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Hi, my name's Matt. I'm 26. I play guitar (obviously lol) I'm in a rock/metal band, for which I write a lot of the material.
My interests.
Well, my band is currently my number 1 until I find that special person who can make my life complete. I listen to rock and metal music mainly but I can appreciate some pop, classical and country from time to time. I enjoy going for long walks and bike rides in the country, and I find it much more fun if I don't know where I am lol. I kinda live on my PS3 at the moment.
My experiences.
I've had a fair amount of relationships, all of them failures through no fault of my own except for me believing I bore them. But even though they failed, I gained a lot of knowledge from them.
Final thoughts.
I may not have experienced much from life but I can easily put myself in anyone's shoes and be able to give advice. |
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He said "I'm preparing myself mentally for the day you leave me"
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years.. we met when i was 18 and he was 25.. everything moved very quickly.. we had sex on our second date and moved in together 1 1/2 months into the relationship.. at the moment i am going on 21...
A. 9 April 2009: sorry for the late reply. all i can say to that is follow your heart. just because he was searching for his ex doesnt mean hes going to leave you for her. yes he might still love her. what people forget is that when people love someone and break up, ... (read in full...)
How can improve my chances for getting a job?
Q. I've never felt so low. i cant get a thing right with my girlfriend, i cant get a job, The only place I can see my life going is living on the streets. I just want to be happy but I can't see it happening. I Just want to know how to make things ...
A. 5 April 2009: yeah but didn't really find much. looking into college courses as well cause apparently because i'm unemployed, i may be able to get them free.
also i'm single again.... (read in full...)
How can improve my chances for getting a job?
Q. I've never felt so low. i cant get a thing right with my girlfriend, i cant get a job, The only place I can see my life going is living on the streets. I just want to be happy but I can't see it happening. I Just want to know how to make things ...
A. 4 April 2009: Thanks but that site is rubbish, it just tells you what you get out of them that's all.... (read in full...)
How can improve my chances for getting a job?
Q. I've never felt so low. i cant get a thing right with my girlfriend, i cant get a job, The only place I can see my life going is living on the streets. I just want to be happy but I can't see it happening. I Just want to know how to make things ...
A. 4 April 2009: How do I go about doing an apprenticeship? got no idea where to look.... (read in full...)
He said "I'm preparing myself mentally for the day you leave me"
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years.. we met when i was 18 and he was 25.. everything moved very quickly.. we had sex on our second date and moved in together 1 1/2 months into the relationship.. at the moment i am going on 21...
A. 2 April 2009: Well its not you ok.
i'm just going by my own experience here. but i'm really insecure and an ex of mine tried really hard to ease my mind. she did eventually get through before leaving me. truth is its hard to get over these things and all you can ... (read in full...)
Waiting for the right one
Q. i'm 18 and still a virgin. is that weird? my friends tell me it's weird, but i just want it to be with a girl i fall in love with and i'm getting really self conscious about because everybody i'm around seems to have lost theirs early-on in high ...
A. 2 April 2009: i was a virgin (and not out of choice) til i was 22 so no its not weird at all. theres nothing wrong with waiting for the right one. screw your 'friends' they're just being jerks.... (read in full...)
Help, he is hurting me!
Q. I actually have a secret that I've never told anyone who knows me and last night I nearly broke. Or maybe I am broken. I went to the gym with my boyfriend of just over one year and he has had his share of insecurities...and of telling me that ...
A. 2 April 2009: only read about 5 lines and thats all i needed to read. you need to leave him. he is no good for, he's treating you like a piece of garbage. if you dont leave him now it will never change and thats not fair on you. trust me, there are a few billion ... (read in full...)
He said "I'm preparing myself mentally for the day you leave me"
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years.. we met when i was 18 and he was 25.. everything moved very quickly.. we had sex on our second date and moved in together 1 1/2 months into the relationship.. at the moment i am going on 21...
A. 2 April 2009: erm...i'm not entirely sure what your question is...
not too sure whats goin on with you two either. it does sound like he's insecure as well, and like me, girls have broken his heart on more than 1 occasion and always through unforeseen ... (read in full...)
I call him sometimes up to 16 times in an hour or send 60 text message...could I lose him because of this?
Q. Hi, this is my short story... I have been seeing this guy for about 11 months now, we get along and like being with each other, we spend a lot time together, even in his busy schedule he puts time a side for me, he has his own business and is ...
