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writes:I need help getting over my ex.he cheated on me and just didnt treat me right.i broke up him,but still love him.plz help
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reader, honeychild23  +, writes (24 July 2010):
i can totally relate to u. last yr i was pregnant wit my son(r.i.p. amare) n my boyfriend at the time, his dad, cheated on me wit a stripper. so i know u feel crushed, confused, n dont know exactly what u should do. i simply, changed my number(if u dont wanna do that, then jus block his number from calling), if u c him out n public, ignore him(n his mind u didnt exist when he was cheating so he doesnt exist to u anymore period point blank.) find a great hobby. take up boxing, u can get all ur anger out n also work out at the same time. start doin things u never thought u would do: go streaking, jump n a large body of water wit all ur clothes on, sing n the middle of a big crowd. i know these things sound silly but it really does help n it would make u feel so much better n also very daring. u can also, change ur hair. doesnt have to b nothing drastic, jus go to the hair salon, get it done really sexy n u will feel 1000% better. u dont need to run off n look for a rebound guy. u need to focus on urself n have a damn good time doin it. lol
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reader, Knr2182 +, writes (24 July 2010):
Well It's going to be difficult.. But you can make it better for you and whatever it is you want in life, remember that no matter what you are special and deserve a great and loving person not by how you look but the person you are inside. God made us unique so take it upon yourself to be and feel freedom from a relationship. Peace and serenity will come but you have to put faith and all else will fall in place
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reader, loraemoon  +, writes (23 July 2010):
 i know its very hard but you know within yourself that if you ever got b ack with him things would be the same! if he cheated on you he isnt worth worrying about you just gotta think why you broke up in the first place
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (23 July 2010):
 Well, I know you feel bad that you had to end your relationship. That's normal.
However, think of it this way: he did cheat on you with another woman. If he was in a committed relationship with you, and met someone else, the ethical thing to do (even though it would have been very distressing for you) was to have ended it with you BEFORE taking up with the new woman.
His behavior in cheating was mean and underhanded and did not consider you at all.
If he didn't treat you right in other respects - apart from the cheating - you are really much better off without him.
Please, make an effort to forget all about "still loving him." You dumped him, so stand by your choice and put him firmly (in your mind) where he belongs - in the past.
He doesn't love you, why should you continue to love him? He doesn't deserve you.
Think now about how you want to live your life from this point onwards. What are your hopes and dreams for the future? You are still young, and have your whole life ahead of you. Focus on your job, or studies; your friends and family, and the activities you find interesting and enjoy.
Hope this helps! All the best to you.
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reader, bree831 +, writes (23 July 2010):
hey, well im sorry for what happened to you, first of all look, its not the end of the world, something similar happened to me, if he cheated on you and treated you bad? you deserve somthing way better, dont turn back, you a long life to live, theres gonna be ups and downs in life, but you stay strong, go party, dont think abt him, cus pretty much his not thinking about you, and he does not deserve you, go on, its life. im sure theres someone out there waiting for you:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2010): You are going to still love him...the break up just happened and depending on how long you guys were together, it may take you a few months to a year. Just because, you break up with someone does not mean that you will stop loving them or or stop having feelings for them...that takes time. With my ex, it took me one year to get over him. I no longer love him or care about him...he could marry a family memeber and I wouldn't care. Yeah..but it took me about one year and I had to seek therapy because, of how emotionally hurt I was.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2010): You need to move on and find better...he cheated and he will do it again if you take him back. find better and u will get over him.
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