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Any suggestions on vegetarian meals I can have?
Q. I'm a vegetarian and I have an alergy to anything with egg in, I have no idea what to eat because my choices are pretty slim, everyone i date thinks it's weird and that i'm just being awkward. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what meals I can ...
A. 28 October 2009: If you live in an urban area there are a lot of things you could find to eat. You can find health food stores that have all kinds of vegetarian alternatives, and new foods you may not have heard of before. Ethnic markets, ethnic restaurants, you ... (read in full...)
Any suggestions on vegetarian meals I can have?
Q. I'm a vegetarian and I have an alergy to anything with egg in, I have no idea what to eat because my choices are pretty slim, everyone i date thinks it's weird and that i'm just being awkward. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what meals I can ...
A. 27 October 2009: I swear to you if you look hard enough you will find something to eat. You need to clarify for us then:
Are you vegetarian or VEGAN? Vegetarian does not eat meat. Vegan does not consume ANY animal product including eggs, fish, dairy, honey, e... (read in full...)
I am really stiff when I try to dance!
Q. Please help me! i'm turning 22 soon but i have never been to a dance/party or any thing as such. I've been pretty much sheltered at home and by my ex who did not want me to hang around other guys. As a result, i don't have many friends, and I h...
A. 10 October 2009: I don't know how to dance either. This used to bother me when I was younger. But now it doesn't bother me at all. Only a segment of the population actually knows how to dance, and then there is a segment that just need learned or gave a rat to ... (read in full...)
I'm getting bored with my girlfriend. Does anyone understand what I'm going through?
Q. I am in a 3yr relationship with my girlfriend and we both love each other an everything but recently ive been feeling kinda bored with her. I mean b4 i wanted to be with her and talk to her 24/7 an now its just i want to leave early an talk less . ...
A. 10 October 2009: When you are in it for the long haul with somebody it is normal to go through periods when you are more into the relationship and periods when you are less into it. But if you know in your heart that you want to be with her, and you love her, then ... (read in full...)
I can't afford protection so are there any other methods of birth control?
Q. My boyfriend wants me to live with him in his car. He hates his father and his mother kicked him out. He asked me to help him clean it out because of all the vodka bottles in the back seat. He chain smokes, so that will take some getting used to. ...
A. 10 October 2009: Please please please please please please please please please please please please please do not go through with this. (And if you read through the history of all the other questions I have answered on this website, I have never used the word ... (read in full...)
I do not want to ruin my marriage for a ghost! Please Help!
Q. I have been happily married for 11 years, no kids :-( my husband is wonderful man and I could not have asked for more. He gives me everything I've ever wanted. I am a very conservative women and for the the past 11 years I have never ever thought ...
A. 10 October 2009: If you know for sure that he is a big liar, and if your husband is a wonderful man, then you need to stop paying attention to this weird stranger and start paying more attention to your husband. I don't mean to come off sounding angry at you, but I ... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to give me oral sex more often
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for eleven months and i believe that i give him oral sex more than he does it to me what should i do to get him to do it to me more often...
A. 10 October 2009: Do you ask him for it and he denies it to you? Make sure you are always super clean down there. Scrub really well. And shave it off down there, if you don't already do that. Sleek and impeccably clean and fresh smelling are a couple ways to make ... (read in full...)
Any suggestions on vegetarian meals I can have?
Q. I'm a vegetarian and I have an alergy to anything with egg in, I have no idea what to eat because my choices are pretty slim, everyone i date thinks it's weird and that i'm just being awkward. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what meals I can ...
A. 10 October 2009: Also... a really helpful tip for you for when you are eating out is that Asian restaurants, more than any other kinds of restaurants, will have the most vegetarian offerings. Asian means Indian food, Chinese, Japanese, Thai, Korean food etc. So, ... (read in full...)
Any suggestions on vegetarian meals I can have?
Q. I'm a vegetarian and I have an alergy to anything with egg in, I have no idea what to eat because my choices are pretty slim, everyone i date thinks it's weird and that i'm just being awkward. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what meals I can ...