A. 2 April 2009: try to cut down rather than stop completely. set yourself a limit. keep telling yourself that 'if i text/ring him one more time, he'll leave me!' (whether its true or not) it should put u off doing it. dont know what else to suggest.
personally I'd ... (read in full...)
My body can't deal with the excitement?
Q. I know this isn't a medical forum, but maybe some of the elder Aunts and Uncles here might have heard something, had an experience, or have schooling in this area. (2 part post) My girlfriend has tried to give me blowjobs, but they just don't...
A. 2 April 2009: Thats really odd how its just from blow jobs. surely it must just be all in your head? and maybe because everytime you have a bj you're thinking about whats happened before, its bound to happen again. thats all i can think of, sorry.... (read in full...)
Do you think chatting with people online is considered cheating?
Q. Do you think chatting with people you don't know online (like on adult friend finder" is considered cheating or almost cheating?...
A. 31 March 2009: My ex does that and she chatted dirty to others online while i was with her as well. I class it as cheating for sure. why should you need to chat like that to other people when you have your partner?... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I'm a 40 year old virgin?
Q. My boyfriend of 6 weeks is 23 years older than me and very experienced in bed,well thats what he told me the problem is that i am 40 year old virgin whose previous boyfriends have never goto the bedroom stage, how do i tell him that i am virgin ...
A. 29 March 2009: So your partner is 63? i'm sure he'll be mature enough to understand darlin. i know i'm a lot younger than he is but if it were me, i'd prefer to be told, and to be honest, i'd welcome it. as for how to tell him? hmm... there's nothing wrong with ... (read in full...)
I asked my b/f to marry me and he said "I don't know"
Q. i feel as though i may have made the worst mistake in my life. i have been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year and i have never felt the way i do with him with anyone else and i have a ton of exboyfriends. i asked him to marry be because i ...
A. 29 March 2009: DONT LEAVE HIM!!! he probably just doesnt want to get married young. 'I don't know' is really much of an answer though... maybe you should just ask him why? i hear this all the time but COMMUNICATION is key to a successful relationship and if you ... (read in full...)
Should I still give her the gift?
Q. one of my friends whom i've had a bit of a crush on for a while now broke up with her boyfriend about a month ago. after that we spent more time together and i really started to like her. i let it slip about 2 weeks ago that i liked her, and she ...
A. 28 March 2009: forget her, if shes so indecisive shes not worth it. all shes going to do is keep pushing u away. its what girls do.... (read in full...)
We have only ever had dry sex!
Q. My boyfriend and I have "dry sex". I think that is what it is called anyways. I never seen him like -cum... I don't know is that normal? or does he not on purpose - you know for me - or what! He just like stops all of a sudden and then nothing, ...
A. 26 March 2009: Thanks Mr Me lol.
Would be cool to have an update on your situation, so we can help further should you need it.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is being really distant
Q. She says she's going through a stressful time at the moment with her parents and work. i know it sounds silly but shes stopped putting kisses at the end of her txts and everytime I talk to her it feels like she doesn't want to be talking. I'm scared ...
A. 26 March 2009: i've found a cure..... alcohol lol.... (read in full...)
Is this a phase or something I should get out of?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together a year now but lately his interest in me seems to have disappeared, he's also become a lot more immature than I had realised before the relationship started. He's a musician, and even though I'm happy for hi...
A. 24 March 2009: I think he's taking you for granted and probably wont even believe you if you broke up with him.
i say you should leave him. if he truely wants to be with you, he'll come running.
You need to make a stand!... (read in full...)
Years ago she made a penis mold of an ex! I caught my wife using it recently, now I don't know what to think!
Q. My wife hasn't really been 'around the block' much. She had 2 bf's before me (well serious bf's, not counting guys with a few dates and no action). Problem is, my wife, way before she met me, made one of those penis molds of her one boyfriend. I...
A. 19 March 2009: the replies have answered your question perfectly already. ... (read in full...)
We have only ever had dry sex!
Q. My boyfriend and I have "dry sex". I think that is what it is called anyways. I never seen him like -cum... I don't know is that normal? or does he not on purpose - you know for me - or what! He just like stops all of a sudden and then nothing, ...
A. 19 March 2009: I think he can't finish and he doesn't have the energy to carry on so he stops.
when i started having sex it hurt a lot, (the pain was greater than the pleasure) so it would make it difficult to get to the 'climax'. maybe he has the same problem. 2 ... (read in full...)
How do I get her to have sex or should I just move on??
