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I am currently in a relationship and i couldn't ask for a better boyfriend.
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Is it true that a girl forgets her first love or the one she gave virginty to? Does my Gf miss him?
Q. Is it true that a girl forgets her first love or the one she gave virginty to ....???? I'm in relation wid her from one year ago She loves me to bits. Sometimes I feel bad that she had an awful former boyfriend who took my girl friend's virgin...
A. 15 September 2012: I think you may be being paranoid. She probably remembers him but not in a good way and that is why she doesn't want too.
Can't say girls remember there first time and who it was with, but I can sure tell you that if someone treats you badly wh... (read in full...)
My mother suffers. My Dad puts his own mother as first even ignoring his wife (my mother) if his mother or his sisters demand things. Should I confront family about this?
Q. Although this is not purely a love-relationship based question but I would like to hear your thoughts about this. This is about my family, my dad is a man who you call a mommy man, (I refer to my grandmother here) He is a man who loves his mo...
A. 15 September 2012: First of all this isn't your battle. I know you want to help your mum and everything like that but your dad need's to realise what he is actually doing to his own family regardless of whether he thinks he's helping his sisters and mother there is a ... (read in full...)
I am stuck in this awful place where I don't really prefer a divorce but staying in the marriage is difficult.
Q. My wife and I just celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary in August. Instead of it being a joyous milestone, it was melancholy in nature from my point of view. We share a lot of love and joy or else we would have never made it this long, but o...
A. 15 September 2012: I am sure you have flaws too, but you should try and get some counselling for each other if she thinks and says you are soulmates then surely she should be open to that idea? From losing her job and whatever else has been happening perhap... (read in full...)
Masturbating hurts
Q. Hi to all, First a little intro:About a year ago I decided to lose my virginity just so I could see what the fuss was about(I was 19).Before that I was masturbating for years so I wasn't concerned about hurting or stuff like that.(Never with...
A. 15 September 2012: As Candid Cally says you must ensure you're lubricated because if you're not it will hurt because it won't slide in easily and won't be pleasurable for yourself.
Also even though you say you're relaxing because you know it hurts you maybe still be... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been having sex with another girl behind my back.Am I a fool for wanting to stay and make this work?
Q. My boyfriend has always treated me like a princess. He is one of my best friends; we have the same friends, the same beliefs, and have known each other for a little over four years. We've been dating for 3 months short of two years. We moved into a ...
A. 15 September 2012: Yep you are a fool for wanting to stay with someone who you have given love to and to have him stamp all over it.
He's lied to you countless times and even when you have the truth he's still trying to convince you that it won't happen again.
He ... (read in full...)
My husband no longer loves me or wants to live with me. I still want to be together even with him feeling this way. Is it worse to live with us both unhappy or to lose the love of my life?
Q. Here's the situation. I'm totally in love with my husband and I'm desperate for us to get back together. He has fallen out of love with me and cannot bring himself to be with me sexually. We're still friends and see each other nearly everyday. We ...
A. 13 September 2012: I can't really say what is more painful to be honest you both obviously are experiencing pain, him because he isn't in love with you and you because you are still in that place.
I do think it's unfair if you guys both still live together because ... (read in full...)
My teen son is using my lingerie items when he masturbates. How should I handle this delicate situaiton?
Q. I am a single mom and my 13yr old is using my unwashed lingerie items to "help himself" while he masturbates. I found of my personal lingerie items under his bed and it is clear what he is doing with them. We have alwways been open with one ano...
A. 13 September 2012: You need to sit him down and discuss your fears with him and make sure he knows that it isn't right what he's doing even if it wasn't your unwashed underwear it isn't nice for a mother to find this out i can only imagine. Maybe he is missing some ... (read in full...)
I may have miscarried recently. It's made me want a baby. Should I wait like my Bf says? I worry waiting could destroy our relationship.
Q. I'm 18 and going to be turning 19 in 3 weeks. I have a boyfriend who I have been with for 5 years and he is turning 20 in 2 months. He was the person I lost my virginity to and we have only slept with each other. I started taking the pill as soon ...
