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writes: Why do men check out other women? My bf and I have a great relationship, never fight, but I do get very moody when he checks out other women.He someimes tries not to, if he see's a girl coming/walking towards us he looks at me. I don't want him to be afraid to look, but I don't want him to look, or I don't want him to want to look. I hate it, I know he's a man but aren't I good enough? I can I get over this?!?!? Help please?!?! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2006): My boyf of 3 years is exactly the same, and before this relatinship my boyf of 4 years also couldnt resist the glances. I hated it, still hate it but at the end of the day he is holding my hand, coming home to my bed and telling me Im the one he wants. Do you ever glance at men and think phwoarrrrrrrr! nice bum or ogle at famous guys on the telly? Im sure you do, that doesnt mean you love your man any less does it?
I know its hard when your man behaves like this and insecurity starts to creep in, believe me I know first hand, thing is all men do it so your fella isnt just one on his own doing it cos he is no longer interested in you or something but just one in a million of other men who cant help it! There is no harm in looking, Im sure he loves you very much and wouldnt swap you for a single one of those girls. xx
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reader, Marko +, writes (5 January 2006):
Hey i can tell u from my own experience that if a guy checks out other chicks doesnt mean hes planning to cheat on u or anything.
Its just like a habbit ... sorry hun its the way guys are..
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reader, Joe  +, writes (5 January 2006):
well although i'm a man i still can't answer to why men do such things.
i know you say don't like it and this may sound really xrazy but why don't you make a game out of it like when you see an attractive guy walk past rate him out 10 and your partner will do the same about women and the only women he will give a 10 out 10 will be you.
i know it's a crazy idea but it MIGHT help you ge tover this in a fun sort of way.
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