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| | *ereAreMyTwoCents's profile:28 year old white female, Maryland USA, married three years, together eight years, no children. What qualifies me to help people as an agony aunt? My desire to do so, and my life experience. We all have life experience wisdom to offer other people. We can choose to keep it to ourselves, or we can share it and help someone who may need it...
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Can someone tell me what the hell happened here?
Q. I have dated a guy for 3 months whom I really liked and we got on very well, he told me that he enjoys my company very much and there was also lots of chemistry. After around 6 weeks he asked me to see each other exclusively. He was not always v...
A. 3 September 2009: It's possible that you turned him off by playing hard to get. I know that women are taught to play hard to get, but I don't think it's a good thing to give someone the opposite signal of what you are feeling. It ends up backfiring and seems like a ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is very close with her ex's but wont let me meet them! Should this be a warning sign?
Q. My girlfriend of 7 months is very close with her ex husband and ex boyfriend even though they both left her, she considers them "good friends". She keeps her relationship with the both of them very seperate from our relationship and is insistant on ...
A. 3 September 2009: This does not sound ok to me at all. She is insensitive, at best, and at worst, she is someone who will cheat or is cheating on you. If I were in your shoes I would be just as worried as you are. Someone who loves you will not make you put up ... (read in full...)
Destined to be single and alone for the rest of my life
Q. I'm late 20's and never had a girlfriend and don't think I'll ever have one. When I was a child I was often called ugly by girls, this made me resent them, and I never so much as bothered try to talk to a female about going on a date. During my...
A. 3 September 2009: Ok, I don't necessarily agree with the people that say to concentrate on a job now, and girls later. Part of his problem is that he has been too isolated from social relationships. I think you do need to find yourself, know yourself, find out who ... (read in full...)
Destined to be single and alone for the rest of my life
Q. I'm late 20's and never had a girlfriend and don't think I'll ever have one. When I was a child I was often called ugly by girls, this made me resent them, and I never so much as bothered try to talk to a female about going on a date. During my...
A. 3 September 2009: First thing you need to do is to have a more positive attitude. Without a positive attitude and hope, even easy things start to look impossible. A positive attitude is not everything, but without it everything else is difficult to impossible. ... (read in full...)
Date raped and now pregnant..don't know what to do!
Q. Ive struggled to barley even say this, so i really do apolagize if it gets a little long. Ive just run out of people to turn to! And i need to talk to someone. Sorry. Im now 17, and i was with a guy for almost 18 months, aged 14-15, but at 15...
A. 3 September 2009: If you're going to have an abortion, do it NOW. It will not be any easier for you to do it weeks later, when you know the fetus has arms legs and a heartbeat. If you're not going to have an abortion, the best case scenario is that nine months from ... (read in full...)
He was obsessive about calling but now he's not calling!
Q. Alright!! i'm gonna lay it all out. Ive been dating this guy Kris for 2 months now, he is twenty seven, and I'm nineteen. We started dating and everything was good. He said he loved me like two weeks in!! Way fast but I thought hey maybe it can ...
A. 3 September 2009: Two months in is too quickly to get that emotionally invested in him, especially with a recent ex, a child, and a girl friend in his picture. If he frustrates you that much, two months into it, and you don't trust him, cut this relationship off ... (read in full...)
She texts with the ex and doesn't see it as a problem
Q. Dear all, My girlfriend and I have been going out for over a year now. Before our relationship, her ex and her met up and slept together a few times, including him cheating on his then girlfriend with my girlfriend. So I had my suspicions at th...
A. 3 September 2009: As I see it, she is showing you a lot of disrespect. But at least you know the kind of relationship you have with her, and what she thinks of you... which is not much.... (read in full...)
It's been six years since our mom died -- how can we get dad to start dating?
Q. I hope this doesn't confuse you guys on here. It's three of us talking (a girl and two boys). Our mom died when we were four, six, and eight. It's been six years since then and our dad still hasn't started dating yet. We love our dad and that's why ...
A. 31 August 2009: Maybe you could all three of you write him a letter telling him how you feel, that you want to make sure that he is happy, and that you know it's none of your business and you don't want to pressure him or anything, but that if he's interested, and ... (read in full...)
Husband gave me an ultimatium to either move with him or get out
Q. my husband and I have been together for 16 years. I have no family of my own, but he comes from a large family. His family is now back east and my children are here in the pacific northwest. Hes always disliked my kids, so its hard when he says ...
A. 30 August 2009: Neither or you or your daughter should be with him. Do whatever you have to do to make sure that neither you nor she ends up with him. 'Nuf said.... (read in full...)
