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well what can i say.i always that kind of a girl that would give advice to all my friends and i love it.its usually relationship things so if you have a problem or want to ask me something dont be shy actually ask me

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Like me? How do I get him to ask me out?

Q.   so there is this guy. he is a senior and i a junior. (high school) we only see each other once a month. he liked me my freshmen year and i started liking him my sophomore year. so this last month we had to o to a workshop sort of thing. we go to a ...

A.   2 March 2009: just ask him out...dont wait for him to ask u out cuz it taakes forever for a guy to figure out that u like him,so i think u should just step up and ask him ... (read in full...)

How would I find out her name?

Q.   From when i was about 8 i loved this girl, and same with her but she moved away and i forgot her name LOL anyways i can contact her? and what should i say...

A.   24 February 2009: ask someone who knew her just as much as u did and ask them her name..thats the same thing that happened to me i was like 8 years old i liked this guy but idk his name i think its glen or something hahah..... (read in full...)

Does he genuinely like me?

Q.   There is this guy who I know through a friend and we partied together a couple of times. The first time, we didnt really talk much and I was into his friend and we ended up kissing but he is a player so I think I will leave it at that. I started ...

A.   24 February 2009: i dont think his trying to get in ur pants.i think his kinda into u.if he talked to u that means he wants to get to know u more.and if u fell asleep in his lap he didnt do anything but covered u up wit the blanket so i dont think that he would want ... (read in full...)

We broke up due to the long distance, should I visit her now? She invited me.

Q.   Hey, i feel so pathetic for even writing this message. But the truth is im still in love with my ex. She was my first, so i understand that im going to be caught up for a while, but it has been about 4/5 months now. The only reason we broke up was b...

A.   24 February 2009: if she invited u then u should go.just go and have funn if she didnt feel the same about u then she wouldnt invite u or ask u about ur love life.shes just making sure that u got no one,and i think she wants to make stuff work between u two so i ... (read in full...)

Why is it that people cant just be honest with their partners?

Q.   Why is it that people cant just be honest with their partners? For instance a guy in my gf's class (Im a junior shes a freshman) told me she flashed him on a bus in junior high and this bothered me. FOUR different times it came up and I asked her if ...

A.   23 February 2009: idk wat to tell u but if u lost a little respect for her if u really want her then u tell her,and if she wants to get the full respect bak then u shoudn't break up wit her.but if u dont feel like she'll change or have honestly wit her then let her ... (read in full...)

Does he actually want to brake up with me?

Q.   me and him been going out for 11month's. its going great right now, only that he has been acting a bit different, but its not because of us. (family problems he says). well last night i had a dream about him braking up with me. i was devastated, and ...

A.   19 February 2009: no i dont think he wants to break up with oyu,if he asked you whats wrong it meant he cared..maybe he just needs you by his side, maybe his going through some tough times and has family problems..dont think about this because if he notices your ... (read in full...)

I really like this girl but can't bring myself to talk to her what do I do?

Q.   I am in love with a girl whom I think is just God-blessed in everything she does. School-wise, she's been around since kindergarten, though I hardly noticed her throughout those years. As we became mere high school freshmen in 2004, I began to...

A.   19 February 2009: most girls can be great in school and still party..maybe she wants something out of life in the future.doe he like u back. i think shes ur soulmate,u knew he since kindergarden thats amazingg..and dont be afraid,you'll never get what you want if ... (read in full...)

My friends did the worst thing ever... they told him I like him!!!!

Q.   I really like this guy more than I've liked any one before and my friends went and did the worst thing ever and told him I like him and he said he don't like me but I always catch him looking at me and I've liked him for the longest time and I just ...

A.   18 February 2009: u gotta be friends wit him first..then when he gets to know u he will probably like u back..just be like hey u wanna hang out and say hi...its supposed to be a good thing ur friends going on and telling him,i know u feel a little relieved inside ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my dad?

