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writes: Have you ever met someone who is so beautiful, so pure, intelligent, fun-loving and wittingly sweet that it makes you feel ashamed of your baser cravings and the animalistic urge to make her your own? I didn't know people like her existed until I met a girl so beautiful she can affect the chemistry of every person in the room when she walks in with that graceful sway of her hips. I mean this woman looks like the byproduct of Ava Gardner and Marilyn Monroe's DNA : curves everywhere, ivory skin, long auburn hair, huge green eyes-- she's astoundingly beautiful, and believe I have been with enough beautiful women to think that I was immune to it by now. The remarkable thing is that she's so approachable- not the snobbish, high maintenance type like the sorority sisters she lives with- approachable, funny, has the most melodious breath-catching laughter and here is the mind-blowing fact: completely, utterly virgin. Believe me she lives in a sorority house where girls expose every hole in their body the first night you meet them and guys would drop their to their knees if she so much as gives them a signal. Every shady dealings are out in the open, but her reputation remains pristine. She's almost 20, she's not ignorant about sex when it's everywhere around her. IT just doesn't phase her. Even when she's approached a little aggressively she manages to slide away unscathed. How can she do it? How can a woman like that be that much in control? and how can a man who's always thought that love was a powerful orgasm down a woman's throat be worthy of someone like that? She made me realize how wretched we really are...and the thought that I cannot have her has made very reflective and sad lately. Anybody got any advise?
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reader, xxmissxx  +, writes (26 August 2009):
 i think that you should romance this girl!!!! :D ! she sounds lovely, and if you know she doesnt sleep around, then shes gunna be the all or nothing, romantic type!buy her some flowers (not secret admirer, let her know there from you!) really try to spoil her , tell her to her face how beautiful she is and whatever you do, if she does take a liking to you, then dont screw it up by trying to screw her. her idea of love is romance, your seems to be physical contact, two different things! accept her way, or take the highway my friend, good luck!
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reader, Uncle Sneaker +, writes (26 August 2009):
 You say you "can't have her". Why not? If you don't try, you'll never know.
Oh there are plenty of women who are totally in control of themselves, but you do need to look past the outward facade and see whether she's really as beautiful and perfect on the inside, if you see what I mean. It's too easy to be totally blinded by what seems perfection and then find it's not all sweetness and light.
Also, a woman who is in such complete control of herself often wants to be in control of everything - and everyone - around her. That's not necessarily a bad thing, but you need to be sure it's what YOU want.
And, I might mention on the subject of beautiful women, you'll probably find as you get older that many more women are incredibly beautiful and desirable, FAR more than you could have ever thought possible when you were in your teens or twenties. You learn to appreciate features that you might not have thought desirable when you were younger, and... well, it's something to look forward to. Even if you've found the woman of your dreams and you're with her, it doesn't mean you can't appreciate and enjoy the beauty of others too. There's a wonderful world of females out there, of all shapes, sizes and ages. Remember that when you're making your choices.
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reader, Ifyoudontmind  +, writes (26 August 2009):
what exactly are you trying to ask.. are you trying to get with this girl
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009): First off for gods sake wake up.This girl is nice no doubting that , this girl may even be the woman you have always dreamed about but she is just a girl she is not a goddess.Your description of what you thought love was leads me to suspect that your not whiter than white yourself and that she may know this?Well the short answer is if you want a girl like this or this girl then you have got to figure out what and who she is. What does she like, what doesnt she like, what gets her interested in life, what are her hopes and dreams.In short get to know the woman, let her know that you are a guy who wants to be with her as a woman and not just a notch on your bedpost. It may not work for this woman but may work for someone like her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009): No one's perfect, but she sounds nice :) x
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