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... Send *egioness a private message | | | *egioness's profile:Hey all you lovely people :D i'm Becky, from Hertfordshire in England. I'm currently in college working toward a diploma in childcare and education. I have an amazing fiance and amazing future step son.
what qualifies me to help? Well, i've been through alot in my life, literally probably every kind of situation you could imagine.
i've had it all when it comes to relationships, i've had one boyfriend in prison, i've done long distance several times, i've cheated and been cheated on, i've been in love, i've had my heart broken. I've had sex with far too many people for my age, I started out early and regret it.
other than that my lifes been generally rather messed up in all honesty. But i've come out as a much better person than what anyone ever expected me to be.
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Do you think he's comfortable enough to meet me alone instead of with mutual friends?
Q. I hope you dont think im totally stupid for this but ive got a problem wanting to meet up with a friend of mine, we;ve been friends for two years now and i still cant bring myself to ask him to go for a drink one daytime alone. Dont get me wrong ...
A. 15 November 2009: Right, this questions been lingering here ages, so wo may not find this of much help but hopefully somewhat useful... You don't get if you don't ask. Ask him out for a drink on a one on one basis, be sure to say in the first place that It'll just ... (read in full...)
How can I discourage her? Should I even contemplating sleeping with her?
Q. I'm 48 and have a girl i have known for a few years hanging around me. It didn't worry me at first when she was 12 but now she is 14 and making sexual suggestions I am a bit concerned. A couple of times she has exposed her breasts to me when we ...
A. 15 November 2009: No you should not sleep with her as this is ILLEGAL. You could very well end up in prison and on the sex offenders register. The girls jail bate.
why on earth are you even considering this?
cease all contact with this child immediately, for... (read in full...)
No strings attached??
Q. How does a guy feel when a girl tells them that she wants no commitment no strings attached, nothing just someone she can have fun with?...
A. 15 November 2009: It depends on the guy, a lot of factors come into play.. Whether he's the type who likes commitment or prefers the freedom, how much he likes you and generally how he feels about you. It's hard to say in general because every person varies.... (read in full...)
Is douching unsafe?
Q. What happens after sex, I mean should you wash or is going to the toilet ok. I am never to sure when people say you should douche after sex, I have heard that douching to much can cause UTIs....
A. 15 November 2009: I'd advise against douching personally. Try taking a shower or washing after intercourse instead.... (read in full...)
I need help to stop masturbating
Q. i am a 21 year old gal and i masturbate a lot. i know its wrong and i wish to stop. however i keep succumbing to temptation. i have a loving boyfriend and we have a decent sex life. i wish to limit myself only to him. and stop all with watching or ...
A. 15 November 2009: As quiet-echo has stated, there's really nothing wrong with masturbation, but if you really feel that strongly about it, then throw out your porn collection (or donate them to a friend lol) including all magazines, books, erotica etc and put a ... (read in full...)
What unusual name to do you have for your privates... and how did you get it?
Q. Mine is petercheese. My girlfriend years ago gave me it. The first time she gave me head she said it squrted out like a can of ez cheese. So she called it peter cheese. ...
A. 14 November 2009: Someone once named my boobs kev and bev.. (uk people you should remember the advert? Lol) and my fiance calls his penis ronnie, purple ronnie lol and I sometimes call it double-o-goo.. You can probably imagine why :p ha... (read in full...)
Help me, I just can't seem to get past first dates!
Q. hi, hope you can help me i just cant seem to get past first dates i dont know what im doing wrong , my last date was monday with a man i have known for five years i only know him to say hello to but on a night out recently his friends told me he has ...
A. 14 November 2009: If he had such a good time and so did you then screw it, don't be afraid, call him, say you'd like to see him at some point soon and see what he says! Do you know what his schedules been like lately? Has he been busy? Long days could be making him ... (read in full...)
I lied about a pregnacy and abortion to hurt my ex...should I come clean?
Q. I lied to my ex by telling him I was pregnant and aborted the baby. I only did it to hurt him because I found out he was sleeping with my friend. I know it's horrible and at the time it made me feel good to hurt him like he hurt me, but now I feel ...
A. 14 November 2009: Yes, it is a horrible, horrible thing to do.. I think you should come clean, specially if it helps you to find some kind of closure from it? I'd also recomment seeking the advice of a counsellor, it must've hit pretty deep for you to go and say ... (read in full...)
Is it weird to make a silicone doll of my girlfriend?
Q. Hi Agony Aunts! I have an interesting question that I want to ask. Well I love my girlfriend so much that I would want to do something grand. I am planning on making a life-size doll version of my girlfriend in silicone like the ones I have seen ...
A. 14 November 2009: I don't really see it as being weird or anything, I mean, women get 'mold your own dildo' kits where they actually mold it on their fella's penis.. But then again that is only the one body part, perhaps a whole life sized figure would be a bit too ... (read in full...)
