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... Send *egioness a private message | | | *egioness's profile:Hey all you lovely people :D i'm Becky, from Hertfordshire in England. I'm currently in college working toward a diploma in childcare and education. I have an amazing fiance and amazing future step son.
what qualifies me to help? Well, i've been through alot in my life, literally probably every kind of situation you could imagine.
i've had it all when it comes to relationships, i've had one boyfriend in prison, i've done long distance several times, i've cheated and been cheated on, i've been in love, i've had my heart broken. I've had sex with far too many people for my age, I started out early and regret it.
other than that my lifes been generally rather messed up in all honesty. But i've come out as a much better person than what anyone ever expected me to be.
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My boyfriend is obsessed with licking my toes!
Q. my boyfriend has this weird obsession with licking my toes and it kinda creeps me out when he licks my toes but im afraid that if i don't let him lick my toes he'll break up with me and go out with some other girl who will let him lick their toes ...
A. 2 August 2009: Well, two things you can do..
1. Put up with it, if you really want to..
2. Tell him, not that it creeps you out, but that you're just not into it.
honestly, if he feels the same as you do him then he'd be fine with not doing it, perhaps sugg... (read in full...)
My b/f doesn't satisfy me sexually
Q. Ive been dating my bf for 8 mths now, we have a great connection.We are in our mid to late 20s with previous relationship experiences prior to us dating. We have reached level of intimacy, though I'm hitting a stale mate at a point in which makes ...
A. 2 August 2009: The only way you're going to get any change here is if you talk to him about the situation. Set a nice mood before hand so not to accidentally offend, ya know, ease it out a little bit, and get talking about it, but not in a way like 'you should do ... (read in full...)
Do girls love long necks?
Q. Do girls think a long neck is sexy? My neck is 5 1/4 inches long and I have a nice tan on it. I am the only one in my family to have such a long neck. ...
A. 19 July 2009: Each to their own. Some do, some don't, some aren't bothered at all :)... (read in full...)
Puberty questions
Q. Moderator's note: two questions from the same poster have been combined. 1.) im nearly 14 and i have a lot of pubic hair and a little bit of arm pit hair but no other hair expect from my head but my penis hasnt grown to much its 3-5 inches flop and...
A. 19 July 2009: To your first question, i'm no expert but you're completely normal in the downstairs compartment, you'd be glad to know :) as for hair, do you mean leg/stomach/chest hair etc? If so, then everyone developes differently at different times, you're not ... (read in full...)
Do I have an elastic hymen or something?
Q. ok actually this is my first time 2 talk about it.the first time i had sex i didn't bleed at all and then the secoond and so on. ahy is that? is it that i have an elastic hymen or what? plz tell me how can i know that without going to the doctor?...
A. 19 July 2009: It may be that you've just broken your hymen another way, previously, without noticing it. Do you partake in activities such as horse riding or gymnastics? Even riding a bike could do it. Or on the other hand, some girls are bloody lucky (excuse the ... (read in full...)
Do I trust him not to cheat on me?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been going together for a year, and i really love him. he's the best thing thats happened to me, and is my strength.he proposed to me a while back and i accepted. but im about ti graduate. im so scared because even though ...
A. 14 July 2009: If he's never given you any reason to suspect that he may cheat then the only thing you can really do is try and block it out, because if you're having this paranoia it could lead to you falsely accusing him of cheating or whatever and destroy your ... (read in full...)
His behavior is driving me loopy!
Q. my guy friend rugby tackles me picks me up forcefully bear hugs me and apparently i owe him like a billion hugs. i don't get it hes the only friend that does this. past times we have pride ourselves on teasing eachother and our dry with but lat...
A. 14 July 2009: I'm not a guy, well I hope I'm not anyway! O_o lol but it does sound like he wants you, bad!... (read in full...)
What color mascara and eye-liner would look good with blue eyes?
