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I need some tips from women on how to get my gf turned on.

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Question - (2 January 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 February 2006)
A male United Kingdom, *oe writes:

hoping some of the women on here can help me.

just wondering what exactly gets you in the mood, what are your biggest turns on and what not please don't be shy now as i've tried everything to get my girlfriend in the mood but nothing seems to work so i'm justing hoping so of the women here can help me.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2006):

Be gental take it slow kiss her neck, caress her body, try stimulating her brests gently remember(some men tend to forget there attached lol) stroke over her inside leg but dont touch her genital region do this for a while hopfully you should get a reaction from her like a pashionate kiss (varies) then you can go to brushing over that area, maybe try some dirty talk tell her how sexy she is and how much u want her lover her ect.. (works for some ppl) obviousy u can move on as u c fit in to culilingus etc..maybe use toys, take Knotic of her reaction to c which part of what ur doing she likes and what she dosnt, if all else fails ask her "do you like that?" or along those lines. Introduce porn (ask first)it can work for women as well as men. Cant think of anything else atm hope this is more what you were looking for, most of this works for me.

ooo send a dirty descriptive txt b4 she meets you it might put a sexual vision in her head helping her to be in the mood b4/as she arives ^^

Good luck have fun ^_^

Like i said hope this helps

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A male reader, Joe United Kingdom +, writes (2 January 2006):

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i know every one is different that is why i was hoping to get a load of replies so i can get a wide range of answers.

i've talked to her loads of times about this and she keeps saying "i don't know, i don't really have anything that turns me on" now i think for some girls while your a virgin (i am to btw) nothing other then plain sex is appealing and until you start having regular sex other stuff may seem exciting.

i know thats not the case for every single women but i think it may be the case for a selected few like my girlfriend.

incase you would like to know the ages i'm 18 and shes 17

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A female reader, happytochat Australia +, writes (2 January 2006):

Everyone is different, we all have our special things that would turn us on, and things that wouldn't! Everyone is different. So looks like you are just going to have to ASK her what she likes. If you can't talk about sex to her openly, then you have to wonder are you two even close enough and in a good relationship that should be doing this? Talk to her about it. Just ask her what she wants, and then she can ask you, so you can both improve. Comunication is the key.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2006):

Well first of all is going down on her also you can use a vibrator while your doing that and when you guys are having sex massage her area with it that works for me.big peeve for me is hairy balls hate them nice clean shaved works.Just take control make sure you know what your doing don't be too rough nice and gental is key. It also just depends on the girl some girls like different things try to find what she likes and do it for her. Good luck Dude!

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