New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244975 questions, 1084356 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

My ex and I are very much platonic friends, how much would be too much re me calling him?

Tagged as: The ex-factor<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (3 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 January 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Hey guys, if you and your ex still hang out from time to time and you call each other whenever you feel like it...

How much would you consider too much calling from the girl? Sometimes I miss him and want to hang out. I don't ask very often and a lot of times he says no but there is no kinda weirdness. If he calls me or I call him and we don't get back to one another. I put it out there and so does he. It's nothing sexual just hanging. I still care for him but know he doesn't like me like that so I am okay with friendship. If we can't talk or get together there is no hard feelings.

So, given that info.. how much would be considered calling too much? When does a guy start to feel uncomfortable with the calling and invites?

I don't want to push him out completely...

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009):

There is a new great site on the internet for meeting platonic friends, its called Not4dating, check it out at http://www.not4dating.com

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, huneygyrl United States +, writes (3 January 2009):

huneygyrl agony auntKeyword in ex boyfriend...EX. Some people have great relationships with their previous involvement partners. However, it can also be a problem for one of the partners. It seems your feelings are still their for him.

Are you completely over him to where ýou can actually call him a friend? You maybe okay with what you mentioned but I think you are waiting for something more of what you want to happen.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009):

How long ago dod you split up?

Will either of you truly be able to move on and have the chance to meet another potential parnter if you're still hanging out?

Are you sure youre not carrying a torch for him still?

I personally think stop the contact, you're exe's, and once one of you finds another partner, the friendship will no doubt end!

Trust me, Ive been there!x

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "My ex and I are very much platonic friends, how much would be too much re me calling him?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0156400999985635!