LDR going sour
Q. I have a girlfriend, long distance relatinship, who i really love. She is amazing. But we have been fighting for past 3 months, got thru all of the fights, and we love eachother, but recently, she dumped me becos she cudnt take the fighting stuff ...
A. 30 August 2009: I have always thought that a long distance relationship is an oxymoron. I am not surprised that you are experiencing difficulties. When you are not together there is an important aspect missing: sex, touch, closeness, and all that comes with it, ... (read in full...)
I'm suspecting my fiance's loyalty to me
Q. Hi Everyone, I recently found out that my fiance is a member of an online dating site which really upset me.I glimpsed at the lap top and his e-mail box was open and there it was.I hope I am overreacting but he always told me how he doesn't ever ...
A. 30 August 2009: Sounds fishy to me. You might be looking for reassurance that it doesn't sound fishy. Sorry, it does. Look into it further. ... (read in full...)
How can she like him after he held a knife to her throat?
Q. Hey i like this girl and we get along rly well we went out a couple of times and than her ex bf comes back along and she now only wants to be friends now that doesnt rly bother me as shit happens what i want to know is how can she still like him ...
A. 30 August 2009: Being human means being stupid. Scientists are hard at work as we speak, trying to figure out how the human brain works, and why people do the things they do. Love is blind. And deaf. But if you keep in mind that there are people out there that ... (read in full...)
Husband said "you don't understand me, I don't understand you..I want out!"
Q. I'm 26, my husband's 28, I'm originally from Ontario, he's from Michigan. I met him when I was working in Michigan centre over 4 years ago, we got into a relationship and it was mostly good. Like all relationships it had its ups and downs. We...
A. 30 August 2009: Ok, if the guy wants a divorce and doesn't even want to talk about the real issues, just gives you bs about culture clash (give me a break), then it's just time to move on. Nothing else to say. Nothing can be solved without communication. Keep ... (read in full...)
I want to break off with this jerk!
Q. Hi everyone, Please help me to stop being angry and more importantly- to stop caring. I have known this man for nearly five years. We went out for two and a half, one of which we lived together. I found out in 2007 that he was cheating and lyi...
A. 30 August 2009: You said it yourself: I want to break off with this jerk. Before you can do that though, you need to start caring about yourself more than you care about him. Stop focusing on your feelings for him, and start focusing on your feelings about ... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a guy to not look at other women when he's in love with his girlfriend?
Q. My boyfriend of three years has been telling me all along that he never looks at other women, and has no interest in anyone but me. I never asked him not to, or expressed a desire either way but he believes it is so fundamental in his beliefs that ...
A. 30 August 2009: The only way you can settle this for yourself is to watch him in public when he doesn't know you're watching him.... (read in full...)
Should I have broken up with him? And should I try and get back with him now?
Q. I had been dating him for 3 months, not that long for many people, but it is for me. I have never been dumped before, why? Because in all truth I'm afraid of getting attached and suddenly finding myself needing him every second, but at the same time ...
A. 30 August 2009: He is not serious about you. Do not invest emotion in him. ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be in love with someone even though you're not in a relationship with them?
Q. is it possible to be in love with someone even though you"re not in a relationship with them?! ...
A. 30 August 2009: For all practical purposes, if you are not in a relationship with someone, whatever the heck it is you're feeling cannot rightfully be called "in love" because when you're not in a relationship with someone, you cannot possibly get to know them ... (read in full...)
Why he just joking? Why did he do this?
Q. O.k.. When i was younger about 15 i was dating this guy. We dated for a while but never had sex.. we broke up when i moved and i didn't see or hear from him again until seven years later. i just recently ran into him again and we have been seeing ...
A. 30 August 2009: Ok, here are my two cents: Run like the wind.... (read in full...)
He keeps asking me what I like sexually and I don't know how to answer it!
Q. I'm dating a guy I really like, but he keeps asking a question I don't know how to answer. More than once, he has asked me what I like in bed, or what turns me on, and I really don't know. I've only slept with one guy besides the one I'm currently ...
A. 30 August 2009: Ok, I completely disagree with the answer that said that he just wants to practice. It could mean that, but not necessarily. And even if does mean that, then use it as an opportunity to actually think and discover what you like in bed. It is a ... (read in full...)
I feel like I married my father
Q. I am a 29 yr old female with two children. My husband and I have worked hard to get accomplish the American dream. We depend on each others income to maintain and if I leave everything will fall apart. What about my kids? Here’s the thing……. He's ...
A. 30 August 2009: Ok, you and your husband need to sit down and talk. All the things you are telling us here, you need to tell him. Unless you already have and he just refuses to listen, the next logical step is to tell him exactly what you said here, and see what ... (read in full...)
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