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... Send *egioness a private message | | | *egioness's profile:Hey all you lovely people :D i'm Becky, from Hertfordshire in England. I'm currently in college working toward a diploma in childcare and education. I have an amazing fiance and amazing future step son.
what qualifies me to help? Well, i've been through alot in my life, literally probably every kind of situation you could imagine.
i've had it all when it comes to relationships, i've had one boyfriend in prison, i've done long distance several times, i've cheated and been cheated on, i've been in love, i've had my heart broken. I've had sex with far too many people for my age, I started out early and regret it.
other than that my lifes been generally rather messed up in all honesty. But i've come out as a much better person than what anyone ever expected me to be.
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What kind of gift would be fun and nice for a young lady?
Q. I am going to be home from uni over the summer, so I won't be seeing the young lady I like until possibly until September (though as I only live a couple of hours away I will probably try to visit when I can) Our current situation is that we have ...
A. 25 June 2009: Ok, i've been thinking about this. And this may be slightly influenced by how i've been seeing this guy lately, but yea, what better gift than the gift of an amazing day out? Try and cram in a bunch of things she, and you both love, into one day, ... (read in full...)
What are some good chat-up lines that aren't cheesy but work?
Q. Hi, I was just hoping that guys and girls could help me out with chat-up lines. I'm not really a fan of them but maybe something to break the ice. Good ones though, not cheesy ;) So girls: Any chat-up lines that have never failed to work? And ...
A. 11 June 2009: I actually love chat up lines that are utter cheese! Mainly because the way that i'm approached with them, a majority of the time it's not in a serious way, but still like, serious if that makes any sense? Like someone would say 'did it hurt when ... (read in full...)
Suggestions for cosmetics?
Q. Well...not exactly a relationship question - but please help anyway! I don't wear make-up very often and when I do its not much either. However it often seems to smudge (although its only mascara and eyeliner). I don't know why this happens. Ha...
A. 8 June 2009: Buy a waterproof mascara, and also try a liquid eye liner, takes a while to get the hang of but when you do it's great :) also something that I do to keep my make up in place is lightly spray my face with hair spray! Sounds kinda crazy but sure does ... (read in full...)
How to tell my mother that I'm an atheist?
Q. It's no so much of a question that requires an answer, more of a comment with follow-ups I'm an atheist the reason i don't believe in god is because the world is jacked up. I really don't believe in religion because of what it has done for the wor...
A. 8 June 2009: Whoo a fellow athiest :D luckily for myself, both of my parents are catholic but have never followed the religion and thus left me free to grow up with out being baptized or christened or whatever and make my own mind up about religion. They've ... (read in full...)
Have some questions about the life of sperm?
Q. if a boy has pre ejaculate in his swim shorts when he goes in the pool with a girl can it swim in the pool. if they are up against each other in the water but no penetration could she get preg? or what if your hand went through the water and ...
A. 4 June 2009: Well, I think when inside the sperm lives approximately 3-5 days, but outside it's something like 1-6 hours, but I think that's only if it dries, which would be hard considering the fact of being in water.. Anyway the chances of getting pregnant ... (read in full...)
What kind of gift would be fun and nice for a young lady?
Q. I am going to be home from uni over the summer, so I won't be seeing the young lady I like until possibly until September (though as I only live a couple of hours away I will probably try to visit when I can) Our current situation is that we have ...
A. 3 June 2009: What kind of girl is she? I have a thousand ideas, being a young lady myself and all, but you want to pick one just right for her yea? So, what is she into and what's her personality like? :)... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is in PA and I'm in NJ
Q. Ok so me and my gf, started out as friends and then decided to go out. we've been going out for about a year and a few months. and she lives in PA and I live somewhere south of NJ, by Trenton. I dont drive and neither does she, I feel like I need ...
A. 3 June 2009: I know here 16 wouldn't make her a minor, but i'm guessing that's not the case there? If so then maybe you should find another girl to hug kiss ect. And have you ever heard of public transport? Lol (for others reading, i'm not condoning an illegal ... (read in full...)
I feel inferior to my boyfriend because of his popular social life
Q. this may sound very stupid but i feel inferior to my boyfriend in terms of friends and social life. my boyfriend is the kind of guy everyone likes- he's friendly, funny and confident and can hang out with anyone in our grade. the thing is that i'm ...
