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I think he has been texting or ringing other women behind my back!

Q.   Please could anyone help me? i could really do with some advice and peoples true views on this, i hope you can help me as im still very much in love with my ex but he treated me badly, should i go back with him? or should i move on to a guy that ...

A.   29 November 2010: i havent been on for a while but id like to say thankyou... (read in full...)

I think he has been texting or ringing other women behind my back!

Q.   Please could anyone help me? i could really do with some advice and peoples true views on this, i hope you can help me as im still very much in love with my ex but he treated me badly, should i go back with him? or should i move on to a guy that ...

A.   29 November 2010: i havent been on for a while but id like to say thankyou... (read in full...)

Pregnant and hurting over his selfishness, how can I make him appreciate me?

Q.   I'm 37 weeks pregnant and been with my boyfriend almost 2 years. And my question really is when someone is so selfish how do you make them realise how they should be because I really don't understand and really can't think what I have done to be ...

A.   30 July 2010: no he wont put you and the baby first hes obviously making this clear already all hes thinking about is himself, why is it ok for him to go do things but your not? thats not fair at all on you, hes being really selfish n he needs to pull himself ... (read in full...)

Should I work on the friendship I have with my ex?

Q.   Hi, I have been good friends with an ex of mine for a few years now, we used to talk regularly but since he met someone new about 6 months ago he never gets in touch now. This is unusual because he has stayed in touch throughout his other relation...

A.   30 July 2010: leave it hes obviously happy why would he need to answer to you ,his girlfriend may not be hapy hes still in contact with you, i certainly wouldnt if i was in that situation,if thats the case she prob doesent want to object to you but feels the need ... (read in full...)

Enjyong sex but not squirting like rest of girls

Q.   OP's own title: hi, i do sex even i enjoyed it a lot we both satisfy each other but the thing is i never squirt like the way i saw on different videos n clips i want too squirt like that n even i do masturbate my self but never had that sort of lots...

A.   30 July 2010: it never happens like it does in films, or video clips, ur an individual, if you enjoy it then just carry on with it ... (read in full...)

How can I gain my husband's trust back?

Q.   My husband and I have been together for almost 7 years. We have been married for a year and a few months. I would never cheat on him, but I made a wrong choice. After I found out that he was talking with another girl and was hiding it from me, I ...

A.   29 July 2010: totally agree with you dirtball, dont feel bad or let him make you feel you have cheated him when clearly you havent... (read in full...)

My girlfriend won't do anything new in bed!

Q.   Can you help me my girlfriend doesn't do anything in bed that we plan to try for fun yet will bite my head off if I ask why I could understand if she was nervous because she hadn't done it before but guess what her exs got to do it all with her ...

A.   25 July 2010: we all have needs but her going down on you is not a need its a want , she may of done it before she met you but may think shes being pressured into it, orhow do you know she deffinantly did do it with them she might not of done but told you she has ... (read in full...)

She became distance and wouldn't even hug me everytime we tried to rebuild our relationship. I still want a future with her

Q.   I need help. I dated my girlfriend for a year and a half, and it didn't take me that long to realize she was the one. On top of that, she would always talk about "when we got married" and how I was "too good to be true." Needless to say, she was ...

A.   25 July 2010: poor you, this must be confusing for you, im sure this is a type of depression that does need to be delt with maybe she feels trapped in some way i think maybe you should sit down and really talk this through and ask her to seek help maybe ... (read in full...)

He thinks I'm going to leave him but I'm not. How can I reassure him?

Q.   me and my boyfrriend have been goen out over 4 months now and everyone says were perfect for each other and we both think so to. however theres a guy i no and were really really good friends and have been for over 3 years. we're both in steady ...

A.   25 July 2010: glad you have now realised before you lost him through this... (read in full...)

Is my fiance controling, neglectful, abusive, plus more?

Q.   I have been in a long distance relationship for about three of the four year relationship. I knew him much longer than we have been together, I would say approximately seven years in total now. He joined the navy about a year after we became a...

A.   25 July 2010: please please get out while you can this is not a relationship! your parents are right sorry to say it. he is showing you nothing and your trying your hardest to get him to show you some love and affection but he wont,which is making you so ... (read in full...)

He thinks I'm going to leave him but I'm not. How can I reassure him?

Q.   me and my boyfrriend have been goen out over 4 months now and everyone says were perfect for each other and we both think so to. however theres a guy i no and were really really good friends and have been for over 3 years. we're both in steady ...

