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26 August 2009: I am at work, and this young lady bursts through the door with double d cups overflowing a button up collared shirt. Her shirt was barely retaining her physical accomodations, and she was more than aware of the way she narrowly squeezed into her ...
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Should I seduce my brother in law or just forget about him?
Q. hello aunty, I am a married lady, 33 years old..I am a leading drama actress also, few months back I did a romantic play, where my brother-in-law (my husbands brother) was acting opposite me, being a romantic play we had a few smooches and a steamy ...
A. 26 August 2009: Your husbands investments failure is so irrelevant, that doesnt make him a stupid person. Your marriage being fixed by your family says you dont have a backbone at all, and cant speak what you believe, if in fact you truly dont want to be in this ... (read in full...)
6 strangers, 6 one-night stands and no condoms! And yet she still shows no remorse!
Q. How would you feel if you found out the women you love had slept with 7 guys before you, but... 6 of them were one night stands in the space of 2 years, and no protection was used? What does that say about the women you love and who she used to ...
A. 26 August 2009: Honestly, one night stands are remarkably common and yes a lot of girls assume that all men believe in the whole promiscuity thing is attractive, so she may boast it to you. Just tell her you love her, and dont want to consider the idea of men ... (read in full...)
How can I change her mind about going to this party?
Q. Hey i have a weird situation this girl i like and she knows i like her invited me to her friends b'day party only thing is it's a sex fest party they only want one guy there and theres like 4 of her friends. Im not really keen on the idea of having ...
A. 26 August 2009: Thats a complex situation, The likelyhood of this omni sexual encounter is pretty low honestly. Four teenage girls wanting to all battle over one guy... It sounds like the plot to a poorly executed stag film. "Horny Teen Slumber Party 7" th... (read in full...)
After b/f found out I'd been sexually abused, he no longer wanted to have sex
Q. soo, im 18 years old and my boyfriend and i are ready to have sex. the thing is when i was younger i was sexually abused. ive have years of therapy and ive come to terms with what happened to me. ive accepted it and im ok, and even with what ...
A. 26 August 2009: He obviously cares for you and doesnt want to put you into an emotional tailspin.
Sex can be a very difficult and complicated physical and emotional merger. If you have had such negative past relations and his reluctance bothers you, explain ... (read in full...)
Mixed signals or something more?
Q. Hey, I need help!! I went to college with a guy for 2 yrs we've left now but I liked him for 2 yrs and I told him several times. Christmas 08 and i gave him a xmas pressie when dropping him home one night after college he thanked me and hugged me...
A. 26 August 2009: It sounds like he is caught in between something at the moment. Maybe he has a girl on the sidelines , some back burner scenario. Or maybe he is simply afraid of something evolving with you.
Play it out in black and white, express you want to ... (read in full...)
I think she loves her boyfriend and me too and I can't make sense of this!
Q. This is really complicated and hard to do as missing important details might get me the wrong advice but here goes. . . . Well I started seeing a girl that I was working with we were both involved with other people at first we were just great ...
A. 26 August 2009: Thats quite the dilemma youve got there friend.
Here is what I would suggest. As males we are prone to what I refer as the B.B.D. The bigger better deal. Keep in mind we are always wondering, even if we are content, happy or in love, what else is ... (read in full...)
How can I make him realize he wants me?
Q. my ex and i broke up a few months ago after being together for two years. weve texted occasionally, but nothing serious. i want him to be in my life like he was before and don't know how to get to the point where he would realize that i'm the person ...
A. 26 August 2009: You cant make anyone realize something they can not physically see. In time, things may swing back into perspective and maybe he will realize.
But in the mean time, stay confident. Admire your attributes, remember your beauty, remember that GUY... (read in full...)
Am I being "hoeish?
Q. 0k.. I just started high school and i want an boyfriend but its too many Boys trying to talk to me at once. I am currently talking to 3 boys and i wanted to know if i am being "HOEISH" because i dont know who i want?...
A. 26 August 2009: There is nothing promiscuous about talking to people, you have to realize which one is the better option. I would strongly advocate against sleeping with all of them.
No good will come from that
-IYDM... (read in full...)
Married but in touch with the ex
Q. Alright so,I am married... and i've been chatting, texting and talking on the phone with my ex boyfriend. i haven't seen him in 10 years. When we talk he makes me feel so special, he said he never forgot about me and that he has feeling towards me ...
A. 26 August 2009: Exes are treacherous territory.
First things first, flip the cards over. Imagine your husband playing this secretive game and you uncover this. How is your reaction.
You know deep down your flirting with disaster and playing with fire. You ... (read in full...)
We have dated others but were always having sex with each other!