My teacher just got tooooo close!
Q. Im 14 and My teacher touched me today and I don't know what to do. She is 34 and a woman, she is pastoral care and i really like her, I don't want her to get in trouble but she hurt me and kind of took it a bit far, i have found myself falling f...
A. 12 November 2009: Report her immediately. End of. She could have done this to other girls at your school against their will and it is child abuse. Imagine just how many young girls lives she could be ruining! Things like this, unfortunately, happen alot, and the ... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me how to kiss on the cheek?
Q. Ok Basically, My Girlfriend and I have been in an intimate relationship for about a month and half now, and within this time I have found I have a strange inability to kiss on the cheek. I've tried so many times but it feels like I'm never going to ...
A. 10 November 2009: Ahh yes, try breathing through your nose when you kiss her on the cheek, that should soon sort that one out :) ooh yes please do keep me posted on how you get along. I hope it goes well for you and good luck! :) ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to fall for me?
Q. so, i am already in a relationship with this guy. but, im not exactly sure if he is even really interested in me. yes we have a ton of laughs but i want to keep him interested and i just dont know how. i guess what i am really asking is how to win ...
A. 10 November 2009: I'd say just spend time with him, go out, do things together, talk to each other, get to know one another properly and you should grow closer :)... (read in full...)
Please give me some lunch gift ideas!
Q. Hi, I need some quick suggestions. Me and my husband has been invited by one of my colleagues and wife for lunch tomorrow at his residence. I have no idea what I should bring with me as a gift. Specially since it is a lunch and because i don't know ...
A. 10 November 2009: I think something like flowers or chocolates are more appropriate than wine for lunch, maybe even chocolate liquors? :)... (read in full...)
Need some thoughful ideas for my guy for Christmas, please help?
Q. My boyfriend is 24 and I dont know what to get him for christmas. I want to get him something that shows I care and put thought into it. I also dont want it to be original but i want it to be something he likes. He loves the redskins and beer lol. ...
A. 10 November 2009: The football jumpers a good idea.. I'm getting boyfriend one for christmas, but I plan on personalising it so it has his name on the back. I know he'd love it! Maybe consider something like that? :)... (read in full...)
I know nothing about sex! Help
Q. hi. i'm 15. the problem is that i know actually nothing about sex. i know very little about girl's body, no clear idea about sexual intercourse. i'm not easy with girls at all. it seems that most of my friends masturbate, but i don't, in fact i ...
A. 10 November 2009: A couple of useful links for you..
http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/sex_and_sexual_health/
http://besthealth.com/besthealth/bodyguide/reftext/html/repr_sys_fin.html
happy hunting :)... (read in full...)
Why would my ex-girlfriend block me from MSN?
Q. well i think my ex has blocked me on msn but i know she has deleted me. we had an argument but then she forgave me and told me she would give me one more chance. the reason why she deleted me was because i was getting on her nerves but didnt bl...
A. 10 November 2009: Maybe she just isn't on there barely these days? Text her and ask her or something or you'll never know really, it's not like we're psychics (if only lol) :)... (read in full...)
We're both 13 and want to be friends with benefits, but I don't know if I'm ready!
Q. My neighbor and I have been friends since we were 2 and now I have feelings for him cause we have been through like everthing together and we probly tell each other more then like a married couple! We are both 13... The other day he suggested...
A. 10 November 2009: 13?? Huni, don't do anything, not yet.. Keep away from anything sexual for the time being. You're barely a teenager! Wait until you're older, of legal age would be ideal but if not, then give it at least a couple of years. The age of consent is ... (read in full...)
I had an affair with a pastor. How do I get over it?
Q. Help! I had an affair with a pastor friend who I love very much as a person and friend. He needed something at the time and so did I. I want to break things off. I am terriby sick and hurt about it. How can I get past this. Just take time? I ...
A. 9 November 2009: Time..? Yep, time is the key really.. In the mean time concentrate on a hobby or something of the likes to help keep your mind off it :)... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me how to kiss on the cheek?
Q. Ok Basically, My Girlfriend and I have been in an intimate relationship for about a month and half now, and within this time I have found I have a strange inability to kiss on the cheek. I've tried so many times but it feels like I'm never going to ...
A. 8 November 2009: I shall do my best deary! :) oh I see, I think I get what you mean.. Right try this: keep your lips pressed together, normally, then kinda push them out a little, like a pout, but not so far out like a fish lol then like, withdraw the 'pout' but ... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me how to kiss on the cheek?
Q. Ok Basically, My Girlfriend and I have been in an intimate relationship for about a month and half now, and within this time I have found I have a strange inability to kiss on the cheek. I've tried so many times but it feels like I'm never going to ...
A. 8 November 2009: Curious.. What exactly are you doing when you go to kiss her on the cheek? We need specifics here to pin point where you're 'going wrong'? ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to be sexually active at 15 years old?