A.   25 July 2010: by how your acting towards your friend is making your boyfriend unhappy, in your eyes theres nothing going on but in his hes thinking all sorts of things, friends are friends not to be touchy feely this confuses everything, if you respect your ... (read in full...)

She's 7 years old than me--could there be problems involved??

Q.   Hey Guys, i sorta need help.. I am an 18 year old male. I have experienced life, since the age of fourteen i help a multitude of jobs, most of which were three at a time when i was 16 to support my girlfriend who was a little younger than me, but ...

A.   24 July 2010: same situation, im the older woman though im 30 and my boyfriend is 23 so seven yr differnce i have 4 kids that are from a previous marriage,i also had my tubes tied but for medical reasons when i got with my boyfriend i told him and he wasnt ... (read in full...)

Got drunk, had a threesome and now scared I'm pregnant and only 15!

Q.   Im 15 and well i got a bit drunk at a friends house party and well one thing led 2 another with these 2 guys and we ended up having a 3sum and we didnt use any protection and i know i shoud of but i wasent thinkin straight The thing is im 2 days l...

A.   23 July 2010: you can do a test the day of a missed period so do one also reguardless of the result being possitive or negative go to the gp and get tested for stds what you did unprotected was very silly but i know mistakes happen just dont make that mistake ... (read in full...)

Please help me get over my Ex

Q.   I need help getting over my ex.he cheated on me and just didnt treat me right.i broke up him,but still love him.plz help...

A.   23 July 2010: i know its very hard but you know within yourself that if you ever got b ack with him things would be the same! if he cheated on you he isnt worth worrying about you just gotta think why you broke up in the first place ... (read in full...)

17, female and a virgin. Should I keep my standards high?

Q.   I am 17 and still a virgin. I have had relationships, kissed guys, and just recently hooked up with an older guy who I went to 3rd base with. I felt very regretful after the hookup because I found myself wishing that had been someone who actually ...

A.   23 July 2010: keep with it if you are not ready dont loose your virginity to anyone you dont think is special just because you think its not normal or uncool, honestly you should be proud thinking the way you do, not many people think like that, wait untill that ... (read in full...)

Pregnant... and my boyfriend left me...

Q.   So I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I found out about 3 months ago that I am pregnant, and now he is leaving me... What can I say to make him stay, why is he leaving now and not 3 months ago... Help!! Thanks guys... ...

A.   21 July 2010: hes acting very imature he doesent want to face up to up to this. a baby is a big step for anyone, but hes not being reasonable at all and this must be hard on you, to be honest if hes leaving then dont stop him ... (read in full...)

I get so jealous of my boyfriends 3 year old daughter

Q.   I hope someone can really help me on this one cause I'm lost... I met a wonderful guy 6 months ago. He is everything i have ever wanted and more, and I know I am lucky to have him...problem is he has two children from his last relationship. Gi...

A.   21 July 2010: to start good on you for accepting your boyfriends kids, i think a lot of people find this hard to deal with,thing is no one can tell you wot you should or shouldnt feel or think about things,the feelings you are having about his daughter will get ... (read in full...)

Cheated and now confused

Q.   "OP Own Title"I cheated on my boyfriend of 5 years with my best friend who I've known for more than 9 years. It only happened once and alcohol was involved, but I still feel awful about it. Before this incident we had never slept together and while ...

A.   20 July 2010: firstly i agree by sleeping with your friends ruins any friendship, it should not happen, you say you are sorry and feel guilty but your also saying you fear you may cheat again with him, honestly a one night stand/ affair destroys any relationship ... (read in full...)

I am friends with my ex boyfriend girlfriend

Q.   Dear Cupid, I am friends with my ex boyfriend's girlfriend and we talk regularly. I have their home phone number and her cellphone number. My ex has three days off a week and I respect her that I am not to call while he is there. I have not nor d...

A.   20 July 2010: if he had feeling for you still he would of let you know in a different way to that, but on the other hand why did he tell her you had rung if you hadnt,maybe hes trying to cause a row between you two girls maybe because he feels threatened by your ... (read in full...)

I'm really worried he'll cheat on me with her... help!

Q.   I have only been with my boyfriend for 3 months now and the first month was brilliant with no arguments whatsoever. Going into the second month facebook began to cause arguments with the way he commented on other girls statuses. They weren't extreme ...

A.   18 July 2010: to start yes there friends, she has a boyfriend now! but im with you if i was in that situation i would think and feel like you do, when they meet up you dont know whats happening, or when hes texting her,he knows you feel insecure about this but ... (read in full...)

