How can I get a girl I'm dating to initiate our contact sometimes?
Q. Hi there I like a girl and we are kind of dating. We hang out and talk for hours on text even. The only thing I was wondering was that I always have to text her in order to start conversations. It's about 10 days since I know her. She always r...
A. 15 December 2013: well, it's about two days and I haven't heard from her after I told her she can contact me freely when she wants to?
how long should I wait?
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How can I get a girl I'm dating to initiate our contact sometimes?
Q. Hi there I like a girl and we are kind of dating. We hang out and talk for hours on text even. The only thing I was wondering was that I always have to text her in order to start conversations. It's about 10 days since I know her. She always r...
A. 15 December 2013: Thank you everyone for your answers. I really appreciate them. Well, I have left the ball in her court by saying,contact me when she wants to talk(she replied certainly :) ) and yet she hasn't tried to contact me yet after almost 1.5 days.
How long... (read in full...)
I've got it all and done it all, so what next!
Q. I am faced with a strange dilemma. I am 31 years old, I made all my childhood dreams come true already, I am recently divorced, have no kids because I never wanted them, men fall all over me, I have a healthy lifestyle, steady job, car, a cat, I am ...
A. 9 December 2013: How about just looking into religions and finding one out for yourself in case you haven't ? ... (read in full...)
Uncertain why I'm want to date but I don't feel attracted to any girl?
Q. Hi Cupid I am in a dilemma and I'm not sure how to explain. I'm 21 year old straight male studying medicine at local university. It seems like I want to date now but I'm not sure what's stopping me doing so. I tried thinking of reasons ye...
A. 18 November 2013: Thanks alot Lalysos/Youwish for your insight and time for writing. I honestly feel that you (Lalysos) understood exactly what I was trying to ask. Your advice is invaluable at this point (both of you).
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Uncertain why I'm want to date but I don't feel attracted to any girl?
Q. Hi Cupid I am in a dilemma and I'm not sure how to explain. I'm 21 year old straight male studying medicine at local university. It seems like I want to date now but I'm not sure what's stopping me doing so. I tried thinking of reasons ye...
A. 17 November 2013: I appreciate your answer and I guess you are right. I'm stuck in past but not over my ex. It was a close friend who died when I was 17. I think I compare everyone to her and want a person same like her. I know everyone's different and I need to ... (read in full...)
Tired of one night stands -- am I being an idiot?
Q. I came out of a relationship a while ago and since then, i have been going on at least 2 dates each week and sleeping with the girls the first night. I never stayed in touch with them and thought being single was great. Last week i was at a bar w...
A. 20 July 2013: You are doing the right thing !
Know her more and see where it goes .
Good luck
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Am I dating someone too young for me?
Q. I'm a 26 year old mature student and I recently began seeing another student who is 18 about to turn 19, it took me a while to go on a date with this guy cause of the age difference but we get on really well, however I am still really worried about ...
A. 27 May 2013: Well, I am 21 and I have always been with older girls. Be it in my teenage or now, I have always felt more comfortable with people who are older to me.
My girlfriend 26, never felt it was a big problem and we managed to work it really well. Some... (read in full...)
Sexually charged BF after a fight?
Q. hello, After my boyfriend and I have an argument and sort things out, he tends to ask for a lot of sexual attention. why does he do this? Thank you....
A. 19 April 2013: Dear Op
It's normal and natural and there's nothing to be worried about . My girlfriend and I have really great sex after an argument when things sorted out. Inside I knew I still love her and small differences and arguments are just part of life... (read in full...)
How to tell if she's interested or just friendly?
Q. I hope someone can give me some advice. I know I sound pretty inept about it, but it's been about 5 years since I've really dated someone. There's a girl who started working where I do recently, our work is such that we only see each other every...
A. 16 April 2013: Hello Mate Dating is a tricky world and it is mostly hard to tell for sure if girls are interested but there are always some hints and answers which we find to imply ! Talking and smiling and asking lots of questions is a good sign but you... (read in full...)
Why do girls like guys with attitude? Why can't they admit they don't like swet guys?
Q. I’m in a relationship with my current girlfriend for the last 14 months. Before that, I was in relationship twice : for two years and one year respectively and I was dumped because I was too sweet and loveable boyfriend. Before entered into...
A. 14 April 2013: I will share my opinion. I am one of nice guys who are good to everyone as that's what we are.. We are NOT guys who treat girls good so we can later impress them or get girls in our beds. I believe in being good to everyone regardless of g... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is constantly pissed off with me over the smallest things, I'm starting to wonder if it is worth staying with her anymore?
Q. Hello everyone, I want help/opinions on my over 3 yrs relationship. you see my girlfriend is a great person but she is not a great girlfriend. Its hard to stay happy with her. Shes really delicate in t sense that any little think just flicks the ...
A. 5 April 2013: Hello there Sorry about your ordeal. I can understand your position as I had been in a similar situation myself. My girl used to be annoyed on smallest reason and she took me for granted. Everything must be according to HER WISHES or she b... (read in full...)
I don’t want to rule him out but then also don’t want to be walked all over
Q. I met a guy on a dating site and he seemed really genuine and sweet. After a week of talking, despite not being 100% on his picture, I agreed to meet with him for a drink because I thought we had a lot in common. We met and had a really lovely ...