A. 10 October 2009: Actually, your choices are not slim at all but you will have to open up your palate to new and different foods. Do you know about tofu? Hummus? Guacamole? Pasta minus meat? Salads? Cereal with soymilk? Veggie pizza? Do you eat dairy products, or ... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and my parents won't let me hang out with friends!
Q. Hello everyone, I found this website yesterday and I think it is very well organized and very helpful as well. So I decided to get help with this question. I am 19 years old and I have very strict parents. They don't let me do anything at all ...
A. 10 October 2009: You need to move out of your parents home ASAP. What you need to do is find a job, and make sure that your job becomes your first priority, because you will need to support yourself; maybe cut back on the number of classes you take at college for a ... (read in full...)
Does being too nice drive women away?
Q. Along time ago my mother told me I was too nice to women and this is why my relationships never last.I have been married two times.The first about 5 years and the second about 9 years..I have had a couple of girl friends after this but nothing ...
A. 9 October 2009: I highly disagree that women are attracted to the alpha male that isn't interested in them. Or at least I'll stand as representative for women who are not attracted to that. I was never attracted to the alpha male type of guy because the alpha guy ... (read in full...)
Should I go ahead and do it already? I'm a virgin.
Q. I'm a 34 gay man and haven't had a sexual relationship yet. Being this age now, I feel frustrated for not happening. I have a kind of boy friend who doesn't want commitment but likes me and I like him, we've being seen each other but since I don't ...
A. 9 October 2009: If you're ok with having sex in a non-committed relationship, then go ahead and do it, but again like rhythmandblues said, YOU are the one that needs to figure out if you're going to be ok with that. Now there is the possibility that having this ... (read in full...)
Should I go ahead and do it already? I'm a virgin.
Q. I'm a 34 gay man and haven't had a sexual relationship yet. Being this age now, I feel frustrated for not happening. I have a kind of boy friend who doesn't want commitment but likes me and I like him, we've being seen each other but since I don't ...
A. 9 October 2009: If you're ok with having sex in a non-committed relationship, then go ahead and do it, but again like rhythmandblues said, YOU are the one that needs to figure out if you're going to be ok with that. Now there is the possibility that having this ... (read in full...)
How would I go about telling my parents about my LDR?
Q. Hey, it's me again. This is a Long Distance Relationship Question. Just to give a little background information, I live in the US and she lives in Canada (579 mile[932 km] separation). We are both 16 years old. We met on a teen dating site 6 months ...
A. 9 October 2009: Ok, first of all if you want your parents to trust you, you need to stop lying to them first and foremost. The first thing you need to do asap is come clean about the fact that she is FROM Canada, not just temporarily IN Canada. (Also, the fact ... (read in full...)
Why did he delete the sexy photos I sent him?
Q. i took a sexy picture of myslef in lingerie for my man, put it on his computer for him as a surprize and he deletes it!!!!! what the flying fuck? i'm not fat i'm not unattractive so what the hell? i've asked him about it but haven't got a response ...
A. 9 October 2009: 1) Like pinktopaz said, he might be sharing the computer with someone else. (Just make sure that this someone else is not another girl).
2) He might not want to see you like that in a photo because maybe he thinks that it demeans you, and make... (read in full...)
My mum is marrying the guy she cheated on my dad with. I'm not happy about it, what do I do?
Q. Im 16, when i was about 3 or 4 my mum and dad went thorught a really bad divorce, because my mum was cheating on my dad, as i was to young to know, i stayed with them both, and i still stay with them both, my brother only stays with my mum though he ...
A. 9 October 2009: I agree with the other two aunts, after 12 years you need to get over this and make the best of it. It is your mother's fault that she cheated on your father, if you want to blame anyone. But again, like one of the other two aunts, it's probably a ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about my son's safety when he's with my ex. There is blood in his diaper, but what can I do without proof?
Q. I am 19 yearsold and I have a 21 month old son and I am seriously worried over my son's safety when he is with my ex boyfriend. On tuesday after I picked up my son he was really upset, and cried the whole way home. When I went to bath him I noticed ...
A. 9 October 2009: You need to get your son medical help immediately, to determine if he is sick or if his father is abusing him. Like another aunt said, anal bleeding is not normal. If this abnormal bleeding always happens after he comes back from his ex, then it is ... (read in full...)