What can I do to kick start my life?

Q.   Ok so I dont know how to really put this but im male, 17, rather intelligent and not the worst looking but not the best :S basically my childhood sucked. i used to live with my great grandmother and my brother. my great grandma died and me and ...

A.   18 July 2010: i think if you really put your mind to this you can do anything you want to, honestly i think anyone has prospect in what ever they do, have you got any friends at all, at work maybe? if so ask to go out together one evening, that way you will be ... (read in full...)

He proposed!! Do I share the excitment??

Q.   My now fiance just proposed, he is in basic training so he did it over the phone, he told me to pick out three rings and he wants to choose one and ask again when he get back. Is it wrong to say we are engaged? He said that that was him proposin...

A.   18 July 2010: well congratulations! i would wait untill hes back so you can share your great new together it makes it more real... (read in full...)

Are second pregnancies different if the first?

Q.   I hear that second pregnancies are different such as..... 1. You feel your baby move sooner 2. You tend to show about a month sooner, and 3. You carry your baby lower I know this is true if you go through with the whole pregnancy, but wh...

A.   17 July 2010: every pregnancy is different no matter how many you have, if its your second or more pregnancy all the way through you may feel your baby move sooner but you could class this as your first,women normally start to show at around 17 weeks, as you have ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and think my guy might be having sex with other men!

Q.   Im really stuck in a rut and have no idea what to do. First off i am seven months pregnant with my first child, also in been in a relationship with my partner for a year and a half, there was a time when he loved me so much, but since falling ...

A.   16 July 2010: i feel for you,because when you are convinced the one you love the most in the world is lying and cheating it destroys you from with in, i understand totally your concern it is a bit weired about the mess in the back of his underware and i would be ... (read in full...)

Once the attraction leaves...???

Q.   Can you still love your partner if you're not attracted to them sexually any more?...

A.   15 July 2010: yes you can but not how you possibly should, sometimes it becomes just habbit to know were you feel the safest, if you really dont find his sexually attractive then theres not much point, i know sex is not the only issue of any relationship but you ... (read in full...)

Will he go back to this other woman???

Q.   My husband and i met when we were 15 and 16, we had our first child than and a year later we married. through most of our marriage i seeked out attention from other men, so in turn lead my husband to not trust me. About 1 year and a half ago i le...

A.   15 July 2010: he probaly doesent know weather hes coming or going it seems you cant make up your mind about what you want and when the going gets tough you go back to him because with him you feel safe thats no life for you or your children its not fair on them ... (read in full...)

If he never felt that way... what difference does it make when I tell him?

Q.   Should i feel bad for this? I recently told my mate how i felt about him, id felt that way for a while and i always kinda knew he knew anyway because people had said stuff to him. I always thought he liked me to from his previous actions but turns ...

A.   15 July 2010: by saying it couldnt of come at a worst time because hes got a girlfriend would automatically tell me he would of acted apon your feelings if he hadnt, but on the other hand by going out with a friend could ruin a very good friendship, ... (read in full...)

No intercourse, regular period, but could I be pregnant

Q.   Nearly two months ago, me and this guy were fooling around...he fingered me and there was a chance he could have had sperm on his hand. So, I went to get the morning after pill within 24 hours, no problems. My period came a few days early due to it ...

A.   15 July 2010: you could not be pregnant especially if you had the morning after pill and have two normal periods, i really would not let that worry you at all, but if you are in any doubt then id say take a test but its highly unlikely if you do have sex please ... (read in full...)

I thought we had a deep love, now he's gone, think he'll come back??

Q.   Hello Everyone, i would like to ask your opinions even though i already have my idea of this whole. A week ago i broke up with my boyfriend of 7 months. I know it was not a long time, but we were friends, very close friends before, so we kn...

A.   15 July 2010: being apart from someone you love that much is very hard,it is very strange for someone to love you that much never want to be apart from you and then say they need time, i really dont think your email would of had anything to do with that at all, ... (read in full...)

Should I feed neighbor's baby, I am lactating??

Q.   hello reaers i am lactating, so my neighbours left their baby to me to look after for 4 hours,bcos they were going for a movie, she told me to feed if needed, my neighbour knew i am producing milk, i would like to know whether i can feed my breas mi...

A.   15 July 2010: i would say no!to be honest its not right its not your baby if you look after the baby make sure they leave feeds for the child, if you was to feed the child with your milk they may get very offended... (read in full...)

Should I feed neighbor's baby, I am lactating??

