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26-29,
*ummerRain
writes:Ok, I am 16 and the guy is 17. We are both juniors and I really like him. He has showed interest in me since the beginning of the year but I never acted on it, until about three weeks ago. At first he was really nice and we texted a lot and he would always tell me I was beautiful. And in the mornings he would Always send these cute good morning messages. We only have one class together but we both looked forward to it all day because it was sixth. Soon after that he started giving me rides home. It was going great and I know he was planning on asking me out in a couple of days but then my ex started talking to him. My ex told him things about me that were not true and I'm afraid that he now thinks that I am paranoid and that I am not mature enough for him. I talked to him about it and now he thinks that I am a prude as well, which I am not and I am not opposed to sex but this was a week ago and ever since then he has not talked to me the same way or been the same. He doesn't send me good morning txts and doesn't go out of his way to see me. A couple of days ago we had a basketball game and we had a lot of fun together and so I thought things were back to normal but then he left without saying good bye. I don't let myself fall for a guy unless I am almost positive it will work, and I definitely fell head over heals for him but I don't think he feels the same way about me anymore and I miss the way we used to be, how can I get him back?
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reader, Leodjoneluv +, writes (3 February 2011):
 Little lady, I would not even stress too much. Tell him how you feel but stay focused on school and going to college. Guys will always be there
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reader, faenon  +, writes (3 February 2011):
 First of all you need to tell the jealous ex to back off and mind his own business he only went to talk to the boy you like to cause friction and it seems like it worked.Secondly if this new fellow you like is stupid enough to heed and act on rumors and heresay from your ex then his a fool and isn't worth your time of day darlin.And thirdly if his only interest in you was the slim hope of getting into your pants since you mention (I talked to him about it and now he thinks that I am a prude as well, which I am not and I am not opposed to sex but this was a week ago and ever since then he has not talked to me the same way or been the same) then again he isnt worth your time of day either.Talk to him see how he feels maybe his been warned off you by the ex and the new fellow doesn't have a pair to stand up to him eitherway talk to him find out how he feels about you then don't chase let him put the hard yards in to get you.
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