A. 3 June 2009: My philosophy- you only live once, make the most of it. Don't hold back, forget your worries and just do whatever as long as it makes you happy. In other words, just try and be chatty with his friends, get in with his group of friends and make some ... (read in full...)
Addictive personality, becoming addicted to cannabis!
Q. I have an addictive personality which means i can get addicted to anything as silly as penguin biscuits and i get addicted very easily too. Ive done well to stay away from drugs so far in my life but for my current bf they're quite a major part of ...
A. 3 June 2009: So you want to keep on smoking puff? Good luck to you then cos you're going to need it. Let me tell you a story, I don't really have an addictive personality, I started smoking when I was 12, started getting wrecked on weed when I was 13, at 15 was ... (read in full...)
Goth or Diva?
Q. i need help.im going in to middle school and i wanna become a goth or a diva.my friend says if i become a snotty diva she won't be my friend no longer.but my dad says that if i should become a snotty diva to show dont mes with me who should i listen ...
A. 1 June 2009: Be who you are. Don't conform to what other people are like. Why not be a goth diva? Kinda like myself, but I call it goth chique :) individuality gets you noticed and what a better combination than goth diva. You get the best of both worlds :D... (read in full...)
Addictive personality, becoming addicted to cannabis!
Q. I have an addictive personality which means i can get addicted to anything as silly as penguin biscuits and i get addicted very easily too. Ive done well to stay away from drugs so far in my life but for my current bf they're quite a major part of ...
A. 1 June 2009: Willpower my dear, if you don't want to get addicted then don't smoke it, even if now you're waking up wanting a spliff just tell yourself that you don't want it. Also talk to your boyfriend about this, how you don't want to smoke it and possibly ... (read in full...)
Should I call him? Or should he call me?
Q. heyy friends well i am desprete for help. wel first thing is my best guy friens lives in Mississippi and i live in chicago and he comes to visit and well this summer he is going to stay with his hometown in Mississippi and he hasn't called me ...
A. 1 June 2009: Go for it :D... (read in full...)
Stepmom thinks I'm gay!
Q. My step mum thinks im gay, which theres nothing wrong with, but its annoying. How can i convince her? ...
A. 1 June 2009: Bring a girl over, she'll assume you're getting with her, thus assuming that you're straight :D... (read in full...)
Will I ever be ready for another marriage?
Q. My late-husband and I met in seventh grade, got married a week after graduation from high school. We were married for a year and three months and had one child whom was born on September 11th, 2001. My late-husband worked as a security guard i...
A. 22 May 2009: Firstly, I'm really sorry for your loss, I couldn't begin to imagine how agonizing that must be. It's good to hear that you've struck up a new relationship though, surely that's something positive right? Maybe one day you will be ready to re-wed, ... (read in full...)
Why do people stare at me wherever I go?
Q. When I go out with family or by myself, people look and stare at me like i'm an museum exhibit. This really irritates, upsets, and angers me. They stare at me for more than 3 seconds. When i'm at a restaurant with my family people just stare at me ...
A. 20 May 2009: Ugh I know the feeling, try being a teenage goth girl who's also really attractive (apparently) but i've got used to it, I guess I take it more of a compliment nowadays and take pride in my difference to everyone else :)... (read in full...)
How to deal with exam stress?
Q. Hey :) Ive got like four exams over the next two days and can get really tetchy about them... What would you recommend me to do to calm down and stuff...they are all revised for and I'm quite confident about them its just I get cranky easy with the...
A. 19 May 2009: I'm going to be taking exams soon.. What I find is good is to just take time out, chill with friends and have a laugh :) even if you feel the stress come on top of you a little call a mate and giggle :) a true laugh is always good for beating ... (read in full...)
I'm a big girl and have trouble taking my clothes off in front of my b/f
Q. okay so heres my problem im a big girl and well im not like a whale but im quite big and i have a problem with like taking my clothes off infront of my boyfriend i mean once im nakid im really comfy but i just wana no how to feel sexy, this man has ...
A. 19 May 2009: It's all in the mind, you feel sexy, you are sexy. Perhaps to give you that boost in feeling sexy try hitting up ann summers or similar shop and picking out a hot outfit? Confidence within yourself is key, love yourself and what you've got cos at ... (read in full...)
What did I do to drive him away...?
Q. My friend he is not acting the same. I don't know what to do! I'm crazy for him but he barely talks to me. I feel sad and confused because he likes me. I feel disappointed when he doesn't talk. This problem has been driving me nuts? How can I tell ...