Q. hey i have a make up question. i have blue eyes and i was wondering what color eyeliner and mascara would look best? thanks for the help...
A. 13 July 2009: Brown brown brown brown brown! I have bluey green eyes, and if I want the blue to stand out more I use brown eyeliner, mascara or eyeshadow, and if I want the green to stand out more i'd use purple/plum instead. And it works :)... (read in full...)
Sex music?
Q. Me and my girl have got this list going of really good songs to have sex to...i was wondering if anybody can suggest anything else in the lines of rock, metal, or goth. Here's what we got (not all, but some): "Poison" by Alice Cooper "Cou...
A. 5 July 2009: How about some Marilyn Manson? Tainted love, put a spell on you, disposable teens, beautiful people, wow, tourniquet, coma white.. I like those songs for doing the dirty, they've got wicked beats. Burzum- dunkelheit. comatose vigil- mirrors of ... (read in full...)
I want to help my alcholic friend but don't know how! Help!
Q. I have a friend who I believe is an alcoholic. She drinks when she gets up, she drinks every evening. She admits to she drinks too much. She told he she’s always had a problem, despite my best efforts I don’t know what to do, I’m not getting ...
A. 3 July 2009: Tough love, my dear. Do some net surfing and find the most horrendous, disturbing, real life stories, pictures, and videos of what someone can physically and mentally end up like through alcohol abuse. Brutal truths and all that jazz, shock therapy ... (read in full...)
My guy is under a lot of stress and I want to comfort him
Q. My boyfriend is having a big birthday coming up on July 12th. He has had a lot of pressure lately and he has been really down. I know I help to bring his spirits up usually but I just really want to do something incredibly special for him. I've ...
A. 3 July 2009: Maybe get him something engraved? Like a dog tag necklace or something? You could even pick up a cheap engraving kit and have a go at it yourself, it really is rather easy once you get the hang of it :) also the collage idea is a brilliant one, ... (read in full...)
I love him, I told him, but I don't know if he gets it
Q. Okay, I love this guy and have since the first day we met. But every time we go out (date) i always end up breaking up with him,. We both tell each other we still have feelings for one another. But recently he asked me if it was okay if he asked...
A. 3 July 2009: Sounds like a bit of a no good player to me my dear. I think the best course of action here is to just move on from him. As the saying goes, there's plenty more fish in the sea, and your prince charming is out there somewhere :)... (read in full...)
How can you miss someone depending on the circumstances?
Q. My boyfriend who i don't get to see very often and who i miss a lot tells me today that he misses me when i'm nice but doesn't miss me when he thinks i'm nasty to him.I miss him all the time how can you miss someone only sometimes depending on the ...
A. 3 July 2009: Easy, when someones being nasty to you, you really just think 'pffft!' and rather forget about them for the time being so to not wind yourself up about the situation. When that someones being all sweet and lovely again then of course you're going to ... (read in full...)
Should I take a break from sex?
Q. hey there all ive had sex like every week sometimes like 5 times this has been happening for about 3 weeks straight when my chick comes over ... then after that I watched porn for about a week and masturbated like everyday when she was menstrua...
A. 3 July 2009: You could try a break from it, but I don't know if it'd make any difference. What durex do you use? Maybe you should try the performa ones? At least I think that's what they're called, and from my experience, well not technically mine but ya know ... (read in full...)
My teacher moved to Chicago and I miss him...I think I love him
Q. I need help,I think I might love my teacher, but he is the same gender as I am. I thaought at first I didn't because I liked this girl,but now were just good friends. Since summer is over,I miss him a lot since he move to chicago and he is my ...
A. 3 July 2009: Bless ya hun, you're young, it's just a crush. Give it a few weeks and you'd have probably forgotten all about him. Focus your energies on something productive, perhaps find a hobby to help take your mind off your teacher and give you something ... (read in full...)
Help me please - I haven't heard from him since yesterday! I'm so worried!