Q.   Hi, There's this guy that I've recently started having feelings for. I've known him for a few years, but we've started talking more than we used to. I think he might like me too. I see him most days and we flirt with each other a lot, and for the...

A.   17 February 2009: fist worry about the guy...are u sure he likes u..and if u go on a date wit him..tell ur dad,be like dad i dont care wat color or heritage a guy is all that matters is that i'm happy,say things like that..and if he doesnt respect it some how make ... (read in full...)

She's giving me conflicting signals all the time.

Q.   Let's give you a little background, about a week ago the guy she was in love with crushed her by telling her he's done with her, even though they've been broken up for 7 months, in that 7 months he's ignored her w/e. Me and her went out for 2 ...

A.   16 February 2009: if relationship is not what she wants right now then give her time....be friends with her firstt then if you guys feel something there then go out...goood luck... (read in full...)

Why did he call me after all this time? I'm worried he won't call again!

Q.   Hey! Im 19 year old girl and my situation is this...i used to work in hotel with this one guy and i really fancied him and at the time i thought he fancied me too but nothing ever happened so i left work to go to university. I havent seen or heard ...

A.   16 February 2009: have it ever acure to u that he check to see whens ur birthday and ur phone number on the workers list thing i might be wrong though..him calling u in a supprise i think it means he wanted to see if theres any love in ur life or how ur enjoying the ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and my boyfriend (15) wants to have sex with me!

Q.   I need you advice. My boyfriend (15) wants to have sex with me, but I think I am too young. What do you say? I really would like to have sexual intercourse, but I'm not sure whether I am old enough to decide that....

A.   16 February 2009: girl it seems like youre not ready,if ur writing this as ur problem.dont do something you dont want to do cuz u will regret it...tell your bf no sex i'm too young or leave the fella... (read in full...)

He gives off signals of being interested. Is he?

Q.   There's this senior student in our school. When he taught us biology(because it's a practice in our school that senior students should teach freshmen upto juniors, they are like substitute teachers) and i'm a sophomore. that time, there was 3 of ...

A.   16 February 2009: i dont know if he likes you yet...but his intrested,his trying to get your attention...if he aways texts you and says hi to you that means that he is totally intrested..but you need to flirt a little and show him that youre intrested also... (read in full...)

If we were to start anything it wouldn't last, is it worth it?

Q.   I Like this guy who is super cute just seeing him 4 a sec maks me smile n when hes not around i feel really moody n misreble but as soon as i see him i smile and get realllly happy and my friends have noticed as well. hes in the year above me and i...

A.   16 February 2009: he likes you..and you should actually talk to him asking him to hang out..dont use his best mate to get to him,because he might think that you like his best mate...so maybe you should do this all on your own..ask him to hang out,get his number..do ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my boyfriend I let his friend finger me???

Q.   Hey, One day I was at my boyfriends and he introduced me to his best friend. At first I wasn't attracted to him but as time went on I started to like him more and more. A few weeks later we were all under a blanket watching a film and he held my ...

A.   16 February 2009: you honestly should feel bad..you did a horrible thing,if you loved your bf you would never do that to him..making out with his best friend and letting him finger you..youre sooo young you should have some dignity and not come out as slutty...you ... (read in full...)

My b/f? Or my good friend?

Q.   I have no idea what to do! I mean i'm only 14 and i have a boyfriend in Nicaragua who told me he loves me (which i doubt sometimes) and a really good friend...and he told me he loved me...i have no idea what to do! I have a feeling that i love them ...

A.   16 February 2009: i cant tell you which to chose but i can help you think a little better though..it seems like you dont need help at all it seems like you got it figured out..it seems like you want the friend...i mean does your bf even live at the same country as ... (read in full...)

I wanna have sex, but I'm just too scared. Is that normal?

