Just want too much sex
Q. This is tad embarassing but anyway... I had probably an average sex drive and was in typical health but over the past two years have improved my diet and lifestyle and now have a VERY high sex drive. I want it at least every single day and my...
A. 7 January 2009: And why do you think that's a problem? LOL
There's nothing wrong with having too much sex. People actually lose weight doing that. Right on!!!
Just be sure you're using protection to avoid consequences.
I hope you're not having sex wi... (read in full...)
How can you jump in bed with someone else after a break up?
Q. How can a guy , that is in a great relationship where both people absolutely love each other and have no big problems or fights and have plans for the future - just turn around in one week, break up the relationship after 2 years of dating and jump ...
A. 7 January 2009: Seems like he's selfish. If he knows you're devastated about the break up, he never did care about being in a relationship with you. He carries no feelings....he just doesn't care. I don't mean to be harsh about it but it's the truth.
I think he... (read in full...)
With exes, we could talk forever... with my new BF we can't find much to say.
Q. With all my exes we could chat for hours on the phone - about nothing really. With my latest boyfriend (1 year) our conversations are only ever short. Are we just too different and not suited. I know Im more carefree and he's more sensible...
A. 7 January 2009: Does he know you still talk with your exes? Sometimes, when relationships tend to be past relationships both parties either still keep in contact or not. Some have better conversations now than before. It happens. With your current relatio... (read in full...)
He's happy with his new girlfriend... how can I stop the jealousy?
Q. I loved this guy for 7 yrs and 2 yrs back i came to know that he loved someone else while we had a relationship. And when i came to know about it i said i dint want to continue the relation. He said he liked me but never felt committed towards me. I ...
A. 7 January 2009: I would feel like he cheated on me as well.
Some guys can be !@#holes, so can gals. I do know how you feel. It's harder for someone just to move on from a 7 year relationship unfortunately, you have to, for you sake.
It'll take ti... (read in full...)
Pregnant using a condom?
Q. Me and this girl are wantin to have sex, but she dont want me to use a condom. She takes pills, can she still get pregant, if i dont use a condom...
A. 7 January 2009: She can tell you she's taking birth control pills however, you need to take extra caution on the "what if's". What I mean by that is, what if she's not taking the pill?, what if she gets pregnant? What if I catch some type of STD? Things like ... (read in full...)
My ex said we will never get back together
Q. I NEEED SOMEONES ADVICE..PLEASE.. My boyfriend broke up with me about 4 months ago. We had went out for 10 months. we were inseperable, we spent so much time together probably to much. It was my first real relationship and I found myself acting ...
A. 7 January 2009: If your ex said there's no chance of getting back together, than girl...you should move on. You're right!! It's hard to just move on but you need to.
You can't force yourself on to someone who doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. Th... (read in full...)
Should I continue to cut him out of my life even though I miss him like crazy?
Q. I am driving myself crazy thinking about a friend that I really like. We established quite a few weeks ago that he does not feel the same way, and I've been waiting to get over it and it doesn't seem to be happening. We spend pretty much everyday ...
A. 6 January 2009: Rejection sucks but that's part of life. All you can do is move on with your life. Of course, you will be thinking about him but you can't force it on him to feel the way you feel but towards you.
If it is better for you to not keep in contact ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my boyfriend to stop talking/seeing his ex?
Q. I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 28. I have the feeling my boyfriend is cheating on me with his ex. (she is my age). I know his ex, she was once friends with my older sister and she can be very intimadating and very sneeky. When I look through his ...
A. 6 January 2009: If your boyfriend is in contact with his ex after you told him how you felt, it is obvious he still have some form of feelings for her. He doesn't respect your feelings, you and most of all, the realtionship.
I believe you know what to do, it i... (read in full...)
They're wrong about me but the damage is done!
Q. I'm a 25 year old guy. I met this girl when I was 21 and it was love at first sight. We worked together and eventually she left her boyfriend so she could start seeing me. She was everything I wanted; cute, smart, funny, loved me to pieces. I had ...