Q. Hi, I am currently in a long distace relationship with a guy in florida.. We have never met, Anyway yesterday he was at the theme park .. and he sent me a message saying "hey i can't text much but i am going home very soon and i will call y...
A. 2 July 2009: To the porter, you've had some pretty good advice here and I can't say that I can add to it, but.. To anon who thinks you can't be in a relationship when you haven't met- it's easy to be in a relationship when you haven't met someone, that's how ... (read in full...)
Should I make appointments for relaxation for both of us?
Q. Should I make appointments for a day of relaxation for both of us? Or is it too much too soon? Okay, so I've been in a relationship with this great guy (6 months dating). Anyways, we planned a weekend get-away..and I just thought 'Hey, why not bo...
A. 2 July 2009: Have you looked around for the cheaper places and options? It really does sound like a lovely thing for you both to do :) but do whatever you can afford, even if it's just a manicure each i'm sure he'd appriciate it just as much as the works, ... (read in full...)
I'm on the Pill but we don't use condoms, could I still get pregnant?
Q. hey i'm sophie, 16 right so i've been on the pill for nearly 6 months now and everytime me and my fiancé have sex we don't use a condom. Can i still get pregnant? i'm slightly worried. please help....
A. 2 July 2009: There's a very slight chance of getting pregnant on the pill, it's not fully effective so once in every several cases it can happen. If you really do want to stay safe then make sure you do not forget to take your pill and use a condom as well. ... (read in full...)
What was your favorite age and why?
Q. hey guys and girls can you answer this plz , tell me which period of age was your favorite and why !!!!!...
A. 29 June 2009: Ooh I can relate to that actually, manou. When I was younger I used to be really overweight and just not attractive, but by the time I hit about 14, when I dropped out of school, all the weight came falling off of me and I started to become really ... (read in full...)
What was your favorite age and why?
Q. hey guys and girls can you answer this plz , tell me which period of age was your favorite and why !!!!!...
A. 27 June 2009: I'm with HereToHelpx. Childhood.. Ah, that was the life huh? :)... (read in full...)
I worry about how I taste!
Q. Okay this may sound weird but here goes: My boyfriend likes to go down on me but a lot of times I don't let him because I can't stop thinking whether or not I taste okay down there. It makes me feel really weird. I shower every day and clean my...
A. 27 June 2009: Your fella wouldn't be doing it and wanting to do it if it doesn't taste good my dear :p ... (read in full...)
Parenting and etiquette advice please!
Q. My daughter is having her 5th birthday party next week, and I am taking her to see a stage play. The tickets are not that expensive, but there is some travel. what I was wondering was if I want to invite her friend, am if I responsible to buy the ...
A. 26 June 2009: I'd say that it'd only be polite to pay yourself. But as you said, moneys a bit tight, so perhaps if you were to ask the friends parent to chip in a little, it'd be a great deal of help :)... (read in full...)
Does any one know of any free chat rooms?
Q. Wanting to meet a nice guy aged from 20 to 23 in adelaide any tips or advice. Does anyone know of a free chat service?...
A. 25 June 2009: A site that i've just been chatting to people for the fun of it for years- moko.mobi give it a go :) you get all sorts on there, people looking for love, people looking for friendship, everything. It's like a big community, it's definately a good ... (read in full...)
I wish I hadn't gotten in touch again, what can I do?
Q. I was dating a guy for 3 years and we broke up. We didn't speak for 3 months and I emailed him last week and he responded briefly. After that I saw in a couple of times in work and he wouldn't look at me or say hello. I got upset and sent him an ...
A. 25 June 2009: I think the only thing you can really do at this point is completely move on with your life. Forget him, look to the future and what it holds for you :)... (read in full...)
What kind of gift would be fun and nice for a young lady?
Q. I am going to be home from uni over the summer, so I won't be seeing the young lady I like until possibly until September (though as I only live a couple of hours away I will probably try to visit when I can) Our current situation is that we have ...