Q.   hello reaers i am lactating, so my neighbours left their baby to me to look after for 4 hours,bcos they were going for a movie, she told me to feed if needed, my neighbour knew i am producing milk, i would like to know whether i can feed my breas mi...

A.   15 July 2010: i would say no!to be honest its not right its not your baby if you look after the baby make sure they leave feeds for the child, if you was to feed the child with your milk they may get very offended... (read in full...)

Should I feed neighbor's baby, I am lactating??

Q.   hello reaers i am lactating, so my neighbours left their baby to me to look after for 4 hours,bcos they were going for a movie, she told me to feed if needed, my neighbour knew i am producing milk, i would like to know whether i can feed my breas mi...

A.   15 July 2010: i would say no!to be honest its not right its not your baby if you look after the baby make sure they leave feeds for the child, if you was to feed the child with your milk they may get very offended... (read in full...)

Only been with bf six months, have clymadia, how do I tell him??

Q.   hi ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months now, i recently had a smear test done ive had urine tests before and nothing showed at all but now I have clymedia and i have no idea on how im going to tell this to him, i have no idea where i got it from! ...

A.   15 July 2010: you may of had it a while and not really know, but on the other hand you could of caught it from him sorry to say it , has he been faithfull to you, but before all that you need to really sit down and explain things to him and tell him you have been ... (read in full...)

Why do my gf's stories change over time, is she hiding more??

Q.   I am having issues with my GF of 10 months gradually revealing things to me that are a bit worrisome. She has gradually increased the extent of stories about her romantic and sexual past. Guys that she once said she never touched, suddenly became ...

A.   15 July 2010: first off i know how you feel when you say you wish you knew the truth in one so you could cope with it better, im in the same situation and it really does affect you and the thoughts never stop,i understand why you feel you cant be close like you ... (read in full...)

I lied about my age to my bf, should I come clean?

Q.   when me and current flame started talking, i never thought things would get as serious as they have, and i deffinitely did not think they would last past a week or two. he was 2 years older than me and very very mature so i was worried since i was ...

A.   15 July 2010: well if your serious about eachother it relly is time to come clean if he finds out from someone else he will not be very happy and is reallygoing to start doubting you, i think he will understand why you did it, but only if it comes from you, if ... (read in full...)

He has problems, borrows my money, has fits of anger, is this worth it?

Q.   Wondering if my boyfriend is going to be worth all the trouble he is causing. He's been in jail because his xwife lied, in court, about him sexually abusing his kids. He's had addictions up until a few years ago which have also gotten him in trouble ...

A.   15 July 2010: i think its time to move on! you cant trust him why is he borrowing the money fri=om you in the first place? is it drugs you gotta ask yourself that question, i dont think he can be trusted completely ... (read in full...)

Advice on lasting longer

Q.   "OP Own Title" What are some ways to help last longer before ejaculating? I have been with my girlfriend for 1 year and the last few months I have been cumming in less than five minutes. I used to be able to go for alot longer. Wondering if anyone ...

A.   13 July 2010: well firstly good it looks like she really does turn you on and you enjoy, but its obviously something that concerns you, my advice is either to masurbate not long before sex that way you will last longer, if its a hard on factor then a cock ring ... (read in full...)

A guy I like said he thinks I'm tight what does this mean?

Q.   a guy i like told his friends that he thinks im tight... what does this mean? ...

A.   13 July 2010: hun if you have had sex with him, the meaning is your vagina is tight which only means a good thing!u havent slept around a lot your vagina is not loose good thing! x... (read in full...)

Can you trust a Liar ?

Q.   In the summer of 2008 me and my wife had drifted from eachother... we still loved eachother and had a son .. but we had drifted ..liked doing seperate things...hobbies etc.. i felt the relationship was going very stale and needed a break.. to ...

A.   11 July 2010: i can honestly say how sorry i feel for you it seems you have tried and tried and she has given nothing back to you but lies and complete hurt, putting children first is the right priority but this is tearing you apart everyday can you really go on ... (read in full...)

He treats me like a princess but sleeps with other women..should I leave him??

Q.   He's much older than me with the age of my dad and treats so well like a princess. He cares about me and calls me regularly every week. BUT He has sex with other women which I can not stand at all. Should I just leave him? P.S. He really t...

A.   11 July 2010: hes not showing you any respect by saying he cares for you calls you and sleeps with you but then goes sleeping with other women thats not fair on anyone,your obviously not happy and i wouldnt be either i would just walk away ... (read in full...)

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