Is he avoiding/ignoring me because I wouldn't have sex with him?
Q. Just wanted to get a guy's perspective on this: I've been dating a guy for about 2 months, we seemed to get along, joke, talk about sports (yes I like sports), and he's been affectionate with me, however we haven't had sex. He's been dropping hi...
A. 3 February 2011: well you dont want a man who only wants you for sex but that is a big part of a relationship. You have to talk to him and explain to him why you do not want to have sex and why it is important to you to practice abstence. He may feel that is him ... (read in full...)
Does he regret cheating on me?
Q. Its been two years now since I broke up with my ex of five years and although I caught him cheating on me, and I ended things, and have not spoken to him since. He was my best friend. I am wondering if he ever regrets what he did? Or if he ever ...
A. 3 February 2011: Wow! two years is too long to be thinking back. He has a whole new life now. I say move on and give your self a fresh start by meeting a new man. Sometimes you simply have to move forward in life... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend, but she is romantically absent. Help!
Q. We are both in our early 50's, seeing each other for 3 years now. I love her very much and I don't want to be without her regardless, but I am getting frustrated as I have a normal sex drive and desire her constantly. She does so much for so many, ...
A. 3 February 2011: I understand how you feel. she will soon make you feel resentful and being resentful turns to anger. Seeing her treat every one so well but deny you will surely hurt and make you angry. you have to speak to her and tell her how you feel. Tell her ... (read in full...)
Is she using me to make her ex boyfriend jealous? Or am I over thinking?
Q. Am I over thinking this, or is their a reason for me feeling like she is using me? This girl and I dated for about 2 years, over 1.5 years ago. She then dated a guy for 8 months, he was really outgoing and she got to experience a lot of things wi...
A. 3 February 2011: hey man dont even get involved with the ex boyfriend. I have never done anything with a girlfriends ex. that is senseless. Let the past be the past. You are a man and you should take control of the relationship. A man should not want to say ... (read in full...)
Can somebody please tell me what is going on with this man? I'm so confused!
Q. This man that I see everyday flirts with me and touches me in friendly gestures. He said we needed to talk soon about me liking him. He watches me and sometimes walks back and forth to his office when he knows I’m in the hallway and he makes sure he ...
A. 3 February 2011: He may be interested in you but he may have a wife or girlfriend that is with him at home which makes it hard for him to contact you back on email. Dont even waste your time. Look at and read the signs that are there. If he has not asked you out ... (read in full...)
Married, cheated with ex, got caught, still married and still miss my ex!!!! Help!!!
Q. I cheated on my husband with my first love, who has a girlfriend. We didn't have a long affair, we mostly emailed, texted and we were able to meet a few times. We had sex and it was incredible. Back in high school when we dated he left me because ...
A. 3 February 2011: Babe you have to grow up. You are letting your urges hurt the man and your family that loves you. If your husband is bad in the bed, teach him and tell what you like and what turns you on. Encourage him by telling him how great of a lover he is. ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my husband we need marriage counseling?
Q. My husband and I having been problems over the last year. It started with him accusing me of cheating on him and leaving me. We desided to work things out but I found he was still chatting with females on match.com. I canceled that account and then ...
A. 3 February 2011: counceling will not work if he does not want the relationship to work. You have to simply make him decide if he wants you or the other women. they may just be friends or something to past up time. I would not deal with it. (a girlfriend talking ... (read in full...)
My mom is getting too close to my boyfriend for my liking!
Q. Ok I met this guy new years and have been seeing him since, well I live with my mom cause I can't afford my own place as a full time student. well every since I have started seeing him, my mom invites him over most of the time, she asks him to go ...
A. 3 February 2011: if he is getting pics of other women, i would leave him alone. he seems like a play boy. dont waste your time with some one like that. You surely will end up hurt and disappointed.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated on me, now I don't trust him! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me we've been together for two years and i found out he slept with the girl he said that he realize he wants me but the trust is gone i thought he was a good guy what do I do?...
A. 3 February 2011: guys make mistakes. if you love him, you have to forgive him. Most men have cheated. its wrong but he is human.... (read in full...)
Every time I ask her out she says she's too busy!
Q. There is a girl that lives a considerable distance away from me and we text back and forth every so often. I've hung out with her a couple times and I want to ask her out, but every time I ask her to do something she is too busy. I know that she is ...
A. 3 February 2011: sounds like she already has some one that she is spending her time with. Look at the signs man, move on... (read in full...)
Just lost the woman I truly love... please help...
Q. hi, My name is Gerard, first off, me and my girlfriend broke up a few weeks ago, she;s dating this other guy now and we've been through this all before, over the past 6 years of being with her i've had to wait for her while she was with other guys ...
A. 3 February 2011: women come and go, man. dont give her too much power. it will hurt but think about all of the facts (the bad things and reasons to why you two are not together. their are other fishes out there.... (read in full...)
