not dating!
Q. Hi! So fed up of everything atm. As i said previously, i broke up with my boyf of almost 6 years five months ago and just felt really crappy for about 4 months. I miss the relationship but wouldn't want to go back to my ex boyf, who's moved on ...
A. 3 May 2009: i feel the same way..breaking up wit someone makes u feel unwanted and unappriciated but when u are wit someone u have someone to hold,kiss,hug,love but dont feel down and stop worring cuz the more u worry the worse it'll get..this is a great time ... (read in full...)
Did he think it was a date or not?
Q. I'm in need of some serious help here. About a month ago a guy messaged me out of the blue on myspace. I didn't really know him, we'd only ever had one class together, but we started talking a lot. He asked me for my yahoo id so we started talking ...
A. 3 May 2009: oh my i've been in this situation also i never knew the guy my sister kinda hooked us up he asked me out and we went to the movies and it just felt like two friends hanging out and now he lost intrest..i honestly think it wasnt a date but idk i ... (read in full...)
My crush!
Q. I have had an on again, off again crush on a girl who has also been my friend since, Elementary school. I remember that in elementary onward i had a HUGE crush on her, and for 2 years she moved and came back and I remember i was sad and missed her ...
A. 28 April 2009: i think shes intrested in u too..shes flirting and showing u some east slow signs that she might be into u too..just go right ahead and ask her out if she says no the worlds still spinnnng but i dought shes going to say that... (read in full...)
If we're just friends, then why is he jealous?
Q. I always seem to be in this situation! This time it’s a guy I work with. He has a girlfriend who he’s been with for 3 years now... but always seems to complain about her, they always seem to be on the verge of breaking up. At work he flirts with me, ...
A. 28 April 2009: it seems like its immature for his age.he complains to u about his gf but maybe to her his all cool and says he loves her.i think his in the point to where he is just intrested in himself and his needs..the best thing u can do is try to talk to him ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and really pickkyy
Q. i'm 15 and really pickkyy.i flirt wit guys its no big deal but the minute i find out that they like me in my mind i'm always like (beep beep beep backing up) and i don't know why...i never had a boyfriend i dont want to tell anyone that because ...
A. 11 April 2009: oh my gosh thats exactly how i feel..i feel like i'm not gonna be good enough..and me never having a bf i dont know how to act or wat he wants to expect from me and thats why i'm running away..cuz i wanna seem like i know wat i'm doing but actually ... (read in full...)
I cant figure him out. Is he a player?
Q. hi i'm 15 and im a sophmore in hs.. i like this guy in my class i think he likes me too but idk why he acts so weird around me..i dont get him so my only solution is this..please dont say i'm too young cuz i'm sick of that crapp.. this guy in my cl...
A. 11 April 2009: i apologize for that..i just feel that when i post a question people don't listen to me they just see the age and judge me by that..i appreciate u telling me that.... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and really pickkyy
Q. i'm 15 and really pickkyy.i flirt wit guys its no big deal but the minute i find out that they like me in my mind i'm always like (beep beep beep backing up) and i don't know why...i never had a boyfriend i dont want to tell anyone that because ...
A. 11 April 2009: its cuz i like chasing the guys..like for an example i like flirting wit a guy and getting him to like me but the minute he signals me that he does like me or he talks me my mind really is beepingg and backing up..cuz I'm always pick on little ... (read in full...)
Will he chose her over me because she is closer?
Q. I am really good friends with this guy but it is long distance. I know he really likes me but he also likes this girl who lives by him. I really feel like I am supposed to be in his life for some reason and want to have a relationship with him. I am ...
A. 11 April 2009: if he likes u..make sure he knows u like him too,then just take it slow..i'm sure if he really really liked u he would choose u... (read in full...)
What do I do on a Prom date? What should I expect?
Q. I need help!!! I just asked a girl to prom (she said yes) and I don't know what to do now. Is it weird to go to prom on a single date? Because it seems like everyone group dates for prom. My date and I are both sophomores and I couldn't find...
A. 5 April 2009: omg thats exactly wat i'm scared of like in my senior year if someone asks me i'm scared too is he gonna come pick me up how am i goonna act..and stuff.i think that u should pick her up wit a lemoo and a group is in there too..then u guys go to ... (read in full...)
Why does he keep staring at me?
Q. Hi. There's this guy at school that i have a crush on. He knows that i like him by some messages i sent him on myspace. But the problem is that he has a girlfriend so i haven't been able to ask him out. So i try to avoid him as much as possible like...
A. 5 April 2009: maybe he changed his mind about him never dating u ..i think that u should test him!!..keep ur eyes off of him,flirt wit guys around him, dont pay attention to him give him the idea of u not needing him in ur life,that ur better off without him.then ... (read in full...)
Let it go or keep chasing it?
Q. i like this guy the problem is i never talked to him in my life..freshman year my friend tried to hook us up but i didnt likie him now i'm head over heals for him..my friend now says i missed my chance and i'm trying to figure out wat shes talking ...
A. 28 March 2009: thanks..i havent seen him in school lately..i'm really hoping he didnt move..cuz that would suckk i mean i didnt even get to know him and he moves away :'(... (read in full...)
I like him and now my friend does!
Q. theres this guy at the begining of the year he was a totall nerd he had short nerd hair and glasses the more i talked to him the more i kinda liked him..noww he changed complettelly he switched to contacts,he has mohakk hair and his soo cutee to me ...
A. 27 March 2009: thanks soo much..i understand wat ur trying to say and i feel like its true..but my bigger question was..is the guy worth this situation or should i just forgeet him??... (read in full...)
I'm shy and don't want to lose my girlfriend!
Q. Am madly in love wit my girlfriend,and we have been goin out for one year but anytime i see her,am usually shy of expressin my love to her,how relationship is getting bored day by day,pls advice me i dont want to be shy any more and am afraid of ...
