I need help to save my marriage!
Q. Hi, I need help to save my marriage. I've been happily married for just under 4 years and with my partner for a total of 6 years and I have been terrible to her and caused her some god awful pain, pain she does not need as she is heavily pregnant...
A. 27 April 2012: Thank you all for your advice, I don't know how or why but my wife seems to be giving me the time to show her how sorry I am and how much I love her.
Which brings me to ask for more help as I previously mentioned I have trouble explaining or putti... (read in full...)
First she said I needed a lock on my door, then she said she won't if there are people in the house, now she needs a drink before we do it... What's her problem?
Q. hello people i aint been on for some time but i'm back and needing some advice my girlfriend is really leaving me confused. I've been with her for 1 year and 7 months and still not slept together, now she has already said by 8-9 months of being ...
A. 6 April 2006: i'm just curious to the fact that does any one take the second paragraph of my question in mind because she has consistantly told me she wants to and there has been days were she has wanted me as much as i wanted her but she just won't do anything ... (read in full...)
First she said I needed a lock on my door, then she said she won't if there are people in the house, now she needs a drink before we do it... What's her problem?
Q. hello people i aint been on for some time but i'm back and needing some advice my girlfriend is really leaving me confused. I've been with her for 1 year and 7 months and still not slept together, now she has already said by 8-9 months of being ...
A. 5 April 2006: regarding a few post here just wanted to say there hasn't been one day that passes were i don't tell her i love her, i don't suddenly start being nice and all emotional when i want sex as i'm always giving her the emotional side of me, i've always ... (read in full...)
Does an ex ever come back?
Q. Is there a possibility that the person who breaks up with you would still be coming back?...
A. 5 April 2006: it's a 50/50 thing really my current gf left me when were dating back in school and i never really spoke to her for the best part of a year, i had other relationships after but i'm now back with her and it's been great we are currently pushing two ... (read in full...)
I cheat on my boyfriend, usually when drunk, leading to feelings of self disgust and loathing. Could I be a sex addict?
Q. Hi, i am 21 years old and have been with my current boyfriend for 2 and a half years. i love him to bits and i know he loves me, but he has mood swings. The problem is me. i cheat on him and i dont know why because i dont get nothing out of it excep...
A. 7 January 2006: if you were a sex addict you wouldn't have to be drunk to cheat on your boyfriend, like the others have said it could down to more of a drink problem so try the best you can to sort it out and hopefully you should be fine
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She swallowed my sperm and claims she is pregnant!! Is this possible?
Q. i am a 13 yr old boy and my girlfriend and i have been having oral sex she wants to go all the way but i am afraid of having a baby, she wants a baby i dont. She said that because she has been swallowing that she is pregnant now, I said thats ...
A. 7 January 2006: just leave her now she's stupid and just plain stupid... (read in full...)
I'm 13 dating a 24 year old man... Is this cool?
Q. Im 13 and starting to get on "WELL" with a 24 year old. Im 13 and had met this 24 year old guy and we have a hell of a lot in common. We feel strongly for each other. And we have kinda been steady for while. Im a extremly mature 13 year old,and i am ...
A. 6 January 2006: your wondering if the relationship is ok to carry on and i think there straight away you know the answer yourself. you say your mature but didn't we all at 13 i'm still only 18 and i KNOW that theres still alot i have to learn plus theres one ... (read in full...)
At it like rabbits?
Q. What is the reason behind increased sexual promiscuity in recent time?...
A. 6 January 2006: being 18 myself i've looked at my generation and the older generation like my grandparent's and i think for the majority of people in their teens or maybe say early 20's religion has been lost down the line and nearly all sense of religious morals ... (read in full...)
Why, why, why, why... Do men check out other chicks?
Q. Why do men check out other women? My bf and I have a great relationship, never fight, but I do get very moody when he checks out other women.He someimes tries not to, if he see's a girl coming/walking towards us he looks at me. I don't want him to ...
A. 5 January 2006: well although i'm a man i still can't answer to why men do such things.
i know you say don't like it and this may sound really xrazy but why don't you make a game out of it like when you see an attractive guy walk past rate him out 10 and your par... (read in full...)
It seems to seedy and wrong but my boyfriend loves to mb over page 3 girls!