A. 25 June 2009: Ok, i've been thinking about this. And this may be slightly influenced by how i've been seeing this guy lately, but yea, what better gift than the gift of an amazing day out? Try and cram in a bunch of things she, and you both love, into one day, ... (read in full...)
New boyfriend still in touch with his ex
Q. Hi, I met this lovely guy about 2 months ago...things were going really well, he was very attentive, always wanting to see me, call me etc. I noticed a few weeks ago that things quietened down a little and he didnt call so much but we have both been ...
A. 20 June 2009: I wouldn't mention the ex, not yet anyway. Talk to him about your relationship and such, see what he says, at least then you'll have some idea where you're standing and what he feels about your relationship and where you're going. If, in the worse ... (read in full...)
I just don't think he's the one
Q. me and my friend have been friends for near over two years. and he told me recently that he loved me and thought we were ment to be together but we live in different countrys he doesnt work enough for us to be able to see each other more than twice ...
A. 20 June 2009: Here's a few good reasons not to become anything more than the friends you are.. 1. You are obviously in doubt about whether you'd want to be more than friends or not, that's not a good basis to start a relationship on, 2. As you said, you live in ... (read in full...)
Experiences with online dating
Q. I've gone through a long, difficult break up. I learned some things about myself, have been learning to move on etc. Now, I really would like to try again at another relationship. I'm quite shy and haven't been in the area for that long, so I want ...
A. 20 June 2009: I have no experience with that particular site, but know it has worked for friends and such. I think really though, when it comes to finding a partner online, and i'm talking from experience here, you want to be very picky with locations, as a long ... (read in full...)
Family verses boyfriend. What do I do?
Q. Hi. I come from country XXX. I moved to Canada when I was 18 to study. I've been living in Canada for eight years now. I've been with my boyfriend for three and have lived with him for two. Marriage discussions have taken place since a while back. ...
A. 20 June 2009: I think I have a good idea here, perhaps arrange a meet with your parents, your boyfriend and his mother, and of course your self, but before the meeting time all write down on seperate pieces of paper all the pro's, con's, what you/they'd want you ... (read in full...)
I want to be an actress
Q. im 16 and im really intrested in starting an acting career only thing is i cant find any auditions or an agent. i live in duluth georgia. if any one can help please do! i love to act and i just want to achieve my dream! please help...
A. 20 June 2009: Check out 'how to find a talent agent' on ehow.com :)... (read in full...)
How do YOU define love? How did you know when it was love?
Q. can anyone one tell me what their definition of love is? or how did you feel/know that it was love?...
A. 20 June 2009: I'd say love is.. Being comfortable with someone, being able to be your true self, missing them even if you've been away from them for an hour or two, imagining spending your whole life with them, imagining building a family with them, not wanting ... (read in full...)
Any advice on sex toys...
Q. hey guys, i posted a question about learning to 'squirt' for my fella, and a fair few answers came up with try on my own first, which im more than willing to give a go although i can orgasm by myself it takes AGGGGES and i can sometimes get...
A. 18 June 2009: Ugh this is really going to bug me now, I know exactly what you need but I can't think for the life of me what it's called! Check out pabo online, you should find g-spot massagers and all that jazz ;) x... (read in full...)
During sex, I either feel nothing or I feel pain
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 11 months now and we have had sex over 30 times but during sex i dont feel anything or i feel pain. once we had sex and i was on top and it was okay but i think that was because my clilt was rubbing on his stomach. ...
A. 18 June 2009: Try some different positions, create different atmospheres, include lots of foreplay, kissing, touching ect. experiment a little with what feels good for you. perhaps buy a sex toy and practise on your own, so you know what you feel comfortable with ... (read in full...)
My relationships rarely last more than a month...except for one ex who I loved
Q. All of my relationships suck, they don't even last a month. when I break up with the guys I don't even care, there has been one relationship of mine the lasted 5 months and then the guy ended it, I was heart broken. And I think with my previous ...
