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I really care for my boyfriend but his lack of communication is making me wonder if I want to be with him

Q.   Hi lovely Cupids, I hope you're all doing well right now. I have a relationship question I need a bit of help with. Me and my boyfriend have been together just over 2 years now. We met through my bestfriend as we needed a room filling in our ho...

A.   9 November 2020: I think I can understand both sides honestly, I've been in both of your shoes myself. Not being able to have a proper conversation with someone you used to chat away with, or just get along well with, is disheartening. Sometimes it makes you fee... (read in full...)

Is it a sign she likes me? Should I tell her the annoying girl is my cousin?

Q.   i like this girl. we were at a party, I have seen her a few times around my neighbourhood and I heard from my friend that she likes me also. the party was at my friends house and there was a dance as well. she was dancing and she was facing me, the ...

A.   13 August 2015: I love this question! While it's not a sign that she really likes you, it's a sign that she was upset when she thought she found out that you were already taken or that you didn't like her back. Obviously, it's with explaining the situation to her... (read in full...)

Unrequited love. It's been so long, but I can't get over him. Should I call him to ease the pain?

Q.   I fell madly in love with this boy back when we were college seniors. We were really close and we spent a lot of time together. One night, I told him how I felt for him. I didn't really get a clear answer from him but I knew that he didn't love me ...

A.   13 August 2015: Something that I did when I was in love with someone that I thought I couldn't create a relationship with was go into the girls' changing rooms and sit in one of the shower sections in silence. After a while, the lights would go off if they couldn't ... (read in full...)

Recent weight gain due to stressful job and an acne breakout! What should I say to my boyfriend?

Q.   My boyfriend is essentially blaming me for his unhappiness with our relationship. He talked with me last night and nicely explained he is not been happy with our sex life. When I asked him why he hesitated but said he feels I haven't really been ...

A.   12 August 2015: First off, I think this is more of an 'all about you' problem. By that, I mean your happiness comes first no matter what. From what I've read, you're unhappy because: you don't feel like he's attracted to you you gained weight you have an acne... (read in full...)

Do you think being set up on blind dates will help me?

Q.   im kinda shy guy....i cant talk to girls. i try and try but i fail. im not that social but the friends i have are very supporting and they are very good to me....like me n my friends have a strong bond. im cool to talk to my female friends but not ...

A.   30 May 2015: Since you have such a good relationship with your friends, why don't you try having practise dates with one of your girl friends? Actually, you could even have one with a guy if you feel comfortable enough and close enough to ask him. As they're ... (read in full...)

Is there any way of trying to get her attention without it seeming really creepy lol?

Q.   Hello I know this is going to sound kinda creepy but I thought I'd ask anyway. There is this girl, that I barely know, but I have her on Facebook. I really want to go out with her, she seems exactly like my type but I think its odd to just mess...

A.   30 May 2015: I think the easiest thing you can do is send her a message with "Hi" in it or "Hey" if you want to increase the level of flirtation. Never start with "Hello" though, that's just too creepy. Seriously, this is my opinion right here.... (read in full...)

I have a crush on her, but is she just being nice?

Q.   Hello, So I am a lady who dates ladies. I have this amazingly gorgeous co-worker who isn't on my team but in my department and sits around the hallway from me. I honestly have no idea if she's straight/gay/bi, in a relationship, etc. She doesn't...

A.   30 May 2015: I think you should go for it. And by that, I mean find out if she is straight/gay/bi and if she's in a relationship and get to know her more in general. To me personally, it seems likes she's flirting, but I'm a massive flirt and I joke around a ... (read in full...)

My partner has become snappy and a little controlling. But what to do about my growing feelings for my boss?

Q.   please bare with me with this question as it has been bugging me for a long time now and I'm at my wits end with it. Basically, four years ago I met my partner and I thought he was amazing to begin with. We became engaged in April of last...

A.   30 May 2015: In my opinion, you should leave the guy you're with. It sounds like you already know that and actually want to but you want someone else to make the decisions for you. If you get married to this man when you aren't even happy to be with him and ... (read in full...)

Why are women turned off by inexperienced men?

Q.   Why does inexperience turn women off ? Why is it that if a guy never had a girlfriend before, he is a turn off to the vast majority of girls that are non-virgins and have had their share of boyfriends or just been in a relationship before, and sadly ...

A.   30 May 2015: To the question that you're asking, there isn't really one definite answer. But something to be certain of is that this statement that "inexperience turns women off" is (quite obviously) not entirely true. While to some extent it is a reasonable ... (read in full...)

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