Q. Someone please help me. I dont want any of you Men to brand me as another silly woman getting her knickers in a twist about nothing and I dont want any of you women to just say Im right hes wrong, I need to know other women feel the way I do and ...
A. 5 January 2006: i said it once in a earlier post my girlfriend is my ultimate fantasy, i don't get attracted to any page 3 girls i'm happy to keep on going without paying it much attention, have i looked at porn? of course! do i still look at now? no!, to a certain ... (read in full...)
I have a baby face and look younger than I really am..I need tips on how to look older.
Q. This may seem like a odd question so don't take it too seriously. I am almost 19 years old and I look as though I am 16. I have a "baby face", and it sucks. Of course, this attracts the wrong type of guy, sorry but 15 year olds aren't my type. ...
A. 5 January 2006: hey my girlfriend has the same problem she's 17 and some people think she's 12 i like to think that looking young for your age is bloody great unlike me when i was 15 some one thought i was 25 says alot don't it? :-)
see it as a gift not a curse ... (read in full...)
I think my 12 year old was masturbating. I feel I should be aware of this..so how do I ask her?
Q. I have a daughter who is over 12 yrs now and knows most everything about the human body, its functions, about sexual intercourse and has also started her periods. A few times, on my way to bed, when I go in to straighten her blanket (she rolls ...
A. 5 January 2006: ask her about it obviously try not to force things on to her though theres nothing wrong with it i started at the same age, but try not to be to worried about her masturbation possibly leading to an early sexual relation with any one.
peopl... (read in full...)
He touched me inappropriately, while I slept.I've told friends but they don't seem to care. Am I over-reacting?
Q. no one seems to of taken what happened to me seriously, i was touched up while i was asleep , i woke up to find him looking and touching, he didnt know id woken up, thought i was just stirring so he covered me back up but carried on stroking my ...
A. 5 January 2006: i'm going to keep it simple YOU ARE NOT OVER REACTING ONE BIT!
some one took advantage of your body while you are asleep which is just wrong.... (read in full...)
My bf and I always had great sex in the past...but lately it's not the same. Need advice!
Q. hi im 18 and my boyfriend is 20 we have been together for a year now,our sex life has been great + wild,we both have a big sex drive, but the past few times we've had sex,just hasnt been the same were not enjoying it, we,ve tryed different sex ...
A. 4 January 2006: how about trying to take a break from sex?
thats sounds crazy i know but if both of you try to resist one another it could get to a point were both of you become so heated with passion you'll end up jumping each other and having the time of lifes... (read in full...)
He's put our relationship on hold so he can pursue a past love who is getting divorced.Do I wait or move on?
Q. Ok, here it is. I met this guy 2 months ago and everything seemed perfect. We were CRAZY about each other. Then out of the blue, he stopped calling. He finally emailed me and told me that the one person in his life that he had always dreamed of ...
A. 4 January 2006: just move on love to say that you two are crazy about each other is wrong he clearly isn't, go find another guy who WILL love you and only you.
if the guy returns tell him it's his own fault for leaving to find something he already had.... (read in full...)
He wants to give a new love interest a try at dating-but why doesn't he want to try with me?
Q. I've liked a guy friend of mine for quite some time. We've known each other for around 5 years now. I didn't really keep in touch with him after graduating, but he made an effort and we started meeting up again (more recently this year). He ...
A. 4 January 2006: instead of waiting for him why don't you just take the bull by it's horns and just ask him out and see what happens?
if he says no then atleast you have a friend for life... (read in full...)
I want to protect my son from being hurt or involved in a sexual relationship with the girl he's seeing...
Q. Hi, My name is Sue and I have a little problem: my 13 year old son really likes my friend's daughter (who is 16). They are always meeting up, even though they go differents schools (about 3 times a week). They are always at each others' side and...
A. 4 January 2006: i'm only 18 and still going out with my "first love" who i've known since i was 14-15.
your son sounds like he knows the ins and outs about sex and you say he's mature but when it comes to love IMHO no one is mature, just like you and your hus... (read in full...)
Friends of the girl I fancy have me down as a stalker!
Q. Hi im 14 i met this girl in school, i really like and i want to kmow her better but all of her friends keep me away from her and telling her that i'm a; salker ect. please help me find a way around this? ...
