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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2006): yes they do. However, it is not the same. The trust is not there. If they broke up with you you are going to be so scared it will happen again. Everything they say and do will be scruntinized by you. It is not fun. I say move on. I know it is hard and it sucks by they are an ex for a reason!
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reader, Suzie767  +, writes (5 April 2006):
 Yeah i broke up with a guy 5 years ago, or should i say he broke up with me. 2 years ago he tried to get back with me (something i never thought in my wildest dreams would happen) i refused and he has been trying to get back with me ever since. The funny thing is iam still in love with him so even that doesnt go away!
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (5 April 2006):
 It totally depends on the reason for the split and if that reason/issue is resolved. As has been said, your best strategy is to stay friends with your ex and maybe sublty at times remind them of what they are missing. Be affectionate sometimes and remind them of what you both had, subtly.
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reader, Joe +, writes (5 April 2006):
it's a 50/50 thing really my current gf left me when were dating back in school and i never really spoke to her for the best part of a year, i had other relationships after but i'm now back with her and it's been great we are currently pushing two years together so i would say in the back of your mind maybe hope but go out and do something with your life and don't expect to much to soon
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reader, Rachx +, writes (4 April 2006):
That’s a hard one, depends y u broke up for a start?! My boyf left me for 4 wks, I was devastated, really believed it was over for good so did he. We didn’t have n e contact and I started to accept it and tried 2 get on with life. He then he cleared his head realised wot he wanted and that we could work through our troubles, we got back 2gether stronger than ever. we are now into our 3rd yr 2gether,jus bought a house & trying for a baby..so I guess yes in some cases they could be coming back. BUT rather than pin your hopes on it my best advice is try and move on and accept its over., if he does come back & u still love him & want him back then gr8. Otherwise, u risk waiting & hoping 2 b shattered even more than u are now finding out further down the line he never has and never did have any intention of coming back.
Good luck 2 u. x
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reader, xXxBabymamaXxX +, writes (4 April 2006):
 ooooh this is a good one, when they finish with you, you always hope, but it would depend the way in which you break up, make sure you stay friends and if they dump you, you wait for them to come back to you, but help them aswell, good luck i'm rooting for you!! :o) laura, 16
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