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... Send *ichele21 a private message | | | *ichele21's profile:im 21yrs old bisexual female going through life is tuff at times but im strong and always seem to keep my head up but im a deep thinker ive grown up very fast and learned a lot about life so far and have much much more to learn in the future many more heartaches and stress im sure just not looking forward to it right now.....im a passive person i don't read into much of anything i just take it day by day min by min life is too short at times i do plan certain things in my life i mean you have too of course but anything else i just like sit back and enjoy my time on this earth...i love giving my advice to others as well as taking others advice it makes you feel good to know your not the only one out there with issues and concerns about loved ones or life in general you can always learn something from someone if you just lisen every once in a while if you don't like the advice let it go in one ear and out the other no harm done.....well think thats enough rambling about me for now if you took the time to read this i do appreciate it.... |
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Do I go after girls my own age or girls the same age as I look?
Q. I'm 24 years old but I look like I'm 15. Never had a serious relationship. My question is, who am I supposed to be targeting as a potential partner here? Girls my own age aren't interested because I look like a kid. Girls who are my age but ...
A. 7 November 2008: Well yeah as you said don't go after gurls who look your age if you look that young you would be a perve.....i would like go to a bar so that way they know your of age at least and you could conversate and at least get friends out of it if ... (read in full...)
Anal Sex without lube
Q. Hi. My boyfriend really wants to have anal sex without lube. I'm fine with this (I'm aware that it will hurt badly, and I'm ok with that), but we need to know if it is possible without seriously damaging me. I've never had anal sex before, let alone ...
A. 7 November 2008: umm first of all how old are you??? and how old is your boyfriend yall don't need to be having sex at all at the age you are. but you need to use lube or have something or else its going to hurt you badly... (read in full...)
I feel guilty being together and she feels sick when we're not. Why?
Q. hi. i'm a sixteen year old girl. i have a girl friend who is fourteen. we have been friends for a couple years after we both moved to the same neighborhood. we always knew our friendship was different. we enjoyed being friends even though our ...
A. 7 November 2008: well im 22yrs old and im a lesbian it started when i was about 16yrs old and i was a little nervous but if you like the experiance and you like how she feels than you are bi if you like being with guys still too....i don't think you should feel ... (read in full...)
I want my girlfriend back but she'll be hurt by what I've done on our break.
Q. Basically, I had a girlfriend for a year and a half.. We were truly in love, i've cheated twice on her before with another girl though. Then things weren't working out and I broke up with her, hooked up with the girl i've been cheating on her ...
A. 7 November 2008: i agree with the anonymous answer i have a girlfriend i been with for 3years yea we have had our ups and downs and i never cheated on her but when we broke up i did sleep with other females and even one male....i suggest if you love her and you want ... (read in full...)
A rock and a hard place, need some advice PLEASE!
Q. I recently wrote about being miserable in my relationship and wanting to be with another woman... well my girlfriend just had a death in the family and her brother just got 130yrs in prison so.... I feel like she really needs me in her life right ...
A. 7 November 2008: yeah he robbed two different people at gun point she knew he was going to get a lot of time but now she thinks he is going to kill himself while he is in jail...so she is freking out its her favorite brother... (read in full...)
Is having sex with just a condom and no pill...risky??
Q. im 16, nearly 17 and have had sex with my boyfriend (nearly 18) 4 times and have been going out with him for just over 1 year and a half. we used a condom everytime and im not on the pill, although my mum keeps saying that she'll come with me to put ...
A. 5 November 2008: well a condom is 99% effective just like the pill is you don't have to have both in order to have sex i say use a condom and have sex you will be fine than get on the pill a.s.a.p....i would also just have him pull out when he is going to cum still ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and my mum wants me to have an abortion
Q. Me and My boyfriend have been together for just over 8 months..he's the one for me,ive never been so happy, i couldnt ask for anything else of a partner. Weve been trying for a baby, and every month, i have my period, and its a smack in the face.ive...
A. 5 November 2008: well i believe if its something that you both want and you are prepared to do what you need to do than have the baby..a baby is gods gift to this earth its a beautiful thing for sure your mom will grow to love her grand child even though shes not ... (read in full...)
Should I text him or wait for him to make the next move?
Q. I've known this guy for nearly a year and we went to college together. I've liked him since the first time I saw him and I'm usually pretty good at the whole flirtatious approach. But with him I just felt so shy! Anyway, long boring story sh...
A. 5 November 2008: well did you have sex with him the night he stayed with you??? you know a guy will say anything at times just to get in your pants......i've had it happen to me...if you really like him i would just text and say hey how are you if he doesn't txt ... (read in full...)
How can I change my life around ?
Q. Can anyone suggest ways in which I can improve my life ? My life at the moment is empty and all I seem to do is exist. I have no social life, friends, girfriend or anything positive to look forward to. Im a descent looking guy (apparently) and...