A. 13 September 2012: If you did take the pill as religiously as you've said i suggest you talk to your local GP and find out whether the pill wasn't as effective on you because different contraceptives work differently on different people. You will need to find out... (read in full...)
He always looks at me in class. Does this mean he likes me or is it in my head?
Q. Hello am 17 and never had a boyfriend and i recently just started college and i have been attending for 5 days now and since day 1 of college i have noticed this guy staring at at me at he is tall tan and i think he is shy and pretty fit. Our ...
A. 13 September 2012: It could go either way. He may very well like you you say you don't want to talk to him but then how will you ever know whether he does or not?
Obviously talking to him doesn't mean you ask him straight out whether or not he likes you. Perhaps ... (read in full...)
I really like this guy but he said he can't give me what I want in a relationship. Now I am stuck living with him for a year, help!
Q. I am in such an awkward and difficult position and would appreciate help from anyone, whatever advice it may be. I have just recently moved into a house with a guy who I didn't know so well before. (Him and 3 others). We met on a student house-sh...
A. 13 September 2012: Well it does seem like the time you guys had together was a new and exciting thing and i'm guessing something new to both of you which is good. Obviously this didn't work out and he ended up being a bit childish over it. Maybe he did feel th... (read in full...)
My true love moved away to find himself. What do I do now?
Q. The guy I dated for over 2 years moved about 3,000 miles away a month ago because he wanted to go find out what a makes him tick. He told me when he made this decision to move is that he didn't want me to think he was trying to run away from me, ...
A. 13 September 2012: To me it sounds all a bit too good to be true. He has probably told you all this because the fact is he has moved away and doesn't need to see you so to speak yeah he can contact you or he told you contact him but he probably knows that you w... (read in full...)
Feeling guilty and lonely. How can I move on?
Q. This guy and I parted ways a little more than a month ago, not because we had issues but because we both are now living in different countries. I talk to him often, and I miss him all the time (and sometimes it makes me want to cry). I think he ...
A. 13 September 2012: I know the saying is "distance makes the heart grow fonder" perhaps this being apart or this not being with eachother has been able to give you the chance to truly understand and know your feelings for one another.
I mean obviously you have sai... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is clingy, obsessive and he's driving me mad
Q. Iv'e been going out with a guy i met at uni since april now and weve been on holiday together,hes met my parents and stayed with us and ive stayed with his parents. im 21 and hes 20 but sometimes i feel like we are soo different in how we view ...
A. 11 September 2012: Have you tried talking to him about his obsessiveness?
perhaps he doesn't realise what he is doing
is actually really very annoying for you.
Maybe he thinks this is what he needs to do in order to make you feel special.
Perhaps talk to him... (read in full...)
My wife is more like a room mate
Q. I guess I'll get right to it... I have been married for 6 years and have a 4 yr old daughter. I have known my wife for 18yrs. We started dating when we were both young (21 me, 23 her) and broke up 4 yrs later. Then 6 years after that she was passing ...
A. 10 September 2012: Well first of all i think you need to talk to your wife because if she doesn't know how you're feeling then she isn't going to know you have a problem with the relationship that you guys are sharing at the moment.
Second of all you're right it... (read in full...)
This married man suddenly ignores me
Q. HEY i feel confused i started talking to this married man and we started meeting up and he used to call and text me. the other day we were to meet up and unfortunatley he had to wait for me as i was talking to my friend because she appeard and i co...
A. 10 September 2012: Maybe he realised what he was doing is wrong as is what you are doing.
He probably has kids with his wife and that's a family that could have been torn apart for a girl who could well have been his childs age.
You need to not contact him and ... (read in full...)
I don't want a relationship so why is my FWB acting this way?
Q. Hey everyone, I have been friends with benefits with this guy for like 2 and half years now!!well here's the thing we met at a bar,hooked up and I thought I would be a one night stand BUT no we ended up doing it over and over again! Its been 2 yea...
