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We hardly ever have sex anymore! Is my vagina too big, or is his penis too small?

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Question - (26 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year. When we first started dating, we were very sexually active. However, we aren’t anymore, well we have sex but its barely ever and I have make him want to and when we are laying in bed and i want to have sex it’s like i am not even there. i am starting to think that I don’t please him anymore. Could it be because my vagina is too big or could it be that his penis is too small? help please

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (26 August 2009):

Honeypie agony auntI doubt it has anything to do with the size of any of your bodyparts, but with the lack of communication.

You two need to talk. Together. Tell him how you feel. Be open and honest, but don't "blame" him for the lack of intimacy, yo uwill get no where with that.

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A male reader, Ifyoudontmind United States +, writes (26 August 2009):

Its a not a fact of size issues here,

its a lack of intimacy, maybe your boyfriend wants to be more adventurous, try that out.

I am not advocating whips and chains, or anything like that. But just out of the ordinary. Anything you dont normally do, or wouldnt normally do.. try it out.

I mean ANYTHING loses its flair when you do it regularly.

You know what I mean.. try that out.

Hopefully it helps.

-iydm

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