Q. Is is ok to be sexually active with your boyfriend at the age of 15 if you two have only been going out for about 4 months or so??...
A. 8 November 2009: I don't really see it as being not ok, as long as you know the in's and outs, are being safe, and considering that you're under age, that one of the two of you are not classed as of the age consent, as it would be illegal.. Not that it isn't anyway, ... (read in full...)
How do I make my penis smaller?
Q. I don't like the size of my penis. It actually gets in the way. How can I make it smaller?...
A. 8 November 2009: That's just like asking 'my arms are too long, how can I make them shorter?' there's not much you can do about it i'm afraid, you could always opt for surgery, but this is costly, risky and painful. I think the best thing to do is learn to love it, ... (read in full...)
Will she get pregnant even though I wiped the sperm away?
Q. i got spirm on the top of my girlfriends virgina but not in it she used a wipe to get it off straight away will she be pregnant or shouldnt i worry ?...
A. 8 November 2009: If you didn't ejaculate inside of her then I very much doubt it. But for future reference, and to save you the worry again, please consider using birth controll? Condoms are always best as they prevent STD's. Talk to her about perhaps going on the ... (read in full...)
My daughter is ten! Is this sexual role play normal?
Q. my daughter is ten and is friends with a girl the same age. my daughter told me about a year ago that her friend masturbates in their class at school (which i have since told the head teacher) and has now told me that this girl has been role playing ...
A. 8 November 2009: May I also just add, check out www.everychildmatters.gov.uk it may be of some use to you regarding the situation :)... (read in full...)
How can I Deep Throat a boy without gagging?
Q. Okey my problem isnt a really big one but a good answer will really help me in my situation. i want to give my boy friend the best blowjob ever and i kno this question has been asked alot but i need some tips on how to deep throat with out feeling ...
A. 5 November 2009: I find deep throat like learning to ice skate.. You won't get it the first time but if you keep working at it bit by bit you'll gradually be able to do it longer without falling, if you get what I mean? Practise makes perfect basically. Whilst ... (read in full...)
My daughter is ten! Is this sexual role play normal?
Q. my daughter is ten and is friends with a girl the same age. my daughter told me about a year ago that her friend masturbates in their class at school (which i have since told the head teacher) and has now told me that this girl has been role playing ...
A. 5 November 2009: I'm studying childcare in college at the moment and have just finished on the child abuse section.. This is showing major signs of sexual abuse!! The role playing and masturbation are probably the biggest signs that you can get. Also, the poor girl ... (read in full...)
Aries male crazy over a Saggittarius girl. Need Help!
Q. Classic Aries male in his 30's and I have a professional relationship with a classic Saggittarius female who's been driving me crazy. This girl could possibly be put on earth to be my soulmate. I love everything about her. Now the problem is two ...
A. 23 October 2009: I know this may not help, or you may already know, lol, but Aries and Saggitarius are supposedly a match made in astrological heaven! I'm an Aries girl, and have always got on best with those who are Saggitarius.. Yet my fiance's a Scorpio, but ... (read in full...)
How can I help my sister get over her break up?
Q. How can I help my sister get over him? Hi, this isn't really related to me, but to my sister. She is devastated because last night, her ex broke up with her. He is by no means her first ex... but her previous relationships ended either in mutual...
A. 20 October 2009: Aw bless her, that must be horrible.. I think on your part, the only thing that you can do is be there for her, support her, be the shoulder she can cry on and talk to her and hug her when she needs it. With a little bit of love and support from her ... (read in full...)
Would he be offended if I just bonk him and creep away?
Q. I met a man online about 6 weeks ago and we have been texting ever since every day morning noon and night. We are meeting up next week but he lives 2 hours away. I need to know what would be the most sensible meeting arrangements. If he comes all ...
A. 7 October 2009: From experience, i'd say the most sensible meeting arrangements for the very first time would be to keep it to a one day/evening thing. Like, arrange to meet in the late morning, possibly somewhere in the middle of you both, spend the day doing ... (read in full...)
Girls, do you like it when guys wear eyeliner, or "guyliner"?
Q. do girls like it when a guy wears guyliner? i would like girls' opinions. thanks for any responses... ...
A. 4 October 2009: Depends who it's on, what they look like, what their style is, hair style.. Loads of factors. But yes, I do personally like it, but only if the person suits it :)... (read in full...)
Semen leakage normal?
Q. Whenever I get sexually aroused due to my girlfriend in university or wherever, a drop or two of semin from my penis leaks. Is that normal? I workout 2 hours every day and do not masturbate more than twice a month. I haven't done sex as well uptill ...
A. 30 September 2009: Perfectly normal.. This happens to my fiance all the time! Lol and to the anon. male who says it's cos he doesn't masturbate enough, this is not true at all. I know for a fact my fella does is several times a day when I don't see him, and we're ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is in prison, and I missed his calls!