16 years and our sex life is rare now! What gives?
Q. I have been with my partner now for 16 years we have a son and both have baggage from our past for the last couple of years our sex life has become rare! But a lot of this was down to me medically but the last few months nothing at all, he recently ...
A. 3 February 2011: you too have lost communication. Spice it up. set up a candle light mood with some slow music. Wear something nice for him one day. Give a nice back massage. Talk to him. Become his friend again.... (read in full...)
Jealous of husband's female friend!
Q. Should I be upset that my husband of thirty years, talks to his lady friend on the phone almost every day, sometimes several times in a day? I guess I am just a little jealous because he doesn't talk to me that much. And I caught him lying about ...
A. 3 February 2011: well, i would be bothered by that relationship. they may just be great friends. tell him that it bothers you. See if he include you in the conversations. communication is the key. talk to him... (read in full...)
A lot on his plate or am I losing him?
Q. Hi, I recently started seeing this guy. We met during our office Christmas party, we made out a few times that night! We've been out together a few times since then, he's usually send me texts every once and a while and would initiate the dat...
A. 3 February 2011: He may just be busy but it does just take a second to email some one. you can do two things. 1. tell him that you really like him and that you want to date him. (con) He may turn you down and hurt you.
2. Dont call him back and wait for him (con... (read in full...)
Why am I still not over this girl and what can I do about it?
Q. Here's the basis of the background story: I transferred schools (from public to private) my sophomore year in high school, first day of school I saw the most beautiful girl I had ever seen and ended up having three other classes with her and ...
A. 3 February 2011: just be real and straight forward with her. ask her to speak to her. Tell her how you feel. She may be happy with her situation or she may be interested in you. Take a chance and see what happens. If not, move on... (read in full...)
Ex-boyfriend's friend wants me!
Q. I've got a situation where my ex-boyfriend's friend is asking me to date him. At first this friend did not about my relationship with my ex bf but since he's coming pretty strong on me.. i told him about it to avoid any kind of awkwardness. He said ...
A. 3 February 2011: be careful about dating ex's friends. that could be messy. I would not ever do it but i have know so people that have. Look at Maury. most of those situations turn out sour. Find some one new and start a new chapter in your life.... (read in full...)
I get urges to call him after the breakup...
Q. My boyfirend of 2 years just broke up with me 3 days ago and I feel horrible for many reasons. First, the break up was one of the most dramatic events of my life. It happenned in his place after we had a big argument over something stupid and he ...
A. 3 February 2011: both of you need to sit down and talk about what makes you two mad. it seems like you guys need to learn how to FORGIVE each other for the past hurts that you both have caused each other. He seems to be tired of the arguing and fighting by not ... (read in full...)
I've done everything he wanted but I can't seem to win him over!
Q. Okay, so I've liked this senior for a while now. I'm 14 and he's 18. We hung out in the beginning of December. He told me he couldn't be serious because of the age difference. I was really crushed. We quit talking for a while because we got in an ...
A. 3 February 2011: dont worry about guys now. you have to know how to love and treasure your self first. when I was your age, I had my crushes and all but i was busy playing sports, dreaming of going to college. I was playing video games and being a young person. ... (read in full...)
Is it okay when in a relationship to hang around with the opposite sex?
Q. i just wanted to know is it okay to be in a relationship and hang out with the opposite sex?... ive been with my bf for quite awhile and i have guyfriends who want to chill but only as friends but i never can because my bf gets mad even if i ...
A. 3 February 2011: most men feel threatened when their women wants to hang out with another man. Put your self in his shoes. It takes a mature man who has a LOT of trust for his lady to accept her hanging out with other guys. I cant and I wont personally. Things ... (read in full...)
Single... and lonely!
Q. Dear Cupid I'm 20, and I've been single for over a year now. I'm ready to date again, but I can't seem to find anyone who isn't married,taken, or interested in me at all. Most of my friends and people I went to school with have boyfrien...
A. 3 February 2011: guys are out there. try match.com or another dating site. it gives you a chance to save your time by weeding people out. a special man will find you, dont worry.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend lied!
Q. My boyfriend lied, an I asked for advise on here an I got very good advise, an Iv been putting it too the test,an I went outside too smoke an I sat in his car, an his phone was in there so I know shouldn't of done it but I picked it up an went threw ...
A. 3 February 2011: You are fighting over nothing. Give him space and don't try to control him by picking his friends. You will surely push him away. Chill out and relax. You are young. Don't make the relationship so serious. You two are not married. Have fun.... (read in full...)
Guy in need of answer!
Q. I don't really know how to start off this "question" but i'll get straight to it..... since i have been little i have had a far from simple life i got bullied all the way through primary school for my weight parents always argued and nearly broke up ...
A. 3 February 2011: it seems that you have a void in your life. It may be a religous situation. Pray to who ever you believe in and ask them to feel the void in your life. ... (read in full...)