A. 19 May 2009: It could be because it's all becoming a bit too heavy for him, you sound like you're being a bit persistant? Do you know if he likes you in the same way that you like him? Try backing down a little, let him have his space and see if things go back ... (read in full...)
My natural curly hair becomes floppy when I shampoo. Any suggestions?
Q. ok first things first... this is NOT a relationship/sex question, but i hope that i can get some advice up in this joint, lol. ok it's simple: i have naturally curly wavy hair and everytime i shampoo, the curls and waviness go away and the result is ...
A. 10 May 2009: There's seriously a zillion products that you can use! Try buying a shampoo that is designed for curly/wavey hair, as well as a conditioner. I dye my hair alot and often find it dried out, but a good hydrating conditioner always helps, what I do is ... (read in full...)
Am I too short to be loved...???
Q. Hi Will women notice a good looking but only 5'8" guy? Will they find him handsome? Or is it too short for them?... I cant stop thinking about my height for months. I'm almost 20 so i wont grow up anymore, and ive never had a gf before, n...
A. 10 May 2009: Lol, honey you're not short :) I know quite a few shorter guys than you, heck I was even seeing someone who's 5'4"ish and i'm like 5'3''.. It was impossible to wear heals around him lol your height is pretty average in all honesty, if you can't get ... (read in full...)
Do LD relationships ever work out?
Q. Hi, i'm 17 yrs old i live in california anyways lets get to the point! i met this guy online he's 19yrs old, he lives in Florida but studies in virginia anyway like i was saying i met him online and he is really sweet and everything so when he first ...
A. 10 May 2009: Have you actually met the guy in person? If you haven't I suggest you do, if you want there to be a relationship then it's very important that you do see eachother regularly. As for long distance relationships working, well, they haven't really ... (read in full...)
Is my partner a nasty piece of work or just ignorant?
Q. Hi, I posted before about a have a problem that is causing me a lot of distress and since then things have got worse. I've been with my partner for 6 years now, during which time I have supported him through all sorts of problems, including a ...
A. 10 May 2009: Woah, if I were you i'd boot him straight out that door with those racist comments when you have mixed race kids! That's seriously unbelievable.. Hun, really, to me he sounds like a proper pig. A key to making a relationship work is respect, and it ... (read in full...)
Is flirting one step away from cheating???
Q. I went on my boyfriends computer and i was going to check my Myspace. But he was already logged on and it said he had 9 Messeges. I was curious so i clicked. (I didnt find 9 new messeges) But i did find a conversation he was having with some girl T...
A. 2 May 2009: It seems as if though this girl is the only ones that's trying to insinuate some form of flirtation, your boyfriend seems like he's just keeping it friendly, there's not really a retort from his that is flirty, like as she said that she misses him, ... (read in full...)
Am I completely incapable of a relationship?
Q. I am 20 years old, turning 21 in a month and I have never been in a real relationship yet. I feel like a loser because of that and the closest thing I got to one was with a guy who I was starting to see but he was sleeping with another girl behind ...
A. 1 April 2009: Babes, don't feel like a loser cos you're not, ok? And yes you are capable of a relationship, everyone is! It's just a matter of getting out there and patience. When you see your mates what do you do? Maybe you should try heading out to a nice bar ... (read in full...)
Any other ways to avoid pregnancy besides plan b?
Q. my boyfriend decided to presure me into unprotect sex, which i wasnt to happy about. but right now i dont care about that, i just care about being pregnate. it was my frist time having sex, and he didnt cum inside of me, but im still very woried. ...
A. 1 April 2009: Putting it simply hun, would you rather your mum bite your head off about needing the morning after pill or her going even more mad at the fact that you have ended up pregnant as a result of not only having unprotected sex but also not having the ... (read in full...)
Any other ways to avoid pregnancy besides plan b?
Q. my boyfriend decided to presure me into unprotect sex, which i wasnt to happy about. but right now i dont care about that, i just care about being pregnate. it was my frist time having sex, and he didnt cum inside of me, but im still very woried. ...
A. 1 April 2009: Well a good idea babes is to try and get yourself on regular birth controll, like the pill, injection or implant. I'm guessing you'll need your parents permission but hey, in their eyes they'd most likely see it as it's better than you ending up ... (read in full...)
Did YOU bleed your first time???