A. 10 September 2012: when you mean continue do you mean the friends with benefits? or whether you should keep contacting him?
I think Friends with Benefits shouldn't be carried on only because he wants a relationship and it'll give him that time to find a relation... (read in full...)
My girlfriend was recently diagnosed with leukemia. Does anyone have any advice on how to be there for a cancer patient?
Q. My girlfriend was recently diagnosed with leukemia. We have been together for a year. I love her a lot and want to stay with her despite tough times ahead. Does anyone have any advice on how to be there for a cancer patient? I want her to feel...
A. 9 September 2012: Sorry to hear about your girlfriend. You seem to be very strong and that is what she needs someone who is strong for her. Like you said body lotions she'll love those because she can put them on and pamper herself as best she can and i think she;... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm over her but not over the relationship breakup
Q. me and my ex split up in February.i am ok but i am still a bit upset every now and then.is it wierd to still be upset this long after the breakup? we were together a year and a half.i feel over her but not over the actual relationship if that makes ...
A. 9 September 2012: Thank you i am glad it helped! Just keep your chin up and remain positive :) ... (read in full...)
Why am I so scared to have sex with my beloved?
Q. I’m a young guy, I’m gay and I’ve a boyfriend. We have pretty big age difference - while I’m 18, he’ s 30, but this has never been a problem for us. He’ s a wonderful person and I’m so in love with him. I have kind of a sexual problem. My boyf...
A. 9 September 2012: You obviously are going to be worried hun it's your first time and you'll be nervous but try not to panic. He seems like he knows what you're going through and is willing to help you.
Just talk to him about your fears and why not try building... (read in full...)
He can't have sex, says its his problem. Is he that broken?
Q. He and I are dear old friends. He's been married twice and widowed within a few years both times. I was married to his best friend; then my husband died. About a year and a half after my husband died we started dating. All was well, then after...
A. 9 September 2012: It is clear to see that he has been through a lot well you both have. He's been married previously and obviously lost a wife and you've lost a husband.
The reason why he's probably feeling like this about sex is because this is a very intimate... (read in full...)
Is my wifes best friend playing games?
Q. Over the last few months my wifes bestfriend has been going through a divorce. My wife and i have known this women for around ten years now and over those years have given her the support she needs during her rocky marriage, through texting, phone ...
A. 9 September 2012: First of all cut all contacts if this woman is going to be childish about the whole thing leave it it isn't worth risking your marriage over.
Next thing i'd talk to your wife just say you had concerns and stuff and just so she is then in the know... (read in full...)
I don't want a relationship so why is my FWB acting this way?
Q. Hey everyone, I have been friends with benefits with this guy for like 2 and half years now!!well here's the thing we met at a bar,hooked up and I thought I would be a one night stand BUT no we ended up doing it over and over again! Its been 2 yea...
A. 9 September 2012: I don't think you're wrong no as you've said it was a friends with benefits relationship.... but did you ever think that maybe he produced feelings for you and maybe he felt that you had too... You said you guys have been friends with benefits for 2 ... (read in full...)
Why did my friend go back with her boyfriend after he cheated on her?
Q. Hey Guys, It's ,e again. It's not about me this time, it's about one of my close friends,she was recently dating a guy, that cheated on her... He told her straight over the phone and for a few days was a total mess, crying over just his name. But ...
A. 9 September 2012: This is true i mean i cannot say it is completely true as I am not sure whether people can change if they really want too i'd like to believe that they can.
With your friend the only thing you can really do right now is just be there for her and ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm over her but not over the relationship breakup
Q. me and my ex split up in February.i am ok but i am still a bit upset every now and then.is it wierd to still be upset this long after the breakup? we were together a year and a half.i feel over her but not over the actual relationship if that makes ...
A. 9 September 2012: I mean a year and a half is a pretty long time and though yes you are over maybe the relationship side of things is what you miss.
Obviously you miss the companionship.
I don't think it's that long and it isn't the person you're upset ove... (read in full...)
Depressed over teacher leaving school!