A. 6 January 2009: Wow! That is some crazy stuff.
Do those two girls know each other?
You will never forget things like that but the thing is, can you actually forgive them for doing so?
If what they are saying isn't true, you have nothing to worry about. ... (read in full...)
Do I let the ex win?
Q. the problem i have is my boyfreinds ex!! he has a little girl with her and has her on a weekend but i am never allowed when he goes to pick her up or drop her off he says he doesnt want anything to kick off otherwise she will stop him seeing the ...
A. 5 January 2009: Maybe this is what the ex suggested for the childs sake. Situations like this complicates the childs thinking. This is one of the reasons why a lot of people don't want to date people with kids, the ex factor.
Maybe its better to just be friends.... (read in full...)
My guy is distant and I don't know why
Q. I've been seeing a guy for 14 months who has started being more and more distant towards me over the past few months. He's 34 and I'm 38, so we're not kids. We started out so great. Until a few months ago, we chatted every single day, then he got...
A. 5 January 2009: From his actions, that should tell you a lot.
You have personal issues you need to deal with, he should understand that. He should comfort, support you, ask if you care to talk about it if it helps.
Don't think its you, he just isn't the o... (read in full...)
How do I earn trust back so we can get our relationship back to how it was?
Q. i recently cheated on my boyfriend of 3 months and he broke up with me 3 times in 1 day because he was so mad,but thats not my problem because we got back together.my problem happens to be that now that we are back together i still feel that he is ...
A. 5 January 2009: Three months into the relationship and you've cheated on your boyfriend? Wow!!
Are you ready to be in a relationship?
Some people say they can trust their spouse after a long period of time went by of cheating however, I gurantee you, th... (read in full...)
Why is my half sister so bitchy?
Q. I was shunted all over the place as a child as my mother abandoned me and left me with my father. As a result I experienced abuse by my step-mother and others (physical and emotional). I am now 45 and all my life my half sisters on my dad's side...
A. 5 January 2009: You've tried and tried to make your family apart of your immediate family.You've included them by inviting them to your sons baptism but no one showed up? Enough is enough. We can't pick and chose our family but we can chose to stay away from ... (read in full...)
How to stop an attraction with a co-worker
Q. How do I stop being attracted to a co-worker? Recently a co-worker and I were out of town on business. Nothing happened, but we discovered that we both have a strong attraction to each other and really enjoy each other's company. We are both ...
A. 5 January 2009: Two grown people, both are married and know what's right from wrong.
Ask for a transfer and/or work with someone else. This can effect your work and of course, your marriage.
I believe you know what to do, it's a matter of taking action.
... (read in full...)
Throwing in the towel
Q. hello all! so ive decided to throw in the towel with this guy finally.I have had it with the mixed feelings thing.So my question is do you think it would be to stupid or childish if i wrote him a letter explaining why im doing what im doing ? when i ...
A. 5 January 2009: Just think about how you would feel if a guy wrote you a "break up" letter.
He may not strike your interests anymore but at least, he deserves a face to face explanation to why you're doing what you're doing.
Good luck!!!
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How can I tell my parents about my White BF when they're so against dating other races?
Q. I really need some help. How can I tell my parents about my bf? I am black and he's white. My parents are totally against dating people of other races and I know they will be mad about this. How should I break the news to them? I am afraid they ...
A. 5 January 2009: Interracial dating always have been a problem in today's society.
Are you really close with your parents? Mom? Dad? If you're closer to both parents, even better. If not, have a discussion with the parent you seem to be closer to. Let that... (read in full...)
I'm scared I'm pregnant!!
Q. Okay, so I've been on the pill for almost 2 months now and I haven't missed a pill. Just last month my boyfriend and I had sex about 4 different times in like 2 weeks... without a condom but he pulled out about 10 seconds before he came. This month ...