I wanna stop gettin violent with my boyfriend!
Q. I wanna stop gettin violent with my boyfriend, when we get pissed off we tend too break things, an throw stuff, an say hurtful things, how did we get like this? I don't want every argument too have this outcome, an latley its been me doing it. Wats ...
A. 3 February 2011: you seem to have a anger problem. Learn to forgive him and who ever else make you mad... (read in full...)
I'm thinking she wants me to ask her out?
Q. I know this great girl. I recently have started to like her and i really like her now. She has asked about who my crush is so i hinted it to her. She said she doesn't have one because she has been hurt to much. She said she would consider going out ...
A. 3 February 2011: if you like her man, ask her out.... (read in full...)
Help!!! Is my boyfriend lying to me?
Q. What do you think? is my boyfriend lying to me? did he sleep with her? My boyfriend said he wanted a break from our relationship to clear his head. I gave him space. He rang me lots, left me voice messages and when he still couldn't reach me he em...
A. 3 February 2011: Young lady, don't put yourself through the agony of wondering if he was with another women. That will drive you crazy. If you two had broken up, the situation is out of your hand. Focus on the future with him and live for tommorrow.... (read in full...)
I've met "The One"... but it's complicated!
Q. So i've meet the one. Really the one i dreamed all my life. The girl of my dreams. But was a complicated relationchip and she started taking antidepressives with only 20 years age. At a year and a half she brokes up with me, and after a month of no ...
A. 3 February 2011: Man don't waste your time. Don't take on extra baggage. She is going to make you miss out on something really special. Don't give any woman or person too much power in your life. Learn to walk away.... (read in full...)
I've done everything he wanted but I can't seem to win him over!
Q. Okay, so I've liked this senior for a while now. I'm 14 and he's 18. We hung out in the beginning of December. He told me he couldn't be serious because of the age difference. I was really crushed. We quit talking for a while because we got in an ...
A. 3 February 2011: Young lady, focus on school and college. Guys will always be there. Trust me, The senior will leave you soon anyway.... (read in full...)
I feel so much guilt for doing this!
Q. I have a gf but we haven't had sex in a while she is out of town ... I miss it and sometimes i watch porn and porn videos of gays come out .... so today there is someone that i didnt know and we were talking on the internet and he asked me if i wa...
A. 3 February 2011: Prey and ask forgiveness. Dont tell her. She will surely leave you. you have to be careful and smart man. ... (read in full...)
Ex told him lies about me and now he's not the same with me any more. Help!
Q. Ok, I am 16 and the guy is 17. We are both juniors and I really like him. He has showed interest in me since the beginning of the year but I never acted on it, until about three weeks ago. At first he was really nice and we texted a lot and he would ...
A. 3 February 2011: Little lady, I would not even stress too much. Tell him how you feel but stay focused on school and going to college. Guys will always be there... (read in full...)
Why is he too casual? Is he just not into me?
Q. I have been dating someone for 7 weeks, we are both 27 and have been sleeping together for 4 weeks. (it was a bit soon i know!) We both work 10 hour days, 5 days per week. My question is, he seems too casual and i wonder if its a case of "he's just ...
A. 3 February 2011: Yea, you need to relax. As long as he stays consistent with spending time with you. Give him a little space. When he goes out with his friends, You should go out with yours. Make him wonder who you are with. If he starts spending Saturday away ... (read in full...)
My mom is getting too close to my boyfriend for my liking!
Q. Ok I met this guy new years and have been seeing him since, well I live with my mom cause I can't afford my own place as a full time student. well every since I have started seeing him, my mom invites him over most of the time, she asks him to go ...
A. 3 February 2011: Dont put too much into it. I use to always flirt with my ex girls mother. she would hug up on me and she even kissed me one xmas. We laughed and I told my ex girlfriend and we laughed about it. She trusted her mother and knew that her mother ... (read in full...)
I'm insecure with my b/f about swinger emails, porn ...
Q. Hi.. I have seen on the search history that my boyfriend stays viewing porn. At first it didn't bother, but now he sees it everyday. I also saw he was getting emails from a swingers club but it was dated several months after we started dating.. he ...
A. 3 February 2011: Dont be insecure about the porn. Some people just like porn, I watch it sometimes. I joke with my girlfriends and watch it with them. I did have an old girlfriend that told me that it bothered her when I watched porn and would go months with out ... (read in full...)
Is 'no contact' the right way to get her back?
Q. basically,my and ex and i broke up around 4 and a half months ago.it came out of nowhere,we were very much in love we talked in dept about our future,she told me she never met anyne like me and etc.the break up was down to silly arguments because of ...
A. 3 February 2011: if you want her, dont go that long with out talking to her. She surely will meet someone and move on. Now if she experience a bad relationship, she may come back but you dont want a damaged women. Decide if you want to be with her and if you do, ... (read in full...)
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