Q. i really like this teacher ever since i came in year 7. i had him for two months (i really really love him, but i never tried anything on him) and my grades went sky high and moved to a different class. i was really depressed for a few months, but ...
A. 5 September 2012: The reason why you done so well is because of the feelings you had for your teacher because you liked him you wanted to learn and do so well for him. I would say just think of the teacher guiding you through school even though he isn't there and ... (read in full...)
15 year old pupil is hitting on me - her teacher. Should I report this?
Q. I am in a terribly difficult situation. I have been teaching for 20 years and this is the first I’ve ever had this particular problem. There is a girl in one of my classes; she is very young, 14/15 years old, a child. Now I have had students have ...
A. 5 September 2012: This is a very tough situation. Yes you should report it. Something maybe deeper going on maybe she is throwing herself at you because maybe there is an abuse going on somewhere in the family and she feels that's all she is worthy of hence why she... (read in full...)
We have been dating for 3 years but he still won't commit!
Q. Okay I've been seeing this guy for 3 years. We both told eachother we love one another. We don't have a "title". He told me he sees himself being with me, sometimes I feel like he doesn't want to commit and I've told him how i felt.. He says I'm ...
A. 3 September 2012: Maybe he is worried that if it get's too good then something really bad will come with it. I mean you've told him how you felt so he knows maybe he just isn't the type of guy to share his feelings with you. Maybe right now he feels the t... (read in full...)
I'm with my current boyfriend but still in love with my ex, what do I do?
Q. Okay. So I'm still madly in love with my ex Bf. But we split up cuz he moved away. But him and I have been talking a lot lately and we both still love eachother. But right now I'm dating someone else and I like him but I'd rather be with my ex. And ...
A. 3 September 2012: You will probably have feelings still for your ex because you guys had something special before he moved away. Maybe you're both feeling like this because he's moved away so you both feel you cannot see each other. Maybe you won't i'm unsure as to ... (read in full...)
My best friend and I kissed. I'm in love with him but he has a girlfriend of 5 years. What do I do?
Q. Im so upset I think ive damaged the best possible thing to happen to me. Ive fallen in love with my best friend we became cying to leaveose over time . Heres where its gets hard weve kissed a few times and he has a girlfriend of 5 years but please ...
A. 3 September 2012: I mean for starters his girlfriend of 5 Years clearly doesn't love him she just wants him there to come back too. She threatens suicide but i guarantee she would never go through with it she's all attention seeking just wants him and no-one else to ... (read in full...)
What can I do about my drama queen cousin's boyfriend? He likes me I don't like him!
Q. Hello everyone, I am not sure what to do about my cousin's boyfriend. He flirts and texts me quite a bit, mainly when he and my cousin argue. He confides in me about the problems they have, about the trust issues, ect. I will admit, he can do way ...
A. 2 September 2012: Right well he seems like a total slimeball i mean he shouldn't be with someone just because of a child that isn't a good atmosphere for the child to grow up in and especially when he is talking to you about certain things that he really shouldn't ... (read in full...)
18 year old living with us is too friendly. Do I tell her brother?
Q. Hey everyone, I'm in a living with my boyfriend for the past 4 years now,and everything was going great,he has a good job so do I..but now the problem has arised cuz of a third person which unfortunately I brought into the picture.. My best guy fr...
A. 2 September 2012: This is beyond.... She's 18 she should respect the fact you've been good enough to let her stay with you. I would talk to her brother tell him what has been happening i mean you've already talked to her and laid the law down if she isn't willing to ... (read in full...)
Had sex with my long time best friend, things have been awkward. Should I text/call him?
Q. Hello. I am going to try to make this story super short. Basically, I have this best friend of almost 6 years. We are very close, talk to each other about anything, and enjoy each others company. There is also physical attraction that has always b...
A. 2 September 2012: Well after what you have just said don't you think maybe he's probably thinking the same as you? I mean you're friends could be right maybe he's come to realise he has feelings for you but is unsure on how you're going to react and probably is ... (read in full...)
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