A. 5 January 2009: None of us would know if you're pregnant.
The only way to find out is to take the test and/or see a doctor.
The purpose of taking birth control pills is to prevent pregnancy however, that's not always the case. There's this teen who was tak... (read in full...)
My g/f worries about my ex so much!
Q. Is my girlfriend being unfair? My ex-fiancee and my current girlfriend are friends, not very close but they talk occasionally (thats how we met), anyhow, i let my girlfriend (ashley) know that im totally over (steph) and that im so much happier ...
A. 5 January 2009: Your situation is why people don't date their friends exes especially when they both know each other.
If your ex and current girlfriend remains open communication among each other, you have no clue what they both discuss. I'm pretty sure you... (read in full...)
G/f pushing me away
Q. My girlfriend is beginning to kind of push me away, it started out fine, I called her every day. Then she started answering lesser, and lesser. So now I cant even get her to even go out with me anywhere. Whats wrong here?...
A. 5 January 2009: If you have concerns, that's something you should take up with your girlfriend. It could be a small issue or maybe it's a big issue.
Talk to her to see what's the reason why she's not picking up.
... (read in full...)
We tongue kissed could I be pregnant?
Q. hi im 13 turning 14 but i havnt had my perios 4 a long time...i had it like in october and now it 2009 january 4 and i havnt had sex im still a virgin..im kind of worried bcz i have aboyfriend and all i ever did wuz just kiss him..yea it wuz tounge ...
A. 5 January 2009: If that was the case, a lot of kids, teenagers would be pregnant in which teen pregnancy is a big issue in today's society.
No, you can't get pregnant for kissing. That's not intercourse.
I've sort of had the same concern. I was active in ... (read in full...)
"mistakes" keep happening and I don't know what to do!
Q. I'm not sure what to do. Me and my wife of two years have a son who is one year old. We had a few arguments and split up with an intent to get back together if i could change a few things, and are living in different homes. The problem is that not ...
A. 5 January 2009: Part of a marriage is having arguments, disagreements however, infidelity isn't one of them. Working on a marriage is always a given but it takes two people to make it happen.
I understand you're hurt but your child needs the attention. It'll ta... (read in full...)
14 pregnant don't want to tell my mum!
Q. Ok so i'm 14, and i just found out im pregnant. No body knows yet i definatly don't want to get rid of it but i know my mum she will try and make me if i tell her! And i can't tell my boy friend because i don't know how he will react i'm not sayin ...
A. 5 January 2009: Wow! Another case of teen pregnancy.
As far as maturity level, no one is mature in this situation. You don't think he's ready to be a daddy? That's a little too late for that.
Sooner or later, you're going to have to say something to you... (read in full...)
I'm sick to the back teeth of my family!
Q. Dear Cupid, I am 26 years old and the baby out of four children. I recently moved interstate with my family for work and a lifestyle change. However, my sister lives over here and is suffering from depression and is very sensitive. Her ...
A. 4 January 2009: I really know how you feel when it comes to family issues. We can't change our family but we can improve ourselves by being the bigger person in it. What I mean is...there's no need to move unless that's what you really want or you've discussed ... (read in full...)
Trapped in my marriage and tempted to cheat again....
Q. I am currently seperated from my husband. We met when I was 17 years old, I got married to him at the age of twenty. I thought that I was mature enough to handle something like marriage. However three years later I am realizing that we are ...
A. 4 January 2009: Marriage is such a strong, meaningful word. Obviously, you don't know what that means when you decided to step out of your marriage.
Separation should give you time to improve yourself. How you can better yourself to make your marriage work. Comm... (read in full...)
My ex cheated on me all the time and now I can't trust my new girl.
Q. Basically since my ex-girlfriend cheated on me repeatedly its hard for me to trust my girlfriend Im with now. My girlfriend now of five months is having an old friend of hers who she had sex with before come up to our job to see her. This is ...