What is happening when a man can leave his family?
Q. My husband of 18 years has moved to another state "to pursue" employment. He has been depressed, unemployed and did not like the town in which we were living. He hated that we were able to live for free in my childhood home. I have a job that i ...
A. 9 October 2009: Sounds like he is going through some sort of identity or existential crisis. Life's got him down, he needs to gain perspective. All of these things he says are very believable, I have heard it happen to someone on my husband's side of the family. ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be aroused by a girl who you simply don't see the sex appeal of?
Q. I have a new girlfriend and she is great. She is beautiful, funny, cool and I am really proud to introduce her to my friends and family as my new girl. I have literally never dated a girl I feel such a strong connection with. Everything should be ...
A. 9 October 2009: Sounds like a case of nerves. I agree with the aunt who said to take Viagra or Cialis to make sure you maintain an erection the first few times having sex. ... (read in full...)
How can she accuse me of being clingy when we rarely see one another?
Q. Ive been going out with a girl for about 1 and a half months, not that long, but we have been friends before this and it seems recently that she just doesn't take me seriously at all. This started about the time we hit 1 month, she acts as if m...
A. 9 October 2009: You think more of this relationship than she does. You look at your relationship with more serious intent, she looks at it with more casualness. She also said that she doesn't really believe in love until you hit your twenties. (Which personally ... (read in full...)
How do I find a girlfriend without having to go out?
Q. I'm at university and hate "going out". I seriously hate it, but I do it anyway so that people don't think I'm a hermit. I was at a big party, and our group split up all around the club. I felt retarded since I hate clubs and paid to get in, so I ...
A. 9 October 2009: The easiest and laziest way to find a girlfriend without going out, is to plop yourself down in front of a computer and get on the dating sites. ... (read in full...)
Does being too nice drive women away?
Q. Along time ago my mother told me I was too nice to women and this is why my relationships never last.I have been married two times.The first about 5 years and the second about 9 years..I have had a couple of girl friends after this but nothing ...
A. 8 October 2009: If you drive her away by being too nice, then the one who needs to change is her not you. Don't stop being yourself, and nice, just so you can get a woman to stay with you. Would you actually want that woman, if you get her? On the other hand, ... (read in full...)
Where is the line when you're dating and heading further into your committment?
Q. Not another question about porn!? I'm looking for some specific advice on here, and I can't seem to find anything else online specific to what I'm dealing with. I've been dating my guy for two years now, and I'm pretty sure we're going to end up ...
A. 8 October 2009: Ok, you've admitted you are a control freak, so my advice to you, based on that and the entire tone of your post, is that you sound like you could really benefit from a visit to a relaxation spa. Calm down, girl! If he's not cheating on you, just ... (read in full...)
She told me to get porn then changed her mind, what gives?
Q. My wife and I were talking recently about porn, just in general. We don't watch it or anything. During the conversation I brought the fact that one of our favourite TV shows was used as a basis for a pornographic film. She said that it sounded ...
A. 8 October 2009: Well, I guess she must've been joking, or if she wasn't she obviously had not idea that she would take it quite this badly when the movie actually was presented to her. Or she might not have expected that you would seriously go out and actually get ... (read in full...)
Love problems, I love her but she don't love me
Q. Hi! I'm a guy from Texas and there is this girl I really like. I know she doesnt like me, but I still want her to. I know nearly everything about her. She's got the looks and the kind heart. She's strong brave and courageous. I love her soo much. Bu...
A. 8 October 2009: Does she know that you like her? Have you tried just telling her this? Does she know you like her and hasn't said she likes you back? Have you tried being her Secret Admirer? What girl wouldn't like to get flower and poems from a secret admirer? ... (read in full...)
Taken advantage of and confused
Q. Hey there folks, I'm in a bit of a pickle and have a kind of "two in one" question if you'll bare with me here? I'm 21 years old and just starting my college education.I moved to a small town in California from northern Canada two years ago (I...
A. 8 October 2009: I think you more than within your rights to dump this con artist's butt right away and give all the expensive gifts you bought him to charity! No, he is not worth giving the time of day, he lied to you and used you. It's up to you what terms you ... (read in full...)