Q.   Eventually I wanna try to have sex but I'm still so young. I would have sex now, but I'm terrified of the condom breaking and I'm too scared to ask my mom for birth control so some of the stress of sex can rub off. I don't know how to handle th...

A.   16 February 2009: i think that u should just wait til ur ready..i know you want to have sex probably because you just wanna tell everyone youre not a virgin so that people dont start freaking out when you say you are..but dont listen to anyone just do it with the ... (read in full...)

Why is phone sex all he wants from me????

Q.   Ok me and this guy have been talkin for awhile but the thing is we never met before because we met online..i'm 18 and he is also 18. We'll be meeting pretty soon.The things that i love about him is his personality and he is good looking, and he ...

A.   16 February 2009: he aint good for you!... (read in full...)

Why is it that people cant just be honest with their partners?

Q.   Why is it that people cant just be honest with their partners? For instance a guy in my gf's class (Im a junior shes a freshman) told me she flashed him on a bus in junior high and this bothered me. FOUR different times it came up and I asked her if ...

A.   16 February 2009: its not a good thing at all,your gf is a liar and she probably will never stop becuase thats what shes born to do...the think i dont understand is why are you with her if she flashed someone i would be pissed and i would never forgive them..i think ... (read in full...)

They say age is just a number so why is this wrong?

Q.   Okay, I'm 13, almost 14, but I am VERY mature for my age. Well, there's this guy, whos name I refuse to mention, and he's freaking amazing. We have so much in common, and he likes me, well, from his behavor I can tell. So, here's my issue, he's 18, ...

A.   16 February 2009: let me tell you a short story about me..i've been in ur situation i was 14 when the guy i was crushing on was almost 19 and about to graduate from high school,and i barely started freshman year....i was at a party and made out with him,lied about my ... (read in full...)

Why is phone sex all he wants from me????

Q.   Ok me and this guy have been talkin for awhile but the thing is we never met before because we met online..i'm 18 and he is also 18. We'll be meeting pretty soon.The things that i love about him is his personality and he is good looking, and he ...

A.   16 February 2009: how do u know his good looking when you never met him before,if you seen the pictures online you never know he might be a weirdoo..i dont think his the right guy for you...if all he wants is phone sex,it doesnt make in a good relationship but to a ... (read in full...)

I can never tell whether blokes like me or want to be just friends!

Q.   hi how can u tell if someone wants to be with you or just mates? I can never tell whether blokes like me. can i have some advice please...

A.   16 February 2009: well there are a lot of signals showing if someone wants to be with you or just be mates.you gotta explain more like wat does he do,does he flirt,ddoes he get jealous,does he get mad when you talk about other guys..theres a lot of ways..but youre ... (read in full...)

Does he still care about me or am I just seeing what I want to see??

Q.   my ex and i have been broken up sence the 3rd of this month but i still love him....recently i feel like he kind of still cares about me but i am not sure. 1. he stares at me in the hallways at school (but not a creepy stare lol) 2. he ta...

A.   16 February 2009: i think he wants you back!! ..he wouldnt act like that if he didnt care..if you still care for him show him maybe you guys might be back together no one knows but time... (read in full...)

Why does he ignore me for so long but then acts like he loves me?

Q.   ive been "together" with this guy for about a year now. hes never made a real commitment to me and we dont consider each other our boyfriend or girlfriend. i just turned 18 and hes 21 so its hard for us to hangout on weekends and stuff bc im at p...

A.   16 February 2009: hmmmmmm i really dont know...i think that when his wit his friends and is having a great time thats when he forgets you..but when his lonely and really wants someone to kiss i think thats when you come in..you guys should talk about it and if you ... (read in full...)

I think I'm falling for my best guy friend!

Q.   Well, basically, I've been such good friends with this guy for ages and ages, and well I think I'm starting to really fall for him, so I got two questions really; - how do I know it's that I'm falling for him or if I just think of him as a good fri...

