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He thinks I'm going to leave him but I'm not. How can I reassure him?

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Question - (24 July 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

me and my boyfrriend have been goen out over 4 months now and everyone says were perfect for each other and we both think so to. however theres a guy i no and were really really good friends and have been for over 3 years. we're both in steady relationships and we're both in love wif ou b/f and g/f. however we've always ahad a very friendly flirty relationship and kinda touchy feely as well. my b/f noticed this and was askin bout this and i tryed 2 explain me and **steves** friendship. like i dont mean 2 flirt or anything its just the was weve always acted wif each other and we both no we're better of as friends but my b/fs gettin a bit jealous and is gettin nervous im gonna leve him. im not . can ne1 help?? pleaseee.

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A female reader, loraemoon United Kingdom +, writes (25 July 2010):

loraemoon agony auntglad you have now realised before you lost him through this

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2010):

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hi, umm yeah i see now im not being fair . . . thanks guys u've made me see his point of view and yeaah if it was him being like thgat withg another girl i would be furious .. god im being awful .. :/

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A female reader, loraemoon United Kingdom +, writes (25 July 2010):

loraemoon agony auntby how your acting towards your friend is making your boyfriend unhappy, in your eyes theres nothing going on but in his hes thinking all sorts of things, friends are friends not to be touchy feely this confuses everything, if you respect your boyfriend then you gotta stop this, would you like it if your boyfriend was flirting and being touchy feely with another girl ? no

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (24 July 2010):

CindyCares agony auntEasy. Stop the flirting and the touchy feely things, you can keep your friendship also without pawing each other. In fact, friendship work better if there are clear physical boundaries so one always know exactly what is what.

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