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... Send *egioness a private message | | | *egioness's profile:Hey all you lovely people :D i'm Becky, from Hertfordshire in England. I'm currently in college working toward a diploma in childcare and education. I have an amazing fiance and amazing future step son.
what qualifies me to help? Well, i've been through alot in my life, literally probably every kind of situation you could imagine.
i've had it all when it comes to relationships, i've had one boyfriend in prison, i've done long distance several times, i've cheated and been cheated on, i've been in love, i've had my heart broken. I've had sex with far too many people for my age, I started out early and regret it.
other than that my lifes been generally rather messed up in all honesty. But i've come out as a much better person than what anyone ever expected me to be.
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Only 15 & pregnant..don't know what to do!
Q. i'm pregnant and only 15. i'm scarred and i dont know what to do. my boyfriend is going to stay with me no matter what and i know this because he told me. i just need help on what to do when pregnant and only 15. how do i deal with it....
A. 12 March 2009: Ok I get you jessica, fair enough, it was just the choice of words, in a way I saw it more as, I dunno, a subliminal 'get an abortion or put it up for adoption'. ... (read in full...)
Its gotten violent..then its better..why?
Q. Things have taken a turn for the worse since my first posting; "I feel a break up coming on and am trying to determine exactly why?"" and my second; "She's lying to my face about things going on!" That night I posted my second question...
A. 12 March 2009: I've witnessed a similar senario with a couple of my friends- it turned out she was getting fed up of her life, and her man, and she would crack and lose it sometimes, but she stayed in the relationship even though she didn't really want to because ... (read in full...)
He was hiding his relationship with these other women
Q. Hi, I'm married for 7 years when I got back with a former acquaintance. We met again when I was feeling bored in my marriage while his relationship with his ex was on the rocks. So an affair was developed, he sent me to law school, so that we can ...
A. 12 March 2009: To me, it sounds like he's a predator of vaunerable women, these other women - one widow, one ill you- unhappy marriage. Do you see the pattern? He's a player hun, and one of the worse sort. Who's to say he hasn't told the same things as he's been ... (read in full...)
Only 15 & pregnant..don't know what to do!
Q. i'm pregnant and only 15. i'm scarred and i dont know what to do. my boyfriend is going to stay with me no matter what and i know this because he told me. i just need help on what to do when pregnant and only 15. how do i deal with it....
A. 12 March 2009: And jessica, I usually love your answers to people, but I really dont like the way you're 'urging' and 'encouraging' her to get rid of the baby somehow. Sorry but there's just certain things that I dont agree with.. And im not on about the abortion ... (read in full...)
Weight, body issues, my past & jealousy..jumbled up mess!
Q. I'm not really fat, but I do have body issues. I'm 5'5, 138 lbs. I want to drop some 10 lbs though. I want to look perfect. The thing is, lately I haven't been very motivated. I've skipped some workouts. Yesterday I was talking to my boyfriend onl...
A. 12 March 2009: No ones perfect hun, even the most pretty person still has their imperfections :) ok, I just thought i'd share a couple of things weight loss wise, get a wii and a wii fit! Seriously, they are the best things out there to keep you motivated, which ... (read in full...)
Date: No idea where to take him, what to do, how far to go
Q. ok.. major panic here.. ive got a date wiv this reeeeeally cute guy. and long story short, ive no idea bout where 2 take him or what 2 say or how far 2 go wiv him? any advice here urgently needed!!! thnx btw yeh i am gay. thnx tom xxx...
A. 12 March 2009: Cinema? Bowling? Pool? Ice skating? Picnic in the park? The list is endless.. First dates usually give off an impression that lasts forever. Use your imagination, be creative! :D as for how far to go, see what happens and go as far as you feel ... (read in full...)
Only 15 & pregnant..don't know what to do!
Q. i'm pregnant and only 15. i'm scarred and i dont know what to do. my boyfriend is going to stay with me no matter what and i know this because he told me. i just need help on what to do when pregnant and only 15. how do i deal with it....