A. 27 March 2009: i dont understand why ur shy?? if u are in love u would be crazyyy u would have fun every second of everyday are u sure ur in love wit her?? or do u just think.cuz anyone that i know that is in love there crazy and happy and just wanna have fun... (read in full...)
Is there any way I can get her back?
Q. I cheated on my girlfriend around 4 months ago. She found out after reading texts on my phone. I regret what i've done so much and i know i love her but i cant prove it to her anymore. We've been 'staying friends' since, but its on and off. Is...
A. 24 March 2009: just tell her how u feel..the truth..if she doesnt listen she isnt worth it..if ur really sorried then she should forgive u..but if she didnt love u she'll move on fast.... (read in full...)
Is the age difference too much here?
Q. Hi, I'm 15 well 14 but going be 15 in a couple of months or so. Anyway I really like this girl, her name is Bethand, she's my best friend's sister but he wouldn't care if we went out. A lot of other people would: my ex would start rumours about ...
A. 20 March 2009: i think she just might see u as "cute" nothing dateable cuz ur 14! shes 17 good luck wit that :)... (read in full...)
I am afraid of meeting him in person
Q. There's this guy I met on the internet. It was kind of a dating site. He is a sweetheart but I am afraid of meeting him in person. I am afraid because my parents are racists and I know they would not be happy with me dating him. He told me he wa...
A. 19 March 2009: it doesnt seem like u guys have much in common..so why chase him..he seems sweet,but u seem like the party girl it can go only if ur welling to change..i wouldnt worry about ur parents cuz if they meet him and get to know him they will love him cuz ... (read in full...)
My friends think this guy is ugly but I think I'm ugly
Q. hello everyone today i am asking for help i am a 14yr girl and i like this boy his 17 he goes to my italian school the problem is my friends think he is ugly and i am overweight so i always think i look ugly and i dont know what to do please h...
A. 17 March 2009: first of all dont listen to ur friend..if u like someone listen to ur heart..but ur 14 and his 17 so idk how his going to react..when i was 14 i went to a party and made out wit a 17 year old guy..he freaked out when i told him i was actually 14 not ... (read in full...)
Does he miss me?
Q. my ex and i broke up 2 months ago after being together for 2 years. we were very much in love but he has some issues with college and setting goals and i have anger issues. so we would argue a lot but it didnt really get bad until like 3 months ...
A. 17 March 2009: i think he doesnt know wat he wants...i think he wants u and that girl and his work at the same time..his listening to his head and heart at the same time..i think he really does love u just give him time..maybe its going to fast for him so hiss ... (read in full...)
Will it last even though we will not meet for another year?
Q. I'm in love but she lives on the other side of the world. I met this girl a year ago, online... she is so gorgeous, genuine, natural, sexy, she makes me laugh and I want to spend all my time with her. The only problem is that she lives on the other ...
A. 16 March 2009: maybe..it depends if she feels the same way,and if she can make it..if u love her then u'll make it but idk if she will,so be sure..it will last if u work on it and if u want it to..good luck... (read in full...)
Crossing the line?
Q. Hi I have started talking to guy on a social networking site, we have sent direct messages to each other and he has sent me music. The problem is he has a partner and a baby. Have we crossed the line? the whole thing feels rather secretive....
A. 15 March 2009: yea dont flirt or anything wit someone who has a partner and a baby thats crazyyyyyy ur gonna make them break up..and if u do continue just do it in a friendly way..maybe he thinks that u guys sending messages if just in a freandly kinda way..be ... (read in full...)
I got back together with my ex, only to find out he cheated on me. What should I do?
Q. Soo. My boyfriend and I dated for 10Months. We were usually a really happy couple everyone always said how cute we were. We would call eachother in the morning and hang out till late at night, everyday. whenever we got in a fight and i would thin...
A. 14 March 2009: first of all why would u everr ever ever want to be wit someone that treats u like shit and doesnt want u??? if u go back to him and keep trying u will ALWAYs get hurt and u will never move on..u gotta move on his not right for u if he loved u he ... (read in full...)
He lies alot about stupid stuff
Q. Can someone please give me their opinion? I met this boy in my biology class and he is a grade older than me. Hes really nice, and cute.. he always makes me laugh. For months we just talked in school but for the past week we have been texting and on ...
A. 8 March 2009: his just trying to impress u..maybe his joking about saying he was too good for anyone,some guys just like to impress..i think that if u like him u should hang out wit him.but if u feel somethings wrong then dont... (read in full...)
Do men like women who are a little hard to get?
Q. Do guys like women who aren't too anxious to talk with them...in other words those who play a little hard to get more than those who seem like an anxious puppy waiting to hear from them again? Is this a matter of individual preference or it it a ...
A. 6 March 2009: yes they do... (read in full...)
Is he trying to make me feel jealous? Or is it something else?
Q. Hi, Mi name is Sadie. Six months ago I became a counsellor at a camp for kids. I met a boy named Adrian. At first I would pass him straight because I was not interested in him. I was never even aware of his presence in a room. Two weeks la...
A. 2 March 2009: yea but let him go make him seem like ur not intrested,cuz he knows ur still intrested so his trying to get u uninterested because thats wat guys like.they like wat they cant have and he can have u in five seconds (if he asked u out right now u ... (read in full...)
Like me? How do I get him to ask me out?
Q. so there is this guy. he is a senior and i a junior. (high school) we only see each other once a month. he liked me my freshmen year and i started liking him my sophomore year. so this last month we had to o to a workshop sort of thing. we go to a ...
A. 2 March 2009: just ask him out...dont wait for him to ask u out cuz it taakes forever for a guy to figure out that u like him,so i think u should just step up and ask him ... (read in full...)
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