Q. HELP!! - My boyfriend has just been recalled to prison and both times he has tried to phone me I have been out and missed his calls!! - What shall I do? - I want him to know I'm there for him and not deserted him!! - Help! - The whole situation is ...
A. 30 September 2009: As all have said- write to him. And also try and get hold of some visiting orders so you can see him :)... (read in full...)
Been told I'm not a good kisser so how do I do better?
Q. heyya! i just wanna knw how do i give a good kiss. ive had girlfriends in the past who hav sed im nt a good kisser so i want to knw, how can i give a good kiss?...
A. 16 September 2009: Top tips that make a good kiss: 1. Be gentle, there's nothing worse than a rough kiss (unless you're both in that proper heat of passion) so take it easy.. 2. Don't go shoving your tongue in straight away; less is more :) just keep it like, littl... (read in full...)
How do I get noticed by boys?
Q. I'm a 15 year old girl with long brown hair and blue eyes are medium height and average weight. Why when i walk down the high street does no boys turn round and take a second look and me or smile and me or look like their looking at me? How do i ...
A. 3 August 2009: Body language, my dear. It wouldn't matter if you looked like kate moss without at least the basics of carrying yourself your chances of getting a glance are gonna plummet. It's all in the walk. Grace, something not many women actually do these ... (read in full...)
How can I make this LDR work?
Q. I fall in love quick. But you kno what different about this time? When I'm not with Brandon my my heart hurts. I met him a few days ago when I was on a camping trip with a friend. And he lives 3 hours away from me.I have his number but he hasn't ...
A. 3 August 2009: Ahh young love.. Hun, you can give me a proper what for if you want but you're not in love. It's infatuation, someone you've crushed on hard. Love comes after time not in a few minutes. True love can take a lifetime to fully develope. Just ask some ... (read in full...)
I go on chat sites and have had cybersex. Why do I do this?
Q. Why do i do this? Hi all. I have been with my bf for 2 yr and we have a daughter together. He is a lovely wonderful bloke who i love very much. But 4 some reason i go on chat sites, yes i like the compliments, i like just chattin, think that is 2 do ...
A. 3 August 2009: You missy, need to work on yourself, you seem to have somewhat low self confidence and esteem if i'm right? And there's nothing wrong with admitting this either, just to add, cos I know some people don't like hearing it! The best way to tackle this ... (read in full...)
How can I help her to relax?
Q. ive tried having sex with my girlfriend twice now and it wont go in. she says she is too tense and that she needs to relax more. how can i help her relax more?...
A. 3 August 2009: Set the scene; a bit of romance, candles, music etc.
foreplay; not to be rushed. Lots of kissing, caressing, massage etc.
then get to work on the more intimate stuff- touching, licking, stroking, teasing.
hopefully that'll help get her... (read in full...)
A poop question..
Q. This is wierd and I hope somebody knows what it is that is happening!. For the passed 2week myself and my girlfriend have had this strange happening when we go to the the toilet. When ever we go to the toilet to "poop", we have both noticed tha...
A. 3 August 2009: Unfortunately very few of us on here have any medical knowledge.. Your best bet would be to go and see a doctor asap. Since you've both got it, first thing that comes to my mind it perhaps some form of infection? But as I said.. Little medical ... (read in full...)
How can I help my friend who's using weed as an escape?
Q. please someone help me. my best friend is depressed and he is mentally addicted to weed. he explains to me that its the only way he can escape. he knows its stupid and he knows its ruining his life. hes 17. and i just know that its a cry for help...
A. 3 August 2009: Take it from someone who's been there a dozen times.. He's relying on the skunk to escape, for a release, he's obviously become dependent on it to get him through, right? If you really want to help him, and I know damn well it's hard, but the only ... (read in full...)
How can I help my friend who's using weed as an escape?
Q. please someone help me. my best friend is depressed and he is mentally addicted to weed. he explains to me that its the only way he can escape. he knows its stupid and he knows its ruining his life. hes 17. and i just know that its a cry for help...
A. 2 August 2009: Be there as a friend, talk to him about his worries and try and help him through his problems, try and get him to do other stuff to distract him from smoking weed, like activities, and not boring stuff either, try bmx'ing or going to play pool, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is obsessed with licking my toes!
Q. my boyfriend has this weird obsession with licking my toes and it kinda creeps me out when he licks my toes but im afraid that if i don't let him lick my toes he'll break up with me and go out with some other girl who will let him lick their toes ...
A. 2 August 2009: Well, two things you can do..
1. Put up with it, if you really want to..
2. Tell him, not that it creeps you out, but that you're just not into it.
honestly, if he feels the same as you do him then he'd be fine with not doing it, perhaps sugg... (read in full...)
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