A. 4 January 2009: Discussing the issue amongst yourselves. Communication is one the keys in a relationship.
Your past shouldn't dictate your present and future. Just because your ex cheated on you doesn't mean she will. Trusting someone in another relation... (read in full...)
My world is over because of him...
Q. I've been in love with a girl for a long time and yesturday I saw her kissing another boy who I really hate and there has been rumours that they have been dating but I haven't believed them as the kiss was only for a recent play but now I just want ...
A. 4 January 2009: You're young, you have a whole life ahead of you. That was just a high school heartbreak.
Keep your head up, you'll be fine. ... (read in full...)
Now I just feel used and like he never intended to get with me. I feel so hurt.
Q. I've been friends with this guy for a few months and have liked him since I first met him. He said he liked me too but he has depression so I didn't want to rush into things and hurt him. A week ago we kissed and texted each other a lot over ...
A. 4 January 2009: Seems like you were on the rebound status. He wanted to comfort of another female to fill in that space since his relationship with his girlfriend have been an ex girlfriend for about a year. He was absolutely wrong for leading you on. Fee... (read in full...)
He still talks to his ex girlfriend and it bugs me like crazy!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months now. I really love him and Trust him completely when it comes to him talking to other girls. The only thing is, he still talks to his ex girlfriend and it bugs me like crazy! He dated her about ...
A. 4 January 2009: If this issue really bugs you, this is something you need to address your boyfriend. I really understand how you feel about your boyfriend remain open communication with his ex, of course it'll bug you but the question is...do you trust him? ... (read in full...)
TOOK THE MINI BIRTH CONTROL, NOW I THINK I'M PREGNANT
Q. Hi i am 16 years old and my boyfriend and i have been involved in a loving, commited relationship for almost 3 years now. We are quite sensible so we have agreed not to have full penatrative sex untill we are both out of school. He is 17. I went on ...
A. 4 January 2009: So many teens having sex at such as young age with the fear of being pregnant. If this is the case, why do so?
There's this teen who took the shot and taking birth control pills thinking it'll prevent pregnancy unfortunately, it didn't. ... (read in full...)
BACK TOGETHER AND STILL HAVEN'T MOVED
Q. Well i hope i can have some advice on this, i broke up from my B/F in october and have just recently got back with him, but i have said we need to solve some issues first.. i just want to tell u some things and then have some advice about what to ...
A. 4 January 2009: He seems like a great guy from what you've mentioned however, it seems as if he have some issues he needs to resolve better thinking about a relationship. With all that, moving into together shouldn't even be a discussion if you're having these ... (read in full...)
Why is he still talking to me?
Q. I was with my ex boyfriend for 6 months on and off. He had commitment issues and couldnt handle our relationship and ended up breaking up with me. He insisted that we still be friends as he didnmt wat to lose me. We've hung out once since our break ...
A. 3 January 2009: Some men can be such #*/holes. He deserves no explanation. Just let him know you don't want to be bothered by him any more.
Keep it simple.
Good luck with your future relationships. ... (read in full...)
My ex and I are very much platonic friends, how much would be too much re me calling him?
Q. Hey guys, if you and your ex still hang out from time to time and you call each other whenever you feel like it... How much would you consider too much calling from the girl? Sometimes I miss him and want to hang out. I don't ask very often and a...
A. 3 January 2009: Keyword in ex boyfriend...EX. Some people have great relationships with their previous involvement partners. However, it can also be a problem for one of the partners. It seems your feelings are still their for him.
Are you completely over him... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and really want a baby, I'm just nervous about the pregnancy part.
Q. Hey, im 14 and my boyfriend is 15. We both are really ready for a baby and actually have been wanting one ever since summer of 2008. I know for fact i am ready for the taking care part of it, but not so sure about the pregnancy part. I love kids and ...
A. 2 January 2009: Of course your not ready to have a child. You are still a child now. You have a future ahead of you to prepare for. Have you thought about college?
It is not easy raising a child\kids. I'm 8 months pregnant with my second child and it is not e... (read in full...)