A.   14 February 2009: i honestly think that if u want a really good relationship it starts with friendship..and u guys already have that..so go ahead flirt a little give him signs u never know maybe his into u too... (read in full...)

How do I convince him that he's the only one for me?

Q.   my boyfriend is afraid that i'm gonna find somebody better than him when i go away to college. how do i convince him that he's the only one for me?...

A.   9 February 2009: tell him no matter how far away we're gonna be i'm gonna always love you and i still want you in my life.... (read in full...)

Whyy am I still single??

Q.   i'm 15,i'm a sophmore in high school and i was wondering.is it normal to never have a boyfriend.i mean i've been on a date,i've been kissed,i've done hook-ups,but i never had a boyfriend and i really wanna know why probably because. i always flirt...

A.   1 February 2009: i meant by i'm really picky if i like someonee and i find out that he likes me too i pick something i dont like about him,and somehow my brain is like his no good he saw that wrong wit him..its soo frusturating.i'm soo picky and i hate it i really ... (read in full...)

Two guys--not sure which one is real

Q.   i am 15 years old i've never had a boyfriend everr only 4 people know that the rest of them i lie to.i like these two guys and i dont know who to pick.i'm really shy but when u get to know me i'm really outgoing,and funny 1) his really shy and h...

A.   1 February 2009: he thanks for the help..but umm the first guy doesnt want to talk to me anymore cuz he says that i was mean to him cuz i ignored him but i didnt mean to,i was just soo confused that i needed my own space..and now the second guy says he likes me i'm ... (read in full...)

I think he likes me but I'm not sure

Q.   please help me? i like his boy for about two months now, and he likes me as well, i think. we have went out before but about four times. he says to all his mates that he really likes me but to my friends he says he doesn't. but i think he does ...

A.   29 January 2009: i think he does,he just wants to play hard to get lol..dont let him win..he thinks its cute and flirty when one day he talks to u the next he just smiles thats how it is wit me all the time dont let him win do the same..he'll realize he really does ... (read in full...)

I want to have a good conversation but don't know how?

Q.   today at school i kinda played around and talked to the boy i like.Realy, i want to have a good conversation with him but i dont know how. i want to ask him who he realy feels about me.How do I talk to him?...

A.   29 January 2009: u should tryy friends first like "hey did u do the yesterdays homework"? then later ask for his number as friends and as the time goes on flirt with him look him in the eye when u talk to him,touch his arms stuff like that..then ask him who he ... (read in full...)

I don't know if he has a crush?

Q.   ok, there is this one guy at my school, he is 15 and im 13 (dont question this just answer i know what yall think about 13 and 15 year olds in 8th grade) and we live in the same neighbor hood ok? so me him and my cousin hang out all the time i used ...

A.   22 January 2009: i think he likes u but doesnt want to show it to everyone..he wants to give u signs only,without his friends knowing.maybe u should get to know his friends.does he say hi to u in school?if he doesnt then his embarassed to be seen wit u kinda effed ... (read in full...)

I've been crying myself to sleep at night overthis

Q.   Okay, iv been with this guy for WAY over a year, but we arent dating like boyfriend girlfriend thing. He's 17, im 14, and I know how adults think us "kids" are to young to be in love. But truth be told, I defenitly know I am. He's generous, he makes ...

A.   21 January 2009: please dont say u want to kill urself..give him time he will realize wat his missing out on..dont cry urself to sleep because of this..have u ever tried talking to him telling him that she threatened u.u will get him to come back onlyy if its meant ... (read in full...)

Confused and don't know who I want to be with.

Q.   I moved to tucson in february of 08. and immediately after i met this boy who is now my bestfriend. i have always had a crush on him and i recently found out that he feels the same about me. only reason we have never told eachother i guess is ...

A.   21 January 2009: um maybe u should think about this.who makes u laugh and smile 24/7.i usually think that when u have a bff from the opposite sex it actually means u guys are soulmates cuz u guys know EVERYTHIING there is to know about each other and it makes the ... (read in full...)