A. 12 March 2009: Also, i've come to notice on here, when concerning teen pregnancies, there are a few people who will say you should abort or opt for adoption, dont listen. No one else can make that decision but you and your boyfriend :)... (read in full...)
Only 15 & pregnant..don't know what to do!
Q. i'm pregnant and only 15. i'm scarred and i dont know what to do. my boyfriend is going to stay with me no matter what and i know this because he told me. i just need help on what to do when pregnant and only 15. how do i deal with it....
A. 12 March 2009: First thing first make sure you are definately pregnant. If you've only took one test take another just to be certain. Next off, speak with your boyfriend about what you both want. Once that's established find someone who is older and wiser who you ... (read in full...)
Why Anal sex
Q. Why does a man want to have anal sex with his wife? Why that kind of sex? ...
A. 10 March 2009: Could be any reason, could be that its cos its a taboo, it could be a fetish, some sort of kink, it could be cos of the pure reason that its tighter and feels better for him? It varies from person to person :)... (read in full...)
I don't think my b/f wants to be with me anymore
Q. i dont think my boyfriend wants to be with me anymore i mean i dont want to be in the relationship if he doesnt and i thnk this because he's been callin his ex girlfriend and when i even talk to my ex's he gets med and now i think that he's gettin...
A. 9 March 2009: The only way your gonna find out what is going on in is head is if you sit him down and speak to him. Ask him where he thinks your going and what he wants. Tell him how you feel about the situation. The key here is to be open and honest. Good luck ... (read in full...)
What does this all mean? Is he flirting or...?
Q. okay so this guy and i were just hanging out and so he started to try and tickle me so i tried to get away but he grabbed my hand and pulled me back into him and he gave me a hug aand said "hmm someones ticklish". what does that all mean?...
A. 9 March 2009: All depends on the type of person he is, is he the kind of guy who isn't shy getting all touchy feely? If so he may only be playing around. If not, it's more likely that he's trying on the flirting :) x ... (read in full...)
After having sex I lose interest in the girl
Q. I hv a problem and dats after hving sex wit a girl i wil lose intrest in dat girl. I wil not tel her so bt wil start avoiding her and my behavoir changes. Pls tel me wat might be d problem....
A. 9 March 2009: Well, what do you really want from a girl? Do you want just sex, or do you actually want a relationship? If you want a relationship with someone then perhaps you should try and review your thoughts about sex, maybe try and hold out from having sex ... (read in full...)
We talk fine online, but how can I talk to him face to face?
Q. Hey, so I really like this guy in the year above me. I'm in year eight he's year nine... He's a lot older then me though. 2 years almost. But that's not the point. I really like him, and I know he likes me back. He goes to my school. I say hi ...
A. 8 March 2009: I've been in this situation when I was at school, lol a good place to start, would be initially making conversation, if he's with his mates just block them out, stroll up to him and ask him some sorta question, could be about anything you chose. I ... (read in full...)
His "kiss" wasn't exactly what I expected.
Q. I have wanted to kiss this guy I have known for ages and we finally done it last night however, it wasn't quite what I was expecting and by that I mean our lips never touched and I feel like we didn't really connect, he just kinda licked my lips ...
A. 8 March 2009: Each to their own and all that eh, if you want the guy then you can always try and take the lead in the kiss, kiss him how you want to be kissed. Men kinda like it when a girl takes controll :D x... (read in full...)
Are condoms enough?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for a while and we have decided we are ready to sleep together, he knows that I am not on the pill (I don't want to) and he says a condom will be fine, which I sure it will be but I am a little concerened....
A. 8 March 2009: Condoms on their own are fine, as long as they're put on correctly and are still in date :) x... (read in full...)
Should I get my mum something really special for mothers day...?
Q. Hey. Mothers day is this month and I'm a little stuck for as to what to do. My mum's mum (so my gran) died just before Christmas, as did my mum's dad (my grandad). He died literally two weeks after my gran did, so it was really sad and hard for ...
