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writes:Okay, so I've liked this senior for a while now. I'm 14 and he's 18. We hung out in the beginning of December. He told me he couldn't be serious because of the age difference. I was really crushed. We quit talking for a while because we got in an argument over the age thing. Just the other night, he told me he was very attracted to me. We have been to third base and we've sent pictures back and forth. I've given him everything hoping he'd want to be with me. Why won't he commit to me? I've done everything he wanted, but I can't seem to win him over! Please help me!
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reader, Leodjoneluv +, writes (3 February 2011):
 dont worry about guys now. you have to know how to love and treasure your self first. when I was your age, I had my crushes and all but i was busy playing sports, dreaming of going to college. I was playing video games and being a young person. Enjoy being young now because the real world will come and when it do, you will know it. Focus on school, love your self, and enjoy life
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reader, Leodjoneluv +, writes (3 February 2011):
Young lady, focus on school and college. Guys will always be there. Trust me, The senior will leave you soon anyway.
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reader, seniorfreshy14 +, writes (3 February 2011):
seniorfreshy14 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI really do want to change, but I've realized I've already screwed up. I have to change because I'm going down a path I don't want too. I need the help, but its really har to change when there isn't anyone to help. I had a great guy who just let me kinda be me and was there every second for me and called me and let me cry and it was all good, but he's gone. He was the only thing helping me. I don't know who to turn to now and it sucks and it hurts.
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reader, df30 +, writes (3 February 2011):
Well I'm glad your being honest because you are young, I know i'm only 22 and when people told me what not to do I got defensive and wanted to grow up. Truth is though you may totally disagree with me, there are way more guys out there than just some senior at your school, yeah he is going to college, let him go. Please take things slow don't be that girl that hurts herself without even knowing it, I used to think I was invincible and mature and ready to grow up when I was 15, truth was I wasn't. Some things you have to learn on your own but I would highly recommend that you slow down and especially before doing anything sexual think first, the guy that you want to do that stuff with will come, in fact there are plenty of good guys out there. I'm just saying be 15 don't go down the insecure promiscous route and hurt yourself.
Your the only person who can control your life, having that attitude you can turn anything around. This is your life you get one shot I think someday you might agree with me, time will fly.
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reader, KingOfThron  +, writes (3 February 2011):
 100% aggre with df30, Your way too young and i know you dont want people telling you that but he is 18. and your only 14. for one you can get in into some crap with the law if they ever found out, 2ed he shouldn't have lead you on to the point you want this guy. any guy that is 18 and trying to pick up a girl that is 14 has really low standers (not sayign your pretty, becuase im sure you are) but he should try to find a girl his own age and you should just live lift and take your time
another thing is starting to do things like this at age 14 is kinda bad, you could get a name for your self and people might thing your easy or much worse words. Please wait and just enjoy life =] promise you'll find some one 100x better =]
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reader, seniorfreshy14 +, writes (3 February 2011):
seniorfreshy14 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm actually a freshman. I forgot to mention that, but yeah I'm almost 15. I know that your right because like I've gone through a few guys. He says he likes me and really cares, but I guess yeah. He's going to college and I guess he probably won't even care. I have a past of cheating and drinking already and I'm a freshman, but I don't know how to turn my life around.
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reader, df30 +, writes (3 February 2011):
Because your 14, who wants to date an eight grader while their a senior? sorry thats probably the truth, please calm down on the dirty stuff your only 14 believe me any boy your age that was interested in you is intimidated by this and your reputation could be affected. Your 14, dont grow up until you have to. Wait for someone who fits you, its not a good move to beg some senior to date you. You shouldnt have to beg anyone to date you and please please dont let boys push you into doing things like the pictures or sexual favors My gf did that and I still hate thinking about her past and the way she went through guys.
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