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26 August 2009: I am at work, and this young lady bursts through the door with double d cups overflowing a button up collared shirt. Her shirt was barely retaining her physical accomodations, and she was more than aware of the way she narrowly squeezed into her ...
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I'm worried that my son may not actually be mine
Q. I heard off a good friend of mine that my son is apparently not mine. When I met my girlfriend about 5 years ago she was a single mum, who had a 3-year-old son. Two years later, we moved in together, our life was good, we then decided to try...
A. 28 August 2009: whether he is yours BIOLOGICALLY is irrelevant. You are the dad.
He loves you, your fiance may not respect you if she truly was unfaithful.
But just because your say may not have been concieved by you, doesnt make him any less of your child.
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I want a proper girlfriend but am worried about my small penis
Q. Will she be disapointed by my small penis? My penis is 4 inches when its hard and I have very little pubic hair. I know I'm a late developer but I've been seeing a girl recently and she is coming over, I think its going to go past the 'kissin...
A. 28 August 2009: Let me tell you this bro, and in all honesty. Smaller can be better, and furthermore if you arent sexually active with her yet, you really have nothing to worry about.
Think about it bro, If a girl has huge boobs, there just, in the way. The... (read in full...)
I'm scared to have sex, but he told me there is nothing to be afraid of. Is that true?
Q. this boy i like i told him i loved him and he said he loves me too. i was like omg he loves me, and he sed that he wants sex with me all the time and i said im scaird to and he said thers nothing to be afraid of. is that true i have nothing to be ...
A. 28 August 2009: I lost my virginity at when I was your age. And it destroyed me.
I cried for weeks, and couldnt admit to myself what I had done. I mean you have no concept of love at 15. No real idea, and you dont need sex as a means to express how you feel.
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When should I give up on him?
Q. How do you know when to give up on someone? I've been kissing this guy who shows no sign of wanting a relationship and it drives me insane thinking he could be with someone else when I'm not around! What do I do?...
A. 27 August 2009: A kiss is very nice but its not a contract. Dont read too much into it, if he isnt giving you what you want out it, HE isnt worth YOUR time. Remember that. He should be chasing you. -iydm... (read in full...)
Girls seem attracted to me but I don't know how to approach them.
Q. Whenever i meet a girl i am attracted to or is attracted to me i find it difficult to approach her or even ask.i hav seen several cases where girls seem attracted to me but i don't know how to approach them.i nid help on how to...
A. 27 August 2009: Well, what I would suggest is be calm, natural. Dont force anything, dont try to mimic or recreate anything youve seen effective from other people. You have to be real and genuine, ask questions, find similar interests. Make a very casual move... (read in full...)
My new partner can't understand why I let my ex see our daughter when he gives me no support
Q. I'm in need of advice. I've been separated from my ex 3years now and I have a daughter by him. Now I am in a relationship with a man who can't understand why I let my daughters father see her when he gives me no money. He does not want me talking to ...
A. 27 August 2009: I came from a broken home, and biological father that didnt financially support my mother. If he choses not to be a good enough father to provide any kind of support financially, what the hell kind of emotional support could he ever do? He d... (read in full...)
I'm 8 days late could I be pregnant? What should I do?
Q. After everything has happen in our relationship we are still together and strong. umm the only problem I have now is that I am 8days late and I dont know if I should wait and go to the clinic next month or what should i do? This month is almost ...
A. 27 August 2009: eight days late is nothing to stress yourself out about. And your symptoms, could total be completely self induced. Your forcing yourself into this belief your pregnant so thus your suddenly feeling all the symptoms. Even if you were pregnant... (read in full...)
In love with my best male friend. Should I wait or just give up on him?
Q. Hi. Im in a bit of a situation. I am in love with a very old friend of mine. I have known him since we were at school, and we are very good friends, who can talk to each other about anything. We chat nearly every day, even tho he has a girlfriend...