A. 4 January 2006: i'm just takign a wild guess but these girls sound asif maybe their the "popular" ones and if you were like me you've chosen your friends wisely when in school and have dodged all the attention you would get from being "popular" IF you want her get ... (read in full...)
Using a condom makes me lose my erection and it's happening every time!
Q. I'm a 24 years old guy and I have a 25 years old girlriend. Nowadays I'm going through a stupid funny thing which is becoming a very annoying thing. I had a very much normal erection but whenever I wore a condom and when I get ready to insert m...
A. 3 January 2006: well if the condoms make you lose your erection why don't your gf try using a femedom it works all the same... (read in full...)
Don't know if the age gap of 4 years is too much, and I don't know if I should tell my parents!
Q. Hey people, I don't know if you can help, but here goes. I am going out with this really amazing guy but there an age gap. I'm 16 and he's 20. Does that matter to parents, because my mum, dad and sister wont let me date because I am the clever o...
A. 3 January 2006: tell them and make sure you let them know that if the relationship gets in the way of your education you will either break up or take a break from him until things have calmed down... (read in full...)
We've come clean about our affiar, but now he thinks he has to choose between me and his job!
Q. Hi, I'm currently in a 3 yr relationship with my boyfriend, Jonny. But recently I've started going out with his boss, Ant. I've really fallen for Ant but he is engaged to another woman, Selena. Ant and I have just told our partners about the affa...
A. 3 January 2006: these are the kind of things in life which you just can't put right you haven't mentioned the age it's bad enough making choices like that in life but to do young can make it worse.
your thinking alot about ant and what he has to do what about jo... (read in full...)
Do I quit Uni for my Parisienne girlfriend?
Q. My girlfriend and I fortunatley overcame our first problem of age. She is 22 and iam 19 and we met at University. We are really in love and are considering marriage now we have been together for a long time. It is not ourselves which have thrown up ...
A. 3 January 2006: well if you two love each other as much as you say then it will last two years so carry on with your course, try not to over excert yourself but IF and only IF you can try get a part time job, get a place to rent i know london is expensive because i ... (read in full...)
Am I stoopid for dating a 37 year old married guy? Age 16...
Q. I'm not sure what to do. i am 16 years old and have been dating a 37 year old married man for nearly a year now. He i adore his children and i am friends with his wife. We have recently told each other that we love one another and i've stopped see...
A. 3 January 2006: well simply if you have helped this guy to be what he never wanted to be which would have been a lying, unfaithul and deceiving to his wife and kids then yes it is.
but he is to blame just as much as you if this gets out.
you are probably not... (read in full...)
A little white lie is haunting me...
Q. I am 18 years old. I have been with my partner for a little over a year, he is in his 30's. We have been in love from pretty much the fisrt time we met! My problem is prbably the hardest thing I have had to deal with, When we met he was informed ...
A. 3 January 2006: any lie no matter what is still a lie and is going to have bad consequences i'm sure that when you tell him he may get angry but if you loves you enough he will soon calm down and see nothing wrong.
but be careful like i said a lie is a lie and ... (read in full...)
She fancies sexy guys on TV... But shows absolutely zero interest in sex with me!
Q. why does me girlfriend seem to show little or no interest physically? hi, i'm 18 and been with my girfriend for just 1 year and 3 months. we've never had sex but have came close but i had to stop as she said it had hurt when i had penetrated he...
A. 3 January 2006: mmmmmmmm funny now you mention that she is almost all the time caught off guard when i hug her from behind.
i'll give it a try next time see what happens won't know what works if i don't try... (read in full...)
I need some tips from women on how to get my gf turned on.
Q. hoping some of the women on here can help me. just wondering what exactly gets you in the mood, what are your biggest turns on and what not please don't be shy now as i've tried everything to get my girlfriend in the mood but nothing seems to...
A. 2 January 2006: i know every one is different that is why i was hoping to get a load of replies so i can get a wide range of answers.
i've talked to her loads of times about this and she keeps saying "i don't know, i don't really have anything that turns me on" ... (read in full...)
I thought I loved my boyfriend until a new man entered my life. Now I wonder what to do!