What can I do for my breasts
Q. I went on a 3 month holiday during which I ended up gaining 40lbs by accident. Up to that point I had always been thin and worked hard to stay that way. On the holiday I was doing volunteer work and was really busy so the weight crept up on me ...
A. 8 October 2009: You may need to start shopping on the Internet to find the just right bra for you. Try www.brashop.com... (read in full...)
Advice on making a move on my shy boyfriend?
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months now. We work togther at least 2 times a week, and try to see eachother on our days off together. Our days off usually mean hanging out at his apartment with his roomates and me staying the ...
A. 8 October 2009: Well, if you're not having sex, and you want to step it up but not all the way to sex, I think that the next logical step is sleeping together in a spooning position to get comfortable to each other's bodies together, and to heighten desire by ... (read in full...)
I think my mum touched me inappropriately am I wrong?
Q. I am slightly disturbed by something my Mum just did. I am 33 years old and my Mum is in her late 50s. I hugged my Mum and thanked her for being so supportive of me during some really difficult times at work. As I hugged her, her hand slowly got ...
A. 8 October 2009: And you're talking about the woman that used to wash your butt when you were a little baby, right? Unless she does it again, just ignore it. Even if she did take advantage of grabbing a younger man's (who happens to be her son)butt in a tired ... (read in full...)
My bf rips my thongs on purpose. how can I make him stop.
Q. ill make this short and simple. my boyfriend keeps literally ripping my underwear everytime we have sex! we will get into the mood and he will legit RIP my thong off! im getting rly irritated because i keep having to buy new ones! i have told him ...
A. 8 October 2009: Yes, just keep getting new ones. He obviously enjoys doing this. What is his sexual enjoyment worth? They're only thongs. Besides, in a year you'll have a box of ripped thongs collection that you can both look back at and laugh at :) Just go ... (read in full...)
Will he choose me or her? Can he be trusted?
Q. me and my now long distance bf had just broken up a few weeks ago, when it first happened we'd decided to be friends. then later i told him how much i missed him (i broke up with him) and he agreed that he missed me too, and we both still loved each ...
A. 7 October 2009: He sounds very confused. But if you want him to be yours, then be the best girlfriend that you can possibly be to him, so that when he looks at you and her side by side in his head, he says "You, no comparison!" Or even if he does pick his ex in ... (read in full...)
How do I let him know I'm ready to lose my virginity?
Q. ok well me and this guy have been seeing each other for about 4-5 months...he hasnt tried to kiss me ... he used to talk about sex but now he isnt. i dont know if i should break it off with him or what. i like him a lot and he says the same about ...
A. 7 October 2009: Well, there is really nothing left to do except to tell him, "I'm ready to have sex with you. Do you want to do it?" You are making the situation way more complicated than it is or has to be! If you're ready to have sex, tell him! After four or ... (read in full...)
Married with kids. Is the type of sexual assistance I give my man enough?
Q. My husband and I have 3 kids under the age of 7 and I work part time. I am pretty exhausted chasing the kids, cooking, cleaning, doing laundry, and have lost my sex drive for the past 9 months. I am concerned that it will never come back like it ...
A. 7 October 2009: Also, if you feel overwhelmed by your workload, then you should cut down on your workload, reorganize all the chores and maybe quit your part-time job. Cut down on bills so you don't have to work part-time AND raise three little ones. Look what ... (read in full...)
Married with kids. Is the type of sexual assistance I give my man enough?
Q. My husband and I have 3 kids under the age of 7 and I work part time. I am pretty exhausted chasing the kids, cooking, cleaning, doing laundry, and have lost my sex drive for the past 9 months. I am concerned that it will never come back like it ...
A. 7 October 2009: 1) Don't ever fake an orgasm.
2) Sex is important in marriage. It is not good to not have sex for such a long time. You should have sex at least once a week even if you think you're not going to be that into it. You might get into it in the midd... (read in full...)
Should I have a child while I can? Or is he just not Mr. Right?
Q. i met my partner 18 yrs ago when i was 19 and he was 43, i realise this is a very large age gap but we had a happy relationship for about 15 years, the only problem we had was my desire to have a child, it always seem to cause a row if i brought up ...