Q. I have asked all of my friends so I guess I will ask and wait for a random person to give me the answer. I'm still in high school and my gf is older than me but she is a virgin and I want sex but I don't want to cheat on her.... she avoids the ...
A. 17 March 2009: Maybe shes not ready just yet... and i cant believe you're considering leaving her because you're not getting any. how selfish can you get?... (read in full...)
How to make out and use my tongue
Q. hi aunts im a 14 year old guy and i've never had a girlfriend before and i feel so pathetic right now.....never kissed or anything like that.. but now i do have a relationship with this wonderful girl..she's awesome and every thing is great we...
A. 13 March 2009: dont feel pathetic mate. i didn't have a gf til i was about 16 and i didn't lose my virginity til i was 22 so its not all that bad.
as for the tongue..... i was worried about exactly the same thing, i told her, she was cool with it. no she didn't ... (read in full...)
I feel I deserve better...
Q. I have been in a relationship for almost two and a half years. I am with a guy who truly loves me and will do anything for me. But I am going for an accounting degree and he does not even have a high school diploma. I just feel like I should ...
A. 13 March 2009: If you LOVE him, nothing else should matter. so do YOU love HIM?... (read in full...)
Is she getting bored with me?
Q. I feel like shit... I'm 15 and my girlfrend is 16. When we started going out it was perfect but now I'm really mad... I'm a nice sweet guy, totally not a jerk and a really good and caring boyfriend... I love her and I thought she did tooo... but ...
A. 12 March 2009: welcome to the world of girls minds. i know every girl will argue this and you wont like this but its over. girls want security above anything else, they can 'love' you, you can be excellent in bed etc but if you're not bringing bread to the table ... (read in full...)
How do I prove to her I can treat her better?
Q. I kept being a jerk to my girlfriend for no apparent reason and now she says she needs to think about things. I seriously will not let it happen again. I love her more than anything in the world, I WOULD DIE FOR HER. how can I prove to her I will ...
A. 6 March 2009: Hi, just want to thank you all again. she decided to call it off, but then i rang her and promised to her i'd never treat her that way again......she gave me another chance! and it's given me the biggest kick up the backside. and in answer to the q... (read in full...)
How do I prove to her I can treat her better?
Q. I kept being a jerk to my girlfriend for no apparent reason and now she says she needs to think about things. I seriously will not let it happen again. I love her more than anything in the world, I WOULD DIE FOR HER. how can I prove to her I will ...
A. 5 March 2009: thank you for the advice. I've just told her what I needed to say and how much she means to me. I just hope it's not too late. Thank you again.... (read in full...)
Lack of oral
Q. hi i am the one with the lack of oral stimulation and a man with premature ejaculation problems.i have asked for what want and why i dont get any,yet, it he wants me to give him oral.and he tells the reason he dont do it is because he dont want.im ...
A. 25 February 2009: Actually its a fear of throwing up, i used to love giving oral (apart from the taste) until it made me ill, AND IT WASN'T A DAMN STD! so i looked it up online etc and found out i wasn't the only person who'd experienced it. why people are saying i'm ... (read in full...)
Lack of oral
Q. hi i am the one with the lack of oral stimulation and a man with premature ejaculation problems.i have asked for what want and why i dont get any,yet, it he wants me to give him oral.and he tells the reason he dont do it is because he dont want.im ...
A. 25 February 2009: If he's being like that....LEAVE HIM. He sounds like an idiot who doesn't deserve anything from you. Sorry about my previous replies, just get wound up when people contradict themselves (satin) if she wants argue more she can message me cause it... (read in full...)
Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons?
Q. Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons? Is it just me? Why is my longest relationship only 2 months? I don't treat them badly, I always try my best to make them happy. I just don't get it. It makes me ...
A. 25 February 2009: Then they're selfish. and thanks, as if i wasn't depressed enough.... (read in full...)
Lack of oral
Q. hi i am the one with the lack of oral stimulation and a man with premature ejaculation problems.i have asked for what want and why i dont get any,yet, it he wants me to give him oral.and he tells the reason he dont do it is because he dont want.im ...
A. 20 February 2009: i said you're being selfish for demanding oral. and about the mucus part, would you lick someones runny nose? something tells me you wouldn't.... (read in full...)
I read about sex all the time but actually doing it terrifies me!
Q. I am a virgin at 21. Am I a freak? I read erotic fiction books, own several toys and think about sex all the time but actually doing it terrifies me!please help....
A. 19 February 2009: well i was 22 when i lost my virginty so don't worry about that so much. and about being scared, i was scared too but when it came to it i was fine oddly. i guess if you're with the right person it will be ok. thinking about it too much wont help so ... (read in full...)