A. 18 June 2009: Have you heard the saying 'good things come to those who wait'? You're still very young, you've got all your life for mr right to come knocking, until then, just date and have fun, you don't particularly need to get into a relationship when dating ... (read in full...)
I don't think he feels the same way anymore
Q. I dont understand this really, it might even be confusing. Im in an LDR. We text eachother because neither of us like to talk on the phone, anyways he responds to me in one word and he makes it seem like he doesnt care. Yeah i understand you ...
A. 18 June 2009: I've been there, done that, and bought the tshirt.. The only way I think you'll break this barrier is if you two start talking via phone calls hun x... (read in full...)
I want to send her a love letter to say sorry, what should I put in it?
Q. My ex and I have been broken up now for a few months. She broke up with me after about a year of dating and after the break up it's been a constant roller coaster. There have been times where we fought and didnt talk for a while yet other times ...
A. 17 June 2009: If you can do it, get her sat down reading the letter, then go off, grab your guitar after how ever long you think it'd take her to get at least 3 quarters way through it, then stroll in playing your song. I think that'd make the letter, especially ... (read in full...)
What would you label my sexuality?
Q. The last time my boyfriend went down on me in order to cum i had to imagine it was a girl doing it... Ive never been with a girl before but could this mean im bi? I feel bad for my boyfriend... :/...
A. 16 June 2009: I think you're just confused, perhaps talk to your boyfriend about doing some experimentation? You never know, he might like it ;) x ... (read in full...)
He used the pull-out method and I could be pregnant
Q. well im 13 years old and my boyfriend is 16 and we had sex without a condom... he pulled out b4 he came but i found out that i can still get pregnat... im really scared... im confused and i dont know wat to do... i dont want to make my boyfriend ...
A. 16 June 2009: All you can really do for now is wait until you've missed a period then take a test, then see what it says.. In the mean time try and find someone that you can confined in, a school counsellor, nurse, teacher, ect. Or generally any adult you can ... (read in full...)
Is it worth risking all we both have because of one silly, drunken mistake?
Q. Hiya, I had a bit of a mad weekend and kissed one of my closest friends boyfriends, the thing is - him and my boyfriend are really close too but my boyf is in jail at the moment. Me, my friend and her boyfriend was all out together we had a good ...
A. 12 June 2009: What do you really want though? That's the question you should be asking yourself, especially if you love you boyfriend and your friend, who are the people getting hurt in this.... (read in full...)
Husband can't get an erection! What causes this?
Q. Hello, My husband lost his erection about a year ago. We can't make love, because he can't hold it. Do you know how to find out what is causing this? I would like to hear as much opinion as possible even if it's just one word. How do you find o...
A. 12 June 2009: It really could be about a zillion things, the best thing that you could do is have him get the once over at the doctors. The doctor should be able to find out what's going on down there, and if not, then at least you can rule out physical problems, ... (read in full...)
What are some good chat-up lines that aren't cheesy but work?
Q. Hi, I was just hoping that guys and girls could help me out with chat-up lines. I'm not really a fan of them but maybe something to break the ice. Good ones though, not cheesy ;) So girls: Any chat-up lines that have never failed to work? And ...
A. 11 June 2009: I actually love chat up lines that are utter cheese! Mainly because the way that i'm approached with them, a majority of the time it's not in a serious way, but still like, serious if that makes any sense? Like someone would say 'did it hurt when ... (read in full...)
What kind of gift would be fun and nice for a young lady?
Q. I am going to be home from uni over the summer, so I won't be seeing the young lady I like until possibly until September (though as I only live a couple of hours away I will probably try to visit when I can) Our current situation is that we have ...
A. 3 June 2009: What kind of girl is she? I have a thousand ideas, being a young lady myself and all, but you want to pick one just right for her yea? So, what is she into and what's her personality like? :)... (read in full...)
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