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I want a proper girlfriend but am worried about my small penis

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Question - (28 August 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 29 August 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Will she be disapointed by my small penis? My penis is 4 inches when its hard and I have very little pubic hair.

I know I'm a late developer but I've been seeing a girl recently and she is coming over, I think its going to go past the 'kissing stage' if you know what I mean but I'm really worried she will run a mile when she sees or feels it.

Even if she just reaches in my pants, will she notice or know that its smaller than average (so I've read)? And if so will she be disapointed?

I'm really freaked out about this: help - I really want a proper girlfriend!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2009):

hey i am twenty years old and my penis is about the same size as yours..... it is true that if u shave ur pubic hair off ur penis will look a little bigger... that will also help with the lack of pubes as well... most girls like smooth penises.... they are not so afraid to do other things... and there are many other ways to pleasure a girl with something other than ur penis.... like ur tongue...... if u r good with ur tongue she will not notice.... i am a french canadian.... anyways hope i helped...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2009):

I think you should take the leap with her. If she is unsatisfied with your size she sure will dump you after the first time.as you can see from the postings on this site some girls are small down there and they prefer small dicks because big ones hurt them. you should try to find one of them.Good luck and dont worry.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2009):

Hey hun, trust me dontt worry about it. When I 1st saw my boyfriends penis I thought it was kinda small honestly but when its hard its a prettty good size especially sonce its thick. Its not like he's 12 in. But he definetely knows what he's doing when we make love f*ck or etc. Sometimes he's so good that my vagina hurts(good pain) he knows how to work his hips and we experiment with different postions. Believe it or not but the point of entry certtainly does make a difference, i'm not a big fan of missionary, I only like that when making love but when my boyffriend and I have sex we try everything. Be spontaneous get a motel room or etc. Scenario's make a difference too...learn how to play with her clitoris and etc...you can make her cum regardless of the size of your penis...oral sex helps too...I can go on and on with different things, don't feel limited honey...I know you're kinda young but just experiment you'll find your niche...I've been with my bf for 2 happy sexually satisying years and I see many more to come...juust believe in urself okay babe. Hope this helps.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009):

Yeah man don't worry about the size. Here is my man to man advice, if you feel that it's getting past kissing, massage a boob or something to put the attention on her for a while. That way, she'll be getting pleased whilst you are getting an erection as opposed to her reaching into your pants without an erection because its smaller then. Basically, prolong the foreplay in order to get her so horny that she don't care about your size.Besides, it's about the motion in the ocean(and less pubic hair makes you dick look bigger)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009):

Hello. Size really doesnt matter and this girl shouldnt care anyway, if she does then she isnt worth it right? The advice I will give you is not to show youre worried.. if she does reach into your pants just try to relax and go with it, dont panic because you know shes about to touch it or see it. Seriously, if a girl likes you for you, she wont care how big or small your penis is. and to be honest, bigger is not always better, and like hunkydory said, its how you use it, not the size of it. I hope this helps, good luck. AAJ.

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A male reader, jackinthebox474 Canada +, writes (28 August 2009):

dude, truth is some girls like em big, some like em small. Its still going to be good for you, and oral will be better for you cause she can get more in her mouth and deepthroat you. Act like it's big and have confidence and it will be fine.

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A male reader, Ifyoudontmind United States +, writes (28 August 2009):

Let me tell you this bro, and in all honesty. Smaller can be better, and furthermore if you arent sexually active with her yet, you really have nothing to worry about.

Think about it bro, If a girl has huge boobs, there just, in the way. There floppy and funny looking.

But if she has a nice like, 36 b, thats a comfortable size man. You know?

Dont stress yourself. Being "less than average" means nothing. You could be a total stallion , you dont even know yet.

Dont stress yourself out.

-iydm

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A female reader, hunkydory United Kingdom +, writes (28 August 2009):

Have you been with your girlfriend long? If your girlfriend loves you then she shouldnt care about what size you are. Have a talk with her I know it will be hard to tell her but she will listen and understand if she loves you. My boyfriend had the same worry as you but I had already fallen in love with him. He knows I dont care as size doesnt matter its haw you use it that matters. If you want anymore help/advice email me.

Good luck hope it helps xx

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