Q. Hello, I have lived with my boyfriend for four years and he makes me happy. However through work I met and became friends with a married couple. She was fighting breast cancer and unfortunately she passed away. After attending the funeral, a few m...
A. 2 January 2006: it is a damn hard choice to make but one you WILL have to make if these feelings stay. think though when you first met your current boyfriend did you share the same connection as you seem to with this new man? IF you did and you happen to choose the ... (read in full...)
My longtime boyfriend doesn't appreciate that I love him like no one else can!
Q. I have known this guy for 5 years. We dated throughout the 7th grade until now off and on. I am a freshman in college and he is still a senior in high school but we still talk. I need advice because I feel like he is losing interest in me now, lik...
A. 2 January 2006: ok, i want you to ask yourself when was the last time you and him were able to go out alone and spend some real quality time together? some quality time always goes down well :-)
i know it's probably hard for you to get the free time now your in ... (read in full...)
My girl walks all over me...
Q. my girlfriend never seems to stick to commitments with me when we plan to see each other, i'm always asking her "when is it best to see you" i'm always having to ask when i can see her next, and more often then not she never sticks to the plans and ...
A. 1 January 2006: recently i've been letting her know how i feel and after a chat late on new years she has finally realised that i'm not going to just be walked over anymore and she needs to start showing how she feels more often, now one more quick question will ... (read in full...)
I treated her so badly...but I desperately want her forgiveness
Q. Hi, please am so sad i need help.Try not to judge me when you read my story, my mind is already doing that.i have been under depression but i know its no excuse.here it goes. I have been dating this girl for 6years now. I did promise to marry...
A. 31 December 2005: probably her family will be last people who would be happy to see you but MAYBE if you could get hold of them and let them know pretty much everything you have said here and hope they may understand and then MAYBE they could help you find her, you ... (read in full...)
She gets so drunk, she's always talking to her exes, and I can't help but wonder: Is she cheating?
Q. My girlfriend of 6 months has been drinking a lot lately. Whenever she gets drunk she calls all her exes. I work in a remote location for 2 weeks at a time and every night I call she's so drunk. I call and she's always talking to an ex. When I...
A. 31 December 2005: IF you haven't actually talked to her about how you feel i can absolutly understand because sometimes you may be scared of the reaction but don't worry as it seems she may really need you now more then ever as it also sounds like she has a drinking ... (read in full...)
My girl walks all over me...
Q. my girlfriend never seems to stick to commitments with me when we plan to see each other, i'm always asking her "when is it best to see you" i'm always having to ask when i can see her next, and more often then not she never sticks to the plans and ...
A. 31 December 2005: sorry thats twice i forgot to mention ages i'm 18 she is 17 whether that changes anything i don't know... (read in full...)
She fancies sexy guys on TV... But shows absolutely zero interest in sex with me!
Q. why does me girlfriend seem to show little or no interest physically? hi, i'm 18 and been with my girfriend for just 1 year and 3 months. we've never had sex but have came close but i had to stop as she said it had hurt when i had penetrated he...
A. 31 December 2005: I like to thank you for that answer nice little confidence boost :-) but I've always let her know that I aint in it just for me because in my honest opinion I just want to please her best I can, I've told her that once we actually have sex that what ... (read in full...)
Guys: is it better for a woman to look like a porn star?
Q. Question for guys Do men find the bodies of women in porn superior to those of their girlfriend/wife? I'm not talking about the feelings or warmth etc, just the way we look. Honest answers please...
A. 31 December 2005: personally when i look at my girlfriend from a strictly phyiscal way no women is more phyiscally attractive or have a better body.
your type of question will obviously differ with men but in my honest opinion to me my girlfriend who ever it could... (read in full...)
She fancies sexy guys on TV... But shows absolutely zero interest in sex with me!
Q. why does me girlfriend seem to show little or no interest physically? hi, i'm 18 and been with my girfriend for just 1 year and 3 months. we've never had sex but have came close but i had to stop as she said it had hurt when i had penetrated he...
A. 31 December 2005: sorry if i forgot to mention her age she is 17 and turns 18 on may 11th we've always been able to talk about anything physical, what concerns me some times is when she said "if you had a body like van damn(in his prime) i'd jump you"... (read in full...)
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