A. 3 April 2013: Well, I know a bit about mobile and computers. Here what's you really wanted to know :
The restore function of whatsapp only works if you find the SAME phone without formating it. This means if you delete your Sd card content / memory storage ... (read in full...)
Dating a gynecologist is bothering me!
Q. I've met this guy recently through friends I like him very much. We've been on couple of dates but my problem is that he is a gynecologist! I can't seem to see through that. I cannot imagine what that is like for a young man. It bothers me to think...
A. 9 March 2013: Hello well, I m a medicine student and it is completely wrong to assume that! I will only tell you how sick I feel looking at people's genitals yet I am trained to be professional and I tend to hide my expressions completely. I have to smile an... (read in full...)
My world is crumbling around me. Are there any strategies that could help me deal with all this?
Q. I have a problem. Basically the world is crumbling beneath my feet. I have studies at Uni to finish, I'm in my last week of my internship and everything is going to hell. I really need some advice or at least a listening ear. This is my situation...
A. 25 February 2013: I have never been in such situation myself but remember, every hardship makes you stronger and every night is accompanied by day. Darkness with light. Just put up your bright side and try thinking about your thesis while traveling if you have ... (read in full...)
A big thank you to you all for your advice!
Q. I want to start off by saying THANK YOU, THANK YOU, AND THANK YOU again. All of your encouraging words and helpful advice has gotten me a long way. I do know I have a long long path still to recovery getting over a 19 year marriage. I fell to my ...
A. 24 February 2013: Best of luck with your life and may you get the best :-)... (read in full...)
After reading my boyfriend's messages he doesn't think I'm hot enough?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over half a year, today I checked his Facebook not because I don't trust him. Jus because he told me of an old friend who messaged him recently from Spain, I was interested and so decided to read it, I ...
A. 24 February 2013: Guy tend to take different when it comes to talking to guy friend versus female friends.
So if any guy asks me if my girl is beautiful or how I think of her, I will only say :
she is cool and pretty .
if asked any other girls hotter, I w... (read in full...)
How to ask a senior girl out when she is always hanging with her best friends?
Q. Hello. I am 21 and I like a girl who is a year senior at my university. The problem is she is always with another girl which is her best friend. How should I proceed to ask her out? ...
A. 20 February 2013: thanks for your answer..
I got her number and tried cutting chase but the herd would just follow..... us
I even hinted but no help..
I will take further initiative but I don't want to do it on text or call.
the girl i like surely needs... (read in full...)
My wife wants a divorce after rushing the marriage, was she just using me to get over her ex? What should I do now?
Q. Seven months ago, on a dating site ,I met American girl who was 16 years olders than me , means she was 46 and I was 30 then. In just matter of two months , she came to Pakistan and married me. Honestly speaking, she was doing all that too quickly ...
A. 6 February 2013: Read your message mate. Firstly sorry for your situation and I hope things turn out better. Well there is difference in culture where you live and in the west. Firstly you must understand the mindset is very different than of someone who have... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing getting back with my ex?
Q. Hello I am in a dire situation. I am 21 and my girlfriend is 22. It's long and please be patient with me. My ex and I broke up two months ago after 3 years of relationship together. the only reason she gave me at that time (why she broke up wit...
A. 3 February 2013: thank you all for your advice. highly appreciated.
I wish there were more posts ... ... (read in full...)
What do you think? Does he like me?
Q. So I've known him for a few months (mutual friend) and we finally hung out. Here are some things that happened. *he asked me personal questions. *told me a lot about himself and told me he doesn't share this stuff with everyone. Only people...
A. 29 January 2013: Agreed with CMMP.
he is looking for casual sex only!
if you really wanted to be respected, don't take the plunge! ... (read in full...)
What to do? He's abusive to me and humiliates me. I've lost confidence in myself, and in him, because he shares everything about us with his friends
Q. Hi, I just want know what to do with a boyfriend that listens to his friends advices for almost everything. When we planned to buy a house he took all the documents about what was happening.and talked to his friends. He has been abusive to me an...
A. 29 January 2013: Hi
Sorry to hear about your situation.
Well, first he is completely wrong to treat the way he does.
As a man, he doesn't thinkcyou are wise or maybe thinks he is the man n can make better decision. it might feel hard as he is Using you n ... (read in full...)
Porn haters, what would you do in this dilemma?
Q. Hi I am female who hates porn in a relationship first off but I have a dilemma.... Porn haters what would you do in my situation... Go back to the guy who was viewing artistic porn with the sound off and didn't give it up until I ask for a ult...
A. 27 January 2013: Well, as a guy I hate porn. why people do it? Everyone has his or own views. like want to get better in bed want to see other women for sexual pleasure and thinking about them having sex want to know more tricks etc to be kn... (read in full...)
What do you think? Does he like me?
Q. So I've known him for a few months (mutual friend) and we finally hung out. Here are some things that happened. *he asked me personal questions. *told me a lot about himself and told me he doesn't share this stuff with everyone. Only people...
A. 26 January 2013: I have a sense of humour so I asked it rhetorically..
it's good you found someone you like.
best of luck :-)... (read in full...)
What do you think? Does he like me?
Q. So I've known him for a few months (mutual friend) and we finally hung out. Here are some things that happened. *he asked me personal questions. *told me a lot about himself and told me he doesn't share this stuff with everyone. Only people...
A. 24 January 2013: Are you trying to make other girls jealous. . He is all into you! ... (read in full...)
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