A. 8 March 2009: Wow, this is so similar to how I was feeling about mothers day last yea, see, last year my grandad passed away on new years eve, and my nan passed away 2 weeks later, but in the end I decided that I should really treat my mum, even though she was ... (read in full...)
Should I just wait until he texts me and if he doesn't don't bother?
Q. I have a problem. Please bear with me as this is really long. Sorry in advance. :-( There is this guy that keeps calling me and asking me to date him. He seemed nice at first and was really interested in what I was doing and reaching for in ...
A. 7 March 2009: :-O .... Dont contact the guy, seriously, he sounds like he's only out for one thing and will do whatever he can to get it, from what you've said, in my opinion, I wouldn't put it past him to force himself upon you. Honestly I think, for your own ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with "I wish you were older"
Q. I have met a women at work she is 28 and i am 21, we started talking frequently and it has turned daily during lunch breaks etc i have got to know her alot and begun to have feelings for her, she is very beautiful so i did not tell her how i felt, ...
A. 7 March 2009: I guess it's a matter of not talking her into thinking age doesn't matter, show her, prove it to her, just be yourself, try not to worry about it, take her out, do something romantic, she'll soon see that age doesn't mean anything :) x... (read in full...)
Co-workers are chit-chatting near my desk, it's driving me crazy!
Q. I work in a a government office and have a problem with co-workers standing near my cubical and talking to each other for hours on end. My supervisor has a problem with needing to be liked so she directly says nothing to address the problem. These ...
A. 6 March 2009: Just ask them to go and chat somewhere else as they are disrupting your work :) ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's strange off and on behavior is distrubing to me, what can I do about it?
Q. I'm in lovew with this guy, i'm pretty sure he doenst like me and i don't know if i can cope any more, last week we went camping and the whole week we were pretty much together constaantly and we had a great time, lots of laughter and flirting...
A. 6 March 2009: Ok that is quite a confusing situation.. I think you have two options, one being- screw him, he's messed your head up so why bother. The other being- if you really think it's something worth persuing, talk to him, tell him it's ether make or break, ... (read in full...)
I had casual sex with him and we agreed to being friends - but I feel as though he blames me for what happened?!
Q. Ok, so I recently split up from my boyfriend of 11 years and a couple of months ago I ran into an old friend who was in a similar position. We went for a couple of dates and very quickly ended up in bed. For me this was partly because I was trying ...
A. 6 March 2009: As you said it takes two to tango, but maybe for the time being it'd be best to spend some time apart, cos who's to say you two won't end up sleeping together again next time you see eachother? Which will most likely end up with you being more ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend can't orgasm. He used to be fine, but not now. What could be the reason?
Q. hi, well me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now, and we have great sex. there has never been a problem with him being able to cum. but now out of nowwhere the last two times we have had sex, he has not been able to cum. not even when ...
A. 6 March 2009: It could be anything really, from stress/pressure to some underlying health issue. Does he do drugs or drink? Cos I know from experience that majorly affects a guys ability to cum. Maybe you should suggest seeing a doctor, or a health advisor and ... (read in full...)
I have new feelings lurking inside me for my boyfriend's friend!
Q. I have just started a relationship with this guy and we have been dating for about a month. on the second day that we were dating i met his best friend "nick". as soon as i laid eyes on him i knew i was in trouble. i felt this immediate connection ...
A. 6 March 2009: My theory is, if you're not happy with what you've got, then best nip it in the bud before it gets harder. If you really see yourself with 'nick' instead of your current fella then don't keep stringing him along, you gotta do what you gotta do :)... (read in full...)
He wanted to leave as friends, but later decided he wanted to give this LDR a try; 5 days later, no words from him!?
Q. I have known this man (he's 28), been friends for 3 years. About a year ago he went through a divorce and a couple months later began flirting with me. I didn't play back. He got excepted into this program (he's military), so I thought that we ...
A. 6 March 2009: Maybe he's just been busy? Or maybe you're being a bit too persistant in trying to contact him and it's scaring him off? Not saying that is the case by the way, just a thought :) the only real way you'd be able to find out is if you ask him about ... (read in full...)
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