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Is there any way of trying to get her attention without it seeming really creepy lol?

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Question - (27 May 2015) 5 Answers - (Newest, 2 June 2015)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello

I know this is going to sound kinda creepy but I thought I'd ask anyway. There is this girl, that I barely know, but I have her on Facebook. I really want to go out with her, she seems exactly like my type but I think its odd to just message her. Is there any wayy of trying to get her attention without it seeming really creepy lol?

Thanks for the help.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2015):

I've met her a few times, I went to school with her and did Duke of Edinburgh award with her but havnt really spoken since, that was about 8 years ago. Thats how I got her on Facebook!

Thanks for the advice though guys.

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A female reader, MaskOn United Kingdom +, writes (30 May 2015):

MaskOn agony auntI think the easiest thing you can do is send her a message with "Hi" in it or "Hey" if you want to increase the level of flirtation. Never start with "Hello" though, that's just too creepy. Seriously, this is my opinion right here.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2015):

Have you ever met her in person?

If she's a friend of a friend, maybe ask your mutual friend to hook you up?

Maybe invite a whole group of friends from facebook to do something together, including her - if she is in to you too then maybe she'll come along?

Good luck!

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A female reader, Aemita Romania +, writes (27 May 2015):

Aemita agony auntHey there honey. May I just add one thing and one thing alone? Ok.. let's do this. If you already have her on your facebook, assuming she's on your "friends" list... half the job is done. Truly! I mean, social sites these days, they are kind of creepy. For your sake I hope you don't just add people randomly, just to get "attention" or seem "popular".

But I digress. If she's on your friend-list, I see no problem with actually hitting her up.. dropping her a line. What is creepy about that? At the end of the day, you really want to get in touch with her...so there isn't actually a better way than actually taking the plunge. The worse that could happen? she'll ignore the message or politely decline to converse with you. Either way, you will not die. Take a chance!

Cheers, T ^_~

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (27 May 2015):

Honeypie agony auntHow did you "get" her on Facebook?

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