A. 27 August 2009: I would be very reluctant to do the best friend scenario. Honestly, its better to keep the infatuation. I think that if you try to date, and it fails, or If you sleep together, it will make things unbearably awkward if you have to go back to ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant, but I'm not sure which guy is the father!
Q. Im 26 and just found out Im pregnant. The thing is, I have slept with 2 men - one 4 weeks ago, just a day after I finished my period and someone else 2 weeks ago. Im unsure who the father is but I think it is more likely to be the guy I slept wi...
A. 27 August 2009: Its kind of unclear to me if you are pregnant, or THINK you are. Regardless. Here is the situation, you have two candidates. Contact both, inform them of the situation. Were they both a one time scenario, or was it multiple, were contraceptives a... (read in full...)
I spend my life dreaming of life without him...
Q. I have been married for 10 years and am completely miserable. He's a lovely guy however we don't seem to have any common interests, everything I do seems to irritate him and he never wants to have sex with me. I spend my life dreaming about b...
A. 27 August 2009: Im sorry to hear about your failing marriage. Honestly, I think the best thing to do would be simply walk away, if the magic of its initial conception are no longer present, there is really no reason to continue it. You cant FORCE love to co... (read in full...)
My fiance said he would leave me if I got pregnant and now I am - how do I tell him?
Q. Me and my fiance have been together for awhile we just recently got engaged a few months ago. We have talked about our future a lot. I have 3 kids and he has accepted them. He loves them very much and they love him. We have talked about having k...
A. 27 August 2009: Now, here is the thing.. I am a firm believer that you are never fully ready to have a child. There is never the perfect time.. I mean really think about it. You can have a beautiful home, and have a career, its still going to be hard. There is n... (read in full...)
Too clingy! How do I control it?
Q. i am almost 4 months pregnant, and the baby's father and i are currently broken up. we are trying really hard to work things out because we've both come from broken homes, and we feel a child deserves both parents. plus, we are still so in love. ...
A. 27 August 2009: Well there are several factors here, coming from a broken family myself I completely understand. You always want to provide for your child in a way your parents didnt. So thats natural. Plus in a break up, your going to miss your significant othe... (read in full...)
I just want to be a normal teenage boy!
Q. im 15 years old and i so lonely and depressed in my life im the only child so i have no one to talk to or hang out with i don't get out much because i really don't have any friends i can just hang with (at least good people) every since i turned a ...
A. 27 August 2009: Ok that was the longest sentence in the history of composition. you didnt punctuate once lol. Regardless. Ok, look at gay porn doesnt make you gay, your curious. If your aroused so be it... you are who you are. Sexual orientation is a genetic ... (read in full...)
How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?
Q. Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...
A. 27 August 2009: You have given me great advice, so in exchange. Its called desperation my friend. Nothing more, nothing less. When in committed relationship and if you are trying to keep your significant other happy, you will do anything you can, even a... (read in full...)
My girlfriend completely overreacted when I couldnt send her money! What should I do in this situation?
Q. Hi viewers. I have this problem. My girlfriend and I are in our relationship for six months and we have had our ups and downs. Until one day last week, she was robbed at knifepoint while she was in the Philippines with her family. When she told me ...
A. 27 August 2009: Lets be honest though, your in a long relationship where you clearly love this girl, and she is probably just being moody and upset. YOu know, I mean she was held at knife point, but financial strains do hinder a relationship. You know what I ... (read in full...)
Is this man playing me?
Q. Ok, here it is, I will just shoot from the hip here and maybe get a bit more insight into my wondering mind. I met a guy about 6 weeks ago. had coffee and talked. nice man and he asked to meet again. during the time before we met there was te...
A. 27 August 2009: The irony of this posting is, you made is apparent that his comment of "what do you want out of this" was kind of off putting, but you are the one with butterflies and nervousness.. irony. Well, clearly you're developing feelings for this guy, bu... (read in full...)
Why am I so attached to my girlfriend?
