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writes:okay me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year now and it hasn't been easy at all. recently we decided that we are forcing the relationship and we need tew change or its not going to work. so we decide to take a break for a while so we can get ourselves together. but the thing i need help on is i don;t know what to do how do i fix this relationshipits not the same we argue alot we just don;t seem happy., but another thing is we havent seen eachother in 2 moths and im sure if that 's the problem but we need help FAST!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009): Me and my husband have problems when we are away from each other, sometimes even around each other, but yeah I think yall being far away from each other isn't helping. Every relationship needs communication and communication is more difficult on the phone or text messages, because you can't see the person face to face. What is at the root of the problem? Why are yall arguing so much? Could it be that yall are mad at each other for circumstances beyond your control, such as your lack of spending time together if you live far away?
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (27 July 2009):
 seems to me that your not clicking for one reason or another and if that is the case and your both not happy within the relationship then maybe you should call it a day.the best way to make an relationship work isnt to go on a break, a break usually means your more than likely to end the relationship i mean obviosly u can sort things out but best not to stay on a break for too long when you just said you hadnt seen eachother for around two months.you really have to arrange to meet sit down and one at a time talk about the problems in which your having in order to sort things out if u dont talk about certain matters and try and resolve them then things will never get better
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009): Hi
Dear meet him first because Its been long time you did not meet ,sit and talk politly
sort out the problem bcs communication play a very important part for any relationship......rite
Good luck
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