A. 5 November 2008: well sweety you didn't have any friends in high school that you still talk to?? never had like one best friend that you associated with at all??? i just find it strange that u have no one in your life u talk to or a girlfriend if u say u are a ... (read in full...)
A rock and a hard place, need some advice PLEASE!
Q. I recently wrote about being miserable in my relationship and wanting to be with another woman... well my girlfriend just had a death in the family and her brother just got 130yrs in prison so.... I feel like she really needs me in her life right ...
A. 5 November 2008: ok im not trying to be selfish i know thats how it sounds becuase i want everthing to work out in my favor but i really do love her and want whats best for her in the long run seriously i just know we are not each others soul mates we won't be ... (read in full...)
I was straight until I met her... now I'm happy, but my family will kill me!
Q. Hello. I am 24 and I was straight, I just broke up with my boyfriend and now I met a girl which is strange. I have some kind of attraction to her like crazy. I don't want to label my self gay, but she asked me to be her girlfriend and I finally said ...
A. 5 November 2008: im a lesbain ive been with my gurl for 3yrs when i told my family they were a little confused and upset at first but they told me if i was happy they are happy for me thats all that matters at the end of the day is your happiness believe me i ... (read in full...)
Is she playing with my head? Should I just tell her how I feel about her?
Q. I've got this friend. I'm 21, and she's in her early 30's. We're quite close but not in a 'talk to her every day capacity'. But, I know I can trust her to go talk to her if I'm trying to deal with something. I met her about 5 years ago, and w...
A. 2 November 2008: well im in the exact same position im with a female now but i have a older friend in her 30's im only 21 but we are great friends and really understand each other we have a lot in common and i can talk to her about anything vise versa the same with ... (read in full...)
I hate myself because I am bi sexual. Help!
Q. Ok this is my question to everyone, i am 17, and a senior in high school, and i hate myself because i am bi, it has gotten to the point where i cant stand looking at myself in the mirror, and all my relationships have become strained to no end ...
A. 2 November 2008: hey sweartheart im 21 and im a bisexual i use to hate it in high school people started finding out and calling me all sorts of names and i felt like a piece of crap....but all that matters is you and making urself happy at the end of the day don't ... (read in full...)
What am I doing wrong?
Q. wouldn't say I'm a bad looking guy. I'm funny and reasonably confident when I want to be. I've got ambition and passion. I am friends with a lot of girls. Usually what tends to happen is I'll meet them on a night out and then progress to text...
A. 2 November 2008: well lets see i have the opposit affect as you...i always have guys hitting on me flittering but i just don't want a realtionship im in one now with a woman and i am miserable i have to hide everything from her becuase she is so jelous.... but have ... (read in full...)
I'm scared this other girl will win his heart...
Q. I'm in love with a guy ten years older than me but the problem is he moved to Edinbrugh a few months ago and I miss him. I heard off a few of his friends that he'll be coming back for a visit but as you can guess there's competition. A girl I know ...
A. 2 November 2008: swearheart no one is perfect in anyway...why don't you talk to him and just ask him you are both adults you gotta say what you feel if you don't you are goin to regreat it i've learned that the hard way sometimes its not what you wanna hear but you ... (read in full...)
She freaked out and doesn't want to have sex with me any more.
Q. My fiancee and I just had sex for the first time. Well, some of you might not really call it that. I'll spare you the details. We were both virgins. She was even my first kiss. Basically we went slowly but once it was all the way in she started ...
A. 2 November 2008: well the first time i had sex i never popped my cherry or blead in anyway and it was the first time i ever did anything sexual period but then about 3 years later i was having sex with my partner and i started bleeding and i wasn't on my period so ... (read in full...)
Does this make me a lesbian?
Q. This is gonna be one long winded question, so yeah! Anyway, I'm currently seventeen. I've been dating my current boyfriend for 3 years. When I was young (about 9-10) I used to have the biggest crushes on boys, and it's been that way forever. ...
A. 2 November 2008: I have been in relationship with 2 females one for a 1 year and one I am currently in for 3 years. Now don't get me wrong I love men, I love the attention and the feeling they have over me nice bodies and just the flirting.... but I also love a ... (read in full...)
Does my wife of 30 plus years have a sexual fantasy about another man?
Q. My wife of 30 plus years has a sexual fantasy about another man. How do I know this? Back a few years ago my car broke down in in a rural area. I ended up leaving my car with a friend of mine, got it fixed and my wife took me to pick it up. When we ...
A. 2 November 2008: you know it actually sounds like she is... if she has never acted like that before and how long have you been with her??? I guess a while since you are married I say that she is fantizing about another man considering how wet and horny she was that ... (read in full...)
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