Q. We started dating about 8 months ago and it was the most amazing relationship i had ever been in. we did everything together, we were both very deeply in love. But things got a little rough over the summer considering we are both 16 neither of us ...
A. 27 August 2009: Ok, so here is the best thing you can do. Don't allow yourself to look desperate and needy GIRLS HATE THAT. Seriously with the whiny like, oh why cant you hang out with me I really miss you... don't play that card. Trust me bro, trust me. ... (read in full...)
Can I be helped? Would counselling be an answer?
Q. Hi, I have a question to do with my social anxiety disorder which is linked with depression. I can't explain to my boyfriend why sometimes it is that I get exceedingly angry for no reason and burst into tears complaining about being ugly and u...
A. 27 August 2009: Hi,
so I am bi polar. I know all about mood swings, and believe me my wife has A LOT to deal with as a result of it. If your significant other is patient, they will just accept our bits of rage, or crying for no reason or screaming at things t... (read in full...)
Is it possible?
Q. Is it possible to cum without feeling it?...
A. 27 August 2009: As in nocturnal emissions yes.
Pre ejaculate yes,
a full on ejaculation is more forceful, you would at least feel a muscle contraction not necessarily the orgasm.
Orgasm and ejaculation are two seperate functions of the body
-iydm... (read in full...)
Was she just doing her job, or did she like me?
Q. okay there's this girl that works in a drive up esspresso and when I drive up to buy coffee she's very nice and I never gave her a tip just to see if she's only nice because she wants a tip, anyways she was the first to say how is your day and then ...
A. 27 August 2009: I think you should head back over there, be more direct with your flirtations. You never once mentioned how you reacted to her advances other than the giddiness it elicits.
Try to see how she reacts when you make a joke, or flash her a smile, ... (read in full...)
Once a cheat always a cheat? Can you be faithful to "the one"?
Q. I have cheated in the past but then I thought I had met the "one" and I could never do it to them. People say once a cheat always a cheat I don't believe this. Does anyone think that once you have messed someone around its simply because they are...
A. 27 August 2009: I am a firm believer in cheating is merely for the thrill, you always retire back to the comfort of the relationship. Other than affairs, which are just mental conflictions.
I have cheated in the past, I am not proud to admit but I have. In doing... (read in full...)
He threw me out because I don't agree with him all the time
Q. My boyfriend kicked me out of our home on sunday, leaving me heart broken and homeless. his reasons were basically to cut a long story short that i react differently to him in situations and this frustrates him, im a very emotional person. I have ...
A. 27 August 2009: It seems like an overreaction honestly. Sometimes fights evolve to a certain point and you can no longer think logically.
Depending on how long you two were together, I mean honestly you should be able to sort it out. Relationships are all abou... (read in full...)
Found emails he sent to another woman. Did he cheat or not?
Q. i found out that my husband had some kind of relationship with another woman (don't know how far it went). He assures me that nothing happened, but the emails that he sent her, the words he told her sounded like he was either in love or had a huge ...
A. 26 August 2009: well, read over the words carefully. I mean typically when you stumble onto things via snooping .. that is what you did, if you look hard enough you will find it.
You assume worst case scenarios. You know what I mean, the wording is always d... (read in full...)
Did something to make him mad but I really like him
Q. i need help to win back or get this guy i like all together. ok i worked with this guy and started to like him cuz he was giving some extra attention dumb stuff like throw things down my shirt and stuff plus hes bomb. at first i thought he liked me ...
A. 26 August 2009: Relationships at such a young age can be so fickle and restless. So keep that in mind, he could just be playing hard to get.
After saying he had feelings for you and now he is hiding to see what happens. I dont think you did anything wrong. B... (read in full...)
He likes me more than I like him....
Q. Is it necessarily a bad thing if my boyfriend is a lot more into me than I am him? He liked me for longer than I liked him before we got together and we've been dating for about a month and a half. He seems a lot more confident in our relationship ...