Q. Hey! I know this probably just sounds like I'm being a nosy bitch, but I've started going out with this guy, only been with him 11 weeks! I'm 17 in 3 weeks and I'm still a virgin, he's 20 and he's also still a virgin, and although I'm not jumping ...
A. 26 March 2009: My first time was an utter nightmare, tut.. I was extremely drunk :s so it may have hurt, but it may have not hurt, to this day i'm still not all that sure! Lol as for the bleeding, yep I did bleed, but it wasn't very much at all as far as I can ... (read in full...)
Proper grammar please!!!
Q. this is not to do with relationships or anything like that but i just had to point it out: why doesn't anybody use grammar properly on this website or anywhere else! nobody seems to know the difference between to and too or between there, they're ...
A. 26 March 2009: I actually find alot of people on this site, and others, do use grammar correctly, I for one actually pride myself on it :) lol x Becky x ... (read in full...)
How do I walk in high heels?
Q. Hey! This is one for the girls [i'm not sure there are many guys who will know!] I've been a bit of a tom boy all my life [i'm now almost 18 - in 2 months] and when i go to party's i usually wear a skirt with tights and flat boots. I'm now ...
A. 25 March 2009: I developed a thing for high heels when I was about 14, before then I was a right tomboy shoe wise. Only really wore trainers and flats! The best way that I adjusted to them was practise, walk around the house in them, wear them in a bit so they're ... (read in full...)
Opinions on women going braless
Q. Well I have been doing some research and I keep finding out that it has never been proven that bras help keep breast firm, or stop them from sagging. I've been thinking about this issue, and what bras mean in the bigger picture, and I just don't ...
A. 25 March 2009: Ah i've been a lazy cow the last couple of days and just been indoors in my pajamas, lol, wearing no bra, and i'm a C cup, not a particularly big one at that, I usually wear a bra ALL the time, but within those two days without a bra i've definately ... (read in full...)
Penis curves to the right..is this normal?
Q. I am 22 years old and i am just wondering why when i have an erection my penis curves to the right. From the view of me looking down at it. i was just wondering is this normal and is there any way to fix it to be strait or is this just the way it is ...
A. 22 March 2009: Having a slightly bent penis is really rather normal, nothing out of the ordinary, i've been with a few guys who've had it either bend to the left or the right, and yep, definately nothing wrong with the show ;) lol x Becky x... (read in full...)
I have no idea how to make her have a orgasm
Q. Okay well today me and my girlfriend had sex for the second time and third time and I cumed pretty fast the first time so we went again but I have no idea how to make her have a orgasm I want to so bad I just don't know and we tried different posi...
A. 22 March 2009: Heyy :) well most women can't achieve orgasm with just penetration alone, so try this position.. Lay on your back, have her lay on top of you, then you have deeper penetration, and you can have easy access to nibble on her neck and ears which are ... (read in full...)
Any awesome ideas by my honey's birthday?
Q. I want to make the perfect strip teasing-make you sweat-burn some calories (ha ha) CD. I like things with a good beat and for this genre a seductive lyrical, Some genres i like are: Hip hop, techno, rave, industrial, grunge, rock, etc. Some band...
A. 22 March 2009: Personally I think rock/alternative music makes the best strip teasing music, listen to The Horrors - She Is The New Thing. That's one of my faves for sexy dancing, its just really sleazy (in the best way, of course) I find it just has the right ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and pregnant and really scared.
Q. Im 14 years old and I did a really stupid idea with my boyfriend that's 16. We had sex in his truck 1 time... 2-3 weeks ago and it was an accident. I found out 3 days ago that I'm pregnant. I don't believe in abortions because its just plain murd...
A. 22 March 2009: I somewhat feel that social services should be involved in this... People shouldn't be able to get away with abusing their kids.. It really disgusts me :( normally I wouldn't suggest the following to any kid that's pregnant, it should be your own ... (read in full...)
My friends and boyfriend don't care
Q. i went out to a town centre that i havent been to before with my friends and my boyfriend and they abandoned me. i sat down and got out my phone and when i looked up again they were gone. i walked around for an hour no clue were i was going and i ra...
A. 22 March 2009: That's really horrible of them :( I agree with what the others are saying, ditch them and get some decent friends who'll look out for you, not just forget about you. Hope you're ok :) x Becky x ... (read in full...)
Why can't I be a sissy in public
Q. Well I'm a Sissy Transvestite and I've been going out in public dressed as a normal female since I was 13, I'm 50 now and I've been expressing a very deep part of my personality for the last 10 years. I love dressing up like a 4 or 5 year old little ...