Lack of oral
Q. hi i am the one with the lack of oral stimulation and a man with premature ejaculation problems.i have asked for what want and why i dont get any,yet, it he wants me to give him oral.and he tells the reason he dont do it is because he dont want.im ...
A. 18 February 2009: so its not fair when you can become seriously ill from giving it? giving a woman oral can give severe stomach cramps and vomiting. and you're saying you wouldn't date a guy who refused to give you oral? sorry but that is unbelievably selfish.... (read in full...)
How can I make him cum like he's never done before?
Q. I want to make my man cum like hes never did before! I hear you can do that by putting your finger in his anus... but what do I do, just put it in and that's it? I need help cause I am very much freaky and I wanna suck him off and I want him to cum ...
A. 14 February 2009: whatever you do, don't put your finger in his anus unless if he actually wants you to do that.
i think one way is to just tease him loads before doing anything so to speak. find ways to keep him hard for a looong time without actually touching his ... (read in full...)
G/f--one minute she's alright..the next she's not!
Q. my girlfriend an i are in a long distance relationship. one minute she will b alrite with me then she wont be. she says evrything is fine with us. ive tried talking to her but she just evrythings fine. does she still like me or is she getting ready ...
A. 13 February 2009: ok, how long you been seeing her?
i'll be honest everytime i thought there was something wrong shed tell me everything's fine but would break up with me shortly afterward. and the excuse i always got was 'I don't think i'm ready for a relationship' ... (read in full...)
Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons?
Q. Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons? Is it just me? Why is my longest relationship only 2 months? I don't treat them badly, I always try my best to make them happy. I just don't get it. It makes me ...
A. 13 February 2009: wasn't just one girl. its been ALL OF THEM. Thats why i'm so stressed out. and AGAIN its not me smothering them! wish someone would actually read what i'm saying properly.... (read in full...)
Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons?
Q. Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons? Is it just me? Why is my longest relationship only 2 months? I don't treat them badly, I always try my best to make them happy. I just don't get it. It makes me ...
A. 13 February 2009: so they get bored with the guy they 'love'? doesn't sound like love to me. so AGAIN, why say it if they don't mean it??????????... (read in full...)
I'm beginning to feel kind of bored with my boyfriend, we do the same old stuff each and every day.
Q. Before I got with my boyfriend of 4 months, I used to text this lad and we were like best mates. He admitted he fancied and has done for a long time. I was quite shocked and I felt like I had a kind of connection for him too, I left it for a while ...
A. 13 February 2009: ok i read the title and knew exactly what to say... until i read the whole question. if you're bored of doing the same things with your boyfriend then do something different, and tell him how you're feeling (being bored etc). the one thing that hur... (read in full...)
Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons?
Q. Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons? Is it just me? Why is my longest relationship only 2 months? I don't treat them badly, I always try my best to make them happy. I just don't get it. It makes me ...
A. 13 February 2009: and to 'anoms' i think you're right, girls secretly like being treated badly, what other explanation is there? all the good guys get messed around yet the rude boys always find the clingy girls.... (read in full...)
Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons?
Q. Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons? Is it just me? Why is my longest relationship only 2 months? I don't treat them badly, I always try my best to make them happy. I just don't get it. It makes me ...
A. 13 February 2009: whoa everyone (the girls) thinks that i pressured them into saying it. i didn't. just because they said it doesn't mean i did first. so i'll ask again. Why do they say it FIRST then leave me?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a very tight foreskin, how can I make oral sex better for him?
Q. My new boyfriend (36) suffers phimosis, he says he's been told that circumcision might help but that it also might cause more problems, like difficulty healing, a lot of pain and that it might not help the discomfort after it does heal. I gave him ...
A. 12 February 2009: simple, dont pull the foreskin back. to be honest, mine is tight too and it hurts when pulled back so its a lot better when it isn't pulled back. the skin does NOT need to be pulled back if you're just giving oral.... (read in full...)
Has he gone off me? I don't know what is going on
Q. Theres this guy i met about a month ago at the bus stop Since then we got in touch on facebook and spoke online alot, we exchnaged numbers and i text now again. We are blatinally intrested in each other, and hes a proper nice guy so i doubt he wo...
A. 12 February 2009: I think you're reading too much into it hun, he may have just had something on his mind when you spoke to him. my advice, text him asap and just ask the guy out, if he is interested he'll say yes.... (read in full...)
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