A. 26 August 2009: After that first month of puppy dog love infatuation it seems to lose its glimmer. Keep that in mind, its not time to name the kids and get a morgage, just have fun and keep it light.
If it progresses fantastic, if not , cest la vie.
-iydm... (read in full...)
Unprotected sex and now I'm a week late, could I be pregnant?
Q. Hi i have a situation here i had unprotected sex on the 24th and on the 26th i started my periods,i was expecting start my next cycle either on the 21st or today 26th but i havent started yet could their be chances that am pregnant?please any help ...
A. 26 August 2009: Hi there,
Well in theory yes, you can be pregnant if you were ovulating at the point. However, it seems very very unlikely. The thing is , alot of factors can play into late cycles, for instance if you are stressed and worried.
Or maybe just... (read in full...)
Why is taking longer for my girlfriend to climax?
Q. This is a post mark to is my girlfriend a player. When we first started dating when we have sex she would climax within 15 minutes, orally sometimes within 5. After December it became the time double and she became to incorporate a vibrator into ...
A. 26 August 2009: I dont think that it makes your girlfriend a player . I think that simply she is requiring additional stimuli perhaps even just to spice up life.
I mean really think about it, there are only so many ways to have sex, you have to incorpor... (read in full...)
I'm having second thoughts about trying to conceive right now because my husband is sometimes cold with me and his daughter is going to move in! What should I do?
Q. I've been married for one year now... and my husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for the last 6 months and is not happening. He has a daughter with another woman, she is 10 yrs old and is coming to live with us. She is a 'good" girl but i ...
A. 26 August 2009: If your husband acts differently towards you now, and he also seems to be colder and unreceptive to your feelings.. i mean honestly, that is a crisis.
Communication and listening to your significant others requests is one of the biggest portions... (read in full...)
Are good gut feelings always right?
Q. I am just wondering, has anyone around here had proven that their gut feeling is right? Can we trust our gut feeling whether it be negative or positive? Why do I always read stories here that negative gut feelings are right like for example chea...
A. 26 August 2009: Well its psychological really, like, if you have a bad feeling in the morning when you wake up, and your car tire burts on the way to work.. you exclaim
"I knew something was going to go wrong today"
You already had it established in y... (read in full...)
Should I consider my wife holding another man's hand as cheating?
Q. I asked a question a few weeks ago regarding staying in my marriage. Well, a new development has happened. In talking with my wife she felt it "necessary" to tell me that on a business trip about 4 years ago she had too much to drink with a male ...
A. 26 August 2009: Well there is only two ways for the scenario to unfold. She felt guilt honestly for nothing more than cordial hand holding. Which can be considered chivalrous. Keep that in mind, although on the flip side to the spectrum, perhaps something more l... (read in full...)
I need ideas for sex please..
Q. im only starting to have sex so i want to no about new postions can you tell me any ne ones and in good detail...
A. 26 August 2009: if your just to be sexually intimate I would strongly encourage you being more traditional, as in you on top in like straddle kind of thing, or just missionary (guy on top) I would avoid rear entry or anything too unconventional early on.
Keep ... (read in full...)
What's the worst that can happen if I don't treat my yeast infection?
Q. what's the worst that can happen if i don't treat my yeast infection?...
A. 26 August 2009: I dont have a vagina of my own, so I am not 100 percent on this.
But I know that the it can smell pretty awful. And I cant imagine a bacteria infection untreated is healthy. I am pretty sure you can pick a quick kit up at meijer or any pharmacy... (read in full...)
My ex won't leave me alone, how can I get rid of him?!
Q. i have an ex that just wont leave me alone. he's 20 and i'm 17. he tried to control me when we were together and i got fed up after 2 months and ended it. i've recently started to get back to talking with my close friends and i've also started ...
A. 26 August 2009: Hey there,
Now love is a tricky thing. Coming from a males perspective, if a relationship you were really into ends, sometimes you do act irreationally. I mean, driving by and talking to friends, checking online socail networking sites. ect.
