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writes:i really like this teacher ever since i came in year 7. i had him for two months (i really really love him, but i never tried anything on him) and my grades went sky high and moved to a different class. i was really depressed for a few months, but all went ok (but i still had a little crush for him. 2 years later. i got a kinda bad grade and moved class again. i was in his class!!! i was sososososososo happy i proper loved him and i could imagin our pure clean teacher and student friends relationship. i realised that he was leaving by the end of the term. was horribly tearful i wished i could just hug him tight and never let him get out of my sight. he moved school, out the city, and out the country. i cry whenever i think of him please please please help. it's not fair i manage to get into his class and he leaves im in agony and i think i have depression. help!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy grades did go up, im proud of myself, and my crush for him is offically gone :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2012): I feel your pain. My teacher is leaving too. I had a little crush on him too lol. Just try to move on and focus on the positive things in your memories with him. Good luck 3
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2012): You're welcome, and good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankss everyone i'll follow your advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for those who answered especially Karlos5021 my teacher was your age to but i'll follow your advice @:
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reader, Captain Teddy Bear  +, writes (5 September 2012):
 It is very common for young ladies to develop feelings for teachers and other older men in their lives. Boys in the early teens are much less mature than girls and leave much to be desired in relationships. You have to understand, however, how dangerous it is for a teacher to even have a close friendship with a student. It would only take one accusational outcry and that teacher's life would be in turmoil for many many years, and they may never teach again. It truly is a good thing this teacher moved away so as to avoid the heartbreak it may have caused either or both of you. What's important for you, is to understand what it was that you liked so much about this person, and to continue to look for those good qualities in other guys your age. Sadly, it will take a few years before boys catch up to your level of maturity, but give it time.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (5 September 2012):
 A crush on a teacher is normal.
I had a crush on my high school english teacher... I still remember it and that was 1977!
If you feel depressed can you go to your mom and ask her to take you to the doctor? Even situational depression needs to be attended to.
BUT, you did not love him. It was a crush honey... a fantasy... and that's NORMAL as long as you don't give up the rest of your life because of it.
BEST thing to do, work hard in school, play hard with your friends, LIVE your LIFE.... and this too shall pass.
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reader, lmao1989 +, writes (5 September 2012):
 The reason why you done so well is because of the feelings you had for your teacher because you liked him you wanted to learn and do so well for him.I would say just think of the teacher guiding you through school even though he isn't there and it'll help you get through school just think of the results you could get and know that this specific teacher helped you get theseI have to agree with Karlos i think it is just a crush and you'll have those on teachers but you must remember that you got the best grades because you were so interested in that teacher. If you work to the best of your ability you'll be doing that and supporting your teacher you liked on how well he taught you.Just try and concentrate and you'll be fine.Best of luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2012): You didn't love him, you had a crush on him, its common for girls your age to develop crushes on teachers.
Although it doesn't feel like it now, him leaving is actually the best thing that could have happened, because the less you see him, the less you'll think about him, and in time you'll be over this and you'll look back and wonder what all the fuss was about.
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