A. 13 March 2009: There used to be a guy who I would occasionally see about town who'd dress like that, I thought it was pretty cool. I'm all for being open minded and being who you want to be, so go for it and love it :D but as other people have said, just be ... (read in full...)
How many is too many
Q. is six guys alot for a 17 year old girl to sleep with? please help!!!...
A. 13 March 2009: Well, im your age and am on my 9th =o but I guess thats british girls eh, or maybe even just hertfordshire girls, im not sure but it's normal around my way lol x becky x... (read in full...)
Only 15 & pregnant..don't know what to do!
Q. i'm pregnant and only 15. i'm scarred and i dont know what to do. my boyfriend is going to stay with me no matter what and i know this because he told me. i just need help on what to do when pregnant and only 15. how do i deal with it....
A. 12 March 2009: Ok I get you jessica, fair enough, it was just the choice of words, in a way I saw it more as, I dunno, a subliminal 'get an abortion or put it up for adoption'. ... (read in full...)
I love him, why doesn't he love me?
Q. I love a guy call Law I never called him but sms him cos I know that he is always very busy at work I know that he dont even have the time to answer my call he just treat me as a friend only I wanted to be by his side I know that he will not love me ...
A. 12 March 2009: Woah, ok ok calling yourself 'fat' and 'ugly' is no way to be talking about yourself. I think you should maybe look into ways of improving your self confidence and self-esteem. Everyone is beautiful, big, small, tall, short everyone :) ok moving on, ... (read in full...)
I always call him...he never calls me first
Q. MOD NOTE: Poster age says 27, but poster says they are 13. Well im 13 and im dating a 13 year old boy. Every night i have to call him and every time i do he always says ill call you back later. 3 or 2 hours later he calls me back. He never calls me ...
A. 12 March 2009: If you're scared he's going to break up with you, and he doesn't really call you, hang out more! Go on some dates, spend some time together :) all the best x becky x... (read in full...)
I don't know where this going and neither does she
Q. I am trying to get back together with my ex. We were together for four years, engaged for two, and have been broken up for about two. We are talking again but I told her up front I wanted a relationship and nothing else. She SEEMS to be good with ...
A. 12 March 2009: Well, she did say that she wants to take it very slow. So maybe it'd be worth sticking it out? But it's up to you at the end of the day, if you want to try and persue a relationship with her then stick at it, if not, then bow out gracefully and stay ... (read in full...)
Its gotten violent..then its better..why?
Q. Things have taken a turn for the worse since my first posting; "I feel a break up coming on and am trying to determine exactly why?"" and my second; "She's lying to my face about things going on!" That night I posted my second question...
A. 12 March 2009: I've witnessed a similar senario with a couple of my friends- it turned out she was getting fed up of her life, and her man, and she would crack and lose it sometimes, but she stayed in the relationship even though she didn't really want to because ... (read in full...)
Only 15 & pregnant..don't know what to do!
Q. i'm pregnant and only 15. i'm scarred and i dont know what to do. my boyfriend is going to stay with me no matter what and i know this because he told me. i just need help on what to do when pregnant and only 15. how do i deal with it....
A. 12 March 2009: And jessica, I usually love your answers to people, but I really dont like the way you're 'urging' and 'encouraging' her to get rid of the baby somehow. Sorry but there's just certain things that I dont agree with.. And im not on about the abortion ... (read in full...)
Only 15 & pregnant..don't know what to do!
Q. i'm pregnant and only 15. i'm scarred and i dont know what to do. my boyfriend is going to stay with me no matter what and i know this because he told me. i just need help on what to do when pregnant and only 15. how do i deal with it....
A. 12 March 2009: Also, i've come to notice on here, when concerning teen pregnancies, there are a few people who will say you should abort or opt for adoption, dont listen. No one else can make that decision but you and your boyfriend :)... (read in full...)
Only 15 & pregnant..don't know what to do!
Q. i'm pregnant and only 15. i'm scarred and i dont know what to do. my boyfriend is going to stay with me no matter what and i know this because he told me. i just need help on what to do when pregnant and only 15. how do i deal with it....
A. 12 March 2009: First thing first make sure you are definately pregnant. If you've only took one test take another just to be certain. Next off, speak with your boyfriend about what you both want. Once that's established find someone who is older and wiser who you ... (read in full...)
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