Am I so wrong for wanting to leave my husband and make a better life for me and my kids?
Q. I still care about my husband but I am ready to move on and better my life and the lives of my children. I have been with my husband 9 years now but for the last 6 years my husband has not worked and I have been the one supporting our family ...
A. 9 November 2008: This sounds all to familiar.
Honey, I have to say....I understand. The reason why I understand because I've been through something similar.
What's wrong with wanting to better yourself and having a better future for your kids? You want ... (read in full...)
Is this guy-bipolar or what? I've held my peace without exploding! Please help.
Q. My daughter's dad have been so negative towards and at me. His words are extremely hurtful however, I've held it in for a long time. I've take it like it didn't bother me. I've gotten to the point where, it was it. I've exchanged words over text ...
A. 19 October 2008: Thanks, again..young ladies. I am trying to avoid going to court due to the expenses on my behave not only that, the emotional strain, stress, sleep, taking time off...the list goes on. He had mentioned his ex wife is coming to visit his t... (read in full...)
Is this guy-bipolar or what? I've held my peace without exploding! Please help.
Q. My daughter's dad have been so negative towards and at me. His words are extremely hurtful however, I've held it in for a long time. I've take it like it didn't bother me. I've gotten to the point where, it was it. I've exchanged words over text ...
A. 18 October 2008: Thank you both for your responses.
Countrywoman: Yes, I am 5 months pregnant with a baby boy.
He thinks I'm the one with the problem in which I do have problems that doesn't pertain to anything mentally other than emotional strain and stres... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is lying and hiding something from me. Do I confront him?
Q. My boyfriend and I will be together for 4 years this August, and we have been living together for 2. Prior to dating we had been close friends for almost four years. I thought I knew him pretty well. Recently I went into his phone to text my...
A. 9 July 2008: You're sleeping in a different room? Girl...move. Find another apartment for YOURSELF. Take care of you.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is lying and hiding something from me. Do I confront him?
Q. My boyfriend and I will be together for 4 years this August, and we have been living together for 2. Prior to dating we had been close friends for almost four years. I thought I knew him pretty well. Recently I went into his phone to text my...
A. 6 July 2008: Another painting on the wall with obvious reasons to leave the relationship.
It is obvious what you should do. I understand you care for the liar but you need to protect your feelings. If he's doing this to you now, what makes you think he... (read in full...)
His ex had his baby and he didn't tell me. I feel tricked.
Q. This is a bit confusing, but i'm sure its probabley happened to somebody out there. I met somebody, and we began a sexual relationship. When we met i asked him if he was single, he said "i'm not ENTIRELY single" i asked what does that mean....mea...
A. 6 July 2008: What are you to do? RED FLAGS!!!! Come on now?! No one needs to tell you anything. It is obvious this guy is a womanizer. He used you. HE USED YOU. I bet he said great things by whispering it into your ears? Did he?
He doesn't care for... (read in full...)
Can you stay friends with someone you were in a relationship with?
Q. Can I still be a friend? Hello everyone. I have asked this before, but the question remains. I was in a very long relationship with this woman. We still talk/see each other on occasion. I guess what I am asking is: If you say yes-How did you do i...
A. 6 July 2008: I guess it all depends how you both departed. Was it a good break up? or bad break up? Are you having sex with her?
Every situation is different. I couldn't be friends with my ex because we have a daughter together. I know that sounds a... (read in full...)
He says he's afraid of commitment with me, but will still have sex with me...
Q. so i met this guy who is 28 years old. hes a great guy and has everything ive wanted in someone, well im only 20 so there is an eight year difference. everything was going great, he shows how much he cares for me but one day said maybe he wants to ...
A. 6 July 2008: It is obvious he doesn't know what he wants. He's still having sex with you while he waits to get a response from the other party..what does that tell you?
Why put yourself in a situation where RED FLAGS are shown? He wants sex and you're g... (read in full...)
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