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anonymous
writes:Hello am 17 and never had a boyfriend and i recently just started college and i have been attending for 5 days now and since day 1 of college i have noticed this guy staring at at me at he is tall tan and i think he is shy and pretty fit. Our teacher has been making us take part in these exercises so we all get to know each other where you have to go around and ask people questions and we have done these exercises twice now am so far i have not spoken to him. When ever i catch him looking at me he looks away. So i spoke to some girls in the class and one of them said that he looks at her too but as soon as i walk in he looks at me too. Am really confused.I have never had a boyfriend which is embarrassing and would desperately like to know how it feels to have one this has happened to me before i catch a guy constantly looking at me i think he likes me. But i cant help but think he likes me i think am going paranoid i have only known him for 5 days and already i keep thinking about him is its all in my head because of desperation. Today in class i was really shocked to see him because i thought he was not in that lesson when i saw him immedialty i moved seats so i had my back to him. maybe he does not like me its all in my head i don't want to speak to him. but its just our eyes meet when ever i feel like he is staring at me i look at him and out eyes meet then we both look away. Please someone be honest with me does this guy like me or is it all in my head i needs an honest opinion please.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (13 September 2012):
 he likes you
and it's all in your head.
honey there is no way we know what he is thinking...
you will need to be brave and smile at him and say "hi"
and see what happens.
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reader, lmao1989 +, writes (13 September 2012):
 It could go either way. He may very well like you you say you don't want to talk to him but then how will you ever know whether he does or not?
Obviously talking to him doesn't mean you ask him straight out whether or not he likes you. Perhaps he's looking to make friends and sees you as a nice person and would like to engage in a conversation.
Don't be so paranoid though if you feel he likes you enjoy the moment and do not be afraid to just talk to him.
Simple conversation can go a long way!
Be positive!!
Chin up. If you want to talk further don't hesitate to message me!
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (13 September 2012):
 Do you think we can actually answer this question without you having talked with him? The only way to know if someone is interested is to show interest in them and see what happens. Otherwise, there is no way to know.
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