Q. Hi I am 23 yrs old and I've been dating this guy for 5yrs on and off again. Well, in that time he have had other girlfriends and I have had other boyfriends, but we never stopped having sex with each other. We always been there for each other no ...
A. 26 August 2009: Hey, hopefully this will help.
I was in love with this girl once, and we dated for almost four years same situation on again off again, still sleeping together, still see other people but jealousy every time a new relationship from either party wo... (read in full...)
Baby on the way..how do I stop freaking out about every little thing?
Q. me and my most recent ex are having a baby together, but we are not together anymore. we have discussed getting back together and want to make it work for the baby (plus we still love eachother). the thing is that i freak out on him about stupid ...
A. 26 August 2009: Dont force a relationship for the well being of the baby, but if you really do love each other, you can work through problems.
I am a firm believer in the fact you never get dealt more than you can handle. Its all some convoluted plan honestly... (read in full...)
I've got a bumpy clit. What to do about it?
Q. Um, Hello. I Just realized I had a bump near where my clit is. and I dunno how it got there. When I went to lay back down, I noticed my underwear Rubs against that part a bit hard. Maybe that's why it's there? When I got back up and tried to fix my ...
A. 25 August 2009: Genital warts a.k.a HPV (the most common std in sexually active people) can appear as late as six months after contact.
You should see your gyno just to be safe.
-IYDM... (read in full...)
What should I do if my girlfriend is having phone sex with another guy?
Q. She usually sends erotic messages to him right when he gets out of work. They are co-workers, so she knows his schedule. I found out she was sending him dirty stories about themselves and ones she would make up. How I found out was that she would be ...
A. 25 August 2009: You have to ask yourself is flirtation infidelity? honestly, does it hurt .. yes. Is it fair? no, but is it hurting anyone, and if it never leads to anything is it bad? Tell her she isnt worth your time if she needs attention in that fashion,... (read in full...)
I believe the other woman more than I believe my boyfriend!
Q. i found a girl's number in my bf phone. i asked who it was and he lied. couple days later i found out it was this same girl ive saw be4 on his page on the internet couple months ago. so i told him to call her and have a convo with her. ask her why ...
A. 25 August 2009: I am going to give you this one from a guys perspective. I dated a girl once and she was the most insane manipulative vindictive bitch to ever be conjured into existence. That being said, she would intentionally seek out my current girlfriends via ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, he's 20, is this ok?
Q. ok i am 15 going to be 16 in 2 weeks and i have been dating a guy who is 20 we have been together 4 2 months now is that ok ??? cause sometimes it doesn't feel right when we first met we didn't talk much but we liked each other a lot from the moment ...
A. 25 August 2009: That situation is shady, your still in high school and this guy should not be hanging around high schools still stuck in the mentality of high school. He should be in college pursuing a career. Dont put yourself in a bad situation. ... (read in full...)
Family hates my boyfriend!
Q. 3 years ago my parents forbid me from seeing my bf. Weve been on and off since then. Hes 20 and Im about to be 18 in less than 6 months so theres really not much they can do about it.Im sick of sneaking around with him because I love him and I love ...
A. 25 August 2009: There is no simple answer because you are young and as a direct result you are always right. This is your first love I take it, and believe it or not, parents are excellent judges of personality. I went through the same exact thing. My mom LO... (read in full...)
Cheated just before we got married, and now he wants a threesome to even the score!
Q. I cheated on my husband 2 years ago a few months before we got married. I had sex with another man one time (the biggest mistake of my life). Now he wants to make me feel the same way that I made him feel back then by having a threesome this weekend ...
A. 25 August 2009: He is being petty and Immature, if your relationship is strong, and clearly you have survived the infidelity it will pass. You can let go and move on. Being vindictive is not a means of conflict resolution. -IYDM... (read in full...)
Head over heels in love with my step-brother. Stop, or see where it leads?
Q. So my mother and step father married when I was 11 years old my mother has two children, my sister and myself. My step father has three, one older than I, and then two younger. My step brother is only six months younger than me. This past summer he ...
A. 25 August 2009: Thats a tough call. I received the most incredible advice once. "Love doesnt understand boundaries." Think about it, to people that have any stigma towards an unconventional relationship be it homosexual or half sibling, anything against ... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend a player?
Q. My question is about if I am being played by a woman or not. I am 36 and have been dating a 42 year old for over 13 months. When we met, she said she was divorced, a mother of 3, and just got out of a relationship with a younger man of an unknown ...
A. 25 August 2009: Hey friend, I can relate whole heartedly. Being played is something you can just sense. However, do keep in mind that a lot of insecureities do come into play here. Honestly, if you look hard enough to find evidence... it will be there. E.g. Read... (read in full...)
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