Can anyone tell me what the hell is going on?

Q.   i cant understand whats wrong with me. im not like other people who have a bad outlook on them selves. i dont nitpick about my appearance, i know im not a bad looking guy, i work out hard, im strong and in top physical condition. i have a good ...

A.   21 January 2009: maybe u should take a weekend of ur work..get out wit ur friends and partyyy..it honestly seems like u got the whole world planned for u and u know wat u want.maybe women and scared of that.cuz women want to have fun and do hook-ups..try asking one ... (read in full...)

Do you think maybe he likes me?

Q.   I am 20 years old and there is this guy who works at the same place as me but in a different department, who is 22 years old. I always catch him staring at me, and when we talk he looks right into my eyes. Whenever I walk past him, his eyes fo...

A.   19 January 2009: Yes, there's a biggg possibility that he actually does like you. Ask him if he's single. Flirt with him a little. See where things go. Ask him on a dater, or maybe you guys can hang out.... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend, but he does not want to work, or go to school, he plays xbox 360 all day long, I am 18, he is 20, what can I say to motivate him to do something with his life?

Q.   well im 18 and i have a bf thats 20.I love him alot but the thing is that he doesnt work and doesnt wanna go to school or like basically do anything..All he does is play on xbox 360 the whole day.. 1.How should I tell him to do something with h...

A.   8 August 2008: yess u should u should tell him that he needs to get a damn jobb do u work??... (read in full...)

My girlfriend complains that it hurts to shave "down there" but I don't want to go down on her if she doesn't!

Q.   Hi, I have been dating my girlfriend for 8 months now and i have gone down on her twice. The first time i did it was the first time ive ever done it. So i liked it. But then te second time i realized that i didnt like it so much. Mainly because of ...

A.   1 July 2008: she could try waxing it hurts but it will be soft of a while or she could try hair removal cream..or a really good razor... (read in full...)

My friend would like to know about the signs of loving someone, so as to avoid misunderstanding her feelings again!

Q.   my friends with her second boyfriend now and she is wondering whether she loves him or not coz when she was with her first boyfriend she thought she loved him but then realised she didnt. her boyfriend told her he loves her but she needs help in k...

A.   11 June 2008: It has never happened to you, what is happening to you right now, a strange kind of feeling. You feel like singing, dancing, jumping. You want to keep on dreaming about that someone very special you have just saw or met. And you are totally confused ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is having trouble letting go of the fact I wasn't a virgin!

Q.   My boyfriend of six months is having troubles letting go the fact that I wasn't a virgin before we started dating. I was totally honest with him when we first started dating that i wasn't a virgin coming out of a year relationship with someone else. ...

A.   3 June 2008: hi,um i love that your the only honest one but i think that he is jealous,i think that things are running in his mind his wondering who it is,and if u actually liked it.u have to tell him the whole truth tell him that it was a disaster make him feel ... (read in full...)

I've cheated on him, but I really do love him!

Q.   Okay so i've been dating this guy for a year on and off and i've cheated on him more than once, but I really do love him and I'm not entirely sure why I've done it. But I know I'd never do it again, but now he doesn't trust me and he wants me to ...

A.   1 June 2008: then tell him that he is your life and only one..make him belive that u can change and that u want to stay wit him... (read in full...)

I was forced to lie because my boyfriend thinks even a simple hello to a former crush is something major!! How can I regain his trust?...

Q.   I've got a problem. I know, though, that it's mostly my fault, really. See, my boyfriend and I have a troubled relationship. I broke the trust, and now it seems impossible to get it back. Ok here it goes... From the beginning of the relationshi...

A.   1 June 2008: i think u should dump him he doesnt diserve u one bit.i mean his a conceded selfish ass honestly thats wat i think u need to move on..maybe sometiime in his past still hunts him ... (read in full...)

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