... (read in full...)
Ever met someone so perfect that you're ashamed of your baser feelings/instinct?
Q. Have you ever met someone who is so beautiful, so pure, intelligent, fun-loving and wittingly sweet that it makes you feel ashamed of your baser cravings and the animalistic urge to make her your own? I didn't know people like her existed ...
A. 26 August 2009: what exactly are you trying to ask.. are you trying to get with this girl... (read in full...)
I need help! Wife is cheating!
Q. I've been married for 6 years and its been hard. My wife and I have two kids. Now, a couple of years ago she cheated on me when she went out with some friends to santa monica to spend the night. She sadi she thought someone gave her sonething ...
A. 26 August 2009: Infidelity is a treacherous road. Honestly I think that if your wife did have some business on holiday, you need to reevaluate the situation on hand. Is it worth to stay with someone who is not in it whole heartedly. -iydm... (read in full...)
Can you have a relationship without doing oral?
Q. can you have a relationship without going into other stuff like oral? just wondering......
A. 26 August 2009: did your boyfriend encourage you into oral sex?
Dont do anything you are not comfortable with honestly, sex isnt everything its built up to be.
I was about your age when I lost my virginity, and honestly I cried for months, I felt guilty and ... (read in full...)
My younger cousin touched me in my sleep, and is now threatening to tell her parents that I made her do it!! Help!
Q. I have a problem I'm 18 and my cousin has a girlfriend she's like 40 and she has a lil girl that's about 10 I think I know them about 2 years now they all ways come over to my house and about a month ago the lil girl (madelin) came over the house ...
A. 26 August 2009: the thing thats bizarre is that she pursued you from such a casual demeanor. I mean honestly, what ten year old has a concept of oral sex or physical stimulation?
I know that kids lose there virginity typically around 13 now and oral sex is a reg... (read in full...)
We hardly ever have sex anymore! Is my vagina too big, or is his penis too small?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year. When we first started dating, we were very sexually active. However, we aren’t anymore, well we have sex but its barely ever and I have make him want to and when we are laying in bed and i ...
A. 26 August 2009: Its a not a fact of size issues here,
its a lack of intimacy, maybe your boyfriend wants to be more adventurous, try that out.
I am not advocating whips and chains, or anything like that. But just out of the ordinary. Anything you don... (read in full...)
Does he still care, or am I looking too far into this?
Q. My boyfriend and I recently broke up, and I knew it was coming, even though he hadn't shown and signs or anything, but we decided on being friends. When he broke up with me he said that he loves me, but can't love anyone right now whatever that ...
A. 26 August 2009: I can relate completely.
Friday she says I love you. Saturday we worked late and didnt speak. Sunday she leaves me.
I know the pain, she continued to call me , and tell me that I was so great, she still loved me, called me "honey" ect. Now... (read in full...)
I'm never in the mood for sex, how long will I feel like this? It seems like more than just a phase!
Q. hi ,,ive been with my partner for 4 years,, im 20 hes 26 and we have a 1 year old! tings are ussually great between us, but when it comes to in the bedroom ,, i never seem in the mood anymore, i know i could be if he tried more i think i dont no how ...
A. 26 August 2009: Sex is a very narrow road, there are only so many options. And typically in a committed relationship you sort of adhere to a routine. You know, as in, you kiss foreplay ect.
Now, the best way to rekindle that giddiness for lack of a better t... (read in full...)
Should I seduce my brother in law or just forget about him?
Q. hello aunty, I am a married lady, 33 years old..I am a leading drama actress also, few months back I did a romantic play, where my brother-in-law (my husbands brother) was acting opposite me, being a romantic play we had a few smooches and a steamy ...
A. 26 August 2009: Your husbands investments failure is so irrelevant, that doesnt make him a stupid person. Your marriage being fixed by your family says you dont have a backbone at all, and cant speak what you believe, if in fact you truly dont want to be in this ... (read in full...)
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