A. 7 October 2009: Well, you're finally getting your wish. Go for it. Life is too short. If you've been wanting a child for this long with this man, my gut feeling is that you know no matter what happens in the end, you are not going to regret having this child. ... (read in full...)
Does he even care that I've moved out?
Q. Hello My b/f and I are going through a very hard time right nw. I have recently moved my things out and is living with a friend. I need him to show me effort and that he cares and loves me. Then I will consider moving back. He seem to...
A. 7 October 2009: Well, it depends. How often do you cry and how often have you had this conversation? Because if you cry a lot and the conversation has been repeated a lot, it's nothing against him to fall asleep one time out of a hundred. You're probably both ... (read in full...)
What should I do about this controlling relationship?
Q. Last year after a very intense relationship of which I was 16 he ended it so I wanted to end my life and tried to do so. This year in April I met a guy at my church group, he is kind and treats me ok, so far not tried to use me, which is nice. We ...
A. 7 October 2009: Yeah, this is emotional blackmail, and it also very immature. I think you should let this guy go without batting an eye. If you stay with him you are going to end up with a psycho jealous possessive religious fanatic on your hands.... (read in full...)
He accused me of things I didn't even do, so why do I still love him?
Q. I broke up with my abusive ex yesterday. He's been treating me really badly over my past (for the record - I didn't sleep around, I was a virgin when I met him! But I had made out with other guys, and he knew a couple of them. But all that happened ...
A. 7 October 2009: This guy is not right in the head, and insecure. Don't allow him to make you feel like a criminal, when you know you are not a criminal. You did NOTHING wrong. Hear me again: You did NOTHING wrong. This is his problem, NOT yours. You need to ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants kids, but I don't think I do. How can we get through this?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for almost three years now. I'm almost 28 and have two kids, 6-8 from a previous marriage. What is preventing our relationship from progressing is that I have had a vasectomy and am not really sure if I'm going to wan...
A. 7 October 2009: Unfortunately disagreement about having kids is a common dealbreaker in relationships. It would not be fair to deprive her of her own child. But if you love each other enough, you can make it through just about anything, and having a child ... (read in full...)
It's hopeless! Girls won't give me a chance!
Q. I am going to collage right now, i am 19 and single and have not really ever had a girlfriend. In high school at graduation someone told me that almost all the girls thought i was gay because i didn't ever harass or grope anyone. This just upset and ...
A. 7 October 2009: If your strength is you're the sensitive type then look for sensitive girls. Look for them in the more "sensitive", expressive, and creative majors like art, music and English. I know this is a gross generalization but it may be worth a try. Also ... (read in full...)
The love of my life adds pornstars to his facebook!
Q. My boyfriend is the love of my life, an utterly lovely man, but also a very naughty, horny man. He likes his porno films and has tons. I've never minded this as I do like it to, but recently he's started adding the pornstar girls on his facebook.. ...
A. 7 October 2009: Watching porn is ok. Adding porn stars to his Facebook is.... NOT OK. Facebook is a social networking website. When he watches porn he is not social networking. There is no reason pornstars should ever get mixed in with his "social networking."... (read in full...)
I feel like I need to get away from him but I'm doomed alone!
Q. I'm not sure what to think anymore. Ive been with my boyfriend almost 3 years. When we met he gave up going out to bars every night because I wasnt old enough (him being 10 years senior my new adult status). A few of his female friends were ...
A. 7 October 2009: Look up "codependence" on the internet. This may or may not be you, but its worth a try to find out. From what you're telling us you give him everything you have, sexually, but he's unable to overlook and keep quiet about a sudden absence of ... (read in full...)
Is there something I can do to grab a guy's attention?
Q. Hi, i am 20 years old and i have yet to snag a boyfriend. I consider myself to be a really nice person who is always there to help others when they need it. But for some reason guys only see me as someone they could be friends with...nothing more. ...
A. 7 October 2009: Those guys that are describing their dream girl to you, and it happens to be you... have you asked any of them out on a date, or are you waiting for THEM to ask YOU out? Make sure you have not skipped this step.... (read in full...)
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